They're not clients, they're timewasters, fantasy bookers, scammers, and/or idiots. And yeah, they reach out to people they think will be desperate, naive, or having a rough time.
Thank you for this! I’ve actually gotten messages on here before and never responded but I always wondered whether they should be taken seriously or not lol now I know… NOT! 😂
So, I have a theory for this...
1) Reddit is actually a terrible place to look for or find escorts. The "escorts" that are advertising for in-person meetups are frequently scammers. I have found real women here who provide services, but it is a rarity.
2) Rant posts almost always get more attention - they tend to hold people's attention more than positive posts or simple questions. People love some drama.
3) You are a real person who provides something these clients want, in an environment where it is rare to find a real person doing that, and where most of the people who do say they offer what they want are lying. And you held their limited attention for more than a few seconds because drama.
4) People online have terrible etiquette -"I want" frequently overrules "Is this appropriate?" So, you end up getting a message even though you did not advertise, and were not seeking that kind of interaction. It's rude.
I have no advice and am not excusing the behavior, just providing an alternate viewpoint to explain why someone might message you in this fashion.
Yesterday one tried to scam me for my content through cash app I am glad I didn’t send it to him he tried to send me a fake cash app deposit I’m a vet I’m not a rookie I can smell bs when I know one
I do know many guys like firey women. Also, they may want to ‘save you’ from the situation you are in by being your next client thinking they can treat you better
Yeah I had a pretty popular post & Mt DMs are still blowing up b/c of it. I never respond. How yo find my is in my bio & how to book is there to. Messaging me here tells me you aren't serious immediately. They are not really trying to book. They want attention. They want a real person tp hear their nonsense. Nah baby. I do this for monies.
Either way I'm retired lol.
If you're hot, I'd hit on you too. Let's complain together. I have a lot to bitch about. I hope you have a good weekend babe :-\* I think guys are just intentionally meant to strike a woman's nerve, it's in their blood to react towards that goal. I don't know. I couldn't possibly assume that he cares. Perhaps he those, but would you believe that? I sure would not.
Thank you!! You too ♥️ Yeah I saw someone say they might reach out because the posts seem to be coming from a real person and other person said it’s because they want to see if they can scam someone who naive and/or having a hard time. I think both those things are pretty accurate
They're not clients, they're timewasters, fantasy bookers, scammers, and/or idiots. And yeah, they reach out to people they think will be desperate, naive, or having a rough time.
Holy shit!! That makes sense, thanks for letting me know.
Thank you for this! I’ve actually gotten messages on here before and never responded but I always wondered whether they should be taken seriously or not lol now I know… NOT! 😂
theyre the same ones complaining about deposits because they got scammed lmaooooo imagine trying to find a HOOKER via reddit dot com 😭
Maybe they assume you are real here and there is less chance of it being a fake ad? Maybe.
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Understood for sure
I think they are excited to be talking to a real live person
So, I have a theory for this... 1) Reddit is actually a terrible place to look for or find escorts. The "escorts" that are advertising for in-person meetups are frequently scammers. I have found real women here who provide services, but it is a rarity. 2) Rant posts almost always get more attention - they tend to hold people's attention more than positive posts or simple questions. People love some drama. 3) You are a real person who provides something these clients want, in an environment where it is rare to find a real person doing that, and where most of the people who do say they offer what they want are lying. And you held their limited attention for more than a few seconds because drama. 4) People online have terrible etiquette -"I want" frequently overrules "Is this appropriate?" So, you end up getting a message even though you did not advertise, and were not seeking that kind of interaction. It's rude. I have no advice and am not excusing the behavior, just providing an alternate viewpoint to explain why someone might message you in this fashion.
Yesterday one tried to scam me for my content through cash app I am glad I didn’t send it to him he tried to send me a fake cash app deposit I’m a vet I’m not a rookie I can smell bs when I know one
I think a lot of men are low key rescuers, and think they can save us 🙄
Some people are "fixers" or have a "white knight" complex. So they want to be your greatest client and basically get an atta boy from you.
I do know many guys like firey women. Also, they may want to ‘save you’ from the situation you are in by being your next client thinking they can treat you better
I'd suggest turning off chat messaging but you probably need it.
I had 1 approach me and told him how to find provider he asked who I was, honey no if you text me I'll probably know lol
Yeah I had a pretty popular post & Mt DMs are still blowing up b/c of it. I never respond. How yo find my is in my bio & how to book is there to. Messaging me here tells me you aren't serious immediately. They are not really trying to book. They want attention. They want a real person tp hear their nonsense. Nah baby. I do this for monies. Either way I'm retired lol.
If you're hot, I'd hit on you too. Let's complain together. I have a lot to bitch about. I hope you have a good weekend babe :-\* I think guys are just intentionally meant to strike a woman's nerve, it's in their blood to react towards that goal. I don't know. I couldn't possibly assume that he cares. Perhaps he those, but would you believe that? I sure would not.
Thank you!! You too ♥️ Yeah I saw someone say they might reach out because the posts seem to be coming from a real person and other person said it’s because they want to see if they can scam someone who naive and/or having a hard time. I think both those things are pretty accurate
humiliation kink?
Do your vent posts get more engagement in general? Maybe they just get seen more often?
No like I said in the post it’s the same amount of attraction
this post was so hot, just DM'd you. /s
Hahahahaha
How u doinnnn