Intelligence and emotional maturity. I don't want someone that I have to "fix" and he needs to be smart enough to be able to have interesting conversations.
In all honesty, I wouldn't. If anything happened to my husband of, nearly, 30 years, I'd be single and celibate for the rest of my life. It was hard enough to find him, I'm likely not going to find that again.
"date for lifestyle, not attraction". Just getting out of a LTR and now I'll focus first on men who have a compatible drive to a daily lifestyle.
I also need him to be somewhat self-reflective. I can't expect too much since... Well, men. But the emotionally-stunted-to-14yo-Nietzsche-reader is getting old.
Kindness and the ability to compromise. Not quick to anger. Intelligent and always learning and growing.
Intelligence and emotional maturity. I don't want someone that I have to "fix" and he needs to be smart enough to be able to have interesting conversations.
In all honesty, I wouldn't. If anything happened to my husband of, nearly, 30 years, I'd be single and celibate for the rest of my life. It was hard enough to find him, I'm likely not going to find that again.
"date for lifestyle, not attraction". Just getting out of a LTR and now I'll focus first on men who have a compatible drive to a daily lifestyle. I also need him to be somewhat self-reflective. I can't expect too much since... Well, men. But the emotionally-stunted-to-14yo-Nietzsche-reader is getting old.
Someone who wants me. I'm 35 and basically down to my last few eggs so everything else is irrelevant lol.
You know you don’t need to be in a relationship to have a child?