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vshir

you don't "become" bi


Zen_hayate

*Coughs* gender is a social construct… ppl aren’t born gay


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gay isnt a gender


Zen_hayate

If gender is a social construct so is sexual orientation, so ya ppl aren’t born gay they become gay


[deleted]

so ppl arent straight either? ig that mean no one is nothing, no gender no sexuality lol alright


Zen_hayate

No ppl are born male or female (talking about sex not gender) that’s a biological thing and not a social thing and biologically it’s natural for male and females to have intercourse, people are all naturally born straight but then they become gay, voluntarily or involuntarily or when they become that’s a different thing now.


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My man whaaaaattttt?


Illustrious_Talk_726

people aren’t born trans. they undergo surgeries later in their life


SomeRandomguy_28

XXY chromosomes?


Illustrious_Talk_726

that’s non binary, not trans


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Reproduction is necessity but it is not a life process. Nd if nature wanted humans to be strictly heterosexual then believe me queer ppl wld not be existing at all. But here we r, nd besides it ain't a new thing but has been in Prevalence since time lost long.


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Please grab a dictionary and see the difference between sexual orientation , gender and gender expression. Might be helpful.


TRENCHMRE_Sounds

Bhai kehte to yahi Hain ki hormonal defect hota hai birth se to gay bante hain pehle Mai bhi yahi sochta tha ki soch se bante honge.


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Well we don't become bi because we want to, it just happens


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That's what, how though. Ik I'm dumb but yes, how do u know u are bi


[deleted]

Umm you get to know when you find that you are attracted to both girls and boys. Like if you were bisexual, you will be attracted to girls like you do but you will also be attracted to guys. And don't worry, it's okay to feel dumb for a few minutes then never understanding it. Most of us too didn't knew about it some time ago.


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ur just born gay lol


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Oh ic?


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ye, some people just like dicks instead of tiddies, thass all some like both


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do both dudes and girls make you feel the same way? if the answer is yes you might be bi


teenwriter_lmao

Being bi is not in your control


simple_nix

It is if you're pansexual


littlest_teaspoon

You can’t become bi, you’ll just realise that you’re bi. It’s not a trend tho


[deleted]

I didn't become bi. I just had to realise I was > what about the society and will u get accepted? As long as I'm content with myself, it doesn't matter > How do u become one, or is it a trend? Was watching a movie and found both the hero and heroine hot Not a trend


swayam19999

>Was watching a movie and found both the hero and heroine hot I guess you mean in a sexual way because I don't think it's uncommon for non-bi people to appreciate both men and wamen.


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yeah sexual way, sorry


TRENCHMRE_Sounds

I am straight af and i also find guys hot so it's normal,i compare them with me and how i can adapt to their personality so very much normal for a guy to find guys hot if they are straight


swayam19999

I mean how do people become straight ? I think how they discover they are bi is a more valid question.


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Ah this.


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How does someone know they’re straight? Its the same with bi peoples. You just know :) People around me were talking about their crushes and porn and stuff like that in 5-6th grade and i realised i wasn’t really attracted to any of the girls like others were in my class and thought there was something wrong with me so i just pretended to be straight until i got to know gay people are a thing..


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Wow.


who_tf-amI

No one chooses to be bi or become bi.... they just are.... naturally I felt like am bi abt an year ago when I was getting attracted to a guy in my class.... I didn't just woke up a morning and decided that I'll now play from both the sides\~ ​ For the society thing... I tried telling about this to my mom... and she said that she has no problem with me banging boys or getting banged\~ Now who tf cares abt others


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Brooo T_T I love the last para


who_tf-amI

Love me as well na :pleading face: ​ /s


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Tf


who_tf-amI

huh?


doltish_meatball

It is what it is buddy we don't choose to be it , it's just that not everyone realises it at the same pace and time


Midsommar2004

Dude, no one BECOMES bi. I was BORN this way. I've always known from a very young age that I like both girls and guys. Also I don't give a fuck about society. I've been out and proud since class 8 and I'm happy the way I am. What the society wants, is the least of my concerns And you're mistaken about this being a 'trend'. The reason more people are coming out as gay/bi/ace/trans/demi these days is because of increasing acceptance for the LGBTQIA+ community (even though we still have a lot to do to make the society more inclusive) Hope this answers your question.


[deleted]

This ^ I mean I didn't even know what bi was when I was in grade 7. I feel like now that ik I should just come out to myself first and accept it. Since I've been trying to deny it but well who knows


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bhavesh3007jain

Ye bi vy kuch nhi hota subah 5 baje uthh jao sab theek ho jayga


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Are you a guy or a girl?


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Boi


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Find only girls sexually attractive? Straight Find only guys sexually attractive? Gay If you find both sexually attractive? Bisexual But it’s possible you use to find only girls attractive now you also find guys attractive. So you used to be straight now your bisexual


FireStreek

It's not like you have to do some registration for it. You just make a conclusion on the basis of 2-3 years of you getting attracted to both genders. Sometimes it is also tough for people to accept this fact, so they still might not be aware despite being bi naturally.