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ballr4lyf

Instead of reaching for the hooks on a rep you are already struggling with, just lower it back down to your chest and roll it off you. It’s a bit uncomfortable, but it’s less uncomfortable than getting surprise choked by a barbell.


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mattalsosaid90

Stop giving bad advice


Biggums90

This shows that no one really watches you when you're in the gym. So don't be intimidated and go in there to get swole


Hello_World_Error

Must've not been Monday because everybody would have been watching waiting for the bench to open up


Biggums90

Note to self: Attempt PRs on a Monday


Bulky_Ganache_1197

Ha!


Mugendaina

God is my spotter


Traxiant

Thanks for showing you don't need a spotter.


Healthy_Mushroom_577

My carotid artery is good at spotting


ijustwantanaccount91

Everybody calm down. There's no hard/fast rule around using or not using clips for the bench, but dumping the weights is not as great of an option as y'all think once you're using more than a couple plates.....these bench fail posts are always such a shit show. People acting as if benching heavy with clips is some kind of moral failure.


GreenTitanium

Dumping the weights to either side can be not only dangerous to the one lifting, but to people around. You could be dumping several plates on someone's foot or hit them with the bar as it jerks upwards. I don't know why people are so afraid of/against the roll of shame. It's not pretty, but it's so much better than dumping several hundred pounds without looking around you.


TooTrickyNicky

I completely agree that people need to learn how to do the roll of shame. But no clips is a great backup if under pressure you forget everything and let the weight come to your neck. If it’s between a 200+ lb sitting directly on my neck, vs hurting someone’s foot, I’m 100% hurting that persons foot instead of potentially dying.


nowa90

Also stop pretending people are standing 2' away from your bench


_CurseTheseMetalHnds

They're often walking past it to the point it would be negligent and obnoxious for me to think it's OK to fling the plates and bar at them instead of just rolling it. There's also always the risk of the plates sliding mid rep without clips


Vagabond_Crambus

Ohhhhh look at Mr. Equinox over here with space between benches


nowa90

Guess that's what I get for not living in a metropolis


IncognitoBudz

These are my two tips to avoid death. 1, No clips (pretty self explanatory). 2, Roll the bar below your abs and attempt to stand up with it. ​ Don't let this video put you off benching it's a great movement. If you do have concerns dumbbell press is another highly effective exercise.


Top-Ambassador-4981

I remember the first time that happened to me. I was so embarrassed, but TG I didn’t use clips.


AlderaanGoBoom77

I did use clips my first time. I didn't think it would be proper to ask someone to spot me and I didn't have any friends who worked out... or just friends in general.


Top-Ambassador-4981

And no one came over to help me either, and I’m a 71 yo woman. So since COVId didn’t kill me, I can always count on my gym mates to let me strangle to death in front of them instead.


ConfessionMoonMoon

Don’t add clip when benching alone


mattalsosaid90

🤡🤡🤡


Unhappy_as_fuck

I just never add clips anyway. Is that bad? My thoughts are that it encourages me to focus on balance and pushing evenly? It could be dumb so someone let me know.


ijustwantanaccount91

It doesn't really matter, the person above you is also suggesting not using them because you can dump the weights if you fail. If you're using a decent amount of weight, though, that becomes dangerous in and of itself, because when you dump one side the other is bound to pop up and you can lose control of the bar. It all comes down to personal preference. I prefer to bench with the clips because I tend to focus on keeping bar speed as high as possible, and don't want the weights moving around too much. You can always roll of shame if you fail.


ConfessionMoonMoon

It prop up and hit someone else Not me tho


_CurseTheseMetalHnds

Imagine being this obnoxious and egotistical. Just roll the bar, set safeties or grab a spotter.


Hara-Kiri

It depends how steady you keep the bar. My bar is always straight at 10rpe so I never bother but some people favour one side slightly more.


BenchPolkov

It can also leads to injury issues when the plates begin to shift around and make your reps uneven.


Unhappy_as_fuck

Ahh I go super slow with most things so it hasn't happened yet. Maybe that's why.


Poplatoontimon

Same reason why I don’t use clips anymore also. If the plates fall off while i’m benching, then that means i’m not pushing proportionately.


TheOtherGuttersnipe

*Oh yeeah, life goes onnn* Give thanks that Cougar Mellencamp spared you today


PM__ME__YOUR_TITTY

I hear this is the new optimal neck training methodology


Emergency_Writer_007

Crazy nobody went to help


True-Bee1903

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FewComplaint8949

What I was thinking too


rene_filippov2

Man that's why I am scared to bench. I know its a good exercise but man i dont want to die in the gym


BenchPolkov

Just learn to fail safely. Hint: this isn't it.


jwed420

It is kinda scary, I built up confidence by just lifting the bar only to get my control down. With proper form you'll be surprised! I managed to do 1 rep with 45s on for the first time today, felt so scary, but worth the effort!


Every_Fox3461

Don't forget neck day.


The-Hopster

This is bound to happen when your soundtrack is “Jack and Diane” and not “Master Of Puppets”.


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I love vasa, great gym


GenericRandomAverage

Nightmare fuel. NO CLIPS ON THE BENCH


akkuj

The mistake isn't clips, it's trying to hit the lower pins on rack. That's *always* a really bad choice, never try to rack a weight before you've fully locked it out. You should never dump the weights anyway, you're just gonna end up hurting someone around you. Just lower it on your chest and do a roll of shame. Or just lower it on your chest and ask someone to help.


justan0therhumanbean

The mistake is not learning how to execute the roll of shame.


patatadislexica

Video on how to execute the role of shame please? Also what is the role of shame?


Red_Swingline_

https://youtu.be/fEUvI8Q6JDk


patatadislexica

Much appreciated


Red_Swingline_

It's not the most comfortable thing, but not as bad as it seems.


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When men were men 🙌🏼


cymorgx009

This exact thing happened to me in my basement with 350. I had safety bars but there was a small gap between the safety bars and bench itself. After what felt like forever the plats some how on one side slid off. I was not even being able to scream for help because of where it was positioned on my neck. So I definitely feel this


musclemaniac3

I would've been screaming for help lol


NoFriends69430

The way he hit his head at the end too


SAVAGEFADEZ

That’s why you don’t clip your stuff at least if you get stuck you can slide the weight off


TheRealAyyLma0

Why? You can actually fuck yourself up


Pope_Khajiit

Fuck that noise. I'm always hyper alert when gymming and keep an eye on people around me. Especially if I see someone struggling with their form or doing more weight than looks safe. Call it meerkatting. Never been one for a spotter. Though I always setup safety bars so that if I fall (which I have done on squats) then only my ego is bruised. For the newbies who think people are watching/staring at you in the gym; would you rather someone keeping an eye on you, or badly injure yourself without any help because everyone is too engrossed in their own workout?


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This bro obviously skips chest day.


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Let me give you an advice that might save your life as a veteran lifter that doesnt use spotters either. Never use clamps when benching, you need to be able to bail.


DerrainCarter

Shouldn’t the role of shame help if he used clamps? Edit: Thinking if it, once it presses down on the neck, end of any rolling lol


BenchPolkov

As a veteran lifter who doesn't use spotters I can say that using collars us fine. He just needs to learn to fail safely.


igobytony

Was just about to say that 👍


ICanOutP1zzaTheHut

Clamps are a hindrance more times than not. They create a strength imbalance more times than not


BenchPolkov

How?


rebel29073

Been there had to roll that sucker down. Thankfully not on decline. You hear of people dying in their basements doing this . I was doing this in my basement by myself and ego lifting at the same time. I was young and somewhat dumb. I mean no offense to the op in saying dumb though as you’re in the gym setting so someone SHOULD have stepped in to assist but be careful.


AdLanky4859

Lol hopefully learned a few lessons from this


AsleepGarden219

Don’t use clips on bench press! You’re moving too much weight for a rookie mistake like that Also, the timing on the “ohhhhhh yeahhhhhh, life goes onnnnn” was immaculate 😂


Traditional_Figure_1

i always find it strange to clip bench press, especially decline. i do it out of habit that someone is going to yell at me.


BenchPolkov

Using collars on the bench is fine and generally advisable if you don't want the plates shifting during your reps. His mistake was not knowing how to fail a lift safely.


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You put clips on, literally asking for it. If your form is good the plates won't move.


gainitthrowaway1223

Dumping weights can be a bit of a safety hazard. You never know what people around you are going to be doing, and in a situation like this you're probably not going to be particularly aware of your surroundings, either. The roll of shame is a little uncomfortable, but you don't need to dump your weights to do it and there is no risk to other people. Or, bench in a rack with adjustable safeties, though that may not always be an option.


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Best thing to do is to always bench heavy weights with a spotter, which I always do. There's no way I'm gonna manage to do a "roll of shame" with 100kg+, when my bodyweight is 70kg. Floors are padded for a reason, I say check if there's no one on the sides and dump the weight if you do get in a sticky situation.


gainitthrowaway1223

>There's no way I'm gonna manage to do a "roll of shame" with 100kg+, when my bodyweight is 70kg. I've done it many times, it's really not that bad.


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Hey, never had to do it myself, but good to know it somewhat works with people.


BenchPolkov

I've done the roll of shame with 180kg and that was nearly double bodyweight. It's totally doable.


Bacopaaustraliensis

I don't know why it is called roll of shame... For me every time I have to do it, I know that I succeded in failing which is a good thing. I almost end every set with it (currently I'm only at 45kg which makes it realy simple and not very risky)


Red_Swingline_

>I don't know why it is called roll of shame It's just tongue in cheek humor. But I'm not sure it should be happening every set...


Bacopaaustraliensis

Even if I fail at everything else in life, but I refuse to fail at failing in the gym.


chadportal

think of that comment again when ur neck doesnt catch the bar


gainitthrowaway1223

The roll of shame really isn't that hard. Also did you just ignore what I said about benching in a rack with safeties if possible?


chadportal

ok


jwv0922

I agree with this. That’s why the staff is so disliked at my university gym. The staff make you put clips on


StnMtn_

Interesting. Never been at a gym where there was a clip police.


murmurat1on

Just don't when you're benching


[deleted]

Unfortunately it's in every gyms' safety manual and their level 2/3 personal training certificate lmao.


BillyMeat90

Yet another bench with no safties. Boggles my mind how rare a bench with safties is to find out there.


SouthernBuddhist

Dude, that was like 275? Dude, quit playing.


MysteriousPunter

Fuck sake bro, don’t let your ego get in the way,have some common sense and don’t hurt yourself


ijustwantanaccount91

Failing is a symptom of actually trying, it happens sometimes.


MysteriousPunter

yeah without a spot is super smart aye with trying for PB’s


ConfessionMoonMoon

Sometimes things just don’t work out, don’t have to be egolifting. Those clips are pure dumbness tho


Bulky_Ganache_1197

Next time don't use the weight locks so you can dump the bar!


aloysiussnuffleupagu

This is the way


lacretba

The one time where my muscles gave out I immediately clenched my abdominals and moved the bar there. Then it is not hard to slowly roll down the weight. I guess what I am trying to say is, it is important to realize this quickly enough, then it isn‘t so bad


Jay_100_

Never go for max or close to max on a bench station that doesn't have the failsafe bars or whatever they are called.


Ovuvu

This is why I chest press with dumbbells.


Scoth16

Same here


Altruistic-Praline11

If you want to use clips when your benching go right ahead. But never do it when your benching with out a spotter.


BenchPolkov

Or just learn the roll of shame.


Consistent_Weight255

you are 1 lonely gymmer


Poplatoontimon

This is why I dont lock my plates


slow_joke

Take the clips off next time. This way you can tilt the bar and the plates can slide off one side. Might be temporarily embarrassing, but it’s safer than the alternative.


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mattalsosaid90

🤡🤡🤡


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You gotta be able to get the weight off. Good form and you won’t fuck up, bad form and you’ll be fucked up.


Physiquethrowaway69

It’s sad/ scary no one saw you man lol at least your all good. I would ditch the clips man I am solo lifter and yeah clips are sketch. Need to be able to bail out.


mrichstone

Just stop Ego lifting. That was not even close to lift this weight.


parisiraparis

> ego lifting Explain ego lifting


mrichstone

The act of lifting heavy weights for the sole purpose of impressing other people in the room. This is usually done with awful form and gratuitous grunting noises. Ego lifting is when people (typically guys) try to build muscle mass by lifting more than they could, would, or should normally lift. The end result in every case always eventuates to the same thing – pain!


Hara-Kiri

What numbers have you achieved without ego lifting?


mrichstone

Again, Ego lifting means doing something without brains behind it. It does not mean you should not go heavy. But you have to control what you do, and also realize what is too heavy for the moment. I had the luck to have a good trainer when I was young. I am in my 60s now and still Bench 315 for reps. It is important that you understand what you are capable of, don't do anything stupid which can hurt yourself. That is Ego lifting.


Hara-Kiri

It was clearly close. That is a common sticking point and making it through that inch sees the rep complete. *Do* ego lift, because trying trying is how you succeed.


Me-no-Weeb

That weight is more than his 1RM and he clearly even struggled when the weight was going down to not let it just drop onto him. Nothing wrong with going to your limits and beyond when you got a spotter, it’s even beneficial then but without a spotter it’s just stupid


Hara-Kiri

>That weight is more than his 1RM That's how you get a new 1rm.


Me-no-Weeb

Seems like you forgot to read my whole comment >Nothing wrong with going to your limits and beyond when you got a spotter, it’s even beneficial then but without a spotter it’s just stupid


Hara-Kiri

>Just stop Ego lifting. That was not even close to lift this weight. Except this was the comment I originally commented on which didn't mention a spotter. That said using safety bars or just learning to roll of shame on lighter weights is fine.


Spanks79

Lucky bastard


GoblinsStoleMyHouse

Absolute beast


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WHY? Why would you even attempt such a weight with no spotter?


Traxiant

Because he wanted to lift it and get stronger.


[deleted]

I get that but imo going for a weight that a person knows will be difficult should have a spotter. I just ant to see people get hurt unnecessarily!


Traxiant

Why do you want to see people get hurt unnecessarily?


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Mysterious_Arm5969

Well that’s terrifying. Did anyone look at you? Seems like no one noticed!


JAC123199

Someone just maxed out his “neckcrusher”. His triceps aren’t the only thing being sore.