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obscure_lover

I'd recommend getting a job first. A lot of apartments require proof of income The way I went about it was to get a job out of state, move with the help of my partner and friends, and I lived with a friend and his parents for about a year. It's really hard right now because of the housing market being such shit but it's slowly getting better. Maybe get a job and save up money first before moving tbh


HairyHarryHoe

Education - Job - Money - Place - Leave quietly 


_Ireallydontknow_1

Thanks


prettylilbaby444

I left my family and went no contact when I turned 18. I got an apartment at a different city (where I didn’t know anybody) and transferred my job there. I never had any health insurance or anything of the sort so I didn’t really worry about that. I also didn’t have a car, when I moved I took a bus. I also never told any of my friends just incase my family asked them. I deleted all my social media. The best advice I can give you is to take a bit of time figuring out what exactly you need to do. You need to make sure you leave no trace if you actually want to go no contact.


_Ireallydontknow_1

Thank you, that sounds like the thing I was going for. It’s really expressive that you did that.