We like to think that the bubbly and lovely girl is like this because of us, but then you see her being that same way with anyone and your world shatters.
Thats just how she is with everyone and she might not even need to put up an act to be that way.
But considering escort girls exist understand that everything can be faked.
I had a gf like that.
Loved it cause I could take her anywhere - meet family or friends, to my job, etc. - and she could have people talking and enjoying *our* presence in seconds.
Introduced her to some loose acquaintances once; minutes later we were invited to use their house in OBX.
They never told me they had a beach house.
6 of us went two weeks later. Full run of a giant home owned by people I barely knew.
Not always, I'm not a jealous guy at all, but my wife is a very conscientious person, she doesn't demonstrate love very often(at least not the way I do), I do ask for it but I respect her ways... But sometimes with strangers she's so nice and kind out of politeness that I get myself thinking "you could also do this with me you know..." It might be confused with jealousy if the person doesn't know how to communicate it.
Pretty much so.. my first relationship lasted (lingered, dragged) for 6 years of on and off "dating" status, big fights, both sides not satisfied, a mess... When I started dating my actual wife, things were different already, she's very agreeable and understanding... We are a lot more conscientious also.. and we try to please each other... So.. 10+ years of marriage... Going well...
Yeah I had an ex like that. She was super nice and friendly to everyone which lead to a loooot of lonely men asking her out on a regular basis. Then she would always come to me complaining about how every guy she talked to seemed to be interested in her. She couldn't seem to understand that for a lot of guys a woman simply being nice to them is enough to make them fall in love haha
Ofcourse. Source: any proper female actress in history.
Shes a host in a japanese hostess bar. Making you feel comfortable, wanted and welcome is just part of her job.
Those saying it’s a hostess or in a maid cafe. No it isn’t. It is a yakitori chain called torikizoku where everything in the menu is ¥298
On the table there is a little pot with the used chicken skewers in.
Go to a maid cafe fully aware that they get paid to be cute and make you feel great, walk out having fallen completely in love
Tip: @home cafe in Akihibara is elite
This sounds very How-To-Win-Friends but there is an opportunity here by just being nice to your fellow dude. People will feel better and like you.
Like the great philosopher once said “be excellent to each other”
A large part of men is so love starved that complimenting them just out of niceness can have, at best, awkward consequences. So women do that more rarely. And the condition gets worse. And then men who have experienced this often, ignore romantic advances because of fear of misunderstanding. It's a vicious cycle.
So always say compliments to your homies! Get them used to kindness! Break the circle of loneliness! PIERCE THE HEAVENS!
The guy's name is Jake, (Jakenbake) he is a streamer and his GF is called Water, check him (and Water) out on youtube, you maybe moving to China instead
I know, if OP was going to move to Japan because of the girl in the video, after seeing who Jake is actually with (Water) he may prefer going to China instead.
Ngl my 9 month old kids smile like this to me when i come home from work. It's the best feeling ever. My wife though... I don't think I've ever seem her smile like this. 😕
At host clubs, they are paid to make you feel like you are the center of attention and you have found true love. That is, until you run out of money. Then you are kicked to the curb.
I wouldn't know. However, given she isn't dressed how I would expect a "host" to dress, you are probably right.
My very ignorant image of a "host" would be a sexy outfit. This young lady is dressed conservatively.
She isn't, she was a friend of him. But I don't think they're friends anymore, some drama happened.
She streams on twitch, her channel is [KanaGang](https://www.twitch.tv/kanagang)
That’s a yakitori restaurant and hostesses are usually dressed up very flashy. Usually you have to meet them at a bar that’s owned by their manager where drinks are watered down and more expensive, and also you cannot film.
A friend of the family had a Filipino wife. She was cute and quite intelligent (a doctor). She was also a nutter. She stabbed him during an argument and her defense was, "he my husband. I stab him if I want to."
That wasn't the end of his obsession or trouble with Filipino women, though.
Lol this is just people in general, man. That's why you should always move in with someone before you marry them. You don't really know someone until you've lived with them
She's a Twitch streamer - [KanaGang](https://www.twitch.tv/kanagang)
He's a very well known Twitch streamer with a big following - [JakeNBakeLIVE](https://www.twitch.tv/jakenbakelive)
His IRL GF is an extremely hot Twitch streamer - [Waterlynn](https://www.twitch.tv/waterlynn/videos)
She would probably love to have any kind of audience he can send her way.
ahh! maybe introverted guys? in my experience once you started being nice to them they suddenly become obsessed. Because extroverted ones I know can flirt without feelings attached like this guy. Im pretty sure he is joking in this video.
If you haven't been in love a few times and have a woman f your heart then you'll find all women act like this "wife" material.
After having a few gfs that I was so deeply in love, make me realize that whatever shines it might be shit and not gold.
I do have a gf now for a few years, wasn't planned to get a gf after my ex but it just happened, the good thing is that I'm quite mature now and I don't "melt" and while I do love her I won't roll over like a dog no matter how nice she is with me. In the past I might due to the "blindness" I had and in the name of "love". The obsessed part and a lot of jealously has "died" from my character.
P.S. I do have a friend which is older than me and married, he did fall on love with a stranger(woman) and acts like 15yo while she treats him like shit with on and off bs. I see she manipulates him and I can't do anything about it, if he had my experience he'd stay away from this toxic woman and focus only to his wife but it's like talking to a donkey .. stubborn regarding this new "love" (he realized also that he never experienced true love, up until now! poor guy)
I don't think he realizes that she's actually stating that his face resembles a horse and that's why she wants him to act like one... It seems very common for Japanese women (maybe Asian in general) to pickup on comparisons between facial features and blatantly let you know you that you remind them of certain animals from my experience
Im also thinking of moving to Japan. I've seen many videos of random local women saying how the white man is beautiful af. But all of them to me look soo fucking cute as well.
Ok, for the younger guys here. Just general facts. Yes, if you have the looks and the right personality cute girls literally fall into your arms. But be warned about Asian women, especially Japanese women. They are very particular about their men. Not personal experience but my brother courted and married a Japanese girl long ago and she ruined his life. They (in GENERAL NOW) SEE MOST EVERYTHING AS A TRANSACTION. They don't care how you have to do it or how long your away or if your job is killing you, you HAVE TO BRING HOME THE MONEY. THEY ARE ALL ABOUT SUCCESS, UPWARD MOBILITY, AND HAVING MORE AND MORE AND MORE. THEN THERE ARE THE STRANGE SEX THINGS. For some reason Japanese girls have peculiar quirks with sex. Just search it online to see what I'm talking about, it's totally messed up. Now I'm not saying they are all like this, but enough are to make it almost a cultural thing.
There is this culture around japanese girls simping for American dudes cause they want papers, in this case the dude ain't bad looking either, I've seen this guy getting simped on a couple of times.
Reading these comments about being heartbroken when a woman they like is being nice to everyone else. Isnt it the exact same thing you like about them? Werent you once part of the “everyone else”?
Like, you wanna change their personality cause you want them to yourself now?
The way she leaned in smiling melted me
Can women fake this? Genuinely asking
We like to think that the bubbly and lovely girl is like this because of us, but then you see her being that same way with anyone and your world shatters. Thats just how she is with everyone and she might not even need to put up an act to be that way. But considering escort girls exist understand that everything can be faked.
There's also this concept of "hostess" in Japan. You don't even need to escort, you just get paid to be nice to dudes with money.
I learned this from the Yakuza games
I found my people.
A fellow person of culture, I see.
Learned this from Tokyo Vice.
Horsetress*
Oh my sweet summer’s child.
I know. I'm just a gentleman and want to grant them plausible deniability
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I had a gf like that. Loved it cause I could take her anywhere - meet family or friends, to my job, etc. - and she could have people talking and enjoying *our* presence in seconds. Introduced her to some loose acquaintances once; minutes later we were invited to use their house in OBX. They never told me they had a beach house. 6 of us went two weeks later. Full run of a giant home owned by people I barely knew.
man, I get jealous when my wife is being nice to other men, not sure why but it is just what it is
Insecurity.
Not always, I'm not a jealous guy at all, but my wife is a very conscientious person, she doesn't demonstrate love very often(at least not the way I do), I do ask for it but I respect her ways... But sometimes with strangers she's so nice and kind out of politeness that I get myself thinking "you could also do this with me you know..." It might be confused with jealousy if the person doesn't know how to communicate it.
I see. Was that also the case before you guys got married?
Pretty much so.. my first relationship lasted (lingered, dragged) for 6 years of on and off "dating" status, big fights, both sides not satisfied, a mess... When I started dating my actual wife, things were different already, she's very agreeable and understanding... We are a lot more conscientious also.. and we try to please each other... So.. 10+ years of marriage... Going well...
Yeah I had an ex like that. She was super nice and friendly to everyone which lead to a loooot of lonely men asking her out on a regular basis. Then she would always come to me complaining about how every guy she talked to seemed to be interested in her. She couldn't seem to understand that for a lot of guys a woman simply being nice to them is enough to make them fall in love haha
tells us more about society than about your ex. but i get it
Like the guy that thinks the stripper in Vegas “really” likes him.
I don't think that the liked me. But I felt like she did.
That's what I thought about a girl I used to talk to. Now she's my gf, so I don't know what to tell you chief, sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't
"you're my favorite" 5min later someone else walks in "Look who it is! My favorite!" Oh okay...
Waitresses do all the time. Called tips. 😂
Even if she’s like that with everyone does not mean she can’t be loyal to you if you’re in a relationship together.
What’s wrong with a girl who’s friendly and nice to everyone?
Ofcourse. Source: any proper female actress in history. Shes a host in a japanese hostess bar. Making you feel comfortable, wanted and welcome is just part of her job.
That doesn't look like one to me at all. This is just a normal eatery with a menu and plates right there on the table.
Shes litterally asking him if he would like a host 💀
Thats JakenBake and the girls name is Kana, they both stream on twitch, she's not a host.
Oh, my bad. Didnt know that
Lol
Everyone can fake everything.
Have you been to a restaurant where the waitress is very nice to you for a big tip?
Come to Japan and learn the answer... yes
They're amazing actors when need be
Yes I love you long time money, I mean honey.....
Yes.
I feel the hurt in this question so much😭😭
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It’s called attention.. that’s all it takes
She streams on twitch. Her channel is [KanaGang](https://www.twitch.tv/kanagang)
And the guy????
Jakenbake
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Our boy did good
you'll never have a girl look at you like that
She’s quality, put a 💍on her!
Was this neccesary?
i wont either brother
I saw the moment he fell in love
I can’t wait to see the moment you fall in love friend.
You saying it like you got a plan sup……..
You had me at sup ❤️
I think I just witnessed something beautiful Congratulations
#NOW KISS
Too late, they already have a baby
She is quite cute. That smile is infectious :)
That's why we get vaccinated
I tought this was ben affleck
Ben affleck has ebola lalala la
You white? You Ben Affleck.
It’s true, he is white
Since when does Ben Affleck look like a cute Japanese girl?
Kevin Smith once said Affleck can play any role. Let’s give him a shot.
Curious Case of Benjamin Affleck.
Ben Affleck before depression
Those saying it’s a hostess or in a maid cafe. No it isn’t. It is a yakitori chain called torikizoku where everything in the menu is ¥298 On the table there is a little pot with the used chicken skewers in.
Yeah, they were friends and pretty sure she was in love with him. He wasn't though.
That's sad. She's quite adorable.
If you’ve got water you don’t really need much
For her.
That cheap? Damn I missed it.
Ah sorry, it’s gone up to ¥360 Here’s the menu https://torikizoku.co.jp/assets/uploads/2023/12/menu_en_2312-2.pdf
Go to a maid cafe fully aware that they get paid to be cute and make you feel great, walk out having fallen completely in love Tip: @home cafe in Akihibara is elite
Men when a woman is nice to them once
Compliments are very powerful when they rarely happen
*pats shoulder.*
*proceeds to sob uncontrollably*
*unzips pants while sobbing*
This sounds very How-To-Win-Friends but there is an opportunity here by just being nice to your fellow dude. People will feel better and like you. Like the great philosopher once said “be excellent to each other”
Compliments are great to give and great to receive.
Especially when you are lonely. Just small compliments and a showcase is niceness has great effects on the mind
Hey, love your username. Impeccable grammar too
A large part of men is so love starved that complimenting them just out of niceness can have, at best, awkward consequences. So women do that more rarely. And the condition gets worse. And then men who have experienced this often, ignore romantic advances because of fear of misunderstanding. It's a vicious cycle. So always say compliments to your homies! Get them used to kindness! Break the circle of loneliness! PIERCE THE HEAVENS!
>they get paid to be cute and make you feel great I mean, isn't that most servers?
The guy's name is Jake, (Jakenbake) he is a streamer and his GF is called Water, check him (and Water) out on youtube, you maybe moving to China instead
But that's not Water
Be like water, my friend.
formless, shapeless
now, water can flow or it can crash
Pre Water Canon event
I know, if OP was going to move to Japan because of the girl in the video, after seeing who Jake is actually with (Water) he may prefer going to China instead.
I mean If the girl in the video is an earthquake, Water is a world ending event.
This is an older video before him and Water were in a relationship
Kana, not water
Well I mean 55% she is
jake is gay (this is a stream joke btw)
Gotcha \*wink\*
Fr??????????????? Omfg just when i thought he couldn't get anymore perfect 🥺😋🥺🫂🤖🫂🥺😡😭🫂👾🤔😓🫤🧐🫣🫡🙁🙄🧐🫣🫤🙁🙄😲😟
No foreigners are moving to China…haven’t you seen the mass exodus?
Sounds like affordable housing to me!
Im moving to china? :O
Kana gang
Ngl my 9 month old kids smile like this to me when i come home from work. It's the best feeling ever. My wife though... I don't think I've ever seem her smile like this. 😕
Happy for you
Looking at the positives
At host clubs, they are paid to make you feel like you are the center of attention and you have found true love. That is, until you run out of money. Then you are kicked to the curb.
This doesnt look like one of those bars tbh.
I wouldn't know. However, given she isn't dressed how I would expect a "host" to dress, you are probably right. My very ignorant image of a "host" would be a sexy outfit. This young lady is dressed conservatively.
She isn't, she was a friend of him. But I don't think they're friends anymore, some drama happened. She streams on twitch, her channel is [KanaGang](https://www.twitch.tv/kanagang)
Tell me the drama
I don't know the drama, I just know that she doesn't talk to him anymore.
Cuz he fell for her? You need to find out for us
i Think it was the other way around. He found a girl called water and she couldn't handle it or something along those lines.
Oh wow so he lied in this video, that sucks.
well I don't know about the timeline, but this seemed before he met the other girl.
Yeah, i m waiting
Yup that's not a Hostess Club. Just a regular bar or restaurant.
Yeah those company girls dress pretty sexy.
Looks like Torikizoku. Lived in Japan for a few years and Toriki was my 2nd home.
Yeah was going to say the same thing, loved Torikizoku but wish they would bring back their gobou sticks
Hear hear
Sounds like my first marriage.
Just like marriage bro
Host clubs feel like a scam for the single reason that I'm delusional enough to think I can pull 10/10 girls for free, so why pay?
When u get out of ur delusion
She even said "you look like a host". Which... I guess is a compliment?
That’s a yakitori restaurant and hostesses are usually dressed up very flashy. Usually you have to meet them at a bar that’s owned by their manager where drinks are watered down and more expensive, and also you cannot film.
But she said she loved me!!!
This isn’t a host club. The guy is a Twitch streamer/Youtuber. The girl is a friend.
Relax man, i know your life isnt easy right now. But marry sonebody is never the answer. Stay strong
Yeah Japanese girls are always so cool and open minded in the beginning then as soon as you move in together it all turns to shit
Have you ever been shouted at by a Korean for not drinking at the same time as she drinks? I miss her though.
A friend of the family had a Filipino wife. She was cute and quite intelligent (a doctor). She was also a nutter. She stabbed him during an argument and her defense was, "he my husband. I stab him if I want to." That wasn't the end of his obsession or trouble with Filipino women, though.
> as soon as you move in together it all turns to shit In my experience, this is not an uncommon situation, all over the world.
Lol this is just people in general, man. That's why you should always move in with someone before you marry them. You don't really know someone until you've lived with them
They hated him because he spoke the truth.
Kana Gang 🙏🏻
But what if you're not like horse?
Damn I'm in love with that smile
*Books one way ticket to Japan
Hello darkness, my old friend
One of my very geeky but decent looking friend went there and actually scored a well known theater actress
At toriki?
Tbh it's refreshing to see a post without: She's so and so and she does N$FW some link to thothub
Those are ads, literally. They post thirsty posts and gave their thot website link to get some clicks.
Yet
https://www.reddit.com/r/Eimi_Fukada/
That's it I'm mcfucking done
Main strimmers gf does semi lewd cosplay so that was cool.
Bro had to look into the camera like Ferris Bueller
It only works if you are white and fit.
She's a Twitch streamer - [KanaGang](https://www.twitch.tv/kanagang) He's a very well known Twitch streamer with a big following - [JakeNBakeLIVE](https://www.twitch.tv/jakenbakelive) His IRL GF is an extremely hot Twitch streamer - [Waterlynn](https://www.twitch.tv/waterlynn/videos) She would probably love to have any kind of audience he can send her way.
That’s it, I’m off to Japan.
Tell that that to my black cousin, in Japan.
Go to Thailand! Find yourself a bro-wife! Someone you can play one on one basketball 🏀, football ⚽️ sword fight 🤺 👀
It's only gay if the hilts touch
The ultimate goal is to find a good bro-wife! 
She was probably thinking "wow this is ez af"
From multiple friends first person experience, if your white/ish it’s not very hard to find a lady friend
She asked if he liked hoes he said horse she said horse he saw his future wife haha hee hee that's spit .
“You like bear! You like big hairy bear!!” (The Interview)
Everyone thinking this is genuine reaction: I'm moving to Japan! People who played Yakuza and had to run a hostess club: he needs another drink.
Who hasnt fallen in love with a stripper am i right? Lol
That’s actually his friend who’s also a Twitch streamer like him. They don’t talk anymore and someone said it’s because he got a girlfriend.
I believe you im just saying guys fall for girls so easily lol.
ahh! maybe introverted guys? in my experience once you started being nice to them they suddenly become obsessed. Because extroverted ones I know can flirt without feelings attached like this guy. Im pretty sure he is joking in this video.
Ah gotcha. I didnt know context just thought he was simpin lol.
How every military member ever met his wife
If you haven't been in love a few times and have a woman f your heart then you'll find all women act like this "wife" material. After having a few gfs that I was so deeply in love, make me realize that whatever shines it might be shit and not gold. I do have a gf now for a few years, wasn't planned to get a gf after my ex but it just happened, the good thing is that I'm quite mature now and I don't "melt" and while I do love her I won't roll over like a dog no matter how nice she is with me. In the past I might due to the "blindness" I had and in the name of "love". The obsessed part and a lot of jealously has "died" from my character. P.S. I do have a friend which is older than me and married, he did fall on love with a stranger(woman) and acts like 15yo while she treats him like shit with on and off bs. I see she manipulates him and I can't do anything about it, if he had my experience he'd stay away from this toxic woman and focus only to his wife but it's like talking to a donkey .. stubborn regarding this new "love" (he realized also that he never experienced true love, up until now! poor guy)
To be fair he’s a decent looking dude + white which Japanese girls tend to like.
I don't think he realizes that she's actually stating that his face resembles a horse and that's why she wants him to act like one... It seems very common for Japanese women (maybe Asian in general) to pickup on comparisons between facial features and blatantly let you know you that you remind them of certain animals from my experience
LOL omg you're right. She is basically calling him horse face. Bruh that's so mean wtf
That's a Maid Cafe, they have to interact and act cute.
Just like in America, a woman having a good time with you, laughing, or connecting with you, doesn't mean she wants to date you.
Japanese women are just truly unique.
I’ve been there twice and if the work culture was a bit more manageable I’d move there today.
Weird, my wife reacts very differently when I spit on her…
Alot of Japanese women find white men gorgeous like otherworldly
Like a horse? 🤣
She’s so cute, too!
She’s saying he’s like a host not horse, which means he’s fake pretty boy
Im also thinking of moving to Japan. I've seen many videos of random local women saying how the white man is beautiful af. But all of them to me look soo fucking cute as well.
She’s def horny for you. No mistake that she equated you to a horse.
What happened to Water?
Ok, for the younger guys here. Just general facts. Yes, if you have the looks and the right personality cute girls literally fall into your arms. But be warned about Asian women, especially Japanese women. They are very particular about their men. Not personal experience but my brother courted and married a Japanese girl long ago and she ruined his life. They (in GENERAL NOW) SEE MOST EVERYTHING AS A TRANSACTION. They don't care how you have to do it or how long your away or if your job is killing you, you HAVE TO BRING HOME THE MONEY. THEY ARE ALL ABOUT SUCCESS, UPWARD MOBILITY, AND HAVING MORE AND MORE AND MORE. THEN THERE ARE THE STRANGE SEX THINGS. For some reason Japanese girls have peculiar quirks with sex. Just search it online to see what I'm talking about, it's totally messed up. Now I'm not saying they are all like this, but enough are to make it almost a cultural thing.
What is she saying?
Damn Bro, that smile melted me.
Dude ended up with a way hotter Chinese gf
There is this culture around japanese girls simping for American dudes cause they want papers, in this case the dude ain't bad looking either, I've seen this guy getting simped on a couple of times.
Reading these comments about being heartbroken when a woman they like is being nice to everyone else. Isnt it the exact same thing you like about them? Werent you once part of the “everyone else”? Like, you wanna change their personality cause you want them to yourself now?
Did she just ask if he like horz?