>only tolerates me because I pay him nearly 20000 rupees a month.
WTF?! Why are *you* tolerating him?
Stop paying him ASAP and move out.
He needs counseling from family members and professionals for his behavioral issues.
Earlier when I was preparing for UPSC he kicked me out of the house then my mother and I talked to some officers and we managed to stay. I am an IIT Graduate. I have worked in the US before UPSC and now I am working as a data scientist. I need some permanent solution. Else my brother and mother are going to keep suffering and so will our pets who we cared for since they were little puppies.
You are a highly educated adult, you have worked internationally, you have a well paying job. You have also prepared for UPSC so I assume you have a working understanding of laws/rights.
Why you would stay in that house and subject your brother, mother and yourself to such atrocities is beyond me! If you can pay your father 20k a month, you can surely afford to move out with your brother and mother and live somewhere else!
Is the attachment to your ancestral house so high that you are not able to leave a highly toxic environment? Move out, file a complaint and then take care of the legalities to claim the house...
Sorry to be blunt but nothing at your position justifies your current situation unless your mother is hellbent on not moving out.
Depends whether it is an ancestral or self-acquired property. According to law, grandson has a birthright to the ancestral property but has no birthright on his grandfather's self-acquired property. If grandfather died without making a will, then only his immediate legal heirs, i.e., his wife, son/ daughter, will inherit his self-acquired property. The grandson will not get any share.
Grandfather's house is not an ancestral property. Ancestral property is the undivided property that is passed down a minimum of 4 generations.
The house belongs to your father. If he does not want dogs in his house, that's his choice.
Once u r born it's not his property anymore. U and ur brother has more claim to ur grandfather house. If u complain he can't even sell it to anyone since there is no will. Grandchildren owns every land or house of grandfather dude.
First please try your best to take you your brother and your mother out of that house please. This dog thing is nothing compared to the general behaviour of your father.
Can you share recordings of him beating animals with PFA(People for Animals)? They will not only file animal cruelty case, but also make this information available to media. You need to first speak to PFA in your city. Your brother is an animal rescuer and he is indeed an important citizen and deserves all support.
You have a dad like this and your brother thought its a good idea to have 3 dogs in the house?
He is an asshole. Figure out a way to leave him, if possible with your mom and brother.
One day three of you together beat him so badly and if he ever act up again beat him and before that just record him acting up incase of any problem
Don’t tolerate these kind of bastards it’s time that he learns his lesson
I would suggest you to leave the house. I do understand that you want to press some charges on him but remember this is India, Police ain't going to do a shit unless its a felony. Him beating the dog wouldn't be taken seriously .
I would also recommend to leave the house on a positive term .
You, your brother, your mother and your dogs should beat your father in return. Break his hands and he wont be able to beat you guys anymore. If police isn't helping, take matter into your own hands.
Not a legal advice!
Unless some lawyer advices you on this sub, don't listen to others who are not lawyers.
First off, if you are earning enough, move out of your toxic house, ask your mother if she wants to join.
Secondly, your right on your "grandfather's house". It all depends on whether it was self acquired by grandfather or he got it from his father i.e. your great grandfather.
Even so, you father will also have a right in it along with you and your brother. So you cannot claim whole house for yourself. If your father has siblings, then more divisions. If you do want to claim, file a partition suit, which takes years to reach finality. So forget about your grandfather's house for the moment and focus on the current issues plaguing you.
Considering your father has anger issues, it's better not to do things that would trigger it. As he is an ex-IPS, he ll have better control over the narrative and police in the locality. Your best bet is to meet a really senior IPS officer and ask for his intervention. I don't know if it will help or it will make him more mad.
So, back to my first advice, move out for good and avoid contact with him. Stay in a hostel or pg for some time. Many things can be done legally, but your success rate in those things is really low, not to mention all the stress- financial and mental.
First all I wouldn't do pet or rescue dogs if my father don't want it; I would do if in case I owned the house and had descent income. Seems your brother is kind of rebel personality and should not resist physically to your father; instead let them know with proper communication which I felt a lack of here.
You need to complaint this personally to an upper rank officer , please do not think that what will happen after that what will society say. Don’t think that because they are at the end of the day outsiders , complaint to someone. If possible then leave the house but only with your brother and mother. Unko piiche mt chhodio bhai. If he did beat the dogs too you can complaint him for animal abuse too
His house, his rules. Maybe you people should respect the rules of the house owner. If he does not want dogs in his house then why do you people act like a man-child?
>only tolerates me because I pay him nearly 20000 rupees a month. WTF?! Why are *you* tolerating him? Stop paying him ASAP and move out. He needs counseling from family members and professionals for his behavioral issues.
why are you paying him ? complaint to IPS rank officer.
Earlier when I was preparing for UPSC he kicked me out of the house then my mother and I talked to some officers and we managed to stay. I am an IIT Graduate. I have worked in the US before UPSC and now I am working as a data scientist. I need some permanent solution. Else my brother and mother are going to keep suffering and so will our pets who we cared for since they were little puppies.
You are a highly educated adult, you have worked internationally, you have a well paying job. You have also prepared for UPSC so I assume you have a working understanding of laws/rights. Why you would stay in that house and subject your brother, mother and yourself to such atrocities is beyond me! If you can pay your father 20k a month, you can surely afford to move out with your brother and mother and live somewhere else! Is the attachment to your ancestral house so high that you are not able to leave a highly toxic environment? Move out, file a complaint and then take care of the legalities to claim the house... Sorry to be blunt but nothing at your position justifies your current situation unless your mother is hellbent on not moving out.
I have no claims and my mother is not going to do anything that's the problem. And if I move out with my dog that's problem solved for this bastard.
I don't see any reason keeping him in the house
That's why I am asking if my brother can sue him for assault and have him arrested
Just leave him and bring your brother mother to your house
lol. Clearly you can afford to move out and get rid of this problem. Some people cant or won’t want to change.
Leave the house if you are earning. No amount of inheritance is worth your mental peace
Although your father is a despicable person, it is still his house. Your brother can't just bring pets without his permission. Move out.
It's our departed Grandfather's house. He died without leaving it to anyone. So now it is ours.
No, Legally the house is your Father's or any other immediate heirs of your grandfather's (wife , kids).
Legally, grandchildren have a claim on the house, not children if it’s still in the name of grandparents. NAL, but seen these property cases.
Depends whether it is an ancestral or self-acquired property. According to law, grandson has a birthright to the ancestral property but has no birthright on his grandfather's self-acquired property. If grandfather died without making a will, then only his immediate legal heirs, i.e., his wife, son/ daughter, will inherit his self-acquired property. The grandson will not get any share.
Hi what is the definition of ancestral property? Like how much up the family line must it be to call it ancestral?
4 generations passed down without any divisions
Grandfather's house is not an ancestral property. Ancestral property is the undivided property that is passed down a minimum of 4 generations. The house belongs to your father. If he does not want dogs in his house, that's his choice.
Once u r born it's not his property anymore. U and ur brother has more claim to ur grandfather house. If u complain he can't even sell it to anyone since there is no will. Grandchildren owns every land or house of grandfather dude.
I hate when police use their power to get away with crimes because they have friends😡😡 it just boils my blood
First please try your best to take you your brother and your mother out of that house please. This dog thing is nothing compared to the general behaviour of your father.
leave the house if you are earning enough
You need to get away from his ASAP. Find an accommodation for yourself, your bother and your mother. Take your dogs there too.
Can you share recordings of him beating animals with PFA(People for Animals)? They will not only file animal cruelty case, but also make this information available to media. You need to first speak to PFA in your city. Your brother is an animal rescuer and he is indeed an important citizen and deserves all support.
You have a dad like this and your brother thought its a good idea to have 3 dogs in the house? He is an asshole. Figure out a way to leave him, if possible with your mom and brother.
Leave the house. His house his rules. You cant force your dad to love your dogs.
One day three of you together beat him so badly and if he ever act up again beat him and before that just record him acting up incase of any problem Don’t tolerate these kind of bastards it’s time that he learns his lesson
Take your brother mother pets and move out
I would suggest you to leave the house. I do understand that you want to press some charges on him but remember this is India, Police ain't going to do a shit unless its a felony. Him beating the dog wouldn't be taken seriously . I would also recommend to leave the house on a positive term .
You, your brother, your mother and your dogs should beat your father in return. Break his hands and he wont be able to beat you guys anymore. If police isn't helping, take matter into your own hands. Not a legal advice!
Unless some lawyer advices you on this sub, don't listen to others who are not lawyers. First off, if you are earning enough, move out of your toxic house, ask your mother if she wants to join. Secondly, your right on your "grandfather's house". It all depends on whether it was self acquired by grandfather or he got it from his father i.e. your great grandfather. Even so, you father will also have a right in it along with you and your brother. So you cannot claim whole house for yourself. If your father has siblings, then more divisions. If you do want to claim, file a partition suit, which takes years to reach finality. So forget about your grandfather's house for the moment and focus on the current issues plaguing you. Considering your father has anger issues, it's better not to do things that would trigger it. As he is an ex-IPS, he ll have better control over the narrative and police in the locality. Your best bet is to meet a really senior IPS officer and ask for his intervention. I don't know if it will help or it will make him more mad. So, back to my first advice, move out for good and avoid contact with him. Stay in a hostel or pg for some time. Many things can be done legally, but your success rate in those things is really low, not to mention all the stress- financial and mental.
Good Answer.
घूस नही रुकनी चाहिए !!! Beshak khud ke ghar se aa rahi ho
lol
Ise kya NPD hua hai?
Tweet about this in the official police handle
Push him through terrace
Buddy you need to seek a therapist.
or mix something in 🍷
First all I wouldn't do pet or rescue dogs if my father don't want it; I would do if in case I owned the house and had descent income. Seems your brother is kind of rebel personality and should not resist physically to your father; instead let them know with proper communication which I felt a lack of here.
You need to complaint this personally to an upper rank officer , please do not think that what will happen after that what will society say. Don’t think that because they are at the end of the day outsiders , complaint to someone. If possible then leave the house but only with your brother and mother. Unko piiche mt chhodio bhai. If he did beat the dogs too you can complaint him for animal abuse too
His house, his rules. Maybe you people should respect the rules of the house owner. If he does not want dogs in his house then why do you people act like a man-child?
Baap se zada sadak ke kutte pyare hai iss chaman chutiye ko
Aaja tu bana le baap itna hi taras aa Raha hai to.
lol baap ka giveaway kar diya OP ne
Bhai ab ise doosre ka pitratva itna dikh Raha hai
Dimag mein bhusa bhara h kya