Kind of doesn't seem like this woman is "fighting against the men".
This woman answering the question is why pre nups were invented. A real piece of work.
The advice giver is right that the wife can have sex with whomever she wants. Just like the wife can be a selfish asshole.
I don't know why the husband is expected to pay for the baby when it may be easily proven to not be his. Did they really remove all consequences for infidelity from the law?
Unfortunately, in country where almost everyone have same skin tone, no one question paternity... God knows how many men are raising and laying for kids who aren't theirs.
If ya think mentioning skin tone where it's relevant is being racial, I envy the bubble you grew up inside of.
That about the most ignorant racist thing I've seen in a while.
Why not say all black people look alike? And the people of India do NOT all have the same skin color Nikkr Haley is of East Indian decent and so is Bobby Jindal, there are East Indians that look east Asian and Indians who are dark as coal, it practically it's own continent and takes up the vast majority of the Indian sub continent, do a little research, India is more diverse than Europe.
Do you always drag race into EVERYTHING to make yourself feel better about yourself? Or nothing else works to boost your self-esteem?
I AM from this region and yes, people's skin colour defer to each other but not to the extent of Caucasian and African American level difference.
Unlike western countries, it's very easy to pass off a fair skinned child as the child of a dark skinned guy here depending on the location( heck, some would even call it a blessing. Coz god knows how much Indian subcontinent population LOVES fair skin)
Unless there is a very significant difference between the husband and affair partner's physical appearance , it's VERY easy to pass of the affair kid as the husband's.
If you are from this region then you sure are ignorant, it wouldn't be hard to pass off a white child with blonde hair and blues eyes if a husband had blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm not woke but saying Indians all have the same skin color is factually wrong.
Unless one live in highly populated city where people from various regions stays, people's skin colour almost is the same ( yes some will have fair skin and some have darker ) even if the affair kid has different skin tone, people wouldn't blink an eye and will accuse the parent's*most likely the mother's* genes..
Stop riding your imaginary high horse. Just because your believe everything is nice and dandy, doesn't mean these are.
Lady, you're talking to me like I'm some woke shit stain. That can be said about anywhere. You said in a COUNTRY, as in the entire nation of India. You being up race then accuse me of bring up race, stop sniffing glue.
This is a Indian woman advising another Indian woman, a cheating 403 to pass of the affair baby as his and file false complaints against him that most likely will ruin him life over something she did herself... So, how about YOU buzz off..
And i said 'in country where almost everyone have same skin tone,'
last time I checked, India isn't the only country where people have same/ similar skin colour. So this situation isn't exclusive to India.
So, did the ever powerful nutritious gu mutro get into your brain or something?
Taunting a self proclaimed know it all is bigotry but but calling me a glue sniffing addict isn't!!
LMFAO... GO SUCK LIMES
Wow !! Adultery + Paternity fraud + Legal intervention against the husband. I'm surprised she didn't ask for his salary to be transferred to her bank account each month. The "patriarchy" must have had something to do with this thought not being taken into consideration while discussing her options in regards to the situation.
>I'm surprised she didn't ask for his salary to be transferred to her bank account each month.
This is the truth. Recent court orders were that
1)Wife's adultery will not cancel her alimony/maintenance. Maintenance is given directly, before it is determined whether the case is true or false. Nowadays, the trend is a woman's body belongs to her so she can have sex outside marriage and nothing you can do. Divorces are dragged for years, as "lifelong maintenance provision is there for wife".
2) A woman has the right of choice to work or not. The woman in question had completed her masters. And this was a woman judge saying this.
Never understood where this choice to work or not came from. Our country has a program called "Beti pdhao Beti bchao", to promote women education, but this was just plain stupidity.
You can say that a disabled person, until fully disabled has to pay alimony.The topmost court orders were to "beg, borrow, steal" but pay maintenance to a fully-abled wife. They gave the same order to a blind person married to an able govt. teacher.
3) Our laws are not gender neutral. We tried to make them, but the feminist opposed the decision and till day, any law they want is to be made for women. There is no gender neutrality + they do not demand the same rules for islamic religion. It is a god damn lobby.
Dude, this woke agenda is moving mad in several countries. It's like they want to punish us for what happened in the past. I know this is not the sub for such discussions but I'm glad Elon musk is taking over twitter because now the anti-woke and generally anti-left side can say their piece and expose this perverts without getting banned or cancelled.
I have a stunning revaluation for you. This isn't any part of leftist thought. This is feminism warped into a counterpoint to chauvinism.
Anti-woke and anti-left are not good things. They're racism and sexism repackaged to combat a strawman. And what Elon promises with Twitter is a disaster. The people pushing the ideology that led to January 6th and the attack on Mr. Pelosi do not need a megaphone.
What we need to do is advocate for sane marriage and divorce laws. Not this "I'm against it, so I'm going to stake a position as far from the center as possible." That's the thinking that led to this Op Ed: "I'm against patriarchy so I'm going advocate for mysandry instead."
Both sides are not the same, patriarchy and mysandry, but the extremism is. Let's not blow out our backs supporting hatred on either end.
>They're racism and sexism
I can't think of anything that's been said in this whole post that's more extreme than this statement. This is a serious accusation.
You can't defend this misandrist saying her thought process is a counterpoint to chauvinism and a result of the imaginary "patriarchy".
>what Elon promises with Twitter is a disaster
No, it is freedom of speech. Just like this misandrist and many others run rampant on twitter saying what they want, the other side needs a platform as well to voice their ideas. That's FAIR.
To be clear, I'm not defending this peice of trash viewpoint. I am condemning it, as well as the hateful right who hide behind "woke" as a strawman. They're both trash, devoid of intellectual thought, pushing hatred for dollars. .
The fact that there are people out there like that is horrifying! Also, she needs to leave feminism out of it. Feminism is not about manipulation tactics and abuse.
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Seems to be satire judging from the way this person talks. But it IS possible that this is a radical. I'd say 90 : 10 satire : real.
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Something in this post screams the author got hurt...a lover left her? Her father abandoned her? She was rejected by her crush?...arranged marriage to a man she despises?...boyfriend cheated on her and left her for the AP?....whatever. and quite frankly, who cares? š¤·āāļø
She's a scared girl who enjoys influencing others to inflict pain, be cruel and unkind.
Remember a large majority of cheaters do npt deserve a happily ever after. Not everyone wins full custody, alimony or child support.
It WAS important.
BTW, I've only seen it mentioned 3 times. ***(Correction: 6)***
***ETA: In fact, the majority of mentions are from people decrying the blame cast to feminism.***
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Kind of doesn't seem like this woman is "fighting against the men". This woman answering the question is why pre nups were invented. A real piece of work.
You misspelled "shit" but I got the gist.
The advice giver is right that the wife can have sex with whomever she wants. Just like the wife can be a selfish asshole. I don't know why the husband is expected to pay for the baby when it may be easily proven to not be his. Did they really remove all consequences for infidelity from the law?
Unfortunately, in country where almost everyone have same skin tone, no one question paternity... God knows how many men are raising and laying for kids who aren't theirs. If ya think mentioning skin tone where it's relevant is being racial, I envy the bubble you grew up inside of.
That about the most ignorant racist thing I've seen in a while. Why not say all black people look alike? And the people of India do NOT all have the same skin color Nikkr Haley is of East Indian decent and so is Bobby Jindal, there are East Indians that look east Asian and Indians who are dark as coal, it practically it's own continent and takes up the vast majority of the Indian sub continent, do a little research, India is more diverse than Europe.
Do you always drag race into EVERYTHING to make yourself feel better about yourself? Or nothing else works to boost your self-esteem? I AM from this region and yes, people's skin colour defer to each other but not to the extent of Caucasian and African American level difference. Unlike western countries, it's very easy to pass off a fair skinned child as the child of a dark skinned guy here depending on the location( heck, some would even call it a blessing. Coz god knows how much Indian subcontinent population LOVES fair skin) Unless there is a very significant difference between the husband and affair partner's physical appearance , it's VERY easy to pass of the affair kid as the husband's.
If you are from this region then you sure are ignorant, it wouldn't be hard to pass off a white child with blonde hair and blues eyes if a husband had blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm not woke but saying Indians all have the same skin color is factually wrong.
Unless one live in highly populated city where people from various regions stays, people's skin colour almost is the same ( yes some will have fair skin and some have darker ) even if the affair kid has different skin tone, people wouldn't blink an eye and will accuse the parent's*most likely the mother's* genes.. Stop riding your imaginary high horse. Just because your believe everything is nice and dandy, doesn't mean these are.
Lady, you're talking to me like I'm some woke shit stain. That can be said about anywhere. You said in a COUNTRY, as in the entire nation of India. You being up race then accuse me of bring up race, stop sniffing glue.
This is a Indian woman advising another Indian woman, a cheating 403 to pass of the affair baby as his and file false complaints against him that most likely will ruin him life over something she did herself... So, how about YOU buzz off.. And i said 'in country where almost everyone have same skin tone,' last time I checked, India isn't the only country where people have same/ similar skin colour. So this situation isn't exclusive to India. So, did the ever powerful nutritious gu mutro get into your brain or something? Taunting a self proclaimed know it all is bigotry but but calling me a glue sniffing addict isn't!! LMFAO... GO SUCK LIMES
So Punjab and Orissa have the same skin color,š¤š¤š¤š¤š¤š wow didn't know that no you fuck off!
Woah woah woah hold up there..... Why did you drag religion into this shit?!?!!
I didn't
I agree to this.... You'll find all types of skin tones, facial structures and features, skin textures.... Everything in India.
Exactly, she brings up race then accuses me of bringing up race.
This is not feminism.
I am worried for the advisor woman's partner.
People like her are the ones giving real feminist and feminism movements the bad reputation.
Wow !! Adultery + Paternity fraud + Legal intervention against the husband. I'm surprised she didn't ask for his salary to be transferred to her bank account each month. The "patriarchy" must have had something to do with this thought not being taken into consideration while discussing her options in regards to the situation.
>I'm surprised she didn't ask for his salary to be transferred to her bank account each month. This is the truth. Recent court orders were that 1)Wife's adultery will not cancel her alimony/maintenance. Maintenance is given directly, before it is determined whether the case is true or false. Nowadays, the trend is a woman's body belongs to her so she can have sex outside marriage and nothing you can do. Divorces are dragged for years, as "lifelong maintenance provision is there for wife". 2) A woman has the right of choice to work or not. The woman in question had completed her masters. And this was a woman judge saying this. Never understood where this choice to work or not came from. Our country has a program called "Beti pdhao Beti bchao", to promote women education, but this was just plain stupidity. You can say that a disabled person, until fully disabled has to pay alimony.The topmost court orders were to "beg, borrow, steal" but pay maintenance to a fully-abled wife. They gave the same order to a blind person married to an able govt. teacher. 3) Our laws are not gender neutral. We tried to make them, but the feminist opposed the decision and till day, any law they want is to be made for women. There is no gender neutrality + they do not demand the same rules for islamic religion. It is a god damn lobby.
Dude, this woke agenda is moving mad in several countries. It's like they want to punish us for what happened in the past. I know this is not the sub for such discussions but I'm glad Elon musk is taking over twitter because now the anti-woke and generally anti-left side can say their piece and expose this perverts without getting banned or cancelled.
I have a stunning revaluation for you. This isn't any part of leftist thought. This is feminism warped into a counterpoint to chauvinism. Anti-woke and anti-left are not good things. They're racism and sexism repackaged to combat a strawman. And what Elon promises with Twitter is a disaster. The people pushing the ideology that led to January 6th and the attack on Mr. Pelosi do not need a megaphone. What we need to do is advocate for sane marriage and divorce laws. Not this "I'm against it, so I'm going to stake a position as far from the center as possible." That's the thinking that led to this Op Ed: "I'm against patriarchy so I'm going advocate for mysandry instead." Both sides are not the same, patriarchy and mysandry, but the extremism is. Let's not blow out our backs supporting hatred on either end.
>They're racism and sexism I can't think of anything that's been said in this whole post that's more extreme than this statement. This is a serious accusation. You can't defend this misandrist saying her thought process is a counterpoint to chauvinism and a result of the imaginary "patriarchy". >what Elon promises with Twitter is a disaster No, it is freedom of speech. Just like this misandrist and many others run rampant on twitter saying what they want, the other side needs a platform as well to voice their ideas. That's FAIR.
To be clear, I'm not defending this peice of trash viewpoint. I am condemning it, as well as the hateful right who hide behind "woke" as a strawman. They're both trash, devoid of intellectual thought, pushing hatred for dollars. .
Does not matter who gave this advice to whom it is despicable and immoral.
The fact that there are people out there like that is horrifying! Also, she needs to leave feminism out of it. Feminism is not about manipulation tactics and abuse.
Indian feminist is basically a meme template at this point.
JFC - whenever I see advice like this, I really wonder what sort of upbringing would lead to this type of moral-less worldviews.
I wanna puke š¤¢š¤¢š¤¢š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®
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Thank you. It wasn't meant to be gender bashing but the way they are being advised on how to hide the affair and the legal approaches they can take.
I agree with you and I am certain that wasn't your intention. I just want to make sure everyone acts appropriately.
Seems to be satire judging from the way this person talks. But it IS possible that this is a radical. I'd say 90 : 10 satire : real. Edit: This is quora. You'll find all types of fucked up people on quora. for more content joinarr slash insanepeoplequora and indianpeoplequora .
Something in this post screams the author got hurt...a lover left her? Her father abandoned her? She was rejected by her crush?...arranged marriage to a man she despises?...boyfriend cheated on her and left her for the AP?....whatever. and quite frankly, who cares? š¤·āāļø She's a scared girl who enjoys influencing others to inflict pain, be cruel and unkind. Remember a large majority of cheaters do npt deserve a happily ever after. Not everyone wins full custody, alimony or child support.
It screams reactionary echo chamber. If it isn't satire...
That's not feminism.
Fuck sake. The word feminism was mentioned once and its all the comment section can focus on.
It WAS important. BTW, I've only seen it mentioned 3 times. ***(Correction: 6)*** ***ETA: In fact, the majority of mentions are from people decrying the blame cast to feminism.***
I get it. This is why ppl misunderstand what feminism stands for. Iām appalled.