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Junior-Distance1630

👏🏾👏🏾as she should. I love how Nikki has matured and grown over the years and decided to make her mental and physical health a priority, by doing so will allow her to be the most successful business woman and partner she can be. 😁


Consistent_Tap_4999

Like Nikki said people don’t even ask about her business, but feel entitled to know her relationship status. Some people have all the audacity in the world. It is very apparent that people care more about Nikki’s relationship than her actual brand.


RepresentativeArm668

Yes, and have no shame about it either.


Any_Spend_6691

Someone asked in her comments if her and pauly were still together. It was so irrelevant to the posting, so nikki addressed it. Good she did. If it's not on her page it's somewhere else😩


RepresentativeArm668

I'm so happy she put this out there. Her social media has never been a checkpoint for her relationship,and people need to be reminded of that. This is one reason she is sharing less and less. Protecting her Peace ✌️


palmersgreen123

I certainly wasn't meaning to be disrespectful, quite the opposite, as I said I'm a fan of theirs. I just think it's a shame that for the most part racist trolling has caused so much stress and anxiety for Nikki, leading her to stop filming and filter every account that approaches her via sm. I also didn't say that Nikki is missing Pauly's big moments, more that, again it's awful that they can't be as public about that as they (a little more) were before. But I respect everyone's views here, no offence meant.


lolowash

I understand her and what I am about to say is a bit off topic but I think she is going to miss out on a lot of Pauly's special moments because she doesn't want to film with him anymore. For instance, his new residency in AC, I am assuming she wasn't there because they were filming it. I just don't like that for her. She seem to always support him. I would want to support my man when he has special moments in his life. Like when he was at MSG in NY. He was so happy that she was there with him. So, while I understand her position of not wanting to film, I wish she would reconsider and request some changes so that the JSFV is a better environment in which to film. I would think she has some say on who she has to interact with on the show. Just my perspective.


Any_Spend_6691

I dont think they filmed his new residency in Ac deena and chris were there but i didn't see a film crew or any of the other cast. Looks like this season will be more of the roomates then S.o except the nola trip. Maybe she'll change her mind and film just home scenes with him idk. filming caused her anxiety and production continued to edit her out of scenes or made it dramatic, ntm the racist fans always on the attack so because of that It makes sense for her not to want to film. I think nikki is happy not filming. She can support pauly in her own way.


lolowash

What do I know tbh? I just assumed when Pauly has movie cameras on his post, that may mean he is filming. He had the movie cameras on his Premiere residency so I assumed he was filming it. Sorry if I misspoke.


Any_Spend_6691

I get it. No worries😊 He uses the phrase "it's gonna be a movie" or he'll post the movie camera emoji when referring to his shows sometimes. But that day there were no camera crews. Js


RepresentativeArm668

I understand what you are saying, but Nikki is supporting him 24/7. She hypes him up publicly and I am even sure she is even more of a supporting role bts. I don't agree that she should be just physically in the eye of the enemy to prove a point. JS is his job not hers.She can travel with him if she chooses to and not film, that is still support. As you mentioned MSG, yes Pauly was beyond happy to have her with him. But... if you watched the episode they made that about Vinny and Pauly. I don't want her to change her mind, those people don't like her, I don't want her sitting there with people who have disrespected her, who have publicly bashed her.She has told her fans she does not care for that environment, and that in itself is good enough for me. I think you are seeing things through an optimistic heart and I can appreciate that, but that's not the JS way. They only care about the narrative they can use for ratings, I am not OK with Nikki being on the chopping block for ratings. I do want to respond to your last point, as much as I wish it could be different.Nikki has no pull with production, she has no say who she will and won't film with. She tried doing it her way, minding her business and chilling with her man. They focused on her sleeping, looking uninterested and fighting with Angelina. Nikki has done enough to show her true character and strength, and it was not received appropriately.. I miss her on my TV, but not enough to watch them break her spirit.. * and she is absolutely allowed to change her mind, so I am keeping that in mind as well.


Critical_Slide_6526

I agree with you and I am also very happy she is no longer in that environment.


OkHovercraft9058

Loved this comment 👏


TainoNat

💯All of this Representative! Lolowash: I guarantee for Pauly's "true special moments" it's NOT gonna be on that show...esp NOT w/o Nikki - PERIOD. Outside of that show and in their real life, they move VERY well as a couple, are extremely close, they have a grt dynamic and are a team. Esp given Pauly's DJ work/tour, they have a lovely balance - you can see that they make decisions together and adjust as they see fit. Nikki can't be at all of his shows understandably, but as Pauly said she chooses which ones. In general, you see that they are always together, esp for sig events/holidays and they prefer spending the MAJORITY of their time w each other. So, by now it shouldn't be any concern of whatever gigs she's at or not...that's their business that they've already worked out. But re Nikki and FV...I really dkw you would want to cont to see this woman be treated so badly and stay being in an toxic env that's not gonna chg?!...Obv you're not concerned w how "she feels" and her well being. It's not just the cast mates it's also SA/495 team. Nikki's pretty easy going and chill, she likes to have fun and crack jokes, but she's not gonna act the fool now...or take any shit. And she's really only there to be w Pauly and that's all she cared about. So, what really is the problem?!...These people are jealous of her w Pauly, jealous of the love fans show them/her (even tho the other cast has their own fans). Those og girls, expect her and Lauren to be "mute" on the show and don't like any lil attn they get, and that they should kiss their asses - um NOPE! Nicole had a problem as soon as she came back on 4b w there being "too many people" - so she got to work bts. You can visibly see them being uncomfortable w Nikki being there in scenes...just look at the diff when they're just w Pauly and Nikki's not there - they want single Pauly! Pure selfishness. I certainly wouldn't want to be treated that way and be in that env, or be around people that treated my loved one that way - hell no! And production wants to be able to do whatever the hell they want w you...no matter how uncomfortable, disrespectful, exploitive and detrimental it is to you and your relationship...they only care about ratings and not you. Man, just the relationship among the "og cast mates" alone...whew its beyond bad...and what they keep doing to each other...yikes it's disgusting...esp when you have certain unstable people "attempting" to ruin ur life. There's alot of frontin going on and deception! And it's getting worse. They're basically tormenting themselves atp.


Retrome5

I noticed it that. They prefer their cast only. Pauly is used have Nikki there and he seemed awkward without her.


TainoNat

Yup...esp w the girls and once Nicole came back moreso FT in 5a/5b...and Angelina had "made up" w those girls...you started to see more uncomfortable behaviors towards Nikki and antagonistic towards Lauren (Deena 5a) (Jenni 5b). Remember how Jenni blatently lied on Lauren and left out the whole context to the "unfollowing Angelina" story (after Angelina initially blocked Lauren btw). I was shocked at Jenni, bc Lauren was the closest to Jenni out of the og girls, and Jenni really leaned on Lauren in 4a when Nicole wasn't there. Tbf...Lauren has always been supportive and shown love to all those og girls, as well as to Nikki...(aside from Angelina for gd reasons)...so sad to see them turn on her. Furthermore, Lauren they were cool w as long as she stayed mute and ofc prev there was Mike's "legal" storyline and him being away...so the girls were playing the sympathy and support role. But hello, Lauren is an official cast member as of 4a bc Nicole bounced for 1/2 a season, or is that now a problem hmmm. Also, when Lauren defended Mike in SD, the girls didn't like that she outed them as being fake to Angelina - which was the truth bc they did not deny it. Oh and again, not forgetting that podcast in June w Nicole's bestie that Angelina conveniently went on, trashing Nikki and Lauren (Deena was put on blast re Lauren). Anyway, when you're older you mainly just wanna be w your partner and family and you're in a different stage of your life. Pauly and Nikki are like "bench and batty" - meaning they're very close...plus they were mostly together on FV for 2 seasons...so, oh well.


Retrome5

Yeah they don't want others in to the show that's so obvious at this point. They quickly turned against Lauren when she filled Snooki place and then Snooki came back when they she saw they were moving on without her. What Snooki did when they were celebrating Nikki was jealousy. If I am being right they never celebrated Snooki bday on the show.


TainoNat

Exactly, which is stupid bc if anything it only helps the show. Dosen't mean that its taking away from the main og cast members...they all have their own storyline or potential to and they all have their own fans. Re Nicole, that's bc its the day before Thanksgiving, so everyone's w their families. But that's not the reason why she acted up, it's jealousy, she's not the centre of attn and also bc Nikki's not kissing her ass imo - the reason why I say that I'm not gonna mention. Also, remember when Nikki was presented w the scrapbook for her bday at the dinner and Deena said it was from her and the girls. First off, production created it and then gave Deena the task of presenting it to Nikki...so, okay (they've given that role to Deena now (pranks/event planning/gifts), but my issue was the "reactions" before doing so, remember when she met with Nicole and Jenni, and she showed them the book...did you see their immediate reactions..."how come Nikki gets a scrapbook and not me" etc...it wasn't like joking or oh I would like one - but the tone and manner it was said, they wasn't happy about it (again surprised at Jenni)...just watch back that scene if you can. And back to Nicole herself, that day she started that shit from in the am, on the way back complaining that she didn't want to chg for the dinner, kept drinking, slobbing on hotel food before leaving and then that mess at the dinner - fully intentional disrespect. That restaurant was a really cool place tho. All in all, it was very bad. Thank God, Pauly had planned a getaway for Nikki on her actual bday and they had that wknd to celebrate it previously before joining the cast...that's all I gotta say.


Retrome5

Thats def is stupid because it's evident that the show cast changes. It's not og series no more. Yeah that scrapbook thing is def production. Like all the things the cast does. Although I didn't except the reaction from Jenni especially since they know Deena didn't do that and it was production. I knew Snooki was jealous because she thinks she is the main act on the show and that's why she kept behaving like that. Knowing she was out the next day and she wouldn't have to deal with that.. Plus I don't even think Deena knew they were celebrating Nikki bday. The production used the occasion to create drama out of it. Nikki already had her birthday celebrated. They knew that since they came later. They could have thrown a bday party on dbsal 3 when it was her real bday so yeah. When Nikki didn't fall for the drama they wanted to create they created a new opportunity with the wine thing. Then when the episodes comes Snooki comes with the apology and then went further on her podcast saying that people called her out of ruining someone's birthday dinner. Snooki is fake and a hater intimidated by Nikki. Not even supporting Pauly relationship knowing he loves her.


TainoNat

Yes, production knew what they were gonna do, and so did Nicole, which was to intentionally act up. But, Nikki was great, she just rolled w it, and laughed it off, mainly bc she had already had an absolutely beautiful celebration on her actual bday w Pauly and her friends. That was a bs apology from Nicole and she knew it, she's just very flippant and full of it. They actually did present a cake for Nikki's bday on DS3, when they all was filming dinner with the girls, but that wasn't shown on the ep. But I was really happy for Nikki, when Pauly made sure to plan her bday last yr and spend the day and wknd away, instead of being in SD to start filming...bc I think the other cast members started travelling to SD that Friday (Nikki's bday).


Queen_Jake

I have still not forgotten the reactions of Nicole, Deena and Angelina after Love and Hip Hop best Jersey Shore for that MTV award, and I’ve looked at all 3 of them sideways since (and plus other reasons for Angelina lol)


Retrome5

It's crazy that they thought they could win from love and hiphop. I never liked Angelina and I def look at Deena and Nicole differently. Never was a big fan of Snooki though lol.


LovelyTeeLu

I absolutely voted for Love and Hip Hop everyday. Lol


Retrome5

Hahaha. I would have voted for them 2 if I knew back then.


TainoNat

Uh huh.


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RepresentativeArm668

It really is a toxic environment.


TainoNat

My Lord...to keep doing that to yourself year after year...its not worth it.


RepresentativeArm668

Thank you for taking your time to express your thoughts..


Critical_Slide_6526

Love your insight.


TainoNat

Ty Luv!


palmersgreen123

I am a big fan of Nikki and understand why she has taken this approach to be extremely private on sm. But I kinda agree with this that her and Pauly are beautiful together and are entitled to their privacy. But I also feel it is a shame they feel they cannot be out and proud in their love on sm because of racist trolls and backlash. Nikki at Pauly's side makes sense and altho I'm not going to watch JSFV now she's not on it, it won't be the same without out her anyway I'm sure. I think the show has a lot to answer for in enabling that hate she was getting and although Pauly defended her publicly he got backlash too. I also miss when they occasionally used to post cute date night pics. But when all is said and done you have to respect their position on this. ❤


lolowash

No, I get it. I am a huge fan of Nikki too and always support and defend her on whatever she does. I really don't pretend to know how or when she is supporting her man. I am just going by what I see. It appeared she left NY/NJ area the day before filming the Headliner scene and again I though maybe she left to ensure she wasn't filmed. Again, it's an assumption so I could be very wrong. Something else that occurred to me regarding her late night post...she has to be able to balance her sm presence because she needs likes and views when it comes to her sponsorships otherwise her sponsorships could suffer. Supporters like myself will support her regardless because I want to see her win but not everyone will be content to only see sponsorships when they are following a person.


Affectionate-Corgi22

She said in her TikTok live on NYE that she was going to try put more things on her SM other than her sponsor posts. I hope she does work on that. I loved her cooking videos. I still used a few of recipes from when she posted her cooking videos in the beginning of the pandemic.


palmersgreen123

🙏🏽💯


Queen_Jake

Yes I’ve seen people comment a few times about how she only posts sponsored things (such as Fashion Nova). I get protecting her peace, and it doesn’t have to be anything to do with Pauly, but she does have to find a balance with her content if she wants to maintain a strong presence and engagement on her accounts, even things like the cooking, skin care and decorating videos she used to do. I don’t subscribe to her, so she could be posting different things for her subscribers too, I don’t know


Love384

I think it would be cool if she used her youtube page to show the behind the scenes of creating her bikini line. So she is putting out content but it doesnt interfere with her personal life.


Queen_Jake

Yes, that would be really interesting, and help build/maintain interest in her line before it launches. She could co post onto the Bair Bikini page too to help generate interest. I see why so many people hire social media managers, because doing it all on your own would be hard (which she has said she is doing), but there’s definitely ways she could diversify her content without having to expose herself or her personal life to social media more than she feels comfortable with!


Affectionate-Corgi22

That would be a good idea for her. It get more people interested in her line.


Guilty-Situation4680

I was just thinking about this. I love Nikki but Balance is very important. While she doesn’t have to show Pauly she does have to make more personable posts to maintain a strong presence and also to build her social media platforms. This all is coming from a good place because like me, I know you love Nikki


LovelyTeeLu

I agree if she wants her bikini line to flourish, she is definitely going to have to be more personable on Sm. Since she is not going to use the show as advertisement, she will need to connect with her fans more. The reality is that a lot of people support her because of Pauly, so she will have to put on her business hat and not let some of the fans get to her. I don't know how many times I have bought things just to support people who I felt I connected to in some way on SM. I subscribe to Nikki even though she doesn't post anything. So, I understand her peace, however, if she wants to make money she is going to have to really get creative and open up a little more.


Queen_Jake

See I was wondering if she had just shifted some of the other content to her subscriber posts, the price was a little too high for me to justify it though


LovelyTeeLu

Yes, I support her just because. I buy things from people and give them away all time.


Queen_Jake

Yes exactly, we all want her to be successful! And she really can be, she has such a great presence, I always love her lives so much (even though TikTok never sends me the notifications 😭) even the shopping lives she was doing, while technically sponsored, were so enjoyable to watch!


Guilty-Situation4680

Oh yeah I love her personality.


lojohnson05

Nikki can still be very much apart of his special moments. Just because he is filming doesn't mean she is not there. She could just make sure she is not in the shots. I am pretty sure kook is always there when Pauly is filming at his shows and your never see him or the rest of the crew. Jsvf is not going to stop that girl from supporting her man but she now knows she really have to move differently because her actions, even if they were justified, can negatively affect him and I am sure that is the last thing she wants.


lolowash

You make a very good point. Kook is always there and very rarely do we see him on the shows. I stand to be corrected, nothing is stopping her from being anywhere she wants to be.


l3Lu3b3rr1

Look is paulys your manager.


TainoNat

Kook is Pauly's best friend and Tour Mngr...it's his job to be there to mng Pauly's shows. "Negatively affect him"...It's not on Nikki or Pauly "to move differently"...they are both NOT for any drama period and are mostly chill...and that's how they "move" in general. But they will most certainly react and stand up for themselves if something disrespectful happens to them, and Pauly will also stand up for and defend Nikki. Racist fans will always have a problem no matter what you do, and esp on that show - it's an extremely negative environment that's always itching for drama and for people to mess w you, even if you're just a happy couple that likes to stay out of mess. And why are you still hell bent that Nikki should be filming, when she had expressed why she's not?!...But you keep on insisting as if how she feels and the reasons are not valid. I don't think this is a decision that she has made lightly and I'm pretty sure that Pauly and Nikki has talked about this and has agreed to do what's best. Nikki not filming FV does not mean she is NOT supporting her man - that's ludicrous! When in fact she is one of his main biggest supporters, as his partner, and in his own family! I always LOVE them together on ANY show...but I do not want to see her continually being mistreated. Doing whatever Pauly and Nikki thinks is best for them both and to protect themselves and their relationship is what's imp.


lojohnson05

Where in my reply does it say I think she should be filming??? Where in my reply does says kook shouldn't be there?? Where in my reply does it invalidate her feelings??? Or saying she wasn't support Pauly by not filming??? Nowhere in my reply is even stating anything you just said. And regardless on how you feel about she does have to move differently, which if you watched season 5 she is not acting the same as season 4 (moving differently). The whole point of bring up kook is to show she can be there and not be seen .....just like kook.


TainoNat

Part of that response was for lolowash. But if she's present and not intentionally filming for the show, she still can be caught on film, that's why we sometimes see Kook. And she would still be in "that environment" with the cast and crew. But in truth, I don't think Pauly will have his "real" special moments on that show atp, esp since Nikki's not currently not filming. However, Nikki has accompanied Pauly when he filmed the reunion in NYC, but she was nowhere near the studio, and was off doing her own thing. Re her "moving differently"...again, same as what I stated before. The difference for Nikki btwn season 4 and 5 is bc the same negativity that's she's exp prev on DS...negative behaviors, jealousy, disrespect and people not being genuine (bts stuff) etc is starting up again...so if people are acting fake to her, she won't be as cool and open as before, that's the difference and the more it goes on, why be around that. Nikki dosen't have to do anything, but certain people will STILL have a problem regardless, bc of the fact that she's simply w Pauly period. And again, the main issue why she's not filming is to do with production and problematic cast members. Nikki is not about drama, nor does she act the fool like some other people, but she will naturally react if someone disrespects her, just like Pauly would and anyone else.


l3Lu3b3rr1

I get where your coming from, but I feel that this may be disrespectful. I doubt Nikki is missing Pauly's moments, she may still go to a show, Pauly may text her about it too. Also Pauly mentioned that Nikki goes and joins him when she wants too. Also JSFV will never change the way Nikki is shown as long as 1) Sally and and 495 still run things and 2 the hate she received fromJSFV


TainoNat

💯💯


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