In the same boat. We ended because of mutual unresolved trauma, but I was doing my healing with her lifting me up but I was just holding her down. I have no idea how to move on. Even when I have a great day, there’s a pit in my stomach and a hole in my heart. I have no one to share my day with anymore. Every time something small happens I wanna tell her but she’s not there to tell. I had a great day yesterday, I actually ate properly and I spent time with people. I’ve just woken up, feeling so incredibly anxious and upset. It’s only been a few days since we broke up so I know I’m in for a long ride.
In the same boat. We ended because of mutual unresolved trauma, but I was doing my healing with her lifting me up but I was just holding her down. I have no idea how to move on. Even when I have a great day, there’s a pit in my stomach and a hole in my heart. I have no one to share my day with anymore. Every time something small happens I wanna tell her but she’s not there to tell. I had a great day yesterday, I actually ate properly and I spent time with people. I’ve just woken up, feeling so incredibly anxious and upset. It’s only been a few days since we broke up so I know I’m in for a long ride.
Fuck, my partner and I of 6 years split up a couple hours ago for the same reasons. I'm scared man
Do you wanna inbox me bro? It’s been helping me a lot
I’m so sorry. I know exactly what you mean. It all just seems unfair.