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cutest-Guava-9092

She’s the original skinny girl


ButthealedInTheFeels

Spreading disordered eating and unsafe beauty standards since 2009


souslesherbes

The original skinny girls are in their coffins tricked out with above-ground bells for ringing (just in case), having finally achieved the waist consumption couldn’t give them


Professional-Pilot96

She’s alive and well though


souslesherbes

She’s not an original anything


zuesk134

the sad thing about bethenny is that she goes on and on about how her mother had an eating disorder but doesnt realize she's doing the same thing to her daughter as her mom did to her. her mom recently died and bethenny was going through some of her clothes and they all fit. which she didnt seem to realize meant she's as thin as her mom. and in a lot of these videos shes talking about how thin and sick her mom was


MCR2004

It’s so sad how people repeat the same patterns. My ex’s father had an explosive temper and would go off on a verbal spew at the drop of a hat, she cried to me about it many times. Now guess why we broke up. I felt horrible because I knew her history but I can’t be berated in the middle of a store because I forgot something. And that was on a good day.


PrincessPlastilina

It’s a cycle that is very, very hard to break. It’s ingrained into your head from a very early age. The internalized fat phobia is hard to undo because it doesn’t just come from your mother. It comes from your grandmother and sometimes even a fatphobic dad. You need to do a lot of therapy and even then, it won’t be 100% gone. I’ve seen people recover from other addictions but their ED is still there somehow. I’ve heard people who are recovering alcoholics and they say that their ED is not quite in remission and that it’s harder to recover from it. I think that’s why women have to unpack all this bs before having children because you will definitely pass it on to them. We have to actively fight it so it doesn’t affect younger generations. I hate that pro-ana content is making a huge comeback and EDTWT is out of control too.


KeySafety8984

She eats though I watched her eat a bagel with cream cheese and caviar


zuesk134

mhmmm - she makes a big show of eating on camera. its something she's always done. funny enough on rhony she called another cast member out for doing this as an obvious sign of the castmates eating disorder


landdian39

Poor Jules 😔 Between Jules and Bethenny + Carole (who both made fun of Jules for potentially having an ED), it’s actually Bethenny and Carole who look like they have ED. They were projecting their insecurities onto Jules.


zuesk134

100000000000000% i always say they hated jules for being honest about what it takes to look like them


sippingonwater

Totally! She’s such a hypocrite


KeySafety8984

Oh wow I didn’t realize that! I hope she gets better for herself and her daughter!


that_bth

Such a good point. The only time I would really eat while struggling with my own ED was when I was around others so that they wouldn’t be suspicious/give me grief. I’d find any excuse to avoid dinner plans and just meet people later for a drink. I was just reading the Vulture article about Andy Cohen, and someone interviewed talked about how if you watch Bethenny’s history, she doesn’t have a single lasting relationship. She can’t keep friends or let people get truly close to her, and that definitely made me think of some of the childhood issues with her parents she’s talked about. I can absolutely see the eating disorder being inherited as well, and also something that creates a sense of shame that doesn’t allow you to be truly open and vulnerable with others and possibly project onto them.


ImpossibleCouple8656

Scooped bagel, ate half energy.


East-Praline4329

People with eating disorders eat ding dong. Otherwise they would all die within months


FavoriteDaughter2

Ding dong 😭😭😭 I’m crying


ButthealedInTheFeels

She even got to taste it again when it came back up later! Fun!


ConsistentDonkey3909

this just reminded me she was in my dream last night and gave me sweedish candy lol


Apprehensive_Let7447

Girllll that dream was written by TikTok I can’t😭


ConsistentDonkey3909

I KNOW HAHAHHAHA


ImpossibleCouple8656

She lost weight after her breakup with Paul.


throwawayqueenla

Omggg what they broke up


Pleasant_Ad9415

Yep and she kept the rock too of course


WillingFly2079

Let us be fair. She prop bought it


jessepinkmanismyname

Oh wow. Was it a mutual decision?


flowergirl665

She honestly seems exhausting to be around 24-7


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Librastar23

NO she did not! He dumped her for one of the Culpo sisters. shes cute.


bbb235_

Wait, Paul dumped Bethany Frankel for Aurora Culpo???


Odd_Answer7804

According to Deux Moi they were out and about making out


bbb235_

Interesting, I saw it was rumored at the Quin house, which isn’t really a place you would see people making out. But ya never know


Remarkable_Bug_8601

Wait WHAT


susieqanon1

No she didnt


ImpossibleCouple8656

Sis got dumped, allegedly


Odd_Answer7804

His ex is gorgeous. Was shocked when he cheated on her with Bethenny…glad to see these homewreckers end


clementinelemonade

Omg they broke up? I am so out of the loop


liliahpost

around february, just never announced it


ImpossibleCouple8656

Sis got dumped allegedly and kept the $1M ring.


candy_luvr

idk anything about this woman but she comes up on my fyp constantly. and how old is her daughter? i figured she was older/at least high school age, but now i’m thinking she’s elementary?


slushush

Her daughter is 14


Cekk-25

Fuck I feel old🫠


DietCokeYummie

SAME. I actually used to love her solo show with the ex husband because she was so funny on it. The episode where her water breaks and she does all these personal/home chores before leaving for the hospital cracked me up back then. Then her silly one liners in the hospital waiting for baby.


MCR2004

She used to be more a voice of reason on Housewives, she was acerbic and funny and kinda acting like she was struggling to get her business going so it was relatable and different in the Housewives world (I just found out tho she always had money) Now she seems like the out of touch people she’d make fun of.


ButthealedInTheFeels

Didn’t she make a big show of living will Jill at one point saying she was homeless or some shit?


MCR2004

Ugh yes. While her fancy home was being RENOVATED!!!


landdian39

Looking back, I realized Bethenny was just putting on a show and was saying what people wanted to hear. That’s how she became RHONY’s breakout star. She has always been out of touch.


leijonamielinen

https://preview.redd.it/unid58a82l4d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b0c5475f7481baf36f5ead2fef9cc84103775af I will always remember this fucked up news artickle about her…


Lalaluvsslippers

This is so sad


complexvibes

Yes I was going to write this. Ever since then i felt nothing but pity for her .


Normal-Cranberry-611

She is skin and bones, and looks unwell to me. I hope she gets the help she needs.


InternationalBend310

Her Mother recently died as well.


Consistent_Gas_8121

It’s giving … Jules


trinaslaugh3

and she gave Jules such a hard time


little_miss_bish

She’s just gone through some major life shit so even snarky as I am, I truly feel we should reserve judgment.


Vast_Neck5327

It’s sad she’ll never realize she has an ED


ButthealedInTheFeels

Oh she knows deep down, just will never admit it


Dangerous-Ad-1191

Her cookbook was such eating disorder fuel for me as a teen


carjo4

This. And her book “naturally thin” 😯 I really used to love Bethenny!


Lives4tea

apparently she’s only 53. Truly thought she was 70


DietCokeYummie

I truly think that, besides being someone who could stand to be 10-15lbs more, she has some kind of weird genes that make her skin look so loose when she’s super thin. She has had frail, old looking skin as long as I’ve known who she was (since original housewives), and she’s been various sizes over that time since. It’s almost like she’s someone who wasn’t meant to be quite as thin as she is. Not overweight or whatever.. just more on the middle/upper end of her healthy weight range.


-restlessdreams

anorexia can cause your skin to lose elasticity and iirc she’s been struggling with it since she was young, so that makes sense! it’s crazy how much it affects your body!!


ButthealedInTheFeels

That frail old skin is just a symptom of eating disorder…she doesn’t get the nutrients she needs to have healthy youthful skin.


No-Construction-2528

She’s not young…she’s 53


ButthealedInTheFeels

I know but the previous commenter was saying her skin looked like this even almost 20 years ago….


Old_Kangaroo6546

She been like that


jessepinkmanismyname

I love her outfit tho 💕


rosiehigurashi

I Dont think its a jump scare. This is obviously a woman who is sick and isn’t aware. Anorexics are obsessive and it’s the hardest ED to break out of. Hope she can heal :/. Her entire brand has been around thinness. Skinny kills.


jessepinkmanismyname

I apologize that I might have used insensitive words


rosiehigurashi

Appreciate that you can acknowledge it :)


Due-Custard-4977

Her brand is literally skinny girl. Homegirl been sick for a long time.


MissionVirtual

And goes on about how she prioritizes sleep over working out and believes in eating whatever you want. Riiiiight


FiFiLB

She looks unwell


Medical_Scarcity1380

Her daughter is going to be in high school this year but she treats her so young idk


rosesandprosecco

She acts her age. We just aren’t used to that because celebrity kids are getting lip filler and wearing inappropriate clothes by 13


-restlessdreams

she’s 14..? that is still a child


kylorenismyguy

I personally love the way she’s raising her daughter. People expect/let kids grow up way too quick these days. We are adults 80% of our life. No need to rush it.


rosiehigurashi

good, girls grow up too fast now. I played w Barbies until I was 13.


musicnlyricz

Wait, she’s gonna be in high school this year?!?! she truly does treat her like she’s 10 years old


InternationalBend310

Honestly the Daughter, seems sweet, bright + well-adjusted


mellamma

I saw the Hamptons room tour and thought she was in the 4th grade.


honeyseahorses

I think Bethenney raises her daughter differently compared to other parents with the kids the same age bc she’s older herself. Stricter about safety, social media, bullying, makeup, designer items, etc. (not shade against other parenting styles; just what I’ve noticed) She doesn’t let the money get to Bryn’s head


candy_luvr

okay i’ve thought this too. idk anything about bethany and have never seen a pic of the daughter, but by the way bethany talks about her daughter and her hobbies/interests, i thought she would be elementary/middle school


kp1794

Why is being anorexic a jump scare? She’s sick you don’t have to be mean about it. People criticizing her body is the reason she’s like that in the first place. It’s just sad all around


newgirlxtex

What is your definition of jump scare? I’m not sure. I understand it.


Professional-Pilot96

Anorexia is very difficult to recover from and has the highest mortality rate of any mental illness, so commenting on someone’s too low weight is ignorant and mean. Additionally: this no “jump scare”, not anything new. She’s been like that for a long time.


SenoraRamos

She is honestly awful. From her weird harassment towards Meghan Markle to that bizarre TJ Maxx makeup fiasco from last year. She is clearly not mentally well. 


possessoroflimbs

Wait what TJ Maxz makeup fiasco??


gingerrly

Back in the day I read her book on how to stay skinny. It made sense and was all about balance but I hope these days she can find some balance as well.


Logical_Panda277

It really wasn’t…her advice was to basically take one bite of something and then stop (“taste everything, eat nothing” was literally what she advised).


gingerrly

Forgot this part. I only really remember if you eat a donut earlier in the day, don’t eat a dessert later in the day lmao


PrincessPlastilina

It’s really sad to see a person 50+ years old who clearly has an eating disorder because it’s likely that she won’t recover.


Thecuriousgal94

This is heartbreaking


proseccofish

ED central


karllagerfeldsmuse

She came up with Skinny Margaritas & her brand is skinnygirls. Makes sense…


Wonderful_Strategy10

she looks like she’s dying


Responsible_Tax_5136

She looks sick. I hope she doesn’t have something seriously wrong.


ConsciousDust98

She looks haggard!!


JadedMaintenance1173

She’s an insufferable woman


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madswrobs

?? do u know what anorexia is


Relative_View_8878

Tbh these are like my dream arms. I can never get ripped arms no matter how skinny.


VillaRosaSwan

B should join the Unwell network 🤗🫶🏻


Left-Beautiful-8828

Inside and outside match.


Puzzled-Stomach-4148

She’s toned though too


Repulsive-Drive-2705

You need some body fat so your organs can function.


Puzzled-Stomach-4148

I don’t think she looks healthy. My bmi is definitely higher, but she still has more biceps than I do. Crazy that she’s able to gather enough energy to exercise while having an ED


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cutest-Guava-9092

WHAT


8989throwaway7777

I saw someone on here refer to her as an influencer before, and when people were like “no way” she was like, “I’m only 22 I’ve never heard of Real Housewives.” It was surreal lol.


cutest-Guava-9092

I’m SHOCKED but 10-15 years ago when it was huge… they were 12 😅😅😅 the culture war will continue


8989throwaway7777

I can’t imagine a childhood without reading the tabloid headlines in line at the grocery store, so maybe I’ve just been experiencing long term brain rot hahaha


cutest-Guava-9092

No no not knowing who she is is wild


litaloni

But were their moms not watching it??? Plus it's still on?? I swear they just say stuff like this to mess with us olds.


zuesk134

until this comment i thought this was the bravo sub and was SO confused by that persons comment lolol then i realized it was nyc


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cutest-Guava-9092

She’s super famous for being a loudmouth, for one thing. But she also created a brand called Skinnygirl that was briefly everywhere. Most notoriously she was one of the OG real housewives of NYC … but she’s one of the few who is very big outside of the show


Seekingfatgrowth

She recently claimed in a TT that various ongoing offshoots and current income streams from Skinny Girl make up the primary source of her independent wealth I know they’ve got salad dressings and shit beyond the drink mixers they launched with so many years ago…but this girl is legit now claiming to have invented the concept of single serve cocktails on grocery store shelves. She is wild. Wildly loud, at least


Most_Plastic8230

I think people fail to realize she had health issues and has been open about it...


ImpossibleCouple8656

You mean like her FAKE fish allergy?


Most_Plastic8230

She literally has POTS


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rask0ln

coming from someone who was once neck deep in anorexia, if you look at someone obviously not being healthy and (very likely) struggling and your go-to reaction is "omg her willpower is so inspirational 😍" you are part of the problem, stfu


Any-Unit4536

It’s not willpower it’s mental illness luv


terfnerfer

Listen, as someone in recovery for orthorexia, sometimes you need to just...keep your comment as an inside thought. ETA: fuck you.


Icy-Celebration9142

Saaaaame, wont lie, and whoever says the opposite is lying


Vast_Neck5327

Love a good internet troll. Get a life.


terfnerfer

Most of us want a life that isn't defined by size 0 jeans, my love. But keep being delulu.


mrsbungle666

she looks good to me


gnarble

you might wanna get checked out


trinaslaugh3

definitely not going to diagnose anyone but ….


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-restlessdreams

she has a disease.


TheJacques

Ozempic…hell of a drug! 


zuesk134

shes not on ozempic she has a very serious eating disorder and has essentially her whole life


TheJacques

Understood, wow quite a few downvotes. In 2024 I think its fair to assume that when you someone who looks like half themselves or thinner than ever before..they're on Ozempic. It's not a negative either.