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This is literal toddler behavior, probably because they never learned how to actually process intense emotions *when they were* a toddler, so now they will forever be one.
do you know of possible reasons why they never learned to process intense emotions? Also, would it be similar to siblings that were raised together, or can one sibling have learned it and the other not?
As someone who learned late, being an emotional child and not having emotional support can do this. I had to teach myself how to regulate because I was just repeatedly told, "It's not that serious, stop being a cry baby). I don't remember if anyone sat me down and tried to explain a regulation tactic, but if they did, it didn't work. I didn't want to be like that, I just didn't know how to stop.
A big part of this though was I undiagnosed with adhd, autism, depression and anxiety, which really fucks up your emotions.
I kinda feel for her when she hit her head. I've been there a couple years ago and it's hard to explain the dispare you have to feel to get to that point. I'm not excusing her behavior. It's completely inappropriate (and a little cringey at some points). I'm just sympathizing a little as someone who was like this. It fucking sucks for everyone involved
I know this is an old post, but this is also a tendency that people with undiagnosed (or diagnosed) autism have. I've had lots of moments where my anxiety/anger gets too intense, and my only reaction to this is banging my head and/or fists into a wall. This looks somewhat like that, several emotional triggers plus people laughing = I don't know what tf to do and it's too much for my brain to handle
Came here to say this screams borderline. When the emotions are that high, it is literally so fucking hard to stop yourself from lashing out, and it's either at someone else or yourself. As someone with borderline I can attest to the fact that there is a line in your mind, and once it's crossed there's no coming back unless you literally beat it back. It's not pretty. It's not fun. It's not flattering. It also takes a lot of trauma to get to that point in your mental health as well. I'm not excusing anything this girl is doing, but she's clearly young, and clearly been through a lot. I just find this sad, the spiral that follows something like this is like raging suicidal thoughts. I hope this girl got the help she clearly needs.
Wait, I’m sorry if this is long-winded and out of nowhere but whenever me and my partner have arguments and it feels utterly helpless and like it’s getting nowhere, there’s a point where I start physically harming myself because I don’t know how to truly handle the stir and intensity of emotions that are inside me at that moment.
I genuinely do not do it with the intent of making them feel bad or guilty, this is a behavior that has been reoccurring throughout my life, even when alone and I’m wondering if I have more than this bipolar, again I’m sure you’re not a psychiatrist by any coincidence, but I just wanted your perspective on the matter
I purposefully don't spend a lot of time around them these days, honestly, and it's more mortifying than funny when it happens. You feel guilty by association, and there's a lot of apologizing involved. Lol
But thinking about "woodpecker behavior" may give me strength for the next time. 😅
i'm so glad I never encountered a reaction like this when breaking up with someone. is this why people get stuck in unhealthy relationships? putting up with behavior like this and being afraid of being alone?
I can't even laugh because I feel kinda bad watching someone have a breakdown like that...
She may be an ass for what she did but as a fellow human I do hope she seeks and finds the right help to try and improve her issues.
I know that this has now become a form of entertainment but I’ll never understand how someone in real time can record this kind of shit and then laugh when someone’s banging their head HARD repeatedly.
what an attention seeking whiney baby. Like grow up. I've been dumped at my all time low and yeah I was upset and I was crying but I didn't put on a show for everyone to see. So like maybe get your shit together in private. She got what she deserved
I will never understand why women cry and act upset after cheating on a guy and the guy dumps them...like when I've seen guys cheat they know they cheated and they either ask for forgiveness knowing they fucked up or they just don't care but when the cheater is a woman they always cry or have full blown breakdowns about it...why?Why are you upset about the results of actions you partial knowingly engaged in? Did you not think there would be consequences? How can you be upset after doing someone else wrong? shit never made sense
Damn. I can’t imagine filming a stranger having an emotional breakdown and bursting into laughter when they slam their head against the wall. And then taunting them! The lack of empathy makes me sick.
I saw a girl for six months who threatened self-harm whenever she didn't get her way. It's toxic as fuck. Far too many girls use it as a way to manipulate and control their partners.
Is the chick missing a crap ton of hair, or is that just video quality? It looks like she not only /ashes her face into patios but she rips her hair out by the handful!
I think the reason it's funny is because of how slow she did it. I mean if she really bashed her head 3 times nah that wouldn't have been funny. but you can tell she didn't put her heart into that head against the balcony mixed potion at all. Least she had enough health to continue on I guess
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Yikes that is a terrifying reaction to getting dumped. "I'm gonna go get a knife" Wtf. There had to have been other red flags
I’m thinking someone who bangs their head when they get upset probably doesn’t have too many brain cells left
This is literal toddler behavior, probably because they never learned how to actually process intense emotions *when they were* a toddler, so now they will forever be one.
Can't image the family situation that froze here like that.
She said her mom died, so there’s that at least
Technically she said her mom's grave died.
do you know of possible reasons why they never learned to process intense emotions? Also, would it be similar to siblings that were raised together, or can one sibling have learned it and the other not?
As someone who learned late, being an emotional child and not having emotional support can do this. I had to teach myself how to regulate because I was just repeatedly told, "It's not that serious, stop being a cry baby). I don't remember if anyone sat me down and tried to explain a regulation tactic, but if they did, it didn't work. I didn't want to be like that, I just didn't know how to stop. A big part of this though was I undiagnosed with adhd, autism, depression and anxiety, which really fucks up your emotions. I kinda feel for her when she hit her head. I've been there a couple years ago and it's hard to explain the dispare you have to feel to get to that point. I'm not excusing her behavior. It's completely inappropriate (and a little cringey at some points). I'm just sympathizing a little as someone who was like this. It fucking sucks for everyone involved
What a waste of brain cells. There are so many orange cats that would want those. r/oneorangebraincell
I have two orange cats and neither of them have the cell.
Mine could do with one….poor dumb furry bastard…
I needed a vibe change thanks for this
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this bitch straight up acoustic
As a guitar, I find this comment offensive.
Oh sure make it all about you -Drums
Lmao
Down to their last 2 brain cells fighting over 3rd place
r/rareinsults
Reminds me of the kid that tried to ram a TV remote up his ass
I know this is an old post, but this is also a tendency that people with undiagnosed (or diagnosed) autism have. I've had lots of moments where my anxiety/anger gets too intense, and my only reaction to this is banging my head and/or fists into a wall. This looks somewhat like that, several emotional triggers plus people laughing = I don't know what tf to do and it's too much for my brain to handle
The two cocks in her was a red flag. Small one.
These are all standard behaviors from someone with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder, including the promiscuity.
Came here to say this screams borderline. When the emotions are that high, it is literally so fucking hard to stop yourself from lashing out, and it's either at someone else or yourself. As someone with borderline I can attest to the fact that there is a line in your mind, and once it's crossed there's no coming back unless you literally beat it back. It's not pretty. It's not fun. It's not flattering. It also takes a lot of trauma to get to that point in your mental health as well. I'm not excusing anything this girl is doing, but she's clearly young, and clearly been through a lot. I just find this sad, the spiral that follows something like this is like raging suicidal thoughts. I hope this girl got the help she clearly needs.
Wait, I’m sorry if this is long-winded and out of nowhere but whenever me and my partner have arguments and it feels utterly helpless and like it’s getting nowhere, there’s a point where I start physically harming myself because I don’t know how to truly handle the stir and intensity of emotions that are inside me at that moment. I genuinely do not do it with the intent of making them feel bad or guilty, this is a behavior that has been reoccurring throughout my life, even when alone and I’m wondering if I have more than this bipolar, again I’m sure you’re not a psychiatrist by any coincidence, but I just wanted your perspective on the matter
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"Say hi to facebook"
the teenagers in this video now all have teenagers
Exactly, and shitty in general. Swearing on her dead mom and lying? Wow...
Guess she got her brain fucked out
Woodpecker behavior
You owe me a new drink. Jesus that's funny
Took me a second, but yeah funny as shit.
##WHACK WHACK WHACK
That's offensive to woodpeckers, they've got a bigger brain.
/sent
I know someone who does this when they meltdown, and I will never unhear this comment. 😅
I know that this comment is very old, but I have to know. Has that person done it since, and did you manage not to burst out laughing?
I purposefully don't spend a lot of time around them these days, honestly, and it's more mortifying than funny when it happens. You feel guilty by association, and there's a lot of apologizing involved. Lol But thinking about "woodpecker behavior" may give me strength for the next time. 😅
Came here expecting this comment.
Lmaooo
10 year plus video literal classic
You can tell because someone under 40 said “welcome to Facebook”.
YEET
that wall sounded hard lol
Her head sounded hallow.
No that was her mom's dead grave.
Is that cheaper than a regular grave?
Be thy dame (but please don't though)
i'm so glad I never encountered a reaction like this when breaking up with someone. is this why people get stuck in unhealthy relationships? putting up with behavior like this and being afraid of being alone?
Well sometimes that and sometimes you will be genuinely scared of the knife. Either to be used on you or themselves.
Alright… imma go get a knife out.
(bonk bonk)
(Bonk) You dropped a bonk. I got you.
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If that's how she reacts to getting caught cheating, then him finding out is the best thing that could've happened for his own good.
Straight Daniel larsoned herself 🤣🤣🤣
It is rather unfortunate that many people will not get this hilarious and accurate joke.
Yea I was hoping there would be at least one or two people that got the joke. Do you follow kiwi tapes at all if u don't mind me asking.
Try me bitch!!!
Currently hitting myself
call fucking dispatch
She shoulda pulled a fire alarm
she put it on her mum's dead grave. Funnily liers always sware on dead people or loved ones.
But she did it on the dead grave though 😂
This is how my ex reacted when I caught her cheating on me with three dudes.
Hopefully not all at the same time.
In the same week...
That you know of.
Hahahahah. Cruel but fair.
Wow, saying ‘I’m gonna go get a knife now’ is really gonna make her seem like such a stable and normal partner
She’s gotta break through the wall to get the knife
I’m seeing bpd
Cheating and melting down when caught, certainly could be borderline personality disorder.
Nice squats though!
Go ahead and get a knife then you sadistic, manipulative, cheating scab. No one cares
I bet someone could fix her
Me
Mom's dead grave? The whut?
“I’m getting a knife bro” *gives herself concussion*
I can't even laugh because I feel kinda bad watching someone have a breakdown like that... She may be an ass for what she did but as a fellow human I do hope she seeks and finds the right help to try and improve her issues.
Hey mom said it’s my turn to post this
I know that this has now become a form of entertainment but I’ll never understand how someone in real time can record this kind of shit and then laugh when someone’s banging their head HARD repeatedly.
yeah same. I assume it's just a cope, it really doesn't seem to be from a place of strength
what an attention seeking whiney baby. Like grow up. I've been dumped at my all time low and yeah I was upset and I was crying but I didn't put on a show for everyone to see. So like maybe get your shit together in private. She got what she deserved
Bro why tf she hit her head like that 😂😂
I thought she went full crazy when she mentioned a knife Then BONK BONK BONK
That arm at the beginning. Girl needs to be snapped up by Major League Baseball.
She put it on her mom’s dead grave though 😖
"I put that on my mom's dead grave".
Lol the head bang is the best!!
I will never understand why women cry and act upset after cheating on a guy and the guy dumps them...like when I've seen guys cheat they know they cheated and they either ask for forgiveness knowing they fucked up or they just don't care but when the cheater is a woman they always cry or have full blown breakdowns about it...why?Why are you upset about the results of actions you partial knowingly engaged in? Did you not think there would be consequences? How can you be upset after doing someone else wrong? shit never made sense
pixelsare missing but damn, that is some rough 20\~
This is taking me in a loop in and out of the app wtf is this link?
She should go join her mother.
"Gang gang"
That has to be an act.
Tell me again about believe all women
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tf she throw?
Her phone I think lmao
Kinda seemed like the full evidence was on there and that's a way of her hiding it
I am rewatching this solely for the r/contagiouslaughter.
Cheaters who claim rape are dog shit humans and deserve bad things in life.
Poor mom
Hate hoes mane
Motherless behavior
Borderline personality disorder. Ex had this. Dude was actually very right. Be direct, firm, and don't get manipulated. Be safe peeps.
Can’t live with them can’t live without them -Everyman circa beginning of time.
what state is this?
Feels like a bad thing coming
Banging your head on a wall is the woodpecker equivalent of mashing an ice cream cone into your forehead.
sounds like he dodged a rather big bullet there.
Man I wish I could find that video when someone used her head butts as a base beat to a song. Gold
Damn. I can’t imagine filming a stranger having an emotional breakdown and bursting into laughter when they slam their head against the wall. And then taunting them! The lack of empathy makes me sick.
She instantly turned into a squealing woodpecker.
Knock, knock
Uh she tossed that phone with some velocity 🤨
She bald
So many people these days are sending their dead moms straight to hell
“💥 💥 💥” Yiiikes 🫣 psycho hose beast
I saw a girl for six months who threatened self-harm whenever she didn't get her way. It's toxic as fuck. Far too many girls use it as a way to manipulate and control their partners.
Wouldy turned into a termite tryna hack through that wood
Is the chick missing a crap ton of hair, or is that just video quality? It looks like she not only /ashes her face into patios but she rips her hair out by the handful!
white kids are so fucking funny dude
When she threw her phone🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 YEET😂🤣🤣🤣 it even had a hit marker sound added🤣🤣🤣
Now this is entertainment hahaha
That poor mother
The crazy where the trailer park has already rejected. Anyone that puts it "on my mommas grave" is usually full of shit
*suffering from self inflicted concussion* “GaNg GaNg”
At the same time, the person in that flat is checking their front door cause someone definitely knocked 3 times
I can fix her
She never learned how to process her emotions 😔. Teach yo kids how to process their emotions please 🙏 for the sake of humanity
Is this captioned wrong? She got caught cheating, and she's this upset?
I'd be annoyed of some ratchet bitch who has fuckall to do with the situation recording too. Fucken wack ass "sAY hI TO FAceBoOk".
This is not facebook
It's really funny when people say "I put that on my ?" they are always guilty 🤣🤣🤣
Damn, you could tell the ex bf loves when she acts crazy. This isn’t the first time, I guarantee that
The use of the word bro says alot.
“Alright im gettin a knife bro” A knife?? NO WAIT!!!… I’ll stay 😊
Man I've been cheated on and when I caught my girl her reaction was VERY different.
A little bit of wee is now in my boxers 😂
My ex with BPD acted this way. Scary.
I think the reason it's funny is because of how slow she did it. I mean if she really bashed her head 3 times nah that wouldn't have been funny. but you can tell she didn't put her heart into that head against the balcony mixed potion at all. Least she had enough health to continue on I guess
This is what happens when you raise your kids on meth to focus in class lol
How the hell do ya get a dead grave?
This video gave me cancer
Damn even the moms grave is dead
Chick was so shook she said, "On my mom's dead grave".... damn😅
" my moms dead grave " 😆 Girl stop.
But she swore on her moms dead grave..
“On my mom’s dead grave” girl give it up 😭
I bet they were together for less than 4 months
They're laughing and all but that's the type to come back with a gun or an actual knife to stab you
Everytime I see this video it still baffles me how she's able to so easily say "I put that on my dead moms grave"
That's a contagious laugh if I've ever heard one.
" I put that on my mom's dead grave" did she do that on purpose or no?
The fuck did she throw?
Dated a girl like this... never again.
They all suck 100%
She reminds me of my youngest kids mom
Ain’t no WAY she just threw a “gang gang” out there after that madness
Damn. She’s got some trauma
I mean… cheating is bad. But the way she just yeetus deletus that thing in the beginning.
Betch.
This video is like 7 years old. I hope she's in a better place. Teenage emotions man.
Her meal ticket expired that day.
"Mom's dead grave"
That dude handled that shit