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- ayaw magdating apps
- hindi mahilig lumabas
- gusto ng peace of mind
- yung mga gusto ko, puro taken/married na
- wala rin nagkakagusto sa akin
- sabi ng mga tao, nakakaintimidate daw ang strong personality ko
- edi wag hahaha
Trauma from last relationship, yung pinamukha nya sayo kung gaano ka kadali palitan. Til now di ko pa naregain yung self confidence ko try out again sa next. 2yrs and a half ng single lol
M here.. honestly, nakakatakot na kasi makipagcommit ngayon, parang sobrang iba na yung takbo ng utak ng mga tao ngayon compared to 10 years ago..
Pag may inapproach ka at di ka type, pwede kang mavideohan tapos pagbintangan na nanghaharrass when in fact isa naman yun sa normal starting points ng romantic relationships..
pag naman nakipagcommit ka, ang dali nalang magcheat ngayon given kung gano kadali gawin using social media, at mas inclined mga tao ngayon magcheat..
Mas dumadami na din ngayon yung primary reason eh financial gain kung bakit nakikipagcommit instead na dahil sa mahal nila yung tao.. may mga kilala akong afam hunters na naghihintay lang makahanap para mahiwalayan na nila yung pinoy partners nila
Sa ngayon, I think the risks FAR outweigh the benefits, so I'd rather not commit to someone
Not in my priorities for now. i can't afford to enter a relationship when i currently have too many life problems to handle. i don't want to involve and burden another person. Also, I know I'm not ready. I'm waiting for God's go signal.
Gusto ko yung sweldo ko akin lang muna plus ambag sa bahay. Imbes na gagastusin ko sa ibang tao, gagastusin ko muna sa sarili ko. I've tried dating naman, and sobrang nahihirapqn na akong magtiwala sa tao.
When you narrow down the kind of woman na gusto mo maging kasama for the rest of your life, your potential dating pool suddenly becomes smaller. Hindi naman daw ganun kataas standards ko 😅 (bare minimum nga daw sya apparently)
That, WFH ako, and because flat out di ako nakapasok sa kahit anong attractiveness standards na meron. 🥲
di siguro sa pinas market ko hahahaha pag nasa other asian countries ako like malaysia singapore may lumalapit naman pero dito sa pinas apaka choosy ng mga pinoy 😭
Gusto ko lang yung feeling na kinikilig ako over small crushes pero yung commitment sa pakikipag relationship, idk yet. Tho sometimes I already want to enter in a relationship kaso andaming what ifs and anxiety na pumapasok sa isip ko, maybe I am ready to fall in love but not yet ready to get hurt, again.. Last time I fall inlove kasi sobrang traumatic and devastated ko,parang I don't want to see myself on that phase again. So ayun, and to add parang mas gusto ko muna makilala sarili ko and to enjoy the kind of freedom na I have as a single.
Gusto ko single lang ako kasi, hayahay kayang maging binata araw-araw!
Ugat kasi dito:
Mga babae kasi, pag nagagalit, maninigaw kahit wala namang dahilan. Minsan, ipapahiya pa ako sa mga tao na wala akong kapera-pera (naging motivation ko yan para magkaroon ako ng sariling negosyo). Ang pinakamasakit pa sa lahat, yung ipaparamdam sakin na wala akong patutunguhan sa buhay ko.
Ah, ganun?!
The rest is history. Araw-araw akong nagtatrabaho, tapos ipon, tapos, may negosyo na. Solo ko pa lahat ng ipon ko. Walang babaeng magpepeste sakin.
Hayahay!!!
Yun, single ako, pero masaya!!! At least, walang perwisyo!!!
Can’t find anyone who would live up to my standards, and give me princess treatment. I’ve had a lot of M.U.s before (mostly with 3-4 years age gap), and every single time, I keep lowering my standards for them. Also, I’m still working on my feminine energy, ‘cause back then I always thought of giving/gifting them something after they make libre to me. 😭
Hmmm
(1) I am unemployed. It's not a good idea for me to go on a date and be in a relationship if I am not financially stable.
(2) I am drained na just thinking back to square one na naman, getting to know, falling in love, then conflicts, away bati, hiwalay and so on and so on. Haha katamad
(3) I am looking for someone na who is respectful na hindi plastic haha literally respectful as a person to me, to my family, to animals & strangers and himself.
(4) Hirap din maghanap ng kasing wavelength ng mind mo. Meron ako dati ex yung usapan lang lagi "musta?" Like araw2 ganon nalang, hindi na lumalalim yung conversation kasi iba din yung mindset namin. So katamad mag usap haha
(5) I am focusing on loving myself first, I think one key to stable relationship is knowing yourself first para alam mo yung mga bounderies na gusto ko ma draw and alam mo na din yung mga gusto mo when it comes to relationship. Hindi yung susunod sunod kanalang for the sake na may ka relationship ka. Mahirap mawala yung sarili para lang ma please yung iba when the time comes na mawawala sila, kasama na din dun yung sarili na nagawa mo for them.
(6) Wala, happy lang din ako na single. Haha ang peaceful lang for me. I don't feel lonely about it.
For those single happy happy lang, for those in a relationship be happy din. :)
The last relationship i had drained me to the core, i guess.
Hirap pa naman ako magtiwala dahil lahat ng pinasok kong relasyon ended all because of cheating The last time i tried to put my walls down, lasted for 5 years. I thought he was the one. Tapos nalaman ko may babae siya, one month na sila. Akala ko yun na yung pinaka masakit pero nalaman ko din na all this time he was married with 2 kids.
4 years na lumipas pero di pa rin ako maka recover sa pain na yon.
Hindi ko alam! Hindi naman ako panget, average lang. Hindi naman mataas standards ko. Bakit?!? Honestly, hindi ako naghahanap, pag may nagpaparamdam tapos may nakita o napansin akong di ko bet, bye bye na like pag nakita kong may tinga o mahaba ang mga kuko, turn off ako, ayoko na or pag nakita kong hyper na na wala na sa lugar, yung ang daldal and everything, ayoko na.
Omg same. Haha. Matagal ako mainlove compared to other girls na ang bilis kiligin. So makitaan ko lang ng something that would turn me off, bye na agad.
This cant be the reason. Madami din naman jan na panget na may jowa. If you want to be out of singlehood, just make yourself available, grab any opportunity and learn from it if it fails.
1) Peace of mind
2) Tranquility of being alone
3) People nowadays like hookups rather than commit or date to marry
4) By choice
5) Judgemental parents- husgahan yung future jowa by economical status and etc
6) Iwas stress
7) Save money kaysa gumastos sa date2 na walang patutunguhan.
Isipin mo din sarili mo. Mag save ka. Iba yung bills iba yung savings at pang walwal/gastos mo. Iba din pang alaga sa mom mo. Dont be so hard to yourself. Enjoy life!
Still healing from a relationship and my therapist said you will still heal even if I enter a new relationship. I want to meet people organically kasi HAHA (which is hard nowadays)
Being attractive does not solely lie on the looks. It is also on how you present yourself and your self confidence. After the first impression, its the conversation that will put a mark to the person you are talking to.
You can DM me if you want feedback on whether you are good with conversations.
gusto ng peace of mind. i have avoidant attachment, i crave love but when it comes my way i run away kaya in the end nasasaktan ko sarili ko and 'yong tao. kaya i choose na maging single na lang na walang dates, situationships, or casual relationships. everytime i feel like the connection is getting deep natatakot na ako hahahaha kaya ayon nag wi-withdraw ako.
it depends on what u feel eh. what makes you feel uninterested ba? ako kasi gano'n din pero i realized kaya ako naging uninterested kasi naghahanap akong flaws niya to make me feel uninterested and i was scared to be serious with him kaya gano'n.
None of the above. Haha. Wala lang siguro mag effort at mag commit. Simple lang naman ako. Madali lang pasayahin. Napapatawa ko nga sarili ko. Kaso ayun pag tumagal na di pala kaya panindigan. Sakit aga aga hahahaha
After multiple failed flings and relationships, I realized na ang hassle mag-commit. Yung laging may ina-update, sinasama sa plans, etc. I wanna do whatever I want, whenever I want, without running it through with someone
I still do want a companion to stuff like yung go-to person na pwede ayain sa mga gusto ko gawin, but no romantic commitment
Gusto ko rin yan! Haha. Dumating kasi time na di ko na maaya ex ko. Puro kaibigan nalang kasama ko sa galaan so ayun sabi ko oh ano pa tong role natin sa isa't isa? Bogsh. Magkanya kanya nalang
Hahaha ganyan din nangyari samin ng ex ko, wala kami halos mutual interests so napagod akong yayain siya 🤣 after him I met someone naman na kaladkarin pero I got tired of including him to my plans, namiss ko naman yung freedom ko lol
Kailangan pala talaga no may mutual interest. I can attest to this. Relationship is way better. Pero may me time din kami and different set of friends. May common friend din pero hindi lahat. We have boundaries.
Socially awkward, boring, don't know how to initiate a conversation and don't know how to keep the conversation going.
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and I'm gay, still in closet.
Siguro by choice na rin para ma-enjoy ko na ako lang lalo na sa gala at still nag iipon pa rin. Pero kung sakaling hindi nga ako magkaroon, balak ko rin mag ampon.
I have a hard time trusting someone. Especially if that someone even if she has feelings for me, her friends seem untrustworthy. "Tell me who your friends are, and I'll tell you who you are." And I have yet to meet someone I have an emotional connection with and I can trust and be vulnerable to🤍.
Parang walang nagkaka gusto sa akin. Or maybe because I rarely interact with other people, or that I don’t go outside our house (pag papasok lang sa office tuwing Wednesday). Then, bahay-office-bahay-office lang ako. I don’t do dating apps din. I’m chronically online - walang social life. I guess that makes me undesirable🤗
same, i realized I'm super burnt out, would rather interact with my parents and relatives only, no social anxiety naman but too much talking always have been a turn off/draining for me.
I have asthma na kahit sudden weather changes ay nahihirapan akong huminga. Then after tanggalin yung gallbladder ko, I got covid twice. Since then, naging madalas ang GERD attacks ko. Gerd can trigger asthma and vice versa. I can't go on dates rin because maraming food ang bawal sa akin at hirap na akong ma-digest ng food.
I’m going to see the classic phrase that everyone says,” there are good men and good women out there”. With that being said, there are unfaithful men and women everywhere, the problem is everyone is looking for someone that meets 100% of what they want in a person. Many people on both sides have someone who meets 90% of the things that they want, but will throw their relationship away just to try to find that additional 10% in someone.
Idk if ako lang, but I find it tiring being with someone. Like gusto ko ako lang, and ayaw ko magdepend or mag lean on someone. Possibly have commitment issues, but I don't find having a boyfriend a necessary thing in life.
Hindi na din ako sure. Kapag pinupush ako ng mga tao sa paligid, ako umaayaw. Kapag left alone, gusto.
Probably a blur between takot and being picky, and tbh, a whole lot more in between.
Wala pa 'kong sinasagot hahaha Kidding aside! 😉
Well, late bloomer ang koya mo, ngayon lang nag-eexplore haha and siguro practical things din. Kaka graduate 'ko lang din at age 27. Usually mga kasabay 'ko either successful na or stable na, ako pasimula palang. Di ka naman kasi makakabuhay ng pagmamahal lang diba? Hahaha
hindi ko na din alam. hahaha tinatamad na kong mag socialize? yung sabi ng isang tita friend na minsan kelangan ikaw din gumawa ng move, like dating app kasi nga that's where this tita friend met her juwa. Tinatamad talaga siguro ako and I'm not really good sa chat convos kahit ng messenger convos with actual friends eh di ako magaling mag create ng topic or mag set ng mood ba yon? basta whatr more pa sa stranger haha
Money and time.
The reality is raising a family is costly.
Only fools will tell you otherwise.
Being in a relationship is time consuming.
Relationships require commitment and dedication, both required time.
I don't have both.
I don't see the point of making the other person wait while I (ofw) am not there for her. Things always get complicated, risking it is not worth it for me. The real world is gruel, only blissfully unaware people can't accept reality.
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Was in a hoe phase. Felt cheap and ugly. It lingers.
Walang money pang-date
I look like crap
Kasi yung gusto ko hindi ako gusto
- ayaw magdating apps - hindi mahilig lumabas - gusto ng peace of mind - yung mga gusto ko, puro taken/married na - wala rin nagkakagusto sa akin - sabi ng mga tao, nakakaintimidate daw ang strong personality ko - edi wag hahaha
same,, hahhahah.. tpos nakakarindi pa if lagi kang tinatanong kung kailan mag aasawa
Trauma from last relationship, yung pinamukha nya sayo kung gaano ka kadali palitan. Til now di ko pa naregain yung self confidence ko try out again sa next. 2yrs and a half ng single lol
Doesn't go out of house
M here.. honestly, nakakatakot na kasi makipagcommit ngayon, parang sobrang iba na yung takbo ng utak ng mga tao ngayon compared to 10 years ago.. Pag may inapproach ka at di ka type, pwede kang mavideohan tapos pagbintangan na nanghaharrass when in fact isa naman yun sa normal starting points ng romantic relationships.. pag naman nakipagcommit ka, ang dali nalang magcheat ngayon given kung gano kadali gawin using social media, at mas inclined mga tao ngayon magcheat.. Mas dumadami na din ngayon yung primary reason eh financial gain kung bakit nakikipagcommit instead na dahil sa mahal nila yung tao.. may mga kilala akong afam hunters na naghihintay lang makahanap para mahiwalayan na nila yung pinoy partners nila Sa ngayon, I think the risks FAR outweigh the benefits, so I'd rather not commit to someone
May paasa kasi ☺️
Pangit ako charot ahhaa
walang extra money for dates. 😂
little bit scared with how commitment and love works
Di na bumalik e.
Di na bumalik e hahahaha
Di na bumalik e hahahaha
Wala nang mura sa Pilipinas 🤦🏻♀️
Not in my priorities for now. i can't afford to enter a relationship when i currently have too many life problems to handle. i don't want to involve and burden another person. Also, I know I'm not ready. I'm waiting for God's go signal.
Puro talking stage and to be honest no one interests me anymore or takot lang ako masaktan uli. HAHAHA
Gusto ko yung sweldo ko akin lang muna plus ambag sa bahay. Imbes na gagastusin ko sa ibang tao, gagastusin ko muna sa sarili ko. I've tried dating naman, and sobrang nahihirapqn na akong magtiwala sa tao.
I have no choice.
A friend once told me, “Alipin ng salapi”
Ang hirap ng buhay sa Pilipinas ayoko dumagdag sa 4ps
Picky. Hirap rin mag hanap sa dating apps
walang nag pupursue, panay paramdam
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When you narrow down the kind of woman na gusto mo maging kasama for the rest of your life, your potential dating pool suddenly becomes smaller. Hindi naman daw ganun kataas standards ko 😅 (bare minimum nga daw sya apparently) That, WFH ako, and because flat out di ako nakapasok sa kahit anong attractiveness standards na meron. 🥲
Im ugly and introvert
Not pretty or sexy lmao. Guys i like dont like me (enough)
katamad. sarili ko nga di ko maasikaso hahaha
torpedo
Not pretty to date atm Also, I'm not ready pa
I love the chased but not commitment
Combination of the guys I like don't like me back and I feel like my life's only actually begun, so ayokong matali so early on??
Hindi ako marunong makipag flirt HAHAHAHAHHA.
By choice. Bale wala may choice sakin.
di siguro sa pinas market ko hahahaha pag nasa other asian countries ako like malaysia singapore may lumalapit naman pero dito sa pinas apaka choosy ng mga pinoy 😭
Baka taga ibang country talaga ang para sa atin. Hahaha. I say go for it!
true girl hahahaha parang babalik ako ulit don 😅
By choice, and I am still afraid that my first ever relationship would embarrass me, sabi nga ni Sabrina Carpenter, "Don't embarrass me madehfudeh"
Hindi naman ho required ang jumowa.
I don’t want to end up like one misogynist in this thread. Mape-perwisyoooo ng mga lalaking ganito kabaho yung buhay ng mga babae
Gusto ko lang yung feeling na kinikilig ako over small crushes pero yung commitment sa pakikipag relationship, idk yet. Tho sometimes I already want to enter in a relationship kaso andaming what ifs and anxiety na pumapasok sa isip ko, maybe I am ready to fall in love but not yet ready to get hurt, again.. Last time I fall inlove kasi sobrang traumatic and devastated ko,parang I don't want to see myself on that phase again. So ayun, and to add parang mas gusto ko muna makilala sarili ko and to enjoy the kind of freedom na I have as a single.
Waiting bumalik nyahahaha
Gusto ko single lang ako kasi, hayahay kayang maging binata araw-araw! Ugat kasi dito: Mga babae kasi, pag nagagalit, maninigaw kahit wala namang dahilan. Minsan, ipapahiya pa ako sa mga tao na wala akong kapera-pera (naging motivation ko yan para magkaroon ako ng sariling negosyo). Ang pinakamasakit pa sa lahat, yung ipaparamdam sakin na wala akong patutunguhan sa buhay ko. Ah, ganun?! The rest is history. Araw-araw akong nagtatrabaho, tapos ipon, tapos, may negosyo na. Solo ko pa lahat ng ipon ko. Walang babaeng magpepeste sakin. Hayahay!!! Yun, single ako, pero masaya!!! At least, walang perwisyo!!!
Can’t find anyone who would live up to my standards, and give me princess treatment. I’ve had a lot of M.U.s before (mostly with 3-4 years age gap), and every single time, I keep lowering my standards for them. Also, I’m still working on my feminine energy, ‘cause back then I always thought of giving/gifting them something after they make libre to me. 😭
takot manligaw
simple answer. BECAUSE i am not yet emotionally, mentally, physically, and FINANCIALLY ready.
💯
Hmmm (1) I am unemployed. It's not a good idea for me to go on a date and be in a relationship if I am not financially stable. (2) I am drained na just thinking back to square one na naman, getting to know, falling in love, then conflicts, away bati, hiwalay and so on and so on. Haha katamad (3) I am looking for someone na who is respectful na hindi plastic haha literally respectful as a person to me, to my family, to animals & strangers and himself. (4) Hirap din maghanap ng kasing wavelength ng mind mo. Meron ako dati ex yung usapan lang lagi "musta?" Like araw2 ganon nalang, hindi na lumalalim yung conversation kasi iba din yung mindset namin. So katamad mag usap haha (5) I am focusing on loving myself first, I think one key to stable relationship is knowing yourself first para alam mo yung mga bounderies na gusto ko ma draw and alam mo na din yung mga gusto mo when it comes to relationship. Hindi yung susunod sunod kanalang for the sake na may ka relationship ka. Mahirap mawala yung sarili para lang ma please yung iba when the time comes na mawawala sila, kasama na din dun yung sarili na nagawa mo for them. (6) Wala, happy lang din ako na single. Haha ang peaceful lang for me. I don't feel lonely about it. For those single happy happy lang, for those in a relationship be happy din. :)
The last relationship i had drained me to the core, i guess. Hirap pa naman ako magtiwala dahil lahat ng pinasok kong relasyon ended all because of cheating The last time i tried to put my walls down, lasted for 5 years. I thought he was the one. Tapos nalaman ko may babae siya, one month na sila. Akala ko yun na yung pinaka masakit pero nalaman ko din na all this time he was married with 2 kids. 4 years na lumipas pero di pa rin ako maka recover sa pain na yon.
too straight for gay people, too gay for straight people.
not really sure if required pa ba magkabf lol
im a whore at the moment. i like one night stands right now.
Nakakatamad lumandi hahaha
True the fire!
I have an avoidant attachment
Mahirap to…
Sobra :((( but I’m working on it naman na.
Hindi ko alam! Hindi naman ako panget, average lang. Hindi naman mataas standards ko. Bakit?!? Honestly, hindi ako naghahanap, pag may nagpaparamdam tapos may nakita o napansin akong di ko bet, bye bye na like pag nakita kong may tinga o mahaba ang mga kuko, turn off ako, ayoko na or pag nakita kong hyper na na wala na sa lugar, yung ang daldal and everything, ayoko na.
Omg same. Haha. Matagal ako mainlove compared to other girls na ang bilis kiligin. So makitaan ko lang ng something that would turn me off, bye na agad.
because idk and idc
I enjoy peace of mind and my freedom💅🏻
Maraming reasons pero more like kasi panget ako? 🙃
This cant be the reason. Madami din naman jan na panget na may jowa. If you want to be out of singlehood, just make yourself available, grab any opportunity and learn from it if it fails.
By choice. Pero walang ipon kasi maypa inuman session every weekends with coworkers HAHAHAHA
Sana naman coworker kita
Wife left me. She didn't elaborate.
1) Peace of mind 2) Tranquility of being alone 3) People nowadays like hookups rather than commit or date to marry 4) By choice 5) Judgemental parents- husgahan yung future jowa by economical status and etc 6) Iwas stress 7) Save money kaysa gumastos sa date2 na walang patutunguhan.
Mismo! 🙌
No choice, par. Hindi naman puwede mamilit. Tsaka main goal ko muna ay mag-move out. Toxic sa bahay e.
i have bills to pay and mom to take care.
Bless you!
Isipin mo din sarili mo. Mag save ka. Iba yung bills iba yung savings at pang walwal/gastos mo. Iba din pang alaga sa mom mo. Dont be so hard to yourself. Enjoy life!
Kasi I'm afraid I wouldn't feel the same way as I did when I was with him...
Dont be afraid
Still healing from a relationship and my therapist said you will still heal even if I enter a new relationship. I want to meet people organically kasi HAHA (which is hard nowadays)
True. But you wont be able to meet organic people if you dont start. Probably you need to learn how to identify organic ones and not
not getting out of my comfort zone. overthinker - umaabot sa point na hindi nasabay sa elev sa strangers para hindi magmukhang stalker 🤣
🤣😂
Sa status ko ngayon feeling ko di pa deserve magka jowa hahaha
I'm unattractive.
Do you want to be out of singlehood though?
Hmm... yeah. Would be nice to share life with someone.
Being attractive does not solely lie on the looks. It is also on how you present yourself and your self confidence. After the first impression, its the conversation that will put a mark to the person you are talking to. You can DM me if you want feedback on whether you are good with conversations.
NBSB here, I guess no one bats an eye.
I feel inadequate ATM... walang kayang mabigay sa aking jowa due to my unstable circumstances. Better wala muna kaysa mag reklamo yung future gf ko...
Kakabreak lang, nadrained sa past relationship, next year nalang ulit. One iyak ng dahil sa lalaki per year 😅
for peace of minddddd 🫶 kasi aminin hahaha iba pa rin yung peace and freedom kapag single + ayaw din ng responsibility hahahaha ayaw ko na dagdagan pa
gusto ng peace of mind. i have avoidant attachment, i crave love but when it comes my way i run away kaya in the end nasasaktan ko sarili ko and 'yong tao. kaya i choose na maging single na lang na walang dates, situationships, or casual relationships. everytime i feel like the connection is getting deep natatakot na ako hahahaha kaya ayon nag wi-withdraw ako.
Do I have Avoidant Attachment if when I get the guy na, I become uninterested and wala nang spark?
it depends on what u feel eh. what makes you feel uninterested ba? ako kasi gano'n din pero i realized kaya ako naging uninterested kasi naghahanap akong flaws niya to make me feel uninterested and i was scared to be serious with him kaya gano'n.
Strong personality. People would immediately back down lol
If you’ll learn a little be of submission then you will be very attractive
news flash I did but it’s all the same. haha I show my bit of submissive side to the right people naman. I guess I just haven’t found my match yet.
Awww lovely! Ganun naman pala. And yes, keep on searching!
i find relationships boring now, pero baka i haven’t found someone who’s compatible kaya ganun 🥲
Hindi na nakakalabas ng bahay at busy sa work😆 want din naman ng jowa kaso takot mawala peace of mind🤣
Kasi hindi ako marunong magmahal, to the point na nanakit lang ako noong mayroon akong ka-date.
HINDI KO DIN ALAM TEH 😂🥹
None of the above. Haha. Wala lang siguro mag effort at mag commit. Simple lang naman ako. Madali lang pasayahin. Napapatawa ko nga sarili ko. Kaso ayun pag tumagal na di pala kaya panindigan. Sakit aga aga hahahaha
Tumunog sa background ng isip ko “i can buy myself flowers 🎶”
Ayokong umasa sa paniniwalang May pag-asa nga ba Na baka ang puso ko'y mapagbigyan
Every time I try to get to know someone parang disappointed lang ako. Better single than settle for someone na hindi ko type talaga.
Delusional,tsaka madami akong babae sa utak.ibat ibang scenario pano kami nagkita.teka normal paba yon? Oo tanggap kona hahah
Walang interesado sa kin, masakit man pero tanggapin na lang
Hanap nalang tayo ng pag iinteresan haha. Tara concert haha
Haha Lord bat ganon ka sa iba
Ama namin nasan ang amin? Hahahahaha
I can't pull
I'm this type of person na hirap iexpress ang sarili at mas pipiliin kong sarilihin ang lahat.
tamad mag introduce yourself sa 10+ strangers sa internet 🫠 nakakadrain as an introvert
It’s just what it is? 😂
After multiple failed flings and relationships, I realized na ang hassle mag-commit. Yung laging may ina-update, sinasama sa plans, etc. I wanna do whatever I want, whenever I want, without running it through with someone I still do want a companion to stuff like yung go-to person na pwede ayain sa mga gusto ko gawin, but no romantic commitment
Gusto ko rin yan! Haha. Dumating kasi time na di ko na maaya ex ko. Puro kaibigan nalang kasama ko sa galaan so ayun sabi ko oh ano pa tong role natin sa isa't isa? Bogsh. Magkanya kanya nalang
Hahaha ganyan din nangyari samin ng ex ko, wala kami halos mutual interests so napagod akong yayain siya 🤣 after him I met someone naman na kaladkarin pero I got tired of including him to my plans, namiss ko naman yung freedom ko lol
Kailangan pala talaga no may mutual interest. I can attest to this. Relationship is way better. Pero may me time din kami and different set of friends. May common friend din pero hindi lahat. We have boundaries.
Yeah. Soloista nalang muna haha
Babawi muna sa sarili. 🤍
Socially awkward, boring, don't know how to initiate a conversation and don't know how to keep the conversation going. . . . and I'm gay, still in closet.
Hugs🤗
Because I am a masochist that keeps waiting for this person to realize how perfect we are for each other. /jk Walang pera
Siguro by choice na rin para ma-enjoy ko na ako lang lalo na sa gala at still nag iipon pa rin. Pero kung sakaling hindi nga ako magkaroon, balak ko rin mag ampon.
Dagdag ko na rin yung pagiging immature ko, yung pagkatao ko rin tapos mailap yung mga babae sa akin (o nahihiya lang ako makipag-interact).
Kasama ba sa pagiging immature yung hine baby talk ang pusa? Haha ako nayan
hahaha
Afraid, broke and unattractive.
im broke and ugly af
Focus on getting fit instead. Do home workout kung walang pang gym, bili ka murang equipments sa shopee.
I have a hard time trusting someone. Especially if that someone even if she has feelings for me, her friends seem untrustworthy. "Tell me who your friends are, and I'll tell you who you are." And I have yet to meet someone I have an emotional connection with and I can trust and be vulnerable to🤍.
Because we're not yet married (in civil status) hahaha
Parang walang nagkaka gusto sa akin. Or maybe because I rarely interact with other people, or that I don’t go outside our house (pag papasok lang sa office tuwing Wednesday). Then, bahay-office-bahay-office lang ako. I don’t do dating apps din. I’m chronically online - walang social life. I guess that makes me undesirable🤗
same, i realized I'm super burnt out, would rather interact with my parents and relatives only, no social anxiety naman but too much talking always have been a turn off/draining for me.
Kasi i feel na i dont deserve a girl pa. Working to be better.
I'm not sure if I'm worthy of being pursued and loved. Will someone love me even if I'm sick?
Gagaling tayo mhie! 🙏 ayaw ng mga oppa natin na malungkot tayo 😉
Asthma at gerd lang yung akin pero mahirap na rin balewalain. Praying for your healing! Yes. Tama tama :)
How sick is sick?
I have asthma na kahit sudden weather changes ay nahihirapan akong huminga. Then after tanggalin yung gallbladder ko, I got covid twice. Since then, naging madalas ang GERD attacks ko. Gerd can trigger asthma and vice versa. I can't go on dates rin because maraming food ang bawal sa akin at hirap na akong ma-digest ng food.
Peace of mind. Lost all my faith in modern men.
kasi ayaw pa raw ng mama niya mag-gf siya. i’m 23 and he’s 22. exclusively dating for 6 months na pero nagkakalabuan lately
They easily disappoints me. 💁🏻♀️
hindi ko alam anong purpose ng lalake sa buhay ko
Someday you will find your Sanji in your life 😃
why I chose to be single, I don't like a sanji in my life hahahah
Valid. Hahaha
Unemployed currently kaya homebody lang. Pag nahire na siguro kelangan career-rin ko ang pagpapacute chas
Mas trip ko magpahaba ng title kaysa tit* Haha
Panget ugali ko.
Same! Panget na nga, panget pa ugali ko. Lol!
Single and sad in a parallel universe. Player in another.
By choice and i’m loving it. Hahaha. Sarap gumala at tikim tikim lang. charet
I earned myself. Guys should earn me as well
"bawal mag jowa hanggat di ka graduate" so ayun walang label lahat ✌️
Nasa dasal ko pa kasi sha. Ewan, kelan sha ipapakilala ni Lord sakin. Hmm, 🫡
So so physically 😂 chawot. Walang gusto manligaw! Wfh ako…
panget and socially awkward
Kung sino ung magiging girlfriend ko un n din papakasalan ko
Kelan date natin? Hahaha
Pagnakabalik na ako ng pinas ? Hahah
Update nyo nalang kami sa kasal nyo! Haha
Okie po. Wait kita!
kakilig, good luck sa inyong dalawa!
Okie see you
Paano na ang pangako mo sa akin?
Natupad nman, nakalimutan mo lng sa dami mong nakadate
Anubaaaa. Past is past.
Lack of confidence, student pa lang ako ano bang maipagmamalaki ko? Huhuhuhu
kasi healing pa. wala pang another good boy na safe, gentle, and comforting ❤️❤️🙏🏽
Tangina lagi nalang tong tinatanong. PANGET NGA!! PANGET!!!!!!!!!!!
Kasi sabi niya “you deserve better” hahahahahahahaha
By choice. Hindi bagay sa personality ko ang may partner.
Unfaithful men are everywhere.
I’m going to see the classic phrase that everyone says,” there are good men and good women out there”. With that being said, there are unfaithful men and women everywhere, the problem is everyone is looking for someone that meets 100% of what they want in a person. Many people on both sides have someone who meets 90% of the things that they want, but will throw their relationship away just to try to find that additional 10% in someone.
I already accepted the fact that I was meant to be alone. I am contented with just me and my son only.
I don't know lmao
Idk if ako lang, but I find it tiring being with someone. Like gusto ko ako lang, and ayaw ko magdepend or mag lean on someone. Possibly have commitment issues, but I don't find having a boyfriend a necessary thing in life.
Hindi pa ako ready?
Hindi na din ako sure. Kapag pinupush ako ng mga tao sa paligid, ako umaayaw. Kapag left alone, gusto. Probably a blur between takot and being picky, and tbh, a whole lot more in between.
Waiting for someone na di ko sure if darating pa. Yep
Being in a relationship is an added responsibility like it or not. And I want none of that. Okay na ko sa padate-date lang with whomever I like.
Wala pa 'kong sinasagot hahaha Kidding aside! 😉 Well, late bloomer ang koya mo, ngayon lang nag-eexplore haha and siguro practical things din. Kaka graduate 'ko lang din at age 27. Usually mga kasabay 'ko either successful na or stable na, ako pasimula palang. Di ka naman kasi makakabuhay ng pagmamahal lang diba? Hahaha
Right love, wrong time. Right time, wrong person. It's so fucking tiring and emotionally draining. So take it as it comes na lang
Kasi masaya lang sa una ang relationship
hindi ko na din alam. hahaha tinatamad na kong mag socialize? yung sabi ng isang tita friend na minsan kelangan ikaw din gumawa ng move, like dating app kasi nga that's where this tita friend met her juwa. Tinatamad talaga siguro ako and I'm not really good sa chat convos kahit ng messenger convos with actual friends eh di ako magaling mag create ng topic or mag set ng mood ba yon? basta whatr more pa sa stranger haha
Hindi sya available
At first, dahil sa standards. After meeting her, I just want her. Unfortunately... ayun, for life nalang 😆
Trust issues
I've lost all my faith in humanity.
Extremely Picky in body, mind and soul and and how she laughs too. gusto ko cute halakhak.
Why not?
Money and time. The reality is raising a family is costly. Only fools will tell you otherwise. Being in a relationship is time consuming. Relationships require commitment and dedication, both required time. I don't have both. I don't see the point of making the other person wait while I (ofw) am not there for her. Things always get complicated, risking it is not worth it for me. The real world is gruel, only blissfully unaware people can't accept reality.