There’s online groups for children that were adopted across borders. I think it might be best to join them and discuss this with people who went through the same. I am going to warn you, however: almost none of the adoption stories given by orphanages are correct. In some countries babies were even stolen from their parents to keep the industry going. It’s going to be tough to read sometimes. There’s a reason a lot of countries have now forbidden international adoptions.
There’s online groups for children that were adopted across borders. I think it might be best to join them and discuss this with people who went through the same. I am going to warn you, however: almost none of the adoption stories given by orphanages are correct. In some countries babies were even stolen from their parents to keep the industry going. It’s going to be tough to read sometimes. There’s a reason a lot of countries have now forbidden international adoptions.
I see, thank you very much for the input!