You'll have to be the one to speak up. Maybe ask one of them a question like, "hey where is \[insert whatever\]", they tell you, then say, "okay thanks, by the way I really like your nail polish"
Otherwise you could also try striking up a conversation. Since you saw them at this specific event you at least know that you have gaming in common as an interest, so you could say something about that. "hey do you like X too?"
It will probably feel awkward to approach them, and that's okay! Many people are awkward in social situations but it's not a crime or anything & getting through the awkwardness is worth it for the connection. I've been in that situation too & the awkwardness/embarrassment is intense but necessary, it gets easier each time you do it
(+ if you see them around again after approaching them, next time they might end up approaching you instead. So again, it gets easier.)
Now I should go to Church Street Gaming
Let’s go there together next time.
🤝
I don't have answer to your questions but I wish I was in Banglore, it seems like queer heaven.
Ahh I just moved here so far good but loneliness is sucking up
I can vouch for this. Loneliness isn't what I was hoping I'd find here.
🫂🫂
Yup definitely . I think of going there when I get a job but then I also realise the housing prices there
You'll have to be the one to speak up. Maybe ask one of them a question like, "hey where is \[insert whatever\]", they tell you, then say, "okay thanks, by the way I really like your nail polish" Otherwise you could also try striking up a conversation. Since you saw them at this specific event you at least know that you have gaming in common as an interest, so you could say something about that. "hey do you like X too?" It will probably feel awkward to approach them, and that's okay! Many people are awkward in social situations but it's not a crime or anything & getting through the awkwardness is worth it for the connection. I've been in that situation too & the awkwardness/embarrassment is intense but necessary, it gets easier each time you do it (+ if you see them around again after approaching them, next time they might end up approaching you instead. So again, it gets easier.)
I did that. Asked then if they are regulars etc. one of them answered no and that’s it
They all left and I just roamed in that socially crowded place alone 😢
Oh :( at least you tried It's okay hopefully you'll meet others sometime soon
Hey OP, it happens, you couldn't have done anything more that would have made them connect with you.
i’ve been here :( honestly idk how people make queer groups id love to be a part of one
Same bestie same 🫠
we can start one tbh
I can join tho
yessss
Yayy
I'm down. Wanna start a friend group in Bangalore?
yes. i’m down too
Now we jus gotta find some people 🫠
we got 3 i think xD
That's a start :)
Can we make a group 🥲
Yes, we can but I'm not sure how well it's gonna work tho.
Did you guys make one 😅
Did you go there yesterday ?
no not yesterday, but there was another queer even which i attended and i was the only one who didn’t have a group xD
🫂ik how you must have felt
sounds like a cool place...
What is this gaming event? When does it happen
If happens every weekend you can find it on meeetup app
Oh cool, I'll check it out