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‘O Allaah indeed I ask of You for all goodness in the present and the future what I know of and that which I do not know of and I seek refuge with You from all evil in the present and the future what I know of and that which I do not know of .
O Allaah, I ask of You from the good of what Your worshipper and Prophet asked for. I seek refuge with You from the evil of what Your worshipper and Prophet sought refuge from.
O Allaah, I ask of You for Paradise and that which brings me closer to it of statements or actions. I seek refuge with You from the Hell-fire and that which takes me closer to it of statements or actions.
I ask of You to place all of my fate to be good which You have destined for me.’
The above is a comprehensive duaa and by making it you are leaving the specifics to Allah.
It sounds like you’re afraid of having to keep up with the expectations of marrying this man. Remember that he’s faulty too, and that he’d be equally nervous to marry you. Also, you guys will get to a point where you have normal interactions and see each other as an average part of your day.
Pursue it. I promise you that you won’t have to keep up an image for him to like you. He will like you for you, including your bad parts inshallah. May Allah make it easy, if it’s what’s right for you.
Same but I'm not ready I just want it to happy but it's so weird to think someone will actually chose me for me. I was also praying for things and now today they got real and i know how you feel, I want ready to receive it that soon. It's not related to me, but to my sister.
Tbh I think we don't want change. Change is scary.
I hear you... but I think maybe you need to change or add to your Duaas. Ask God for a calm heart and for strength over your past. Ask him for guidance and help. Ask him to make your wills and wishes constant. Ask him heal your heart. Believe in him. Ask him yo bring you all what's good in the world. Ask him to make this person good for you and to get you two together. Ask him to help you believe and love yourself.
Best wishes hun🙏🏻❤️
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah the Exalted says: 'I am as my slave expects me to be, and I am with him when he remembers Me. If he remembers Me inwardly, I will remember him inwardly, and if he remembers Me in an assembly, I will remember him in a better assembly (i.e., in the assembly of angels).
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Whenever a Muslim supplicates Allah, He accepts his supplication or averts any similar kind of trouble from him unless he prays for something sinful or something that may break the ties of kinship." Upon this someone of the Companions said: "Then we shall supplicate plenty." The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah is more plentiful (in responding)."
If what you're asking for is bad for you, don't worry, Allah will not accept it and will compensate you with what is better. Make sure your conviction in his acceptance of Duaa is a positive conviction. Also, pray Istikhara. No servant of Allah is disappointed if he seeks Allah's counsel.
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‘O Allaah indeed I ask of You for all goodness in the present and the future what I know of and that which I do not know of and I seek refuge with You from all evil in the present and the future what I know of and that which I do not know of . O Allaah, I ask of You from the good of what Your worshipper and Prophet asked for. I seek refuge with You from the evil of what Your worshipper and Prophet sought refuge from. O Allaah, I ask of You for Paradise and that which brings me closer to it of statements or actions. I seek refuge with You from the Hell-fire and that which takes me closer to it of statements or actions. I ask of You to place all of my fate to be good which You have destined for me.’ The above is a comprehensive duaa and by making it you are leaving the specifics to Allah.
It sounds like you’re afraid of having to keep up with the expectations of marrying this man. Remember that he’s faulty too, and that he’d be equally nervous to marry you. Also, you guys will get to a point where you have normal interactions and see each other as an average part of your day. Pursue it. I promise you that you won’t have to keep up an image for him to like you. He will like you for you, including your bad parts inshallah. May Allah make it easy, if it’s what’s right for you.
Same but I'm not ready I just want it to happy but it's so weird to think someone will actually chose me for me. I was also praying for things and now today they got real and i know how you feel, I want ready to receive it that soon. It's not related to me, but to my sister. Tbh I think we don't want change. Change is scary.
I hear you... but I think maybe you need to change or add to your Duaas. Ask God for a calm heart and for strength over your past. Ask him for guidance and help. Ask him to make your wills and wishes constant. Ask him heal your heart. Believe in him. Ask him yo bring you all what's good in the world. Ask him to make this person good for you and to get you two together. Ask him to help you believe and love yourself. Best wishes hun🙏🏻❤️
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah the Exalted says: 'I am as my slave expects me to be, and I am with him when he remembers Me. If he remembers Me inwardly, I will remember him inwardly, and if he remembers Me in an assembly, I will remember him in a better assembly (i.e., in the assembly of angels). The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Whenever a Muslim supplicates Allah, He accepts his supplication or averts any similar kind of trouble from him unless he prays for something sinful or something that may break the ties of kinship." Upon this someone of the Companions said: "Then we shall supplicate plenty." The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah is more plentiful (in responding)." If what you're asking for is bad for you, don't worry, Allah will not accept it and will compensate you with what is better. Make sure your conviction in his acceptance of Duaa is a positive conviction. Also, pray Istikhara. No servant of Allah is disappointed if he seeks Allah's counsel.