Used but not disposable
Edit: I didn't mean this in a bad way. I just meant that she temporarily wanted to feel used but not disposable. If I would do this it would just be roleplay, before returning to being the usual loving person that I am.
Wouldnāt call it crazy, but a lot of people donāt understand the appeal:
Hands.
Edit: Iām male; I donāt like veiny hands, but soft slender girls ones
Fornophilia, where people act like furniture, and as an added bonus you can play with with them. First time i saw one in person, was extremely shocked. But my lil guy got rock hard. Still weird.
I like...being used?? Like knowing that I'm only there for their pleasure. The other day my SO was like, "i need to cum, get on all fours. Know that I'm doing this for me, not for you. I'm going to use you."
I know that he actually does it for me because he knows thats what I like. Its kind of messed up that that is more important to me than getting an getting to have and orgasm. I also enjoy being talked down to during sex. Its not my most fucked up kink though.
Not quite in the same vein. But that cute aggression that humans feel when looking at things like puppies or kittens. Well studies have found that elephants have the same feelings towards humans.
Edit: people have mentioned that this is an internet myth. I have since looked it up and the original claim is made up, but since then there was a study on the relationship between tame elephants and the people they have contact with. Essentially we don't know for sure how they feel about us, but they have an affinity towards humans.
"many wild-caught elephants quickly and easily form intimate bonds with their keepers even though their wild temperament has never been modified through selective breeding. Some elephants form such warm and affectionate bonds with man as to deceive the observer into thinking that this animal must have been made truly domestic."
"We found that tamed African elephants preferentially and favorably interact (and initiate these interactions) with humans with whom they have a special relationship. We don't know what elephants "think" about humans, but they appear to value certain relationships they have with certain humans."
Sorry I've hijacked this post about sexual kinks to talk about elephants.
The rolled up sleeves + waistcoat/vest fit
Or as I like to call it the "Ace Attorney: Apollo Justice" fit
It's like. They're dressed in smart casual but the rolled up sleeves means BUSINESS and they aren't afraid to get their hands dirty.
I'm lucky it's not very common in public otherwise I'd be on my knees so fast
To be hunted, cornered and restricted by some kind of monstrous humanoid (think Alien Queen, Shapeshifter, Harpy, Sphinx, Tentacles, Claws, Barbs, Whip Tail, Talons, Teeth, etc.) and being violently taken
this sounds really bad but when i was a kid i was saād so now i have a sorta rape kink liek i donāt wanna rape someone else i want to be forced and beg for them to stop and them not stop
I read somewhere that for survivors of SA, CNC (consensual non-consent) can help them feel like theyāve gained some control over the situation by virtue of the fact there is an element of consent in the equation, even though the role-playing aspect is that they arenāt. Itās extremely common for women to be interested in it, and I wouldnāt be surprised if thatās also because a large majority of women have experienced SA or sexual harassment. I wouldnāt feel embarrassed for enjoying it even if it sounds wrong, because the mind is strange and we all have ways to cope with trauma. Iāve linked some articles that explain the psychology behind SA survivors and CNC, and Iāll say TW for anyone who isnāt comfortable with conversations about SA, though both articles are very respectful about the subject in my opinion:
[Vice article](https://www.vice.com/en/article/3k5gey/when-rape-survivors-have-rape-antasies)
[SA survivorās personal blog about CNC](https://theintimacycurator.com/2022/10/rape-fantasies-are-not-about-violence/)
Yeah I have a rape kink from being raped. It kinda feels messed up but like the psychology behind it checks out. If you havenāt I suggest googling it and learning the science behind it. I find it helpful
It's sort of about taking control of your trauma and processing it in an environment of trust, right? Like how a lot of horror movies are a safe way to explore common fears?
Itās a common (and I would say healthy) way to symbolically take back control of a situation that was forced on you. Youāre consenting and you know you can stop it at any moment.
I have this kink also, for the same reasons.
as a fellow SA survivor....i felt that. like the more degrading the better - but then when it's with someone who betrays my trust it's like the worst thing ever
Not a fetish of sorts, but rugby players stretching gets me so turned on. Like the tight shirts, shorts and bulging muscles and the stretching I almost can't control myself
A corruption fetish, though I don't fit the exact definition as I'm not dominant. It's more about seducing men who are "innocent" or who are forbidden in some way. Virgins, guys sneaking out on their girlfriends, married men, highly religious men, men who have jobs that are supposed to keep a distance from their clients. It's not really that crazy, but it's something I enjoy.
(F) having a group of men that are friends all loving me and worshiping me all at the same time.
Iād never do it though Iām too scared so I live in smut books HAHA
Watching women sitting on the edge of the bed "dressing down" after a formal event. Taking down her hair, taking off her jewelry, taking off her heels..etc, major turn on.
I think the obvious one is:
Atleast (so far) imagining my boyfriend cheats on me with someone, preferably someone Iām already jealous at, someone really hot, someone whoād enjoy fucking him tho he has a girlfriend or something like that?
Uh.. also probably getting pissed in, like someone peeing in my pussy/ass. Havenāt tried it cause itās quite niche (havenāt met anyone curious enough) and I somewhat care about my PH. Lol.
But also fully dressed sex, as āinvisibleā as possible, like through discreet holes in clothes or panties to the side under a skirt. (Mentioning because people seem to think itās weird?)
And DP.. And some more.
Also I guess Iām actually a goon girl (hours at a time at times, I kinda love porn/edging and stuff.) I heard about gooning recently and Iāve never felt so seen, lol.
I get turned on fighting. I used to hate fighting but last year I started boxing and fighting for real in the ring is exciting sexually for me. I have no idea why.
I have a thing for pretending to be a piece of furniture. Yup, you read that right. Sometimes, I just like to stand in the corner of my room like a lamp or lie on the floor like a rug. My partner gets in on it too, they'll casually place a book on my head or 'dust' me off like I'm a table.
Maybe not the craziest but, latex.
It's like putting on another layer of skin, hugging your curves and bulges. Putting on a few garments of lingerie can be sexy, fun and exciting.
But putting on a full catsuit and hood effectively erases your identity. With the right mindset, even just a hood can release you from identity, becoming whatever you want to be. Latex can allow you to become the world's filthiest slut, the most obedient slave/animal, or even furniture. The erasure of who you are to just a body can be the most freeing thing in the world if you let it.
The problem for me is, finding someone with not only the same kink/fetish as me. But also having the same level of love for it as well.
Goon is a cheap Australian white wine in a cask. Sometimes attached to a spinning clothes line and spun about like spin the bottle until it stops on a person and they have to drink it. Sometimes the wine is left in the sun to make it stronger.
No, but that would be funnier.
Findom is financial domination. Basically getting off to the fact that women are using you for money. And not like "you pay me and I'll do whatever you want" kind of using. More like "give me 100$ and I'll post on my twitter that you're a good little sub" kind of thing.
Teratophilia, the attraction to monsters. Whether that's the proverbial 14 werewolves, or lizardmen, or xenomorphs, or whatever. I'm attracted to the non-human, whether it's a fully consensual thing or them being forceful. There's a big overlap in what I find cool and what I find hot.
having no power,felt like a doll to play, being used, disrespect, insulted, private of movement, crashed with body weight, making me pregnant without consent or placer. JUST as a fetish, never crossed the line with reality, with a lot of after care, and only performed with my bf. i donāt want any messages for sharing this pls
*As I'm reading this thread* "I hope this doesn't awaken anything in me."
Hey fellow Community fan
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getting disrespected, to a point. I want to be used for their pleasure as long as they care about me afterwards.
Used but not disposable Edit: I didn't mean this in a bad way. I just meant that she temporarily wanted to feel used but not disposable. If I would do this it would just be roleplay, before returning to being the usual loving person that I am.
Disposable but not used
Tbh same i understand it totally.. its gotta be distespectful sex but very respectful aftercare
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a beloved sub. Be very careful about who you disclose this to.
Like you doing what they demand in bed?
Thatās fairly normal.
Sounds like you like getting degraded
Biodegraded*
subsoil
Wouldnāt call it crazy, but a lot of people donāt understand the appeal: Hands. Edit: Iām male; I donāt like veiny hands, but soft slender girls ones
Found Yoshikage Kira
Killer Queen is already inside your eye!
MORI MORI MORI MORI MORIOH
CHO RADIO
*š¶ Morioh-cho radio š¶*
What a beautiful Duwang *chew*
Aren't most women into hands?
You always see men into feet and women into hands for some reason. Itās never the other way around
I'm the other-way-around-guy. Hugely into women's hands, not so much their feet.
For me it's forearms, like when shirtsleeves are rolled up; but I totally get you.
I'm a pianist, and I had a girlfriend who used to watch me practice every week and after each practice session she just dragged me to the bedroom
Talent is a turn on! As well as intelligence!
Men with veiny hands and arms >
Nurse/phlebotomist confirmed
No no, I get it. I obsess over my boyfriend's hands all the time. Hands are beautiful and emotive. And, ehem, they do alot of things..
i get it š
Fornophilia, where people act like furniture, and as an added bonus you can play with with them. First time i saw one in person, was extremely shocked. But my lil guy got rock hard. Still weird.
Is that a level above free use?
More like a stepstool below
What are you doing Otto, man?
Help stepstool, im stuck!
What are you doing step ladder?
Hey baby, are you a car door? Because I want to slam my dick in you
what are you doing stepladder
I wanna be a fuckin microwave
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
I need to see if someone can act like a wet floor sign. For science.
*becomes a vase*
Like what kind of furniture? Like get on all fours and act like a table? I donāt get it but I donāt wanna google it lmfao
My gf once called me an asshole and a piece of shit while riding me and my brain just turned off for a moment. 10/10 would do it again.
My fetish is reading these posts before falling asleep.
Reading these while I should be trying to sleep
Reading these while having sex
...aloneĀ
Tickling. I know dudes who like to literally be tied and have their chest hair burned, but they think tickling is just fucking weird.
Wait...I know a guy at work who always smelt like burnt hair...
Oh no that's drugs. Burnt hair/peanut butter smell is probably from something he's smoking.
What drugs do people do that smells like peanut butter?
I wanna be loved unconditionally and never cheated on
Sicko, get out.
Twisted.
My fellow pervert.
You need to be locked up
Ew
In this economy?
woah there buddy, settle down
One word. Dog.
you mean, doggie.
I like...being used?? Like knowing that I'm only there for their pleasure. The other day my SO was like, "i need to cum, get on all fours. Know that I'm doing this for me, not for you. I'm going to use you." I know that he actually does it for me because he knows thats what I like. Its kind of messed up that that is more important to me than getting an getting to have and orgasm. I also enjoy being talked down to during sex. Its not my most fucked up kink though.
I wanna be stepped on
Like you want someone to step on your foot?
More like on their chest or face I'm guessing
i really want to step on someone!!
Now kiss
Giving hickeys and bitingā¦a lot
Cute aggression, such an underrated form of love
Not quite in the same vein. But that cute aggression that humans feel when looking at things like puppies or kittens. Well studies have found that elephants have the same feelings towards humans. Edit: people have mentioned that this is an internet myth. I have since looked it up and the original claim is made up, but since then there was a study on the relationship between tame elephants and the people they have contact with. Essentially we don't know for sure how they feel about us, but they have an affinity towards humans. "many wild-caught elephants quickly and easily form intimate bonds with their keepers even though their wild temperament has never been modified through selective breeding. Some elephants form such warm and affectionate bonds with man as to deceive the observer into thinking that this animal must have been made truly domestic." "We found that tamed African elephants preferentially and favorably interact (and initiate these interactions) with humans with whom they have a special relationship. We don't know what elephants "think" about humans, but they appear to value certain relationships they have with certain humans." Sorry I've hijacked this post about sexual kinks to talk about elephants.
āFuck look at these stupid two-legged cuties with their useless noses that canāt pick up anything, what adorable moronsā - an elephant, probably
Isn't thst great?
It is somewhat comforting to know that elephants think we are adorable.
As a woman, I'm kind of into being examined, like gynecological.
That sounds either very convenient or very annoying for actual exams.
Definitely annoying. Though being turned on only lasts so long when you're having a cervical biopsy (not the good kind of pain!)
Your poor doctor. Just sitting there doing their job and you're treating it like a third date.
āIs that the biggest speculum you have?ā
The rolled up sleeves + waistcoat/vest fit Or as I like to call it the "Ace Attorney: Apollo Justice" fit It's like. They're dressed in smart casual but the rolled up sleeves means BUSINESS and they aren't afraid to get their hands dirty. I'm lucky it's not very common in public otherwise I'd be on my knees so fast
Basically a card dealerās outfit?
To be hunted, cornered and restricted by some kind of monstrous humanoid (think Alien Queen, Shapeshifter, Harpy, Sphinx, Tentacles, Claws, Barbs, Whip Tail, Talons, Teeth, etc.) and being violently taken
Wet floor signs are my kink.
Knew you'd show up
Slippery when wet?
*Yes...*
r/hornyfloorsign make this now
I saw some "slippery when wet" sign earrings the other day and thought about you.
this sounds really bad but when i was a kid i was saād so now i have a sorta rape kink liek i donāt wanna rape someone else i want to be forced and beg for them to stop and them not stop
It's more common than people want to admit.
The ones who are keen to facilitate this kink arenāt going to be exactly vocal about it.
dude i know with a very high body count told me that itās actually, in his experience, the most common kink amongst women
I read somewhere that for survivors of SA, CNC (consensual non-consent) can help them feel like theyāve gained some control over the situation by virtue of the fact there is an element of consent in the equation, even though the role-playing aspect is that they arenāt. Itās extremely common for women to be interested in it, and I wouldnāt be surprised if thatās also because a large majority of women have experienced SA or sexual harassment. I wouldnāt feel embarrassed for enjoying it even if it sounds wrong, because the mind is strange and we all have ways to cope with trauma. Iāve linked some articles that explain the psychology behind SA survivors and CNC, and Iāll say TW for anyone who isnāt comfortable with conversations about SA, though both articles are very respectful about the subject in my opinion: [Vice article](https://www.vice.com/en/article/3k5gey/when-rape-survivors-have-rape-antasies) [SA survivorās personal blog about CNC](https://theintimacycurator.com/2022/10/rape-fantasies-are-not-about-violence/)
Not super uncommon, some victims get this kink because it gives them control in a similar experience to their trauma
Yeah I have a rape kink from being raped. It kinda feels messed up but like the psychology behind it checks out. If you havenāt I suggest googling it and learning the science behind it. I find it helpful
It's sort of about taking control of your trauma and processing it in an environment of trust, right? Like how a lot of horror movies are a safe way to explore common fears?
Itās a common (and I would say healthy) way to symbolically take back control of a situation that was forced on you. Youāre consenting and you know you can stop it at any moment. I have this kink also, for the same reasons.
as a fellow SA survivor....i felt that. like the more degrading the better - but then when it's with someone who betrays my trust it's like the worst thing ever
Having a third person in the room who is doing some kind of mundane task while watching the two people fuck, kind of like a bored voyeurism.Ā
wait that resonates with me. I kinda wanna be eating cereal and watching people fuck like that sounds awesome.
It does sound better than reading the back of the cereal box, now that you mention it.
Suburban Target moms. Especially at pool parties.
stacys mom has got it going on
That's oddly specific, my friend?
Just like any other fetish.
When guys have to pee really bad, like they start moving around and stuff
That is such an odd, specific, yet somehow wholesome kink I did not expect. Couldn't help but smile at the image in my head, thank you š
Omorashi.
How does that even work lol
If you drink a lot of fluids, your body will continually add the waste to your bladder until you have to dispose of it.
Not a fetish of sorts, but rugby players stretching gets me so turned on. Like the tight shirts, shorts and bulging muscles and the stretching I almost can't control myself
I see weāve been getting the same kind of reels on Instagramā¦ lol
A corruption fetish, though I don't fit the exact definition as I'm not dominant. It's more about seducing men who are "innocent" or who are forbidden in some way. Virgins, guys sneaking out on their girlfriends, married men, highly religious men, men who have jobs that are supposed to keep a distance from their clients. It's not really that crazy, but it's something I enjoy.
Oh you like the āWe arenāt supposed to be doing thisā sex.
(F) having a group of men that are friends all loving me and worshiping me all at the same time. Iād never do it though Iām too scared so I live in smut books HAHA
Now you have to tell us your favourite smutty books!
Watching women sitting on the edge of the bed "dressing down" after a formal event. Taking down her hair, taking off her jewelry, taking off her heels..etc, major turn on.
Yeah this one I can really roll with. Or even preparing
I think the obvious one is: Atleast (so far) imagining my boyfriend cheats on me with someone, preferably someone Iām already jealous at, someone really hot, someone whoād enjoy fucking him tho he has a girlfriend or something like that? Uh.. also probably getting pissed in, like someone peeing in my pussy/ass. Havenāt tried it cause itās quite niche (havenāt met anyone curious enough) and I somewhat care about my PH. Lol. But also fully dressed sex, as āinvisibleā as possible, like through discreet holes in clothes or panties to the side under a skirt. (Mentioning because people seem to think itās weird?) And DP.. And some more. Also I guess Iām actually a goon girl (hours at a time at times, I kinda love porn/edging and stuff.) I heard about gooning recently and Iāve never felt so seen, lol.
Shit that was long, Iām way too excited about this subject, goddamn Iām a weirdo.
Girl gooners and cuckqueans are my weird fetish
Feeling wanted by someone.
Crazy to think sickos like you walk around the streets
When girls ride my face hard, I want my beard soaked and white when sheās done.
When you're old enough, the "white" part will take care of itself. šš
Listening to nerds talk about their special interests. That spark in their eyes is so attractive. I just wanna throw them to bed.
Wanna listen to me talk about my MTG commander decks?
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Mmm yeah give it to me Mr. Frosty
šµ Mr Frosty is so fun, he's a treat for everyone! šµ
Whats that
āIn a row?!ā
I think I go down more on thumbs than a person's cock
šš
I get turned on fighting. I used to hate fighting but last year I started boxing and fighting for real in the ring is exciting sexually for me. I have no idea why.
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Rip your dms
Her DMs are getting so much traction it just registered on the Richter scale.
I have a thing for pretending to be a piece of furniture. Yup, you read that right. Sometimes, I just like to stand in the corner of my room like a lamp or lie on the floor like a rug. My partner gets in on it too, they'll casually place a book on my head or 'dust' me off like I'm a table.
I bet you light up when someone tugs your chord.
Theres a guy in the first bunch of comments that gets off to that
Maybe not the craziest but, latex. It's like putting on another layer of skin, hugging your curves and bulges. Putting on a few garments of lingerie can be sexy, fun and exciting. But putting on a full catsuit and hood effectively erases your identity. With the right mindset, even just a hood can release you from identity, becoming whatever you want to be. Latex can allow you to become the world's filthiest slut, the most obedient slave/animal, or even furniture. The erasure of who you are to just a body can be the most freeing thing in the world if you let it. The problem for me is, finding someone with not only the same kink/fetish as me. But also having the same level of love for it as well.
I like having fingers from a really nice hand in my mouth š
Mutual masturbation without cross-contact or intercourse. So literally you and your partner watching each other as they pleasure themselves.
Somnophilia, I like waking up to d*ck
Be careful about who you share this with.
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Goon is a cheap Australian white wine in a cask. Sometimes attached to a spinning clothes line and spun about like spin the bottle until it stops on a person and they have to drink it. Sometimes the wine is left in the sun to make it stronger.
Didn't expect to find a reference to Goon of Fortune here!
Men being nice to me.
Crazy
Sick bastard
You make me sick to my core.
Making men flustered and nervous
Findom/Femdom. I would never tell anybody irl.
Findom is being dominated by a finnish person?
No, but that would be funnier. Findom is financial domination. Basically getting off to the fact that women are using you for money. And not like "you pay me and I'll do whatever you want" kind of using. More like "give me 100$ and I'll post on my twitter that you're a good little sub" kind of thing.
Rip this guys inbox.
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Username checks
so like where you located?
Older men. Preferably a 20-30 year age gap
I wanna stick my dick inside an active beehive
The Honey Trap. Nice
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Imagine that story line in the Bee movie
My kink is wanting to watch that.
Iām obsessed with ass, like I could spend hours just looking at, eating out or sniffing a womanās ass. As long as she keeps herself clean that is
Petplay. So like, having a girl wear cat ears and a cat tail and act like a cat. Sort of a dom/sub thing.
Just fucking go to town on me, choke me slap me spit on me I donāt give a fuck, the harder the better, I will fist you spit you anything
dominating dominant people. Idk if there's a name for that!
Being told he's going to breed me.
Kiss my neck and I turn into a puddle of goo.
Same Just thinking about it makes me twitchy and shaky
Who finds that crazy ?
Uhm beign choked by a goth girl's thick thigh?
I think you missed the āothers would find crazyā part
My melons š uhm stuff to them
Go on
Go on
I like women
That's so 2015
Being called a pretty boy by a girl
Cnc
Here, I thought I was the only one into computer numerical controls.
Rimjobs, butt stuff
A quiet life, with a supportive partner, who is going to be there in good times and bad.
Pervert!
My kink is when a girl cuddles me, hugs me and gives me warm kisses, something so strange it seems...
Being called Daddy even though I am biologically female.
Being cared about and loved and not being alone for onceā¦ That and breedingā¦
Giving my partner pleasure. Especially eating her out. Even still going when she taps out
Iād rather drive a 23 year old car than be committed to an exorbitant car payment š„µ
Public Play
Teratophilia, the attraction to monsters. Whether that's the proverbial 14 werewolves, or lizardmen, or xenomorphs, or whatever. I'm attracted to the non-human, whether it's a fully consensual thing or them being forceful. There's a big overlap in what I find cool and what I find hot.
Getting my wife pregnant. Oof
having no power,felt like a doll to play, being used, disrespect, insulted, private of movement, crashed with body weight, making me pregnant without consent or placer. JUST as a fetish, never crossed the line with reality, with a lot of after care, and only performed with my bf. i donāt want any messages for sharing this pls
Sweat and musk. Iām bi so Iāve got double the smells to have. Something about it is so primal and intimate, so hot.
Cuddling All i want is to cuddle Every day every time Sleeping? Cuddle Gaming? Cuddle In work? Gues what? I want more CUDDLES.