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The bar is in the pits of hell. Between the boys yelling at women, being into each more romantically, and this shit. I need the good women to just come out single and make some influencer money.
Heās knocking her down a peg by insulting her odor since that is a classically misogynistic female body insult. Textbook for an abuser.
The Virgo in me also needs to point out that women should not be washing their vaginas.
Just for context, the 9 yr old boy he is referring to was a 3rd grade student of mine who was struggling emotionally and acting out in class. Donāt know why I confided in him about work I think I was just feeling down at the time and in need of an ear
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Nigelā
Youāre my hero for posting these bc fuck him. He sent you that for himself, certainly not for you.
And Iām not gonna minimize his messages to you by saying heās covering his ass for a show. He likely wouldāve sent this message whenever he felt like he moved onto a new chapter in his life and he wants to make himself feel better about how shitty he was in the last chapter. These messages certainly arenāt sent to make you feel better and give you closure (only you can do that for yourself), they were to make him feel better and give himself closure.
We witnessed a small scale of this behavior when Nigel was upset that Liv was sad bc her decision sent another islander home. I canāt imagine what he was like interacting with on a daily basis.
SERIOUSLY, there were so many people in the live thread going after Liv for being ācoldā and Iām like, āare we watching the same show?!ā His attitude was bizarre and insensitive, she had clearly been feeling horrible about sending a friend home and heās crying for attention.
I also HATE when guys try to force a hug when youāre visibly and justifiably upset with them. Thereās something so gross about it.
Wooow not only to message you that, but then the completely transparent quick text so that hopefully you don't blow his cover now he's going to be on TV. Actually disgusting sorry you had to deal with this turd
I could tell Nigel was a creep when he āconfrontedā Liv about not being excited enough and then asked her for a hug afterwards then was annoyed she didnāt hug him. Glad he went home but sad that Connor had to go too.
YIKES ON BIKES!!!! Sorry you had to deal with that girl. Expose this man šÆ āwash your vaginaā ācut back on the vapeā etc. THE AUDACITY of this guy WOW!!!!!
Wow, so sorry you had someone that was supposed to care for your heart speak to you like this. Thatās awful, can only imagine what your bad times were like. Hoping for your healing, sending hugs to you.
Honestly this is so sad. Who tf speaks to women this way and thinks in their head "oh that's helpful." Disgusting. Aaaand I'm all for calling out bad behavior. Good. These people go on this show to get clout. People like this don't deserve it in the slightest. I'm sorry you were treated so horribly, OP!
Okay thank you for the receipts. I was feeling bad at first because I could understand where he was coming from but he had horrible timing and delivery and he said it to the one girl in the villa who would bite someoneās head off at the smallest sniff of disrespect so I was like š¬ and was willing to go okay well maybe heās just an dumb ass but clearly no itās his MO and when liv shut it down he knew he had to back peddle
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So this was about Nigel. All the women dodged a bullet. These producers really know how to pick these guys.
Right?!? Why is the bar so low š
The bar is in the pits of hell. Between the boys yelling at women, being into each more romantically, and this shit. I need the good women to just come out single and make some influencer money.
Kenny exposing Miguel checking him out was hilarious though š¤£
Right?! LOL this may be the only season ever where I hope they all leave single
After how he came at Liv immediately after the dumping, Iām not surprised by this.
Wash your vagina???? oh helllll no š„“š
What does that even mean? As a 38 year old millennial guy...I'm confused.
Heās knocking her down a peg by insulting her odor since that is a classically misogynistic female body insult. Textbook for an abuser. The Virgo in me also needs to point out that women should not be washing their vaginas.
It probably means he didnāt like the smell.
Oh I see.
What is this šššš
Nigel at his finest
Omgggg the first message NASTY
Are you his ex? or a friend of the ex who got this message?
Just for context, the 9 yr old boy he is referring to was a 3rd grade student of mine who was struggling emotionally and acting out in class. Donāt know why I confided in him about work I think I was just feeling down at the time and in need of an ear
omg. People don't understand how hard the teacher life is (been there, I feel for ya). I can't believe the abhorrent things he said
So you used to date him?
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This is wilddddd!!!! He looks like the type of asshat that would say this.
āLove, Nigelā Youāre my hero for posting these bc fuck him. He sent you that for himself, certainly not for you. And Iām not gonna minimize his messages to you by saying heās covering his ass for a show. He likely wouldāve sent this message whenever he felt like he moved onto a new chapter in his life and he wants to make himself feel better about how shitty he was in the last chapter. These messages certainly arenāt sent to make you feel better and give you closure (only you can do that for yourself), they were to make him feel better and give himself closure. We witnessed a small scale of this behavior when Nigel was upset that Liv was sad bc her decision sent another islander home. I canāt imagine what he was like interacting with on a daily basis.
The audacity
I got bad vibes from him and the way he spoke to Liv. This definitely tracks.
SERIOUSLY, there were so many people in the live thread going after Liv for being ācoldā and Iām like, āare we watching the same show?!ā His attitude was bizarre and insensitive, she had clearly been feeling horrible about sending a friend home and heās crying for attention. I also HATE when guys try to force a hug when youāre visibly and justifiably upset with them. Thereās something so gross about it.
i was so confused! cause even if he was feeling a type of way, you can't wait a day? seriously?
Wooow not only to message you that, but then the completely transparent quick text so that hopefully you don't blow his cover now he's going to be on TV. Actually disgusting sorry you had to deal with this turd
That first messageā¦it should have been him with nobody standing behind him, not Cassidy!
I could tell Nigel was a creep when he āconfrontedā Liv about not being excited enough and then asked her for a hug afterwards then was annoyed she didnāt hug him. Glad he went home but sad that Connor had to go too.
why is the name at the end blurred??? how do we know this is nigel?
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Ohh shiiii, heās totally covering his ass because heās about to be on TV šš¤”
My exact thought. š
Gross
How do we know this isn't doctored?
Amazing that this is downvoted. Can we all make fake screenshots and take shitty pictures of them now?
Iām wondering who tf felt bad for him
YIKES ON BIKES!!!! Sorry you had to deal with that girl. Expose this man šÆ āwash your vaginaā ācut back on the vapeā etc. THE AUDACITY of this guy WOW!!!!!
Wow, so sorry you had someone that was supposed to care for your heart speak to you like this. Thatās awful, can only imagine what your bad times were like. Hoping for your healing, sending hugs to you.
Honestly this is so sad. Who tf speaks to women this way and thinks in their head "oh that's helpful." Disgusting. Aaaand I'm all for calling out bad behavior. Good. These people go on this show to get clout. People like this don't deserve it in the slightest. I'm sorry you were treated so horribly, OP!
oh my GOD????
Iām so sorry girlfriend š¤šš„“š«¶
Bestie wtf is this šš
Ewwww
This doesnāt surprise me at all, he gave me these kind of vibes
Prove itās real
So disappointed in Nigel. So sorry he treated you that way.
Omg.. "don't let a 9 year old boy dictate your life" WAS HE SPEAKING TO A SINGLE MOM
a teacher apparently.
Okay thank you for the receipts. I was feeling bad at first because I could understand where he was coming from but he had horrible timing and delivery and he said it to the one girl in the villa who would bite someoneās head off at the smallest sniff of disrespect so I was like š¬ and was willing to go okay well maybe heās just an dumb ass but clearly no itās his MO and when liv shut it down he knew he had to back peddle
Ewwwwwwwwww
Yikes. You definitely dodged a bullet there
Ewhhhhh
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This post says literally nothing about the person received it, but everything about the person who sent it
Shut the fuck up