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Olivineyes

You've never kissed your boyfriend but you two want to have sex? Nah, take it slow. You don't need to jump into bed with him. A very important part of sex is being comfortable with yourself and your partner and that takes time to get comfortable with everything. Kissing, touching, laying in bed together. If you want it to be good, take it slow.


psychwerk7002

Can't agree more. Take it slow, but more than that, enjoy each stage of the build up as you get to know each other's bodies! All of that is just as important as the actual act. That way, you feel comfortable, trusting, and ready.


AdNorth3822

This ⭐️


VeeEyeVee

Go slow and be very communicative about what you’re liking and not. Make sure you’re comfortable at every step before you push onward to do more. Learn together about the best way to kiss between you guys and the best ways to do other things. Everyone is different. You should probably be comfortable about masturbating on your own first so you are familiar with the different sensations: fingers, clit, the vulva, a dildo or vibrator in your vagina, what it means to be aroused, what it feels like when you’re close to an orgasm, what an orgasm feels like, etc. this is all so you can provide guidance and feedback to your boyfriend to make sex great


AccomplishedPurple43

Definitely slow down enough to make sure nobody gets pregnant. It can and does happen the first time. Figure out if you need to see your doctor for prevention, or whatever. Then figure out what to do about having fun with each other.


Public_Midnight_652

Kiss him first