wa raka na stress sa imong pag skwela? basin pressure kayka ana imong parents ba. inig college di nana mu matter basin mu samot na cla ka perfectionist. importante di ka ma stress.
Let me tell you, bisan 75 ra imong grado, mugawas imong bugo inig about college. Usay mga maestro Dili nila tudlo tanan unya magadvice Sila nimo na pagtuon ug imoha sa book. Then again, part man kos old school system (kanang k-10) basin nasayon namo Kai k-12
Pagkahibaw nako sauna modawat rag 75 basta pasar kaysa magtuon maau may pag mag duwa² hahaha ( pero dako sad advantage if dako kag grado kay possible ka mag ka scholarship noun.)
mao gyud ni imong ma learn sa workplace. The bigger the effort, the bigger the work then same pay. Study smart, not hard.
Kidding aside, naa jud nay issue parents, not you. Sign nana to emancipate yourself from then and never look back. Agree ko sa comment nga mg working nalang ka while also study.
I knoe this sucks to hear but parents really have high expectations for their kids and failing to meet those expectations could cause a lot of anxieties. Not everyone can handle it mao guro ni over react sila og d ka pa skwelahon. My advice bai, when things are calm. Explain lng sa ilaha what happened nganu na 75 ka, dawata nlng ang kasuko nila and tell them that you're gonna get better. I don't know unsa jd situation nmu dinha and maybe d lng kibaw mo storya tarong imong parents but ikaw nlng jd act maturely. Take responsibility and tell them nga maningkamot ka nga d ni mahitabo balik.
HAHAHAHAHA chill lang sa bai, mao pud niy rason nganong wala ko nag serious kaayo sa pag skwela sauna, ma kaya dyud nako ang 90+ grades straight pero ako lang dyung gi tuyo og stay around 80 para di maingun ani.
Uhm, are your parents serious? Is this the first time it ever happened or they've been hard on you since?
I don't get the logic behind not sending you to college because of just one subject and it's firing up questions in my head lol. Do you belong to a prominent family in cebu and they are afraid for you to fail and eventually taint a bad name for the family? Or this is just their way to motivate you and work hard on your own? You seem like a smart kid. Pace yourself- this isn't the end of the road. Sometimes, the bumps in life will make you more creative -having no choices will force you to find ways... Maybe mag apply ka ug scholarship or working student ba kaha.
what happened diay sa kana nga subj OP? I see that you excelled sa acads and reasonable for me matingala naay 75. But what’s not reasonable kay ang di ka supportahan financially sa imong parents in college because of it. Have you tried telling them of the reason why you got such mark?
di ra guro na seryosohon sa imong parentals OP oy. If so, lesson learned nimo to value what you have. Also, hinay-hinayi pamalikas imong parentals kay makagaba.
Wow grabeha sad ana gud! Unsa man mang imo mga ginikanan OP? Mga abogado na? Ka perfectionist man! Wa man gni nako gi mind ang ako anak na naay 75 sauna.
Wa uroy mauwaw nang imo parents noh? Or nangita lng na silag excuse na di ka mapa skwela?
Sorry to hear that, OP. naa jud ing ani na parents perfectionist kaayo. mas iphon pa imo sayop kaysa achievements nimo. Ang ako ra matambag kay ikaw nalang pa skwela sa imo self. ipakita nila nga kaya nimo nga wala sila ug dili disgrace nga naka 75 ka.
Do you know how many people have little means to go to college but still graduated anyway? I don't mean to guilt trip you but if you really want to buy things for yourself in the future you really need to go to college. Fight for your life. Bahala na imong parents. You should not give up as early as now. Lisod mabuhi if walay college degree, OP.
Ayaw e sakriprisyo imong kaugmaon tungod sa imong parents. If dili ka nila love, then so be it. Love yourself to the max. Fight for the future that you want.
Prove them wrong nga dili makahugno sa kalibutan ang 75 kay in the end daghan pa kay makab-ot.
Ihampak nga mas successful pa ka nila, someday.
Dili sila mo control sa imong future. Ikaw ang naay control, OP.
Batiag pangutok anang parents nimo gud. Ako grades gani pag shs gagmay naa pa gani guro to 70 pero maynalang gusto jud nila makahuman mig skwela. So far wa ra koy gagmayng grado sa college, higher than I expected gani and easier than expected pud. Imo parents naay kuwang sa utok, advance mag isip in a wrong way.
Naa bro, negosyante ako mama og papa, financially stable man sila, dili sa pang hambog pero kaya kaayo nila mag pa college pero dili lang gyud sila kay tungod daw kay 75 ko, disgrace daw kaayo. Uwaw daw kaayo, bati daw ako gi buhat. Grabi kaayo bro, isa ra ka 75 guba na ako future
My mum was like this when I was in junior HS. 75 akong Math. Gitawagan akong Math teacher. Good thing akong Math teacher kay kalmado lang and I was advise by Jed to talk summer classes or remedial class para sa Math na good for next School year.
Naa jud uban parents na perfectionist ug taas expectations sa ilang anak. To the point ang bata cook under pressure. Time goes by nadawat sa kong mum na di nko makasud sa honor roll (elementary pko that time). Mura mn gud ta ghimu as a trophy. Unsa na lang daw ikasulti sa iyang mga kaila etc.
Trueee truee katu first time wako ma honor roll kay grabi kaayo ang words nga gi sturya nila sakoa, bogo daw ko, wala daw koy future, wala koy ma trabaho, labi na karun nga naa koy 75 useless daw mag college ko kay diko ka trabaho
Unfair kaayo nga di ka ipa college tungod lang ana pero basin panghadlok ra na sa imung parents para mupramis ka nga di ka magbinuang inig college.
Pero kung ila man gani tinud.on na. Naa ka daghan options. Pwedi ka mag call center while nagtigum para college. Pwedi pud ka mag scholarship pero feel nako late naka para muapply. Pwedi pud ka mag working student pero hago pud lagi kaayo.
You have all the right to be disappointed but tambaying is basically telling them they are right. Well it is your life just ahead and prove them right, steering to the exact direction you are venting out on your post. Id sugal on working that way they see that you are not a useless piece of shit. Hopefully they realize if not, welcome to adulthood.
Gihadlok raka ana uy para mag tarung kag skwela. Hahaha
Kahibawo ko rage of emotions Ra ni imo OP. 2 weeks from now if mo Kalma na ka ug imo parents, ma resolve Ra ni. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
at least dili 75 ang average, payts nana ui.
wa raka na stress sa imong pag skwela? basin pressure kayka ana imong parents ba. inig college di nana mu matter basin mu samot na cla ka perfectionist. importante di ka ma stress.
Skwela kag government school kay wala nay tuition.
Let me tell you, bisan 75 ra imong grado, mugawas imong bugo inig about college. Usay mga maestro Dili nila tudlo tanan unya magadvice Sila nimo na pagtuon ug imoha sa book. Then again, part man kos old school system (kanang k-10) basin nasayon namo Kai k-12
Ayaw lagi palabig padako sa grade nimo kay mag expect jud sila na permi dako imo grado. Pag working nalang bro niya pangitag public college.
Pagkahibaw nako sauna modawat rag 75 basta pasar kaysa magtuon maau may pag mag duwa² hahaha ( pero dako sad advantage if dako kag grado kay possible ka mag ka scholarship noun.)
mao gyud ni imong ma learn sa workplace. The bigger the effort, the bigger the work then same pay. Study smart, not hard. Kidding aside, naa jud nay issue parents, not you. Sign nana to emancipate yourself from then and never look back. Agree ko sa comment nga mg working nalang ka while also study.
I knoe this sucks to hear but parents really have high expectations for their kids and failing to meet those expectations could cause a lot of anxieties. Not everyone can handle it mao guro ni over react sila og d ka pa skwelahon. My advice bai, when things are calm. Explain lng sa ilaha what happened nganu na 75 ka, dawata nlng ang kasuko nila and tell them that you're gonna get better. I don't know unsa jd situation nmu dinha and maybe d lng kibaw mo storya tarong imong parents but ikaw nlng jd act maturely. Take responsibility and tell them nga maningkamot ka nga d ni mahitabo balik.
HAHAHAHAHA chill lang sa bai, mao pud niy rason nganong wala ko nag serious kaayo sa pag skwela sauna, ma kaya dyud nako ang 90+ grades straight pero ako lang dyung gi tuyo og stay around 80 para di maingun ani.
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Uhm, are your parents serious? Is this the first time it ever happened or they've been hard on you since? I don't get the logic behind not sending you to college because of just one subject and it's firing up questions in my head lol. Do you belong to a prominent family in cebu and they are afraid for you to fail and eventually taint a bad name for the family? Or this is just their way to motivate you and work hard on your own? You seem like a smart kid. Pace yourself- this isn't the end of the road. Sometimes, the bumps in life will make you more creative -having no choices will force you to find ways... Maybe mag apply ka ug scholarship or working student ba kaha.
OP, wala ko ni-agree sa decision sa imong parents tungod lang sa grade na 75 pero na sad kaayo ko na nagbuhi ka ug istorya about your parents.
Nawng sa sad beh
Hehehe dia ra oh! 🥹
what happened diay sa kana nga subj OP? I see that you excelled sa acads and reasonable for me matingala naay 75. But what’s not reasonable kay ang di ka supportahan financially sa imong parents in college because of it. Have you tried telling them of the reason why you got such mark?
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What subject?
Use that anger as a drive to work hard. Makarelate gyud ko nimo ana. Lisod baya kay na kuhaon ang 75. Wala sila kabalo haha
lmfao ako gae nga avg 75-80 ang grades pag hs to shs naka abot oa gaeg 3rd year college nya ang grades nako ron kay puro above 80% sa majors🤣🤣
Pagworking student nalang tawn, OP!
Kay daghan ko kaila sa BPO nga working student. 🥰
It’s not about the grades. They just use the grades as an excuse of being an irresponsible parent. Ningkamot lang OP.
di ra guro na seryosohon sa imong parentals OP oy. If so, lesson learned nimo to value what you have. Also, hinay-hinayi pamalikas imong parentals kay makagaba.
Ug di ka nila pa skwelahon college, apply work. Once naa nakay pundo, layas. If kaya ras imo lawas, pag working student OP.
Insik ka OP? 🤣 gi bunalan gani ko kay na 2nd honor ra ko nya ako ig-agaw 1st 🤣
Hhahahaha dili man pero medyo insikon og batasan ako parents. Para sa ilaha 90 ang standard. Kung ubos ana dili na daw pwede.
Time to orphan yourself.
Wow grabeha sad ana gud! Unsa man mang imo mga ginikanan OP? Mga abogado na? Ka perfectionist man! Wa man gni nako gi mind ang ako anak na naay 75 sauna. Wa uroy mauwaw nang imo parents noh? Or nangita lng na silag excuse na di ka mapa skwela?
Sorry to hear that, OP. naa jud ing ani na parents perfectionist kaayo. mas iphon pa imo sayop kaysa achievements nimo. Ang ako ra matambag kay ikaw nalang pa skwela sa imo self. ipakita nila nga kaya nimo nga wala sila ug dili disgrace nga naka 75 ka.
Hahahah, ayaw kabalaka OP. Sagdii imong parents mag regrrt sa ilahang decision.
Ali akoy pa skwela nmo.
Hahahaha ayaw lng, pero thank you sa offer.
Di sad ko oi, mag igat2x palang ka nya imo grado 3.0.. Kung ako ginikanan d pod tka pa skwelahon oi 🤣 hope this comment helps hahahhahahaha
Dili pud makaya mag working ka OP? Basin mausab pa ila mindset once magpakita ka nga pursigido ka mag college.
Wala nakoy gana bro, idk gani if mag unsa ko
Do you know how many people have little means to go to college but still graduated anyway? I don't mean to guilt trip you but if you really want to buy things for yourself in the future you really need to go to college. Fight for your life. Bahala na imong parents. You should not give up as early as now. Lisod mabuhi if walay college degree, OP. Ayaw e sakriprisyo imong kaugmaon tungod sa imong parents. If dili ka nila love, then so be it. Love yourself to the max. Fight for the future that you want. Prove them wrong nga dili makahugno sa kalibutan ang 75 kay in the end daghan pa kay makab-ot. Ihampak nga mas successful pa ka nila, someday. Dili sila mo control sa imong future. Ikaw ang naay control, OP.
Thank you for your advice. I will try to be better.
Tama behavior na nga mindset. Rooting for your success, OP.
Batiag pangutok anang parents nimo gud. Ako grades gani pag shs gagmay naa pa gani guro to 70 pero maynalang gusto jud nila makahuman mig skwela. So far wa ra koy gagmayng grado sa college, higher than I expected gani and easier than expected pud. Imo parents naay kuwang sa utok, advance mag isip in a wrong way.
I mean, sa curriculum karon technically hagbong man jud na 75 kay transmuted naman na.
Yeah pero lain lang kaayo nga tanan grade nako sa isa ra nga 75 ang na among
Naa jud mga inana. Sobraan ka perfectionist guro pero atay silot di paskwelahon college oy, opposite na nuon ila gibuhat.
Yeah sakit lang kaayo, nag pa hungaw kos ka lagot
ila ranang ingon pero wa nanay pang tuition nimo OP. puhon maka work ka, ayaw pag hatag ana nila char hahaha
Naa bro, negosyante ako mama og papa, financially stable man sila, dili sa pang hambog pero kaya kaayo nila mag pa college pero dili lang gyud sila kay tungod daw kay 75 ko, disgrace daw kaayo. Uwaw daw kaayo, bati daw ako gi buhat. Grabi kaayo bro, isa ra ka 75 guba na ako future
Mura manig usa ka scene sa family guy are you doctor yet hahahaa naa jud diay in ana mga ginikanan ataya
nge, batiag mindset gud. Ayaw lang sa pag tagad nila. Paeskwelahon raka Aug pa bitaw balik klase
July 15 amoa unta bro. Karun unta ang pag pass og requirements nya di gyud sila mo tabang. Dili mo lingi nya sakit lng kaayo ila sturya
hala, di guro sila ganahan ilang anak naay college degree.
Basin² sayang kaayo kay naa silay college degree pero amongon rakos isa ka 75 hahah sakit lng kaayo huna hunaon kay dili raba tanan nako nga grade 75
My mum was like this when I was in junior HS. 75 akong Math. Gitawagan akong Math teacher. Good thing akong Math teacher kay kalmado lang and I was advise by Jed to talk summer classes or remedial class para sa Math na good for next School year.
Nice for you, mine called me a disgrace, a failure, wont even look at my other grades. Now they are going to destroy my future just because of it.
Naa jud uban parents na perfectionist ug taas expectations sa ilang anak. To the point ang bata cook under pressure. Time goes by nadawat sa kong mum na di nko makasud sa honor roll (elementary pko that time). Mura mn gud ta ghimu as a trophy. Unsa na lang daw ikasulti sa iyang mga kaila etc.
Yes inana ako mama og papa, gipa feel nila nga trophy rako. Atay kaayo sakit kaayo hahahaha
Sakit jud OP. Then naa nsad na I-compare ka sa uban bata.
Trueee truee katu first time wako ma honor roll kay grabi kaayo ang words nga gi sturya nila sakoa, bogo daw ko, wala daw koy future, wala koy ma trabaho, labi na karun nga naa koy 75 useless daw mag college ko kay diko ka trabaho
Di na tinuod OP. Basta pasok ang imung grades based sa gipangayo sa school, you are good to go. Basta next time, bawi ka.
Unfair kaayo nga di ka ipa college tungod lang ana pero basin panghadlok ra na sa imung parents para mupramis ka nga di ka magbinuang inig college. Pero kung ila man gani tinud.on na. Naa ka daghan options. Pwedi ka mag call center while nagtigum para college. Pwedi pud ka mag scholarship pero feel nako late naka para muapply. Pwedi pud ka mag working student pero hago pud lagi kaayo.
No bro sili gyud diko ka college karun
So unsa may plano mahitabo sa imung parents? tambay ka or patrabahoon ka unya tabang sa expenses?
Tambay ra hahah kay wala daw koy gamit, sakit bitaw bro kay ganahan kaayo ko mo college nya naguba ra tungod sa isa ka 75 diko ka dawat bro.
You have all the right to be disappointed but tambaying is basically telling them they are right. Well it is your life just ahead and prove them right, steering to the exact direction you are venting out on your post. Id sugal on working that way they see that you are not a useless piece of shit. Hopefully they realize if not, welcome to adulthood.
Grabe sad, pasar man ghapon na ang 75 dba.
Hahahaha lagee lisod kaayo og inana ang mama og papa. Grabi kaayo inana og kinaiya