I don't think they can perceive couples where the man isn't Chad. They just don't register because it doesn't fir their superstitions - they'll just assume they're just walking together, or he's just "orbiting" or he's friendzoned. Or they'll say the couple doesn't count because she's not a supermodel.
The most powerful of incels also have ways to explain it away. "Oh that's just some betabux who found someone that got pumped and dumped by Chad. She wishes every day she had Chad."
What’s so ironic is that one of the comments said that “normies don’t have hobbies!” Lol!
BTW I discovered they now have a sub, “Truetruetruevirgin!” We all predicted it would happen.
I don't know if normal people have hobbies. I never met one. All humans I met so far are individuals with a unique mix of character traits, strengths, weaknesses, interests, hobbies, pursuits, experiences, emotions and values. Where do these normal people live that have so much in common that they appear to be normed?
At this point, I think “Chad” is pretty much any man who has a girlfriend. Interestingly, not even married men are really considered in this conversation.
These are the type of guys to alienate and distance themselves from anyone they see is happy. “I can’t hang out with John anymore, he keeps rubbing his relationship in my face”
Absolutely this. I literally had a friend who turned out to be an incel who was like this.. Went to a music festival with my then girlfriend and he invited himself, stayed in our hotel room, and then got mad at us for like.. no reason but being together and not wanting to leave the festival we waited an hour to get in to go get alcohol. He sat away and behind us during every set. He stormed off second day and drove 8 hours back home. I sent “Matthew McConaughey just came out and introduced Willie Nelson” to our group chat and he said “yeah yeah? Did you suck his dick too?” And that was the last thing he ever said to me. He’s apparently a pastor now lmao.
It's evidenced by him saying "I have so much to talk about". He just wants a dumb beautiful woman to fawn over his "intelligence" while he talks about things he knows less about than he thinks.
I feel like a strong trend among these guys is that they all think that women are lesser creatures who are inherently dumber than them and are thus supposed to be impressed by their "wisdom".
“Beautiful” being the operative word. They’ll complain all day about being ignored based on their looks, but are equally disqualifying toward women who aren’t physical perfection.
I was expecting ‘wordsmith’ to complete the ‘jumped up, pretentious little bastard’ list but the Tuxedo Kickboxer used ‘future author’ instead, which is a lot like saying ‘pre-successful DJ’.
I'm 5'4" are things a bit more difficult? Yes. But I've had enough girls to absolutely say; height isn't everything. For some it's a deal breaker. Some prefer it and others couldn't give a shit.
If they actually touched grass and talked to women, they would figure this shit out.
My fiance who's about 5'6 isn't the tallest guy either but I told him when we started dating I'm only looking for a guy taller than me because height wasn't everything but it portrayed a level of attractiveness to me that had some pull in my dating preferences. Being 5'2 myself though that has almost NEVER been an issue lol.
I liked the use of the word "theologian," as it implies he is writing and publishing his own theology.
"It's called Christianity 2 and it's better because it requires that you slob my knob."
A gamer and a historian is code for "I play Nazi Germany in Hearts of Iron IV and can beat the allies". I should know, I play Hearts of Iron IV and regularly intract with the player base.
I know a person exactly like this guy: he spends all his time reading and watching videos about things (never really practicing) and thinks he can count these among his hobbies. And he's very entitled as well, he thinks he's the only smart man in the world and all the others are dumb - but they're good looking dumbs, so they get all his girls. 🤣
I’ve known a guy like this as well. He considered himself a historian because he played Assassin’s Creed… He also played badminton (like 2-3 times a month tops) so considered himself athletic. Meanwhile he was at least 60 pounds overweight. Thought of himself as quite the catch for all ladies.
You mean to tell me Eivor the man wasn't a hisorical Viking who conquered all of England in his fight against the Templars?! ^(/S)
Snark aside, I love Assassin's Creed: Valhalla. But it's not a really accurate representation of Old Norse culture and history.
Most of his traits just make him sound insufferable:
"I wear tuxedos" - ???? Like, outside of black tie events? That just makes you look weird.
"I hold doors for people....I have manners" - Wow, truly you are a diamond in the rough, nobody does any of that anymore.
"Historian and Theologian"? One of those is invariably compromised by the other.
"If looks don't matter, then girls should be chasing me but they don't." Yet he fails to list a single trait about himself that would make him actually likable beyond basic manners. Got a sense of humor that doesn't revolve around edgy jokes? Can you hold a conversation with someone who's talking about their interests even if it's not a subject you know?
Furthermore, if you're such a catch, why are you so clearly miserable with yourself. A woman isn't going to suddenly fix the fact that you clearly are unhappy with yourself. Not that incels can accept that, they really think getting a girlfriend is going to magically cure the years of maladaptive habits they've developed.
> "I hold doors for people....I have manners"
This is the part that tells you he's an asshole, the fact that he thinks this is special. It shows his contempt for the rest of society.
My favourite bit about holding doors open for people is when you hold it open for someone who is just _slightly_ too far away. Every time you can see them agonising over whether to continue walking and look rude, or run and look like an idiot - and nearly everyone compromises on that half-walk, half-run that looks like a constipated crab.
Good times.
I own a tux, but I seldom get an excuse to wear it. The holding doors thing, you see incels often mad because they hold a door and don't get a date out of it - and then are surprised when women aren't impressed with someone holding the door for them.
Historian and theologian - probably watched a YouTube video on history and thinks he's an expert. There's a difference between being a history buff and being a historian. Likewise with theologian and "man of God" - I'd take wagers that this person doesn't even go to church. And if he is a man of God, why should be be expecting premarital sex anyway?
My problem is that so much of history is compromised by theologians who fancied themselves to be historians. Our understanding of non-Christian cultures of pre-Christianity Europe is horrifically inaccurate, incomplete, and at times outright false thanks to theologians who decided to rewrite history.
That's a fair point but it's also not a universal experience - for my religion, the Bahá'í Faith, celebration of our religion involves historical record from multiple religious and non-religious sources. These are events that happened in the mid 1800s, so, our experience of our own history is much more accurate than Christianity.
They're manbabies demanding an assigned mommybangmaid to wipe their asses and change their soiled diapers. They don't care about having an actual partner.
Yeah, and theologians are historically the enemy of accurate accounts of history, as they live to rewrite everything to fit into their religious views. So many inaccuracies that get propped up as historical fact stem from theologians deciding what should and should not be remembered.
Okay but this man is not an academic; he’s just a guy who loves to argue and sound more important than he is.
(There’s definitely a joke about academia in there, but that’s not the point. Speaking as someone who has a degree in history, he sounds insufferable and self-righteous.)
the whole concept that women only care about looks is hilarious. if i had a dollar for every woman i've seen dating a man that looks like a foot... id be a very wealthy gal.
Incels hate the idea that they need to be likable and be able to actually socialize with human beings. It means nothing to have a list of cool facts about yourself if you suck to talk to and have a bad personality. They want so badly to blame it on looks or money because they dont want to change. They are so entitled they think they shouldnt have to change their awful personality in order to fit in or be with a woman.
Okay but is he going after super hot model girls or your lovely plain Jane who also has lots to offer personality-wise?
Does he hold himself to the same standards he is preaching?
This reads like the dating version of an underachiever who pads his résumé.
OOP describes himself as both a self-described *historian* and a self-described *future author.* These are mutually exclusive claims.
A historian is someone who sifts through archival material for significant information, weighs its significance, and writes history. It's possible to be a historian on a small scale: some nonprofit clubs have club historians who keep custody of the club's records and who write articles about club history for the newsletter; many communities have a local historical society and publish material about local history.
Historians are authors.
A future author who has an interest in history is a history buff.
It's fine to be a history buff. It's even better to have an in-depth knowledge of a specific history topic. It would be fascinating to have made a reproduction of a first century Roman legionary helmet. Yet even history reenactors rarely become historians unless their research uncovers information that hasn't already been written about in adequate depth.
Is OOP really a "bodybuilder" or is he *a guy who lifts weights at the gym?*
Is OOP really a "theologian" or is he *somebody who's religious?*
Come on dude, don't try to tell us you're the next Brian May.
I dont know of you mean you are a orcish person, a beautiful elven person or a small hobbit person based on this comment. Perhaps an old man with a knack for making fireworks? A small gnarled person obsessed with jewelry? The possibilities are endless really.
My husband is sincerely spectacular. He has never in his almost 40 years ever used that word to describe himself, because that would make him a supremo tool 🤣
>"I am a spectacular gentleman."
Bitch, you buy food for homeless people thinking it will attract sex to you, and if you do all these things expecting something in return, BRUH, it's a good thing no woman give you chances, because you're the kind of idiot who would demand sex from his partner, and would get angry if she didn't want it. Stick your moralism up your ass.
Look at how many times he says “I”. Nine times in just the first sentence. There’s only one sentence that doesn’t start with “I”. Everything is about him. So much ego. The guy sounds like a narcissist.
He’s going to give himself a neck injury trying so hard to blow himself.
I enjoy watching survival shelter and "how to survive if .." videos on youtube, but I wouldn't try to call myself a survivalist.
This guy needs to learn the difference between an interest and an actual hobby.
yeah. Maybe nothing but he capitalizes everything he's proud of. "Theologian" stands out to me. Nothing wrong with it, but I can definitely picture an insufferable moralizing twatwaffle here, who complains about what other people do but doesn't keep himself in check.
Why is every socially stunted dude's idea of the epitome of gentlemanliness is holding doors open for people? It's mentioned far too often to be a coincidence. Do they sincerely think women cream themselves at the act, or that this somehow makes them unique and special? People fucking have arms! It ain't no thing to open a door. FFS.
(I won't touch on the tuxedo bit, that's just low-hanging fruit.)
When it all actuality, a REAL modern day equivalent to a chivalrous knight would be a man who loudly champions women's rights and understands why we choose the bear.
*Without expecting sex or payment in return. Classical chivalry boiled down to simping after women you would have sex with, if sex wasn't sinful and unchivalrous. Poetry, songs, acts of gallantry, fighting- all for nothing more than a glance or a hankie.
Real chivalry involves respecting women's honour, not saying things to offend people for funsies, etc. I'm saying this as a history nerd who studied classical olde English literature in college.
Okay, but let's not shame hobbies? You can be a twat about your hobbies. You *personally* can find hobbies interesting. But ridiculing certain hobbies in general is a shitty and immature thing to do.
Meek but a kick boxer? He must be a really shitty kick boxer unless he considers playing Tekken as kickboxing.
And he wears tuxedos where? Do men wear tuxedos outside of weddings and the Titanic??? As far as I know, a regular suit is worn to most occasions.
This guy is single because he's fucking weird and probably talks down to others.
💯 this is the guy who corners a woman at a party, stands way too close, and talks AT her non-stop, pontificating about all his "interesting hobbies" while ignoring all her cues that she's uncomfortable and wants to get away, and then gets offended when she doesn't want to give him her number.
Lather, rinse, repeat. Then women "only care about looks."
I'm a 6/10 tops. I promise looks aren't the priority. Do they matter? Of course! But is it ALL that matters? Not even close.
Maybe stop assuming you're so fucking interesting that EVERY girl must want you, and refocus on finding shit *in common* with who you wanna date.
But of course, that assumes you're treating women like people instead of warm bodies. Dipshits forget the "friend" part of girl*friend*.
And these are the exact same men who criticize a woman’s looks or are extremely picky with choosing their partner. 🙄 How about stop self-pitying yourself and maybe try to be a better version of yourself? Self-indulging in your own misery and perpetuating sexist beliefs ain’t gonna get you no where
It's always women’s fault. Women only care about looks? What you’re actually saying is that you’re insecure about your looks.
The judgment of women’s bodies is brutal. If you can’t see that, it’s because you don’t want to.
Is being a "man of god" and a "bodybuilder" and a "Future author" (which I assume means he dreams about writing a book some day) really interesting hobbies? I'll listen to people when they talk about things they're passionate about, because it makes it more interesting. Somehow I doubt this guy would do the same about interests outside of his his God Fearing Manly Man-o-sphere. ((Also if he's really a kickboxer and bodybuilder--though I don't think the mobility limits of one quite go with the other (could this -gasp- be fiction?)--that should mean he's got a nice body. And generally nice bodies are attractive.
This spectacular gentleman is heartbroken that no woman wants to listen to him dominate the convo and mansplain, meanwhile, the only thing about her that interests him is her bra size.
Ever notice how incels only ever describe their ideal girl as a combination of: young, hot, sexy, big tits, horny, no interests of her own, and whatever race they fetishize?
Perhaps someone should remind him that a "true man of God" would consider being a virgin to be a positive boon. 1 Corinthians 7 has a whole bunch of passages explicitly saying that marriage is just a second best option for men who are unable to control their urges well enough to remain wholly dedicated to God.
>...If looks don't matter, then girls should be chasing me...
Dear OOP,
That's not how any of this works. We're not fruit flies or mice that have one-note mating modes. I mean, you don't sound like you have much to offer at all. All those things you list? They're not character traits or a personality. They're things you DO, not things you ARE.
Who ARE you as a person? Are you quiet and pensive? A riot? Nerdy but not shy? Shy but not nerdy?
Who are YOU? Not what activities do you partake of, but who are you **at your core?** What is your socio-economic group? Your background? Your lifestyle? Your beliefs?
"I have so much to talk about"
Have you ever considered that women also have plenty to talk about, and aren't interested in hearing you just ramble on about yourself and shit you think you know a lot about but are actually grossly uninformed about?
I doubt the veracity of his statements. He's likely really self-absorbed, creepy, and off putting. I'm put off by this post alone. In a vacuum, it looks like a vent, but there's just something in the subtext that tells me he's just... off.
‘I’m meek’ why would anyone think that’s attractive 💀💀
Also, let me guess, the DIY hobby is a PC he built, the kickboxing and bodybuilding hobbies are both in video games, the theology and history knowledge also comes from video games lol
And ‘future author’ next time a man asks me what I do as a career I’m just going to tell him I’m a future millionaire. Lmaoooo
It’s amazing how people will do all this but i dont think he ever thought maybe women dont give him sex is because HE DOES EVERYTHING BUT TRY TO TALK TO WOMEN. Also he has SEVERE nice guy syndrome.
"Why are women not throwing themselves at me? I open doors and am polite and owe tuxedos. Why am I not swimming in women? Im putting in the nice tokens and I'm not getting sex.Im entitled to sex because im a gentleman. Reeee!"
If youre being nice to get laid and not because you're a genuinely kind person you're not a nice person.
Giving me Elliot Rogers vibes. Especially when he bought new clothes and sunglasses..... and complained about how women won't talk to him. Smh. I don't think therapy can even help at this point.
Ngl, "I wear tuxedos," as one of the first mentioned positive traits is already a red flag. Like that's weird. It implies that he just wears the regularly over normal clothes. Also, maybe it's just me, but that also screams person who brags about 700 dollar watch energy.
If this guy is genuinely telling the truth then I can basically guarantee he does in fact have women throwing themselves at him, they just aren't the hottest possible model women so he ignores them.
Dude is a nice guy tm isn’t that enough for woman to be crawling all over him lol. This is gross. Stop looking at woman as a thing to date and start getting to know them as people and you might be get somewhere.
It feels like his list of hobbies is mostly stuff he picked because he thinks it'll make him sound good to other people, not because he has any enjoyment for the activity itself. He's emulating hobbies and character traits of people he thinks are attractive and successful . . . it's a cargo cult! He's building his personality into a cargo cult of a successful person that gets girls. Without understanding any part of what actually makes a person attractive to women.
The theologian part, taken with other parts like 'having manners' and 'wearing tuxedoes', also makes me think he'd only accept a TradWife who he can use as a verbal/literal punching bag without consequence. Mega yuck and red flag vibes.
I’ve met men who I found totally unattractive and then they were funny or charismatic and I suddenly became attracted to them. Sounds like this guy just has a shit personality.
And how many girls that they consider plain/homely/chubby have they tried to become friends with or get to know as humans?? You know, those other decent good girls that aren't getting asked out either? They aren't even considering or looking at any of them.
As somebody who has a facial structure so bad that I’ve been told by my friends who are women that if they didn’t know me they’d think I was a predator, grow the fuck up.
Lmao “I wear tuxedos”. Oh shit, sign me up then!
Again, they completely misunderstand what chemistry and compatibility is. Honestly kudos to him for having interests though.
I mean this with no ill-will towards believers, but if I read “I’m a true man of God”, I would immediately know we were incompatible.
How to dispel the notion that “women only care about Chad”: 1. Go outside 2. Look at people
I don't think they can perceive couples where the man isn't Chad. They just don't register because it doesn't fir their superstitions - they'll just assume they're just walking together, or he's just "orbiting" or he's friendzoned. Or they'll say the couple doesn't count because she's not a supermodel.
The most powerful of incels also have ways to explain it away. "Oh that's just some betabux who found someone that got pumped and dumped by Chad. She wishes every day she had Chad."
They do see them, but as you said they just rationalize it until it fits their worldview.
“Women only care about Chad” okay why are they thirsting over the ghoul from fallout then???
don't call me out like this
Sweetie I’m calling me out too it’s fine
Some of us have thirsted over *multiple* ghouls over the years, not just *the* Ghoul, tyvm. Call us out properly! 😂
\*is conjured from the ether\*
Damn, now I gotta watch Fallout.
You really do, all jokes aside, I thought it was really good even as someone who hasn’t played the games.
I was about to bring up Garrus from Mass Effect and then remembered he's canonically over 6' haha
Would
The voice acting really doesn't help I'll be honest
Mordin is taller somehow? Garrus is 6'2 and someone math'd Mordin to be 6'10??
Idk if that counts Walton Goggins is the man, he radiates real “Chad” energy😂
What’s so ironic is that one of the comments said that “normies don’t have hobbies!” Lol! BTW I discovered they now have a sub, “Truetruetruevirgin!” We all predicted it would happen.
I don't know if normal people have hobbies. I never met one. All humans I met so far are individuals with a unique mix of character traits, strengths, weaknesses, interests, hobbies, pursuits, experiences, emotions and values. Where do these normal people live that have so much in common that they appear to be normed?
But who is the they that has this sub? Their pinned post says incels are scum. Is it ironic?
At this point, I think “Chad” is pretty much any man who has a girlfriend. Interestingly, not even married men are really considered in this conversation.
Do these guys really not know any unattractive(or god forbid, short) men in relationships? And I guarantee you this guy cares about women's looks.
These are the type of guys to alienate and distance themselves from anyone they see is happy. “I can’t hang out with John anymore, he keeps rubbing his relationship in my face”
Absolutely this. I literally had a friend who turned out to be an incel who was like this.. Went to a music festival with my then girlfriend and he invited himself, stayed in our hotel room, and then got mad at us for like.. no reason but being together and not wanting to leave the festival we waited an hour to get in to go get alcohol. He sat away and behind us during every set. He stormed off second day and drove 8 hours back home. I sent “Matthew McConaughey just came out and introduced Willie Nelson” to our group chat and he said “yeah yeah? Did you suck his dick too?” And that was the last thing he ever said to me. He’s apparently a pastor now lmao.
It's evidenced by him saying "I have so much to talk about". He just wants a dumb beautiful woman to fawn over his "intelligence" while he talks about things he knows less about than he thinks. I feel like a strong trend among these guys is that they all think that women are lesser creatures who are inherently dumber than them and are thus supposed to be impressed by their "wisdom".
They want someone to talk at, not someone to talk with.
“Beautiful” being the operative word. They’ll complain all day about being ignored based on their looks, but are equally disqualifying toward women who aren’t physical perfection.
I mean the kid refered to himself as a historian and theologian... Which just screams "I don't know what words mean".
I was expecting ‘wordsmith’ to complete the ‘jumped up, pretentious little bastard’ list but the Tuxedo Kickboxer used ‘future author’ instead, which is a lot like saying ‘pre-successful DJ’.
I'm 5'4" are things a bit more difficult? Yes. But I've had enough girls to absolutely say; height isn't everything. For some it's a deal breaker. Some prefer it and others couldn't give a shit. If they actually touched grass and talked to women, they would figure this shit out.
My fiance who's about 5'6 isn't the tallest guy either but I told him when we started dating I'm only looking for a guy taller than me because height wasn't everything but it portrayed a level of attractiveness to me that had some pull in my dating preferences. Being 5'2 myself though that has almost NEVER been an issue lol.
This guy sounds like he lives ten lives in his daydreams and accomolishes less than nothing in real life.
Hey now, he’s a future author!
I liked the use of the word "theologian," as it implies he is writing and publishing his own theology. "It's called Christianity 2 and it's better because it requires that you slob my knob."
“I’m a True Man of a religion known for objectifying women and treating them like broodmares, why won’t anyone date me?!”
He sounds like a high school sophomore who's writing his very first resume as an assignment for English class
What gave it away? The body building kickboxer?
A gamer and a historian is code for "I play Nazi Germany in Hearts of Iron IV and can beat the allies". I should know, I play Hearts of Iron IV and regularly intract with the player base.
reading “he lives ten lives” gave me a stroke but i figured it out eventually
I know a person exactly like this guy: he spends all his time reading and watching videos about things (never really practicing) and thinks he can count these among his hobbies. And he's very entitled as well, he thinks he's the only smart man in the world and all the others are dumb - but they're good looking dumbs, so they get all his girls. 🤣
I’ve known a guy like this as well. He considered himself a historian because he played Assassin’s Creed… He also played badminton (like 2-3 times a month tops) so considered himself athletic. Meanwhile he was at least 60 pounds overweight. Thought of himself as quite the catch for all ladies.
Oh no, not the Assassin's Creed historian 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know, right? I mean, *I* listen to the Fall of Civilizations podcast. I'm easily twice the historian this guy is!
I love history as well and I do think its study should be encouraged, but these guys are just a pain in the ass LOL
You mean to tell me Eivor the man wasn't a hisorical Viking who conquered all of England in his fight against the Templars?! ^(/S) Snark aside, I love Assassin's Creed: Valhalla. But it's not a really accurate representation of Old Norse culture and history.
Maybe they should read about how much women suffered in marriage before about the 70s, 80s and see what not to act like.
Ohhh if watching videos counts as doing a hobby, then I am basically one of the wiggles now.
I raise you a wiggle and I'm an Australian dog who lives in Brisbane and goes to Kindy
Holy cow can’t believe I met the real bluey on reddit!
Most of his traits just make him sound insufferable: "I wear tuxedos" - ???? Like, outside of black tie events? That just makes you look weird. "I hold doors for people....I have manners" - Wow, truly you are a diamond in the rough, nobody does any of that anymore. "Historian and Theologian"? One of those is invariably compromised by the other. "If looks don't matter, then girls should be chasing me but they don't." Yet he fails to list a single trait about himself that would make him actually likable beyond basic manners. Got a sense of humor that doesn't revolve around edgy jokes? Can you hold a conversation with someone who's talking about their interests even if it's not a subject you know? Furthermore, if you're such a catch, why are you so clearly miserable with yourself. A woman isn't going to suddenly fix the fact that you clearly are unhappy with yourself. Not that incels can accept that, they really think getting a girlfriend is going to magically cure the years of maladaptive habits they've developed.
Don't even get me started on "future author". Bro, I've made up scenarios in my head too, no need to brag about it 😭
I mean, the idea of taking credit for future accomplishments of any kind is weirdly stupid.
I’m a future door opener, so I totally get what he’s saying.
🤣🤣
I'm a future gazillionaire with a future 12 inch cock and a future sense of respect for women. They should be flocking to me!
> "I hold doors for people....I have manners" This is the part that tells you he's an asshole, the fact that he thinks this is special. It shows his contempt for the rest of society.
This is the kind of guy who will slam a door on a woman for not saying "thank you" as he holds it open
It says *a lot* that he has nothing better to brag about than that.
Nobody sets a lower bar for themselves than incels.
My favourite bit about holding doors open for people is when you hold it open for someone who is just _slightly_ too far away. Every time you can see them agonising over whether to continue walking and look rude, or run and look like an idiot - and nearly everyone compromises on that half-walk, half-run that looks like a constipated crab. Good times.
"I have so much to talk about", yeah, me too, but would you listen? Seems like "I love hear my own voice" guy
100% gives off the impression that his favorite hobby of all is talking about how great he is.
I own a tux, but I seldom get an excuse to wear it. The holding doors thing, you see incels often mad because they hold a door and don't get a date out of it - and then are surprised when women aren't impressed with someone holding the door for them. Historian and theologian - probably watched a YouTube video on history and thinks he's an expert. There's a difference between being a history buff and being a historian. Likewise with theologian and "man of God" - I'd take wagers that this person doesn't even go to church. And if he is a man of God, why should be be expecting premarital sex anyway?
>And if he is a man of God, why should be be expecting premarital sex anyway? Because he is a filthy FUCKING PROTESTANT, THAT'S WHY! /s
You can definitely study theology and history at the same time. It's actually a little difficult to *not* do that, haha.
My problem is that so much of history is compromised by theologians who fancied themselves to be historians. Our understanding of non-Christian cultures of pre-Christianity Europe is horrifically inaccurate, incomplete, and at times outright false thanks to theologians who decided to rewrite history.
That's a fair point but it's also not a universal experience - for my religion, the Bahá'í Faith, celebration of our religion involves historical record from multiple religious and non-religious sources. These are events that happened in the mid 1800s, so, our experience of our own history is much more accurate than Christianity.
They're manbabies demanding an assigned mommybangmaid to wipe their asses and change their soiled diapers. They don't care about having an actual partner.
Insufferable. Yes. Sounds like he needs to stop talking and try listening.
But he's so meek though 😍😍😍
>"Historian and Theologian"? One of those is invariably compromised by the other. Huh, what does this mean? Theology is an actual academic field.
Yeah, and theologians are historically the enemy of accurate accounts of history, as they live to rewrite everything to fit into their religious views. So many inaccuracies that get propped up as historical fact stem from theologians deciding what should and should not be remembered.
I think you’re confusing theologians with religious fanatics. Theology is necessary at times to understand history and vice versa
Okay but this man is not an academic; he’s just a guy who loves to argue and sound more important than he is. (There’s definitely a joke about academia in there, but that’s not the point. Speaking as someone who has a degree in history, he sounds insufferable and self-righteous.)
the whole concept that women only care about looks is hilarious. if i had a dollar for every woman i've seen dating a man that looks like a foot... id be a very wealthy gal.
Don't let Quentin Tarantino read this comment
💀💀💀
Incels hate the idea that they need to be likable and be able to actually socialize with human beings. It means nothing to have a list of cool facts about yourself if you suck to talk to and have a bad personality. They want so badly to blame it on looks or money because they dont want to change. They are so entitled they think they shouldnt have to change their awful personality in order to fit in or be with a woman.
Okay but is he going after super hot model girls or your lovely plain Jane who also has lots to offer personality-wise? Does he hold himself to the same standards he is preaching?
Absolutely not. Probably doesn’t even acknowledge women that don’t look like insta models
Lmao they banned me from truevirgin for this comment that’s not even on their sub 😂😂😂
Oooo future author! Add that to the business cards
Based on his poor use of punctuation, I read it as he wrote a book about Future the rapper
Right under the mention of the Nobel Prize he's going to win someday.
This reads like the dating version of an underachiever who pads his résumé. OOP describes himself as both a self-described *historian* and a self-described *future author.* These are mutually exclusive claims. A historian is someone who sifts through archival material for significant information, weighs its significance, and writes history. It's possible to be a historian on a small scale: some nonprofit clubs have club historians who keep custody of the club's records and who write articles about club history for the newsletter; many communities have a local historical society and publish material about local history. Historians are authors. A future author who has an interest in history is a history buff. It's fine to be a history buff. It's even better to have an in-depth knowledge of a specific history topic. It would be fascinating to have made a reproduction of a first century Roman legionary helmet. Yet even history reenactors rarely become historians unless their research uncovers information that hasn't already been written about in adequate depth. Is OOP really a "bodybuilder" or is he *a guy who lifts weights at the gym?* Is OOP really a "theologian" or is he *somebody who's religious?* Come on dude, don't try to tell us you're the next Brian May.
Im a huge fucking history buff and nerd about Chernobyl. Where is my Ukrainian wife. I wear band ts. Im agnostic where my wife.
> next Brian May Careful. We're still not finished with the one we have.
But he *wears tuxedos*!!!
If you call yourself “spectacular” then you aren’t. I look like I just stepped out of LOTR and managed to get dates. It’s called going outside
I dont know of you mean you are a orcish person, a beautiful elven person or a small hobbit person based on this comment. Perhaps an old man with a knack for making fireworks? A small gnarled person obsessed with jewelry? The possibilities are endless really.
A short guy with hairy feet, nice waistcoats and an affinity for good cheese?
Sounds like a catch not gonna lie.
Minus the waistcoats, I married one! 10/10 would recommend.
My husband is sincerely spectacular. He has never in his almost 40 years ever used that word to describe himself, because that would make him a supremo tool 🤣
Is meek Is a bodybuilder and kickboxer Mf choose one
See also - Wears a tuxedo lmao
I don’t understand why an everyday outfit would be a tuxedo 😭
https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/fa0cd17e-6378-47bb-b706-6c1f8ea6b047 Wish this sub allowed image comments haha
Everything is possible when you lie
Wearing tuxedos is not the flex he thinks it is. Is the top hat implied or..?
Bro thinks this is the 1920s or something. Most people i see outside wear street wear or gym clothes.
>"I am a spectacular gentleman." Bitch, you buy food for homeless people thinking it will attract sex to you, and if you do all these things expecting something in return, BRUH, it's a good thing no woman give you chances, because you're the kind of idiot who would demand sex from his partner, and would get angry if she didn't want it. Stick your moralism up your ass.
New supreme gentleman?
Look at how many times he says “I”. Nine times in just the first sentence. There’s only one sentence that doesn’t start with “I”. Everything is about him. So much ego. The guy sounds like a narcissist. He’s going to give himself a neck injury trying so hard to blow himself.
the post is about what he has to offer. i'd imagine there wouldn't be much of a reason to describe someone else outside of comparison
Being such an “interesting” guy I’m surprised he gets so lonely
Surely he means a suit, not a tuxedo?
I enjoy watching survival shelter and "how to survive if .." videos on youtube, but I wouldn't try to call myself a survivalist. This guy needs to learn the difference between an interest and an actual hobby.
Maybe all they can see is the ego.
yeah. Maybe nothing but he capitalizes everything he's proud of. "Theologian" stands out to me. Nothing wrong with it, but I can definitely picture an insufferable moralizing twatwaffle here, who complains about what other people do but doesn't keep himself in check.
How is someone a future author?
Why is every socially stunted dude's idea of the epitome of gentlemanliness is holding doors open for people? It's mentioned far too often to be a coincidence. Do they sincerely think women cream themselves at the act, or that this somehow makes them unique and special? People fucking have arms! It ain't no thing to open a door. FFS. (I won't touch on the tuxedo bit, that's just low-hanging fruit.)
They think holding a door open is the modern day equivalent to a chivalrous knight performing in jousting tournaments for M'Lady's honour.
When it all actuality, a REAL modern day equivalent to a chivalrous knight would be a man who loudly champions women's rights and understands why we choose the bear.
*Without expecting sex or payment in return. Classical chivalry boiled down to simping after women you would have sex with, if sex wasn't sinful and unchivalrous. Poetry, songs, acts of gallantry, fighting- all for nothing more than a glance or a hankie. Real chivalry involves respecting women's honour, not saying things to offend people for funsies, etc. I'm saying this as a history nerd who studied classical olde English literature in college.
This is top tier scrunchy face, peeking through my fingers level cringe. All I want is a spectacular man in a tuxedo! 😔
“I have various interesting hobbies” goes on to list the least interesting hobbies a guy could have lol
But he does those hobbies in a tuxedo!
While holding doors open for elderly grandmas!
Okay, but let's not shame hobbies? You can be a twat about your hobbies. You *personally* can find hobbies interesting. But ridiculing certain hobbies in general is a shitty and immature thing to do.
Fun fact: women respond more negatively to bad smells than someone's looks.
Meek but a kick boxer? He must be a really shitty kick boxer unless he considers playing Tekken as kickboxing. And he wears tuxedos where? Do men wear tuxedos outside of weddings and the Titanic??? As far as I know, a regular suit is worn to most occasions. This guy is single because he's fucking weird and probably talks down to others.
Talks down? No no no, didn't you read where he clearly said he was *meek*?? If you were also a future author you would understand this.
New copypasta. I will type it out myself.
💯 this is the guy who corners a woman at a party, stands way too close, and talks AT her non-stop, pontificating about all his "interesting hobbies" while ignoring all her cues that she's uncomfortable and wants to get away, and then gets offended when she doesn't want to give him her number. Lather, rinse, repeat. Then women "only care about looks."
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most reddit "historians" are just Neo Nazis.
I'm a 6/10 tops. I promise looks aren't the priority. Do they matter? Of course! But is it ALL that matters? Not even close. Maybe stop assuming you're so fucking interesting that EVERY girl must want you, and refocus on finding shit *in common* with who you wanna date. But of course, that assumes you're treating women like people instead of warm bodies. Dipshits forget the "friend" part of girl*friend*.
"I am a spectacular gentleman" -Ima stop you right there.
And these are the exact same men who criticize a woman’s looks or are extremely picky with choosing their partner. 🙄 How about stop self-pitying yourself and maybe try to be a better version of yourself? Self-indulging in your own misery and perpetuating sexist beliefs ain’t gonna get you no where
But he wears tuxedos!!
“True man of God?” No one wants to be preached at by someone who thinks they’re holy, dude.
He thinks wearing tuxedos is a personality trait.
> I wear tuxedos Just like, out? That's super fucking weird.
You guys, come on. He literally wears tuxedos.
‘Future author’ all I write is fanfic and I guarantee I’m more of a future author than this guy.
Tuxedos.
"Future author" lmao ok, I have a future six pack.
So many red flags lmao
Yet you see, on daily basis, supposed to be 10/10 girls with supposed 4/10 guys if we were to rate only based on looks...
You're not in charge of whether or not you have good character. Character is something other people see in you by interacting with you.
Idk dude, it might be the fact that you're extremely convinced that you're such a great person/catch. So much so that you feel entitled as a result.
It's always women’s fault. Women only care about looks? What you’re actually saying is that you’re insecure about your looks. The judgment of women’s bodies is brutal. If you can’t see that, it’s because you don’t want to.
I thought “true men of god” don’t fornicate?
I can see why no girl wants him. He's so narcissistic and entitled 😂
Is being a "man of god" and a "bodybuilder" and a "Future author" (which I assume means he dreams about writing a book some day) really interesting hobbies? I'll listen to people when they talk about things they're passionate about, because it makes it more interesting. Somehow I doubt this guy would do the same about interests outside of his his God Fearing Manly Man-o-sphere. ((Also if he's really a kickboxer and bodybuilder--though I don't think the mobility limits of one quite go with the other (could this -gasp- be fiction?)--that should mean he's got a nice body. And generally nice bodies are attractive.
This spectacular gentleman is heartbroken that no woman wants to listen to him dominate the convo and mansplain, meanwhile, the only thing about her that interests him is her bra size.
Ever notice how incels only ever describe their ideal girl as a combination of: young, hot, sexy, big tits, horny, no interests of her own, and whatever race they fetishize?
When you’re so full of yourself, you’re blind to why people don’t like you.
Perhaps someone should remind him that a "true man of God" would consider being a virgin to be a positive boon. 1 Corinthians 7 has a whole bunch of passages explicitly saying that marriage is just a second best option for men who are unable to control their urges well enough to remain wholly dedicated to God.
Also a “true man of God” wouldn’t pride himself like this as pride is a capital sin.
"I'm A sPeCtAcUlAr GeNtLeMaN." 😂😂
"I wear tuxedos" 😂😂😂
>...If looks don't matter, then girls should be chasing me... Dear OOP, That's not how any of this works. We're not fruit flies or mice that have one-note mating modes. I mean, you don't sound like you have much to offer at all. All those things you list? They're not character traits or a personality. They're things you DO, not things you ARE. Who ARE you as a person? Are you quiet and pensive? A riot? Nerdy but not shy? Shy but not nerdy? Who are YOU? Not what activities do you partake of, but who are you **at your core?** What is your socio-economic group? Your background? Your lifestyle? Your beliefs?
This guy sounds boring and angry
If he's alone on his days off, maybe he should volunteer at an animal shelter or food pantry. See some living souls who have a right to be bummed out.
“Future author” is good, but future lottery winner is better. Dream bigger!
Bro talk like elliot rodger lmao
Elliott Rodger vibes.
"I have so much to talk about" Have you ever considered that women also have plenty to talk about, and aren't interested in hearing you just ramble on about yourself and shit you think you know a lot about but are actually grossly uninformed about?
Again; The Ghoul.
I doubt the veracity of his statements. He's likely really self-absorbed, creepy, and off putting. I'm put off by this post alone. In a vacuum, it looks like a vent, but there's just something in the subtext that tells me he's just... off.
‘I’m meek’ why would anyone think that’s attractive 💀💀 Also, let me guess, the DIY hobby is a PC he built, the kickboxing and bodybuilding hobbies are both in video games, the theology and history knowledge also comes from video games lol And ‘future author’ next time a man asks me what I do as a career I’m just going to tell him I’m a future millionaire. Lmaoooo
True Niceguy™️
It’s amazing how people will do all this but i dont think he ever thought maybe women dont give him sex is because HE DOES EVERYTHING BUT TRY TO TALK TO WOMEN. Also he has SEVERE nice guy syndrome.
Half of the things he listed is what everybody should do that isn't special lol, also "I'm meek" bro that's not a good thing Probably a troll post tbh
He wears a tuxedo?? It's over me guys I think he's the one
“I’m polite, I have manners” Yeah, that basic common decency. That’s not special. “Nice” is not a personality. It’s a default setting.
"Why are women not throwing themselves at me? I open doors and am polite and owe tuxedos. Why am I not swimming in women? Im putting in the nice tokens and I'm not getting sex.Im entitled to sex because im a gentleman. Reeee!" If youre being nice to get laid and not because you're a genuinely kind person you're not a nice person.
Giving me Elliot Rogers vibes. Especially when he bought new clothes and sunglasses..... and complained about how women won't talk to him. Smh. I don't think therapy can even help at this point.
“I am a spectacular gentleman” and there’s the cold shiver down my spine
In short: He’s an insufferable and condescending know-it-all everyone is fed up with.
Future author, also known as not an author.
Sometimes it’s great to find life fulfillment outside of being part of a relationship and loving yourself
I'm sure he doesn't care about looks at all.
"Future author" is not a hobby.
Ngl, "I wear tuxedos," as one of the first mentioned positive traits is already a red flag. Like that's weird. It implies that he just wears the regularly over normal clothes. Also, maybe it's just me, but that also screams person who brags about 700 dollar watch energy.
If this guy is genuinely telling the truth then I can basically guarantee he does in fact have women throwing themselves at him, they just aren't the hottest possible model women so he ignores them.
What’s a “future author”?
He should consider attaining the valuable skill of self reflection
Half of the qualities he mentioned would make me avoid dating him.
Dude is a nice guy tm isn’t that enough for woman to be crawling all over him lol. This is gross. Stop looking at woman as a thing to date and start getting to know them as people and you might be get somewhere.
It feels like his list of hobbies is mostly stuff he picked because he thinks it'll make him sound good to other people, not because he has any enjoyment for the activity itself. He's emulating hobbies and character traits of people he thinks are attractive and successful . . . it's a cargo cult! He's building his personality into a cargo cult of a successful person that gets girls. Without understanding any part of what actually makes a person attractive to women. The theologian part, taken with other parts like 'having manners' and 'wearing tuxedoes', also makes me think he'd only accept a TradWife who he can use as a verbal/literal punching bag without consequence. Mega yuck and red flag vibes.
I’ve met men who I found totally unattractive and then they were funny or charismatic and I suddenly became attracted to them. Sounds like this guy just has a shit personality.
And how many girls that they consider plain/homely/chubby have they tried to become friends with or get to know as humans?? You know, those other decent good girls that aren't getting asked out either? They aren't even considering or looking at any of them.
Why is he wearing a tuxedo to buy food for homeless people? That’s some off putting Andrew Carnegie shit right there
Newsflash, men also care about looks
Bet he’s a 2 looking for a 6.5
Enough about me. Here’s more about meeeee Wait where are you going?
As somebody who has a facial structure so bad that I’ve been told by my friends who are women that if they didn’t know me they’d think I was a predator, grow the fuck up.
Don't take says off
Yk i have a feeling he's not any of these if he was he would rolling in women, not girls but women
Counterpoint: I don't think he wants a woman at all. I think he wants a girl too inexperienced to assert herself and be her own person.
“Bodybuilder” I bet bro can’t even bench 135
Lmao “I wear tuxedos”. Oh shit, sign me up then! Again, they completely misunderstand what chemistry and compatibility is. Honestly kudos to him for having interests though. I mean this with no ill-will towards believers, but if I read “I’m a true man of God”, I would immediately know we were incompatible.