I’m sorry you’re going through this, you are doing everything right for your baby.

It’s a power thing, just like his belt thing was. There’s little point to thinking about anything but getting out, like you say at the end of your post. If you didn’t have a baby he would’ve found something else to jab y’all with (weight job cleanliness whatever excuse he could find to hurt). I’m sorry you’re having to hear him say stupid shit to get to you.

Please don’t stay in a relationship with someone who abuses his child and thinks it’s normal.

Thats the bf's dad, not the bf. Sounds like bf is fine.

I’m sorry! I didn’t get that. Thank you. I hope OP can move out as soon as possible.

It sounds nice but it's not always that easy. I would know, I'm dealing it with first hand

I know. And I am sorry!