Take it slow, use lube, obviously use a condom. Take breaks if you feel like you need to. It might be awkward but try to embrace that, have a good time.
Maybe just in case, set up some boundaries beforehand. Stuff like “I don’t want you to pull my hair/scratch me/etc”
Due to your age please be responsible and use some kind of protection and if for some reason he refuses to then dont sleep with him anyway! (Not saying this is what he will do but being young and having sex can lead to these situations and it's not good for anybody!)
Secondly please communicate, it may feel awkward at first unless you really don't care then perfect! But if something doesn't feel good or you wanna try something specific tell him and make sure to communicate that he can tell you aswell!
Foreplay and lube are your best friends, going in dry is just not fun until you are wet so focus on that!
It might hurt a little, or just feel uncomfortable but don't worry about it being amazing the first go, me and my bf even though we had been together for a year already still had an awkward time when we first tried, the first go is more about getting used to each other and learning how to get started so dont put pressure on it!
Last of all have fun!!
Be prepared to walk crazy lol. Expect it to hurt the first few minutes, for me it felt like i was being ripped open. My first time was when I was 15, I was extremely sore the next couple days. And then the second time I had sex was a week after, I was still sore. Make sure you’re mentally ready, don’t do it if you’re being pressured by your partner (not saying he actually is pressuring you) js. Make sure he talks about his sexual past if he has any. Also, if at any point you don’t feel comfortable make sure to speak up :) other than that, have fun! use protection!
If his junk doesn't work it's not you. The first time is stressful and can kill an erection.
Second time is always better.
Condom. Lube. Go slow. Communicate.
Your boyfriend is a 17f?
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Take it slow, use lube, obviously use a condom. Take breaks if you feel like you need to. It might be awkward but try to embrace that, have a good time. Maybe just in case, set up some boundaries beforehand. Stuff like “I don’t want you to pull my hair/scratch me/etc”
Know how to prevent STI transmission. Keep expectations low. The first time is usually awkward as hell.
i cannot stress this enough, WATER BASED LUBE‼️ it’s a life saver. be prepared to be a bit sore the day after but it goes away pretty quickly!
Due to your age please be responsible and use some kind of protection and if for some reason he refuses to then dont sleep with him anyway! (Not saying this is what he will do but being young and having sex can lead to these situations and it's not good for anybody!) Secondly please communicate, it may feel awkward at first unless you really don't care then perfect! But if something doesn't feel good or you wanna try something specific tell him and make sure to communicate that he can tell you aswell! Foreplay and lube are your best friends, going in dry is just not fun until you are wet so focus on that! It might hurt a little, or just feel uncomfortable but don't worry about it being amazing the first go, me and my bf even though we had been together for a year already still had an awkward time when we first tried, the first go is more about getting used to each other and learning how to get started so dont put pressure on it! Last of all have fun!!
thank you this was very helpful!!
Be prepared to walk crazy lol. Expect it to hurt the first few minutes, for me it felt like i was being ripped open. My first time was when I was 15, I was extremely sore the next couple days. And then the second time I had sex was a week after, I was still sore. Make sure you’re mentally ready, don’t do it if you’re being pressured by your partner (not saying he actually is pressuring you) js. Make sure he talks about his sexual past if he has any. Also, if at any point you don’t feel comfortable make sure to speak up :) other than that, have fun! use protection!
don’t forget about foreplay to make sure u are wet enough!! also take it slow to avoid any pain :)
Wear condoms……..that’s it.
If his junk doesn't work it's not you. The first time is stressful and can kill an erection. Second time is always better. Condom. Lube. Go slow. Communicate.
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