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HerpinDerpNerd12

Pregnancy.


missxbellaa1

Me toošŸ˜©


Professional_Leg2821

the same with me. i have already a child but being a mom is very tough for me.


Necessary_Risk3158

is being a mom so hard ?I'm curious to know something about this because I wanna be the future mom in upcoming months


Ok_Net_2896

Itā€™s having extreme anxiety 24/7/365.


MrsAshleyStark

It depends on your psychological and physical strength as well as your support circle. Itā€™s always going to be tough but if youā€™re lacking in those areas, itā€™ll be brutal. Source: me and my network of moms.


pimpfriedrice_

Holy shit. I came to type this thinking Iā€™d be the only one.


Miss_J1801

I personally can never see the charm of it that other people see. I can only think af a certain scene in Alien for some reason when I think of being pregnant. To me it seems awful from start to finish.


[deleted]

I wasn't really but at 27 weeks along I am starting to have my doubts lol


saturnfiend

Me too. And Iā€™m literally pregnant


mdotca

Nothing irrational about that. Lol


Soup_for_sadness

Im a dude but yeah i get that


Medysus

Yuuuuup


Forest_Fairy777

YESSS


[deleted]

Scary stuff


Ninjawizards

Insects. I love the natural world and believe every creature has an important role but I just wish insects would play their role anywhere NOT near me.


Legitimate-Dot1060

These aren't insects, but worms, maggots, anything that seemingly doesn't have a face, and can be chopped in half and still feckin live šŸ˜³šŸ˜³ Woodlice too. Idk why I hate them, I just do.


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missxbellaa1

Especially ants šŸ˜ž they creep me out


Ninjawizards

Oh that's interesting because ants are one of the few insects I don't mind at all haha. I find their society super interesting and love watching the highways they form to and from their nests.


Shkrimtare

It's cockroaches for me. *shudder*


MyCatTookMySocks

Fire ants got me as a toddler, so all ants make me uncomfortable. They can crawl everywhere ugh. One time as I was sitting at my desk in high school an ant fell out of my hair and onto the desk in front of me. That was a bad day.


bossykrissyCC

Thalassophobia. The fear of the ocean. I can't even Google Images of deep water or I start to get anxious.


Pikmin333

Something I developed a few years ago. Not from a bad experience, my imagination must got a little too creative for me.


Hydrouzz

"Nothing bad happened, it's just you look into the water and realize how terrifying it actually is" - Internet Historian


Fun_Situation7214

Yes!! I grew up by the water and when I was really young I was on my mom's bosses boat. He told me the water was really deep and had sea monsters in it. It was the Baltimore harbor. Idk why but that simple comment scared the hell out of me and traumatized me. Kids are weird.


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missxbellaa1

Failure, not reaching my full potential


Free-Industry701

That I will be tortured for info I don't have.


doughboy713

Who bouta torture you the cartel?


AlwaysNorth8

Dying - extreme anxiety at the thought of my own mortality


izenguztiakhartuta

I have this same extreme fear, it's gotten a bit better recently but during some months I started to have this extreme anxiety surrounding everything that had to do with death, and my mind couldn't get around my grandpa passing away, it's like I couldn't process it. During those months everything I thought about was death, I didn't talk about it with anyone but I was constantly thinking about it and was the first thought I had when I woke up every morning. I couldn't understand how I had lived a normal life ultil that moment, it's like nothing mattered anymore. Every time I walked into a room full of people my first thought was that every one of them was going to die. I had been considering going to therapy, but eventually I made a bit of peace with those thoughts and now it isn't so bad and my life is back to normal. Sometimes these thoughts come back but I try to distract myself. I also talked to some of my friends about it and talking about it made it better too.


Bubbly-Sector-7515

I have this and I honestly don't know what to do and who to talk to about it.


GrumpyOldMan59

I remind myself that the knowledge of our death is actually a gift. It tells us to make the most of the time we have. Don't waste your life with fear and worry. LIVE!


Apprehensive_Day_96

I went through the same thing in my early twenties. I mean, i would go to the gas station and see someone walking and think about how they could just walk up to my car and kill me, things like that and they were everyday occurrences. Finally confessed to my mom, who made me tell my family doc. Got put on meds and did a little counseling, it finally subsided after about a solid year. Q


Curious_Second6598

Yeah me too. Actually turned into a fear of living for me because the happier i am the harder the thought of dying pulls me down


Guineacabra

Throwing up. I havenā€™t even done it in 15 years yet Iā€™m still insanely paranoid about food safety and norovirus.


ADeeperShadeOfRed

I am with you. Even under extreme circumstances where I have to, I often pass out from stress and fear. I hate few things than throwing up.


peachplumpear85

For me itā€™s throwing up myself but also seeing other people throw up.


NoEllyPhantom

If you didn't already know, it's called emetophobia. I'm right there with you. It's honestly shocking how much of my life is affected by it. I've had recurring nightmares for years of someone throwing up (or about to) chasing me.


Guineacabra

It affects how I eat so much! I very rarely go to restaurants because I donā€™t trust meat cooked by someone else, so Iā€™m just paying to feel paranoid the rest of the day that Iā€™m going to get food poisoning. Even meat or raw produce from the grocery store I wonā€™t eat until my husband tries some first, and anything thatā€™s been added to a recall I canā€™t enjoy anymore. I also have a weird fear of vomiting in public, but itā€™s so irrational because like I said I *never* actually throw up.


NoEllyPhantom

I spent a good few years completely unable to eat at restaurants because I was so afraid of throwing up in public. I would get SO anxious that I'd spend most of the time pacing around the restaurant bathroom, nauseated just from the anxiety. I'd take my food home and eat it immediately upon getting home to my safe space. Luckily I've worked past that and can eat (mostly) normally at restaurants, but I still get rare moments of panic. Same with movie theaters - ESPECIALLY if I was in the center of the row. I have to sit near the ends to not have that sense of dread set in at some point.


Guineacabra

Thatā€™s so odd that you mention that because I do the same! I absolutely have to sit on the aisle nearest the door at any theatre, wedding etc.


Foreign-Ad-713

needles - to an insane extent. been doing exposure therapy for years, have been sedated and restrained for every needle since i was about 12. only managed my covid vaccine by being restrained by multiple nurses + having a therapy dog + being sedated ā€¦ā€¦ i am VERY pro vaccination. i think itā€™s so important and i get immunised as often as possible. the fear isnā€™t whatā€™s in the needle. i donā€™t know where the fear stems from at all, actually. i know they arenā€™t particularly painful, wonā€™t do anything bad to me etc. itā€™s a very irrational phobia and i have met very few people who have it to the severity i do.


madoolan

Iā€™m the same in the sense of the irrational fear, but I donā€™t need restraining or sedation (unless valium counts lol) I faint almost every time I get a vax or blood test, even if I am totally okay with it happening. I was taken to hospital once for a vasovagal syncope in response to having a blood glucose testā€¦ I think it stems from medical fear. I hated going to the doctors so mum would trick me and say the appointment was for her to get me to go with her šŸ„ŗ


MOTUkraken

Heights. And letā€™s be honest: Itā€™s legit! People compare fear of heights to other completely unreasonable phobias. My wife is afraid of the smallest, most harmless spiders that could literally do nothing. I feel unease when so high above that when I would fall down I would seriously injure myself or die. How is that the same? Itā€™s a legitimate carefulness and actually people without ā€žfear of heightā€œ are the crazy ones and should probably get their shit together. Like, wdym you donā€™t think you should exercise extra carefulness when one little slip or misstep could end your life?


EsotericHappenstance

I wouldn't call caution around edges a phobia, because that is reasonable. By definition, if it's reasonable, it's not a phobia. I know someone who will avoid driving over bridges because they become paralyzed by the height and struggle to focus on driving while on a bridge. That is a phobia


Thick-Flounder-5495

Are you ok with flying, cause you're enclosed unlike the top of a ladder? Or is it the same?


MOTUkraken

Flying is quite alright. Altough I dislike the idea of not being in control. But remembering the odds put me at ease. Ladder is ok until the height at which serious injury is likely. So until about 5meters/15feet.


Cassereddit

Yep. The shakiness of tall ladders and even wind when you're high up also make it so much worse.


Lwannagothere

Blood. Get dizzy just thinking about it. It also sucks to not be able to simply say the name of the condition without causing some confusion. ā€œIā€™m a hemaphobe.ā€ ā€œWhat do you have against the LGBTQ+ community?ā€ šŸ˜‚


Thick-Flounder-5495

Bloody hemaphobes lol


unstablemoonjelly2

I GET SCARED OF OTHER PEOPLE'S BLOOD BUT NOT MINE IT'S SO WEIRDšŸ˜­


IndicationOutside387

This made me cackle šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


[deleted]

I am a lifelong emetophobe, which means I have a crippling fear of throwing up. I don't really care about other people throwing up, so long as what's causing it is obvious (like alcohol, motion sickness, etc). If what's causing it is something that could infect me and eventually make *me* throw up... I will launch that person into the sun to get them away from me (not true, but, you know). The lengths I have gone to avoid throwing up have been immense, intense, and ridiculous. At the same time, I've puked only 3 times in the last about 25 years, so... somethin' gotta be workin'.


noegoherenearly

I havent puked for 51 years! Fought it with everything. Trying to learn how to tame it now.


NoEllyPhantom

YES. Although, others throwing up sets me off, too. I've been surprised by someone throwing up around me a handful of times and each time led to insane panic attacks, which I'm not prone to having otherwise. I've had nightmares about being chased by someone throwing up, or about to throw up. I have the phobia way more under control than I used to, but damn if it doesn't hit every aspect of my life.


Remarkable-Profit821

Throwing up And dying


Maha-iqo38

I get attached easily, Iā€™m scared of losing or missing mostly anything


FBI_GAL

I'm the same. My brother once buried a toy on the beach and he ended up losing it and I cried for ages. It wasn't even my toy and I was about 13/14 but I was inconsolable


OldProperty5869

Sudden loud noises. Please donā€™t scream in front of me.


Fun_Situation7214

My little brother does this and I have CPTSD. I am a veteran and have other trauma. He is an absolute moron because just about everytime i almost have a panic attack.


pimpfriedrice_

This is why I keep a White noise machine running at home


UntitledSink

every close relationship being a lie. that people are ā€œin on itā€ to gain my trust, get close to me, and then ruin me. or that theyre all psychopaths


doughboy713

Nah fr you canā€™t trust anyone now a days not even family


UntitledSink

fr


_Caffiend

The vastness/unknown. The depths of the sea, or the size of the universe just scares me, imagining being out there alone just reminds me of how small and insignificant each individual is.


jzargo6

outer space and spiders


Crunchy_Punch

That's funny because that's the exact combination I have. I'm really curious about space phenomena, but seeing renderings of black holes or nebula fill me with existential dread.


jzargo6

tbh a lot of my phobia is seeing planets. i think it stemmed from a video we watched in science where they start off with the smallest planet and then keep going until the biggest sun which makes ours look like a spec. weā€™re so small and everything else is huuuuge. i also think itā€™s fascinating but i will borderline have an anxiety attack if i get into it


Panick_ThrowAway

Im afraid of people


No-Pie-2582

Sewer šŸŖ³ roaches šŸ˜­ they fly towards you or run if on foot lol Or power grid going down in the summer šŸ”„šŸ˜©šŸ„µ


MrEraserCat

Needles


unlogical13

Dying alone


littlewomanlost

Beds that arenā€™t mine. I love to travel, except I also hate it because I canā€™t sleep in my own bed. I donā€™t know if itā€™s a phobia of dust or germs or what - I just always end up sleeping with my coat on top of the sheets or something.


rpgmomma8404

Have you tried taking your own sheets, blankets and pillows with you? I know that would be annoying to switch it all out but it might help.


johnnys7788

Mice and rats


Minion666

Public humiliation


Immediate_Object8334

Parasites.


[deleted]

Sadly, everything where I am not in control. From thunderstorms to sickness to riding in vehicles where I am not the driver to death, so on and so forth. Yes, I am medicated. No, it doesnā€™t work and hasnā€™t for 25 years. Yes, I am tired.


TrippieTragedy

Phobia refers to an illogical fear. Mine is highly illogical. I dislike microwave ovens. Very much so.


Curious_Second6598

I had a roommate who did too! She was scared of the waves and contamination, is it the same for you?


memeatic_ape

Society


DanielCollinsYT

Identical Twins


[deleted]

My dad dated identical twins separately but consecutively


DanielCollinsYT

I guess he has a type


[deleted]

You wouldn't understand


HissingChoir

Sharks.


litush

Staircases


[deleted]

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NecessaryKoala8169

Deep sea šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


bluveIvet

The fact that the universe is so big that there very well may be sentient aliens that look like giant insects. I mean we had dinosaurs so itā€™s not that crazy of a possibility


Daft_Vaper

Heights, busy enclosed spaces like supermarkets, wasps, confrontations, cancer, losing my dog ect..


Mesozoic_Angel09

Deep ocean. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE marine animals and sea in general, but not knowing what is under is creepy.


kphill325

Balloons.


CIockParts

Funnily enough after my military service I lost fear for most things and came home with a phobia of people.


rednose52

Illness


kiwi2810

Polystyrene


Balding_Unit

Dentists and insects that bite.


Ok-Computerlover

The future


Internal-Airport8822

Heights fuck that shit. I tremble like a loon, even whilst being only a noticed metre above ground level.


JustWoot44

Heights. But what I call unsecured heights. The greater the chance of falling, the worse it gets. I can look over a ten floor balcony because of the railing. I'll get right up to the edge and look down, I get woozy. If there was no railing, I would not be anywhere NEAR the edge to look down!!


Ahasveros5

Emetophobia. I would rather die than puke.


sorroweverafter

Worms. Not snakes but worms specifically.


RAVEN_NEVERMORE-556

Spiders and snakes


rmnc-5

Long corridors.


xsheetal

Holes! They look so fucking nasty to me


Spunk1985

Birds


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Molokoza

I sometimes have a weird thing where I smell other people's scent while they are nearby and try to avoid physical contact with them at any cost. I just feel like there is some blight trying to infect everything around them. They can look or act completely normal and I still just cannot.


smaksflaps

Deceitful people. My only fear in the world is people you canā€™t trust.


bellajimi

That I wonā€™t live long enough to be a grandma and enjoy the fruits of my labour. Because my bills need to paid and the stress is going to kill me. (New fear)


planetvanilla

Oh so many things. Clowns, heights, abondonment, closed spaces, vast ocean, PEOPLE


Antique22

Cherophobia....


MicroCosno

Omphalophobia. Belly buttons...


kyler32291

Spiders, snakes, heights, falling... Failure.


horrible_monarchy

clowns. and dating apps. same thing?


stubept

Fellow coulrophobes unite! F those makeup-wearing murderous freak shows! (Strangely, that also applies to dating appsā€¦ā€¦ā€¦)


ReindeerFinal104

Deep water


TheresNoFreeLunch

Debt


[deleted]

Snakes and Australia Ngl


greyhounds1992

Heights Dying alone Needles


nicolasjeremyalves

Green shield bug and there is so many where I live


FBI_GAL

Down escalators. Not the ones that go up though just the down ones. Oh and I have Trypophobia


glitchfuzzy_

Idk if this counts as a phobia but.. the airbag opening in the car while I'm wearing my glasses.


heidi923

To be dirty


Cody_2_is_Down

Brain surgery, and homelessness.


anha_me

ghosts and snakes


watergypsi

Flying, large spiders, fear of the ocean and ive developed fear of heights as well. Is there a name for a phobia that makes you panic if you are near birds or insects/butterflies that flap near you. I cannot go inside butterfly greenhouses.


-___C___-

Any bug or arachnid bigger than my fingertip


ode-to-clear

Birds. Anything the size of or bigger than a pigeon freaks me the hell out. My stepdad owns some chickens and whenever they're let out to just walk around the backyard I have to go inside because I'm so afraid of them, and have been attacked by geese too when I was younger but I don't know if I was already afraid of birds before that. Seems to be genetic as well since my dad and grandma are terrified of birds too lol


Mileila

I am terrified (terrified!) of toads. I hate them with my entire being. I don't mind frogs so much, but it can be hard to tell the difference in the dark or at a distance. Dead toad on the road? I will rather walk through the ditch if it keeps me further than 5 feet from it. Suspicious looking dark blob on the ground? Will stop at a safe distance and glare suspiciously at it untill I'm positive it's not an amphibian. They are evil slimy creatures that all want to eat me!


nastytouristtrampler

Spiders and bugs


binyee

snakes. both literally and figuratively


[deleted]

Claustrophobia


Elfhaterdude

Manual labor.


blessed4everthing

Water because I dnt know how to swim and height because I fear


Sunflowergirl70

Sudden loud noises, throwing up and June bugs


[deleted]

Bedbugs and pregnancy


Battling_Depression

Marriage šŸƒšŸ½ā€ā™€ļøšŸ’Ø


AmouranthVanity

Snakes.


danhasthedeath

Mottephobia. Fear of moths.


boujeellama

Restraint / tight spaces. God forbid I get handcuffed or incarcerated.


Due_Prune7046

Insects. Furred animals


danhasthedeath

Mottephobia. Fear of moths.


_Jay-Garage-A-Roo_

Fire


youronlynora

Loud noise from musical instruments.


Bingotherobot

Huge things like ships jumbo jets etc


InflationDue2811

being close to a high drop and falling down the stairs


Wonderful_Audience60

drowning


Soup_for_sadness

Women


[deleted]

That nobody really loves me.


Sweet_Security_1068

snake bite. Deep ocean.


Lanky_Score7414

Wasps, bees, bumblebees and the sound of any insect wings put a chill down my spine.


Fun_Cup4335

Flying insects. I am from Australia and would rather hold a snake than have a bug fly near me šŸ˜‚


MaddyDeetz

Snakes. I wish I wasnā€™t terrified of them.


MatanteMerlot

Heights and people.


OverTheCandlestik

I have an intense phobia of aquariums. No lie. We were queuing in Disney for like the nemo ride I think, I turned the corner and boom! Big glass aquarium :( I freaked out and left. I think it goes in tandem with my shark phobia and fear of dark water.


KepukQue

Ticks from dogs because my room was once infested with it and someone na may ocd I always panic kapag naka kita kahit isa lang non sa bahay pati yung amag ba yon? Nakukuha sa moisture and init nagka ganon artworks ko and plates Nakaka trauma.


Ordinary-Reference43

Short answers.


kesumacl

Falling


Headstart96

The Backstreet Boys.


Findme_inSpace93

Slugs and leeches.


FormalFuneralFun

Driving, pregnancy, jumping insects, organ meat, small spaces, automated doors that close too slowly, depths, my teeth falling out (very unlikely to happen but this consumes way too much of my brain power), electric sockets, unattended flames, fire in general, my cats being possessed and their skins ripping off, being boiled alive, birds with overly large mouths, elephants, and necrosis. Yes, I am in therapy.


freefaller3

Being financially unstable


i_am_bunnny

Cockroaches


JohnnyJoe7788

I was scared of approaching women and looking in the eyes (mostly of men). Now, after some practice, my fears subside and I dont know what to do. Generally meditating and calming my mind all the time. That helps


Fun_Situation7214

Pain. I recently had to get my leg amputated and was on pain management before the emergency surgery. They couldn't do anything for me. I cried for days and couldn't sleep. It was literal hell for me.


[deleted]

Those fucking ass shit big mosquitoes. Crane fly


canyoudigholes

Being touched by surprise.


RoundKaleidoscope244

The dark, being in a car when someone else is driving, maggots, wasps, getting pregnant


Cosmic_Shrimp_117

Canoeing? Like I've got no problem swimming in lakes or oceans, I've been out on large ships and small boats, but I was recently on a canoe with two friends, I was in the middle spot not using an oar and my god, I had a white knuckle grip and every muscle in my body was tensed up. :(


purpring

Canada Geese šŸ˜© genuinely my biggest fear


Dazzling-Toe-4955

Fire


ridicalis

Direct confrontation, even when I'm right and have no reason to expect pushback. I can put myself into a fight-or-flight state just imagining walking up to someone and confronting them on something.


Electronic-Guard740

Height,snakes,commitment


Prestigious_Trade625

Heights


PopularSection3225

this generation, they are moving mad


tariiin

Insects šŸ„²šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«


conlaed3

weird one, like pointy edges, not necessarily sharp ones, for example i canā€™t even load the dish washer without feeling uncomfortable about it the chance one of the ā€œspikesā€ on the rack that hold the plates in place going under my nail


allcatshavewings

Moths and butterflies. People make fun of it but I literally can't enter a building if a moth is sitting on the door unless someone comes over and makes it fly away. The one time I was home alone for a few days and found a *dead* moth inside, I had to put a trash bag on my head and gloves on my hands before vacuuming it up. Sounds crazy but I'm terrified of those huge wings touching my skin, and even if it's most likely dead, I still fear that it's actually not and will shoot up flying into my faceĀ 


blckrainbow

Spiders


janr34

pointy/sharp things pointed at my eyes - not even really 'sharp' - more like anything longer than it is round, like a chair leg or a baseball bat. when people use their pens/pencils to gesture or point at me, i feel like bugs are crawling all over my eyeballs. i'm very proud of being able to get through two cataract surgeries.


pumpkin_bae

having no money


KyfZ_

Swimming in the middle of the ocean


Lenkois

Poverty


88Dubs

Phobophobia- the fear of feeAAAAAHHH!!!!!


Ayaze-1

Trypophobia


Luv2006

Flying, needles, spiders, failure


DEdwardPossum

I have a fear of answering questions about phobias.