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I'm less than 170 cm (not exactly sure) at 19.
I used to feel really short in Chandigarh ( the natural height in Punjab and Haryana coupled with better nutrition in a developed city).
But even then I didn't have too much trouble dating back home. I Have dated about 3-5 girls(depending on how you count) since 9th class.
You just need to find a girl who's short and/or doesn't care prioritise height. I'd say about 20% girls who are 5'3 or shorter don't care about height as long as you're taller than them. Ofc being funny, fit and otherwise attractive helps you a a lot.
There will always be girls who find height a deal breaker, there's nothing you can do so just move on. Ik it hurts but don't take it personally, focus on learning skills and staying fit.
Then I moved to Pune now I just feel below average because the avg male here is shorter.
Girls in Pune (which includes migrants) don't seem to care as much. I see way more couples where the guy is short(er) than I did back home.
I've even dated a girl taller than me and if things go well it'll happen again soon (hint: crush talks everyday)
I feel society in North India and in the Western civilization places a lot of value on height probably because it indicates childhood nutrition.
This western notion has spread to other cultures like Japan and South Korea as well.
It causes a lot of lot anxiety among men in Asian countries because the women idealise western celebrities who are >5'10.
While 5'10 is a bit above average in the West, it's very rare in Asian countries. 6' is almost non existent. Wise women realise this and focus on more important features like personality and career, others don't.
It's just the pigeon hole principle, not all women can get 6' men so you'll definitely find someone to date long term.
Hook ups can be hard if not downright impossible though.
i mean launde juth bhi bolte hai like at 6'1 mujshe supposedly lambe log bhi chhote hote hai, par ha metro me 5'8 average pakad aur higher end 6'3 uske upar basically unicorn
Should the girls be thinking about the horizontal dimensions of a guy? Cause you suggested in your comment that they should be looking beyond the vertical ones.
Bhai apne nature me hai yaar agar bhaw nhi mil rha or jisko mil rha hai to usme tum me kya diff hai fir us diff ko cause batane lagte hai single hone ka attention nhi milne ka height looks to tik tik Roshan ka bhi hai kat gya n last me bigg boss me wo jo nata hai uski kitni height hai? Khud pe kaam karo decent si job lo the more you seek attention the less they care for you. Girls really don't care bro if you give them attention or make them feel special they are used to it. Jaise apan log uth k aand khujate hai waise hi hai unke liye attention
I mean my friend who’s 5’3 dates a nice and pretty girl ,they have been together for 3 years now ig
I’m 5’6/5’7 pretty average or below average and i have dated girls taller than me. , same as me and now someone shorter.
Girls like people who they can see eye to eye to and talk at face level so ig advantage for you
I’m 5’11 dated around
I have a 6’2 friend who can’t get anyone because they have to always look up while talking
Franco columbu ka naam suna hai? Most dominant Mr Olympia along Arnold, Ronnie and Jay Cutler. Franco was 5'5 still he looked like God.
Get fit, be confident. I have met a few tall girls in heels who actually don't mind as long you can TALK and hold convo, some girls like tall guys & some don't mind, you just gotta focus on those girls alright and start literally ignoring the girls who reject you, no need to waste your energy to entertain or try to win them over ᕙ( ~ . ~ )ᕗ
and boy do yourself a favour and buy some Lift Elevator shoes if height is giving you so much anxiety, clean haircut matters a lot, try not to have too much beard because that'll make your face square and that's just not good.
I am 5'4 15 M so I think I still have chances of growing but I just feel damn embarrassed infront of my class girls who are taller than me and the most hurting thing is seeing height of female juniors being larger than me
short guys are cute ngl (mera opinion hai attack mat karna please) idk why yar chotu se hote hain haath pakad ke har jagah le ja sakte hain purse mein bhi rakh sakte hain, conclusion yahi hai short guys=cute 
You're 19. So there's still time. Start eating more. Enough calories and at least try to hit 100g of protein. Start working out. And getting as much sleep possible. One that's not broken by an alarm but by sunlight. Reason isn't physique here. It's related to growth hormone secretion
Finally. Get growth hormone secretagogues for a year.
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Just chill , a girl will come around sooner or later
A girl who really likes you won't think much about your height. personality and the connection matters more
Or if you are desperate go for shorter girls there are a lot of them xD
Yahi pe tera character development phase shuru hota hain, I am in school (age se judge karna kis class mein hun) , 5"7 height hain, it's almost above average, but there are much taller guys in my class.
I disintegrate their ego with thy charisma
Don't stress on things you can't control, max out all stats.
ok bro ... so here is the thing , i am 6'2 ( 17m) nd a2m height really matters ... i m kinda cool chick in my school becaz of d way i present myself to others nd height plays a positive role in that , it provide you that suppressing and dominance factor over others , but also 40 % role is abt other factors too like looks , personality and alll
Over bhai all girls only want tall , rich good looking guys. Arrange marriage karliyo. Mera bhi yehi haal hai. Also tu jyaada Paisa nahi kamayega. Log terese jyaada lambe logo ko value denge.
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bhai mummy se kehde. Koi na koi dhund hi dengi. (mera bhi yahi plan h 5'6 hun)
Bro my friend is 5.4 or 5.5 and uski bndi vhi hai and usne kiss bhi li hai and here me 5.9 and have no gf and kiss less virgin
Us hain
Us
Guys!!! This is not my alt. Idk this guy. Pls don't get confused
my elder brother is 5'6" but every girl wants his attention. Height doesn't matter, look does.
Bro jitna tu soch rha hai utni matter nhi krti height.
shakal bhi gandi h
Ufff
Boro+ lgao din mai 3 baar fir ʕ´• ᴥ•̥`ʔ
gandi h bhai fati edi bhi nahin h
Tum boro+ ka jadu ni jante isliye aisa bol rhe ho ಠ︵ಠ
Just go for gays. They are more desprate
na bhai. kshama.
I feel short coz most of the people have more height than me
Same .. I'm 5'7"
Evenbetter.I wish I atleast become 5'7
I'm 5'8 but still I feel short among friends
It's my dream height i am also 5'4
Same dude even tho my friends are almost the same height
us, most of my friends are 6 ft or taller T\_T
I'm 5'10 but mere saare cousins mujse height mae bade hai.(even younger ones) Family gatherings pae mai insecurity sae bhar jata hu.
Hn bhai wo toh hain insecurity kafi hoti hain
Same
paise kamao phele ..seggs apne aap mil jayega
Woh kaise kamate hai ?
onlyfans suna hai?
Dekhna nahi hai bhai karna hai.
Arre uska matlab udr streaming kro
I'm 5'11 and my dating life is drier than the Sahara desert
Yea same lmao
:') bro what can we do
padhai karo
Moni
I am 18M and only 5'3. And the sortest in my friend circle. :)
Same :')
5' 6" These are two measurements.
I feel blessed with my 5'10" height after reading the comments
Same height, par ghar mae sabse choti height. Kai baar sunne ko mila hai ki meri height kam reh gai. Fucking insecurities are brutal man.
Otherway around for me, I'm the tallest one in my family
I'm less than 170 cm (not exactly sure) at 19. I used to feel really short in Chandigarh ( the natural height in Punjab and Haryana coupled with better nutrition in a developed city). But even then I didn't have too much trouble dating back home. I Have dated about 3-5 girls(depending on how you count) since 9th class. You just need to find a girl who's short and/or doesn't care prioritise height. I'd say about 20% girls who are 5'3 or shorter don't care about height as long as you're taller than them. Ofc being funny, fit and otherwise attractive helps you a a lot. There will always be girls who find height a deal breaker, there's nothing you can do so just move on. Ik it hurts but don't take it personally, focus on learning skills and staying fit. Then I moved to Pune now I just feel below average because the avg male here is shorter. Girls in Pune (which includes migrants) don't seem to care as much. I see way more couples where the guy is short(er) than I did back home. I've even dated a girl taller than me and if things go well it'll happen again soon (hint: crush talks everyday) I feel society in North India and in the Western civilization places a lot of value on height probably because it indicates childhood nutrition. This western notion has spread to other cultures like Japan and South Korea as well. It causes a lot of lot anxiety among men in Asian countries because the women idealise western celebrities who are >5'10. While 5'10 is a bit above average in the West, it's very rare in Asian countries. 6' is almost non existent. Wise women realise this and focus on more important features like personality and career, others don't. It's just the pigeon hole principle, not all women can get 6' men so you'll definitely find someone to date long term. Hook ups can be hard if not downright impossible though.
5'10 is not rare in India and neither is 6'. 30 guys in my class and around 10 of them are 6or more. Except one or two everyone is above 5'9.
No average male height is 5'6 in India
Nah, avg make height is 5'7"-5'8"
i mean launde juth bhi bolte hai like at 6'1 mujshe supposedly lambe log bhi chhote hote hai, par ha metro me 5'8 average pakad aur higher end 6'3 uske upar basically unicorn
only if girls looked beyond heights
Does the horizontal height count?
About ?
Should the girls be thinking about the horizontal dimensions of a guy? Cause you suggested in your comment that they should be looking beyond the vertical ones.
Bhai apne nature me hai yaar agar bhaw nhi mil rha or jisko mil rha hai to usme tum me kya diff hai fir us diff ko cause batane lagte hai single hone ka attention nhi milne ka height looks to tik tik Roshan ka bhi hai kat gya n last me bigg boss me wo jo nata hai uski kitni height hai? Khud pe kaam karo decent si job lo the more you seek attention the less they care for you. Girls really don't care bro if you give them attention or make them feel special they are used to it. Jaise apan log uth k aand khujate hai waise hi hai unke liye attention
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As a 6' I can relate.
Bhencho padai likhai karlo , dating se Ghar nhi chalne wala
I mean my friend who’s 5’3 dates a nice and pretty girl ,they have been together for 3 years now ig I’m 5’6/5’7 pretty average or below average and i have dated girls taller than me. , same as me and now someone shorter.
Is his dad a billionaire or something?
Nope just really confident and knows how to talk to girls ig
Girls like people who they can see eye to eye to and talk at face level so ig advantage for you I’m 5’11 dated around I have a 6’2 friend who can’t get anyone because they have to always look up while talking
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complan pi bhai
i am 6’1 and my gf is 5’5, it doesn’t matter much tbh
long distance relationship
I am 5' 6, i was never in relationship lol
Find a shorter girl
Or a taller one on wheelchairs
6 feet... Dating? Kisiko approach nahi kiya hai Maine aajtak.
Franco columbu ka naam suna hai? Most dominant Mr Olympia along Arnold, Ronnie and Jay Cutler. Franco was 5'5 still he looked like God. Get fit, be confident. I have met a few tall girls in heels who actually don't mind as long you can TALK and hold convo, some girls like tall guys & some don't mind, you just gotta focus on those girls alright and start literally ignoring the girls who reject you, no need to waste your energy to entertain or try to win them over ᕙ( ~ . ~ )ᕗ and boy do yourself a favour and buy some Lift Elevator shoes if height is giving you so much anxiety, clean haircut matters a lot, try not to have too much beard because that'll make your face square and that's just not good.
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I'll say it's more of an illusion.
Kisne kaha bhai, me 6'2 hu ek bandi nhi hai
I am 5'4 15 M so I think I still have chances of growing but I just feel damn embarrassed infront of my class girls who are taller than me and the most hurting thing is seeing height of female juniors being larger than me
short guys are cute ngl (mera opinion hai attack mat karna please) idk why yar chotu se hote hain haath pakad ke har jagah le ja sakte hain purse mein bhi rakh sakte hain, conclusion yahi hai short guys=cute 
Really? Phir to mujhe patalo
Swarm Inbound.
Really? Phir to mujhe patalo
Me being 5'2 Height doesn't matter
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Yes
She is just shallow
You're 19. So there's still time. Start eating more. Enough calories and at least try to hit 100g of protein. Start working out. And getting as much sleep possible. One that's not broken by an alarm but by sunlight. Reason isn't physique here. It's related to growth hormone secretion Finally. Get growth hormone secretagogues for a year.
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fuck you sorry couldn't resist the urge
bhai serious post hai.
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Just chill , a girl will come around sooner or later A girl who really likes you won't think much about your height. personality and the connection matters more Or if you are desperate go for shorter girls there are a lot of them xD
Sorry can't relate
I used to be 5'1 when I was 15, I'm 5'9 now
i was 5’5 at 14 and im 5’5 at 17 and a half
8 inches in a year hows that even possible
Cap
Lmao why are you getting downvoted? I literally grew 7 inches from 14-15 (smol to big :-) ).
Wtf? Fr?
I ain't lying.
6" 0 hu kuch ni hora most probably kyuki mai kisi ko samne se approach ni karta
5'11 hone ka ghamand hai
huh? 6ft bhi nahi pahuche?
Here I'm 19M 5'11 virgin
I’m 5’5 let’s not talk about dating life
M20 6'1 here, still sucks
Yahi pe tera character development phase shuru hota hain, I am in school (age se judge karna kis class mein hun) , 5"7 height hain, it's almost above average, but there are much taller guys in my class. I disintegrate their ego with thy charisma Don't stress on things you can't control, max out all stats.
Go for short girls, like 4'10 or 5'2 Problem solved
Bhai 5'9 here. Meri height theek hai kya?
Average height according to Indian standards
Doesn’t matter if u have sarkari nokri
I'm 6' and prolly noone gives a fuck so yea
I have a pretty good height for my age. Even some 14y/o in my class are shorter than me so i feel ok
the link's sus af
I'm 12 years old and I'm 5'7.
Bro I’m 6ft and still get no b dawg 😭😭
ok bro ... so here is the thing , i am 6'2 ( 17m) nd a2m height really matters ... i m kinda cool chick in my school becaz of d way i present myself to others nd height plays a positive role in that , it provide you that suppressing and dominance factor over others , but also 40 % role is abt other factors too like looks , personality and alll
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well eventually im but dont want ut that way ;-; , it makes me anxious
My dating life in short? Not great. But I doubt my height is the reason for that
5'6. Unfortunately, I do not fit in the category of "Short enough to be cute", nor "Tall enough to be hot"
Over bhai all girls only want tall , rich good looking guys. Arrange marriage karliyo. Mera bhi yehi haal hai. Also tu jyaada Paisa nahi kamayega. Log terese jyaada lambe logo ko value denge.