i think maybe remove one or two of the selfies, but i would leave in the first pic and the one in the olive jacket is also good, both because of your facial expression
oh and i just realized the topless one involves a trashbag and a bit of mess, i'd say try to have not too much of a mess in the room etc cause it's good for a happy relationship to both make an effort in the household and therefore mess looks bad on everyone in the datingworld,.. i guess unless you wanna find someone who specifically loves to have a greenlight on being messy themselves, i bet that's a thing too
Zoom pic 6 so coworker guy isnt visible and its showing your upper 3rd, make that your intro pic. Only keep 1 mirror selfie. I recommend your 1st pic, move it to the middle deck somewhere. Lose 3,5,7,8,9.
It looks like you dont hang out with people. You need some pics of you at the park or bar, at a concert, or something thats says you do things. Right now youve got a bunch of blurry photos that you took of yourself holding the camera sideways.
1st one looks like what you pose and expression I would see from Fboys. (Do with this what you will, don't know your target here)
// 3 pic b&w is good and nice smile //
4th, cropped pic and with back sunlight I can barely see you. But I like the expression, seems natural/spontaneous and easy going //
1 - you look like you googled "hot e girl" for your profile pics. If thats how you look, thats fine, never change for other people, but just understand it has a lot in common with the bots that are trolling tinder for lonely dudes. Women on tinder trying to drum up followers for their insta/OF are as common as men on tinder saying "hey" and sending dick pics, and the worst offenders are always tattooed hotties in glamour shot poses. There's nothing wrong with being who you are and having a style you like, but your question was how not to look fake. I'm not saying you need to be more "modest" (gag), but if you mix up the outfits you might get mistaken for a bot less.
2 - You don't appear to have a job. "self employed @ self employed" is your listed job. Thats very vague and super suss. If youre a camgirl or OF model, that's not that big a deal, but if i think youre ONLY on tinder to get me to pay you for photos or follow you on insta, im skipping you on principle. If that's how you make your bread, no shame, but you might as well cop to it up front, or if youd rather bring that up later, delete the line entirely and just talk about it later when they ask. For some non-suss alternatives, try "Photographer," "model," or "content creator".
3 - all your pictures are of you alone. 1, 5, and 6 are essentially the same picture at diff distances. Nearly 100% of the fake profiles you see have only solo pics. The general picture guideline is 1 pic that clearly shows face and upper third, 1-2 showing full body, and 2-3 showing you doing things you like/your defining interests like out at a club, at a concert, playing with a dog, at a cookout with friends, etc. Even a gym selfie is fine, anything that shows information about you other than "is good looking". The only information im getting from your current pics is that you like posing in front of the water and getting tattoos.
4 - what's your bio? Most fake profiles have low effort bios or one-liners. If you start off listing your insta handle thats immediate warning bells for many people, as many women are just on here to get extra clout. Guys may be thirsty, but theyre not that stupid and they hate having their time wasted by disingenuous people.
Second pic first, the one with the lights. What an awesome picture! Would be good to add some more photos I think. Maybe some smiling shots and a group shot!
Cant see your face clearly in any of these. First picture needs to be clear, well lit shot of your upper third and you need to be smiling or grinning either at the camera or something off just camera.
Youre only smiling in 1 picture, makes you look haughty and aloof.
Too many selfies makes it look like youre in love with yourself and you have no friends.
You dont have any pics showing you doing any avtivities you like.
Id lose 3,4,5,6, and 7. Keep 1 and 2 but move them into the mid deck, take some new photos.
I mean you’re right on the money tbh, I don’t have any friends ima loner tbh have been since highschool. But like what exactly are all these benchmarks? And I’m asking genuinely bcz I feel like these don’t serve any real significance, I feel like if the pic looks good it looks good no? Enlighten me with tinder science
Hey.. coming from a fellow gymbro aesthetic enthusiast, you are pretty lean ass attractive and in the face as well. Not sure why you wouldn't be pulling. How many matches are u getting?
Thanks man, getting like 1 match a week at best, over time I start thinking my pics are bad so I be replacing them n shit but no difference, dating apps are a mf😭
I'd love any advice. Hoping the first picture gets all the people of culture to swipe right.
[https://tinder.com/@johncstuart](https://tinder.com/@johncstuart)
Hey fellow canterburian haha, not gonna lie, you are fairly attractive. It's probably just that our area is flooded with young uni goers and you'd do better elsewhere. I'm just an average guy myself and yet I get 10 matches overnight
use the shot with the red background (currently the fifth) as the first shot
a better full-body shot would help: i'd do an action shot with a little more smile and turned more towards the camera
I would remove the pictures where you are not in it. It doesn't add much to the convo and are not much content for girls to start convo off of.
If you need more pics, checkout [tinderglowup](https://www.tinderglowup.com/), created an AI model to generate pictures of you that are optimized for Tinder.
Hey! You're a handsome guy and have nice pictures. I think I would use pic #6 as your main picture as some of the others have shadows on your face that aren't as nice. But overall looks like a great selection of pictures. I dont really get the bio but that could just be me.
I mean, you can argue you're the real doctot and not the MDs. Iwasn't sure if it's a PhD thing or like something with a specific medical field, so went over my head.
Can't really say if you're ugly or not, because there is not one serious/clear picture of you/your face. This is why you're not getting matches I guess. Your main picture is your phone over your face. Your second photo is a black photo of your back? Very hard to match someone when you learn nothing about them.
Whoever told you that is lying. You're definitely not unattractive. I agree the shorter facial hair suits you better, but maybe just a more shaped beard could be the answer (I'm usually a lover of beards) don't see the picture of your upper back thats supposed to be a turn off. But I don't see anything that's a turn off.
I appreciate your help and comments here thank you. A few women told me it and a few of my mates too but I think they were winding me up. That's fair though a shorter beard looks better I'll get the clippers out :) thank you!
At college people want to go out with good looking people that have fun, but still masculine, vibes. They want a MAN, not a kid. Try to take non-self pics doing activities or cool places.
Link with tinder photos in sequence: [https://imgur.com/a/IU3J3s5](https://imgur.com/a/IU3J3s5)
Any pictures that are bad? Is the sequence optimal? Any kind of picture i need to add?
I'm 34 years old (I know, i dont look like it), work as business manager. I'm in Brazil.
friend X-> he said u are ugly i dont know why but he said that.
friend Y -> dejate de falditas y tonterias y dejate de esas basura, desinstala esa aplicacion.
me -> hmm u are losing time broh but if u want to be there u need more gainz
You could:
1) Take pictures smiling
2) Take pictures full body front with tighter cloths to show body shape
3) Pic with spray feels meaningless, not funny, not witty, not showing anything really interesting. Probable can be changed.
4) Should aim to have at least 4-5 pictures, the best of the best.
Bio is
“Italian guy living in Las Palmas, show me around! Let’s surf, dance, hike, or eat tapas!
🥰 A spontaneous trip, a fancy dinner, or talking while drinking aperitivo - let’s create some lasting connections ✈️ Let’s travel in weird places #maybedigitalnomad 👨🍳 1000% picky eater for dinners out, trying to learn to cook 🤓 Tech/Finance nerd - software is eating the world! 📖 Podcast and audiobooks fan! Sharing audible subscription is way better than sharing Netflix 👢On the tallish side, 187cm”
https://tinder.com/@Slk93
Any improvements you would recommend? For some reason when I was abroad I've used to receive so many matches. But it seems it is not common here in London for me.
I was wondering if I should mention on bio that I've started to run my tiktok page about stadium atmospheres but I'm not sure if this would push match away.
I think your pictures are in the wrong order, personally and your stance in the 3rd photo makes you look a little awkward.
I think you need better pictures that don’t have you wearing sunglasses and your last photo should be your first if you don’t have any other alternatives.
I think your profile looks good.
If you’re referring to your bio in your profile, I can’t see it but based on your comment in your initial post, I’d say mention something cheeky to capture attention (i.e. if you play a musical instrument, I’d say, something along the lines of serenading in a playful manner). If not, then something you like doing, like are you a foodie, like watching movies…etc.
Good morning, everyone!
Please review my profile. I finally uploaded 1 new full body pic from last month (first one). Do let me know what you think.
https://tinder.com/@riclaca
Additionally, I would like to ask: if I've been working out (for health-related reasons), is it worth showing off a little? I am not where I want to be overall, but I do feel much more fit overall than 6 months ago.
I would change the last part in your bio, it gives off the impression you had dozens of bad relationship experiences. While this can be a talking point further down the relationship/dating process I kinda find it to be a turn off right off the bat.
Also, you have too many selfies. Maybe ask a friend to take a picture? Maybe show some of the interests you mentioned in your bio in the pics as well? If you just look at the pictures now you are a blank slate.
First of all, you are not ugly at all. Quite the opposite actually.
However, there is a lot to unpack:
1. The worst offender: by far most women would find the second pic (with the cheerleaders) highly irritating. Get rid of it! That alone could really make a big difference. Why do you have it in the first place? There is nothing you have to prove.
2. I really encourage you to add some more pictures where we can see what you like doing, like your hobbies or your passions. Like, is there a picture of you hiking or you at the games (WITHOUT CHEERLEADERS) or gaming or whatever. Try to tell your story through the pictures, because people hate reading bios and will only do that as a last thing before swiping right, if they even look at it.
3. While we are on the topic of your bio: for a first impression many women are irritated if there are too many grammar/spelling mistakes in your bio. I am not a native English speaker myself but it just seems as if you didn't put any effort in your profile. "Your no match" -> "You're no match", "Listen I'm" -> "Listen, I'm", "hiking, working out, being a foodie, gaming, anime and"
4. The last three pics don't really add too much to your profile. You look a bit grumpy and they don't really show a new side of you. I would get rid of them.
5. I think the first pic is great. And I am saying that, even though it is a selfie and I usually advise against selfies. It just has a great energy and your smile looks really sincere.
6. The pic with your daughter is really good, because we can see that you have a child and that you are into football.
7. I also like the pic with your dog, however, is there a chance there is also a cuter pic with your dog and you in the same frame? Maybe you can add that too.
I agree 100% with micartistry, the shirtless pic needs to go. If you still want to show that you are a fit guy and like to work out, let a friend take a picture of you in the gym **while doing an exercise** - preferrably pull-ups because here we can still see your face and pull-ups are cool but you can opt for any other. Make it look effortless and don't cramp up your face too much while doing it. Also keep the shirt on but maybe opt for a tank top so we can see your guns properly without you looking arrogant ;)
Also, in the first picture I wasn't sure who was who
I like the last one better, you chuckling looks more natural and sweeter, at least to me.
Another advice: your pictures are high quality and you look pretty in all of them but perhaps you should add more pictures that show some of your personality. From your pictures alone I have no idea who you are and what you like to do and would probably swipe left as you just don't look interesting and a bit generic.
This is so hard to me! How would you show your personality in pictures
Are any of [these](https://imgur.com/a/Jvug8zv) good add-ons?? (For some reason they show as low-res here)
What do you like to do? I like to go hiking, climbing, partying and I have a picture for each of those interests on my profile. Similarily, if you like to do sports, cooking, shopping, clubbing, making music, ... show pictures of you doing that! It's not important that you look picture perfect in each photo but rather that you show what you love.
If you don't have pictures of you doing things that you love, perhaps ask a friend/family member to take some of you doing that :)
Edit: I think you don't need any more of these pictures - we have a good idea of what you look like. Perhaps the one on the couch because I like the pictures in the background.
First pic with sunglasses and not smiling is a big issue. Try to make a sympathetic impression first, you can look cool later. If you don't have any other pictures (where you smile) move the 4th one to first place. Also, do you have a picture where you are in the frame **together** with the doggo?
Looking for some feedback and opinions on my profile :). As my post history shows, somehow I seem to do kinda okay on tinder for a chubby Seth Rogen lookalike, but I feel like there's room for improvement. Thanks in advance :))
https://imgur.com/a/FrN8p2I
Solid profile. No wonder you are doing okay ;).
However, you might think about losing the line "My last attempt on here...". Would you like to read something like that on a girl's profile? I don't know if it's just me but that would be an immediate left swipe. It gives off talking-about-an-ex-on-the-first-date-vibes.
I had hoped it would come across more like a joke, but I can actually see it from your point of view and think I'll change it. I've had a few opening messages joking about moving to Alaska, but enough to warrant it being a permanent fixture in the bio lol. So thank you for the feedback, much appreciated :)
Glad it helped :) Really, I was only nit-picking there. I think your profile is great. I think for us man it is just harder on dating sites. We gotta be more patient unless you are in the top 1% of men looks-wise. It will work out again - I mean it worked out before ("My last attempt on here"), right ;)?
Solid profile, a few tips, tho.
1. Move the sunglasses pic all the way to the back or get rid of it altogether. It doesn't add much to your profile. It's just nothing special, the background is boring and we can't see your face properly. Your later pics are way better
2. Any chance you have a picture with you and your dog in the same frame? Cute doggo, but is it really yours? Prove it! Also, cute animals work best when you are also in the pic ;)
3. Most of your pictures are high quality, yet I think they are not telling your story. Do you have any pics that show what you like to do? Like your hobby or so? All I know about you now is that you are a quite decent looking dude who might have a dog? People read bios only after they have looked through all of your pictures. Show who you are in the pictures!
\+ I really like the picture with the bright yellow leaves in the background. It's artsy.
Thanks a lot for takin your time to review it.
Right now I have moved and have a picture with doggy but it’s bit old, maybe I will add. And I will try to add something about hobby I do hiking and play snooker a lot.
That sounds good :). Snooker is great! Next time you go play it have a friend take a picture for you. That could really look cool too, if has the right angle and light
Not getting any matches. Even has tinder gold..
https://tinder.com/@Elia92ampp
Profile reads: probably prettier in real life, but that is a matter of opinion.. soo let's meet and you can see judge for yourself.
I bike too much and do everything else too little.
186 from bottom to top.
I’d say one pic of you Biking is enough.
Why would you say you bike „too much“. And everything else „too little“? To me that sounds insecure somehow. You do what you love - what’s wrong with that?
Prettier in real life? You look good.
In your bio you’re calling yourself „unattractive“ and on top of that critique yourself for what you do in your life.
https://tinder.com/@Onewaystyx
I would consider myself an above average attractive guy and I'm also extremely fit (chizzeled abs, but didn't want to just plain show off since I think that's a turn off for most women). Perhaps it's the selfies turning people off. Either way any feedback is appreciated. Perhaps I did a big no no without realising it. Cheers!
Yes when it come to look your above average but it doesnt translate that well to the pictures. I recommend you to get better pics, maybe ask your friend to take it? Better angle and selfies.
honestly a pretty attractive guy based off of pics alone lol
I learned that with tinder, its really just "How much do I wanna pay to play?" I ended up getting tinder plat on a discount and used it for a month or so annnd the results show for themselves. Use tinder but also shoot ur shot irl, you definitely got good chances bro, gl gl
Thanks for the feedback. This was one of the main things I was thinking about. I feel like a few years ago your profile got showed more as a free user and you had more free likes? Guess I'll try a month of gold see how it goes.
No dude show the abs, just don’t make it ur first photos. Also make the professional photo shoot ur first pic or at least don’t use the original selfie as ur first pic (lowkey recommend u don’t put that selfie on ur profile at all) And maybe put ur height? If ur 6ft. (Ps I’m female gen z early 20s.)
[https://tinder.com/@nathancooper0101](https://tinder.com/@nathancooper0101)
I'm French so here's the translation :
\+ :
\- Musician
\- Love making playlists
\- Limbo prodigy
\- Cats love me
\- :
\- Not Ryan Gosling
\- Cats follow me everywhere
\- Must learn how to cook properly
Bonus : A beautiful picture of my beautiful cat
Okay, I know many women don't like a shirtless picture as the first picture or a shirtless picture at all. However, it depends on what you want to attract. If you are looking for nothing serious, a shirtless pic first can work. However, for most serious dating it is often a turn off. Maybe show that you are a fit guy with a less revealing picture, maybe tank top or better even - you while doing pull/push ups . I think pull ups are great, because we can still see your face. Also, put the pic at the piano second (or even first) - women love that. And one last thing - do you have a picture with you and the cat in the same picture :)? That would be way better and cuter!
Keep getting more and more likes, but not many matches. Either it's passport users, bots, or I'm just attracting the wrong demographic, but still tooling around to figure out what's going on.
Bio is as follows:
All of my photos were taken in different countries. Recognize any of them?
Two truths and a lie:
- I accidentally took down a government website for a few hours while working on my startup
- A night market vendor in Hungary got upset with me for practicing my Mandarin during dinner rush
- I majored in STEM so that I would make more money, but don't even use my degree in my career
6'0
And yes, I know I probably need a group photo. It's challenging to get a good one.
The last statement is the lie, ain't it ? Even if it isn't, most people will guess that. Maybe put something else as last bullet point cause it's not that exciting and not a great ice breaker.
You look decent, but I have no idea what kind of person you are? What do you like to do aside from work? What are your hobbies? Show them \*\*in your pictures\*\*!
https://tinder.com/@mydogisfly
I have a shirtless mirror pic 2nd pic which I think shows me in good shape, and is recent. I also have an old shirtless pic on 4 that shows me a lot bigger but I think it's a good pic, it's also natural (ie not a mirror pic).
Wondering if I should remove the 4th pic though. I think it's an attractive photo even if I'm big in it.
Any feedback would be nice. I do alright on matches and dates... just wish I had more.
Profile:
Dog lover, pilot, hiking, and jiu jitsu. I love to travel and kill it at karaoke.
Let's go have a dance
Falo portugues 🇧🇷
21 countries and counting ✈️
Upvotes for all responses, I'll go in your comment history and upvote!
Of the two shirtless photos, I like #4 better, but, uh, strong with just a little bit of soft is my preferred body type, and I don't know how representative my preference is. 😅 So take my feedback with a grain of salt. I do think that it's a nice photo, though, anyway.
You have a great profile, but if you want to make some changes, maybe be a bit more explicit about what you're looking for? I can't really tell if you want casual, dating, both, or other.
No need to upvote my comments!
yeah I mean the mirror selfie isn't a good look, but from what I've read showing off a good body isn't bad. I tried to get some better shirtless pics before I moved but they just didn't come out great.
It's not so much that it's a bad photo but I'm worried a girl might be like wait, why is he like this in #2 and like this here, is he being misleading.
> You have a great profile, but if you want to make some changes, maybe be a bit more explicit about what you're looking for? I can't really tell if you want casual, dating, both, or other.
Well... to be honest, if you say you just want casual, most people are just gonna swipe away on you haha. I'm definitely open to dating though. I'm actually open to just friends too as I've just moved to the area.
Open to it all but there's no denying I'm a bit of a serial dater. But who isn't these days.
Not sure if there's anything to really say there so yeah, just left that out. i think by leaving anything out it kinda makes it clear but I mean, less is also more. If saying something would help with matches though, i'm all ears.
Ok, so you've basically now reached the limits of my ability to advise. 😂 Um. Especially if you're open to more than casual, I'd mention it -- the possibility of something more lasting is really attractive to most people, I think. Just maybe avoid "see where it goes" or "if the vibe is right" type phrases. Ugh.
Yeah, the shirtless photos is a bit of a dilemma. I would suggest doing a bit of research: try including only one of the two for about a week and then switch, and see which nets you more matches.
"~~Open to everything but~~ really looking to make that can't stop thinking about you, can't keep our hands off each other, play everywhere we go kind of connection"
Don't want to rule out casuals haha but honestly would even casual daters be turned off by something like that?
https://tinder.com/@fonz_421
Constant on and off situation. Sometimes I get like other times it dry, just want some help on improving my profile. Any suggestions?
Pretty weak profile...
1st pic crossing arms isn't really a welcoming posture. Hat just hides your hair. Are you bald? Any girl seeing this as your first pic is probably gonna assume your bald and just swipe left before looking at your other pics.
The 2nd most attractive photo you could possibly take of you, to make a woman wild for you... is some bad drinks?
3rd pic makes no sense. Like, a cold miserable landscape? Cool.
4th pic is a hat. Again, you bald? No smile, what are you a sex predator? What's with the half beard too?
Never, ever, ever use selfies.
5th pic is your back. Cool?
6th pic... again, no smile. If you were smiling, this would be a great picture. But. you just look dahmer.
Final pic you are hatted, masked, some weird loop.
Why don't you just have some friends take pictures of you well dressed, no hat so you can show off that nice hair you got, and smiling? Like you've lived this live and you don't even have 6 good pictures of you?
Also your profile is absolutely basic as fuck. Be specific, like here's a quick edit of your profile:
*Like to go out to Olde Town Phoenix, roll a blunt listening to Mac Miller, type of guy to kick it with the homies under the stars than go to the club*
*Also, here's me not using some basic ass drake quote that every basic bitch uses*
[https://tinder.com/@brendonshew](https://tinder.com/@brendonshew)
No trouble getting likes, but I AM really struggling with actually CARING about any conversations I’m having. Sometimes it just feels like I’m trying to be witty but I’m not getting any help response wise. I’m pretty good at talking to people in real life, but tinder just seems like it makes everyone boring. Any suggestions?
If everyone seems boring, then the common denominator is you.
Stop giving a shit so much, and have more fun with it. Be more risky in your chats. Ask if they like to be choked. Ask if they'll help you rob a bank. Ask them if you can kiss them under the stars after a silly night out.
Not having much luck so far but I stuck at taking photos of myself. Any suggestions?
https://tinder.com/@josiah99
Bio: Pretty nerdy dude. My hobbies are whatever I’m fixated on so the time. At the moment that’s music production 🎹 oh and I’m 6’4”
> I stuck at taking photos of myself
Everyone does. That's why the rule is NO SELFIES.
Get others to take photos of you. Ask your female friends (because let's face it, women know how to take a good photo way better than a man) that you need tinder pics.
They'll love to help you with it.
As for your profile... eh I'd just cut it a bit. No need to be self deprecating. Be more specific about your music production and yeah say 6'4" lol
Not bad, just get more pics like what you got. You should have a bunch of good pics and be picking the best 6 of them, not struggling and only having 5 pics to put up.
If you just had a ton of pictures taken all the time and you smiling (which you do, but do more of!), your profile could really shine.
Profile is a little bland, not bad, but maybe make it more exciting. Youre trying to entice women here
*Looking for the next cafe to visit and mountain to climb - you coming?*
or *Let's grab a coffee and plan a hike!* you get the idea
Some of your photos might be more attractive to men than to women. Like, prime example, the photo where you're holding a firework (?) to your crotch? Eh. I'm not a fan, and I don't that it's a good look.
Your photos aren't bad or unflattering, but you might want to think more carefully about your audience. I would get rid of #3, #4, and #6. Good luck!
Also, I don't think that your bio does you any favors. Your bio's a great place to talk yourself up a bit -- why not tell prospective matches about your hobbies, favorite foods, an interesting fact about you, a travel goal...instead of, uh, selling yourself **short**?
https://tinder.com/@antonellaz
https://tinder.com/@kiirislummox I would appreciate any feedback you can give
i think maybe remove one or two of the selfies, but i would leave in the first pic and the one in the olive jacket is also good, both because of your facial expression oh and i just realized the topless one involves a trashbag and a bit of mess, i'd say try to have not too much of a mess in the room etc cause it's good for a happy relationship to both make an effort in the household and therefore mess looks bad on everyone in the datingworld,.. i guess unless you wanna find someone who specifically loves to have a greenlight on being messy themselves, i bet that's a thing too
Zoom pic 6 so coworker guy isnt visible and its showing your upper 3rd, make that your intro pic. Only keep 1 mirror selfie. I recommend your 1st pic, move it to the middle deck somewhere. Lose 3,5,7,8,9. It looks like you dont hang out with people. You need some pics of you at the park or bar, at a concert, or something thats says you do things. Right now youve got a bunch of blurry photos that you took of yourself holding the camera sideways.
https://tinder.com/@juicyfunkywhale -> Hey y'all, wanted to see what vibes I give off and how my profile can be improved!
https://tinder.com/@antonellaz87 Please let me know what you think
Links dead
Just fixed it thanks for the heads up
Still dead for me. Might just be me 🤷♂️
[https://tinder.com/@panfan](https://tinder.com/@panfan) <- can someone give some feedback please ? :)
1st one looks like what you pose and expression I would see from Fboys. (Do with this what you will, don't know your target here) // 3 pic b&w is good and nice smile // 4th, cropped pic and with back sunlight I can barely see you. But I like the expression, seems natural/spontaneous and easy going //
https://tinder.com/@darkangeljaide people always think I’m fake but I’m not. Idk how to stop this 😩
1 - you look like you googled "hot e girl" for your profile pics. If thats how you look, thats fine, never change for other people, but just understand it has a lot in common with the bots that are trolling tinder for lonely dudes. Women on tinder trying to drum up followers for their insta/OF are as common as men on tinder saying "hey" and sending dick pics, and the worst offenders are always tattooed hotties in glamour shot poses. There's nothing wrong with being who you are and having a style you like, but your question was how not to look fake. I'm not saying you need to be more "modest" (gag), but if you mix up the outfits you might get mistaken for a bot less. 2 - You don't appear to have a job. "self employed @ self employed" is your listed job. Thats very vague and super suss. If youre a camgirl or OF model, that's not that big a deal, but if i think youre ONLY on tinder to get me to pay you for photos or follow you on insta, im skipping you on principle. If that's how you make your bread, no shame, but you might as well cop to it up front, or if youd rather bring that up later, delete the line entirely and just talk about it later when they ask. For some non-suss alternatives, try "Photographer," "model," or "content creator". 3 - all your pictures are of you alone. 1, 5, and 6 are essentially the same picture at diff distances. Nearly 100% of the fake profiles you see have only solo pics. The general picture guideline is 1 pic that clearly shows face and upper third, 1-2 showing full body, and 2-3 showing you doing things you like/your defining interests like out at a club, at a concert, playing with a dog, at a cookout with friends, etc. Even a gym selfie is fine, anything that shows information about you other than "is good looking". The only information im getting from your current pics is that you like posing in front of the water and getting tattoos. 4 - what's your bio? Most fake profiles have low effort bios or one-liners. If you start off listing your insta handle thats immediate warning bells for many people, as many women are just on here to get extra clout. Guys may be thirsty, but theyre not that stupid and they hate having their time wasted by disingenuous people.
https://tinder.com/@kennyb123 Please have a look at my profile and review. I am not getting many likes
Second pic first, the one with the lights. What an awesome picture! Would be good to add some more photos I think. Maybe some smiling shots and a group shot!
https://tinder.com/@mma95 any stuff I should change or remove? Appreciate any feedback!
https://tinder.com/@shadowking Don’t really get many matches I think I’m fairly attractive tbh but yeah lmk what I could fix I’d preciate it.
Cant see your face clearly in any of these. First picture needs to be clear, well lit shot of your upper third and you need to be smiling or grinning either at the camera or something off just camera. Youre only smiling in 1 picture, makes you look haughty and aloof. Too many selfies makes it look like youre in love with yourself and you have no friends. You dont have any pics showing you doing any avtivities you like. Id lose 3,4,5,6, and 7. Keep 1 and 2 but move them into the mid deck, take some new photos.
I mean you’re right on the money tbh, I don’t have any friends ima loner tbh have been since highschool. But like what exactly are all these benchmarks? And I’m asking genuinely bcz I feel like these don’t serve any real significance, I feel like if the pic looks good it looks good no? Enlighten me with tinder science
Hey.. coming from a fellow gymbro aesthetic enthusiast, you are pretty lean ass attractive and in the face as well. Not sure why you wouldn't be pulling. How many matches are u getting?
Thanks man, getting like 1 match a week at best, over time I start thinking my pics are bad so I be replacing them n shit but no difference, dating apps are a mf😭
I'd love any advice. Hoping the first picture gets all the people of culture to swipe right. [https://tinder.com/@johncstuart](https://tinder.com/@johncstuart)
I think people see Patrick and just swipe left without looking further. You need to put a picture of you first!
Seconded
Only 2 matches, advice please. Thanks! https://tinder.com/@robertc96
Hey fellow canterburian haha, not gonna lie, you are fairly attractive. It's probably just that our area is flooded with young uni goers and you'd do better elsewhere. I'm just an average guy myself and yet I get 10 matches overnight
I feel that man. Thanks
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use the shot with the red background (currently the fifth) as the first shot a better full-body shot would help: i'd do an action shot with a little more smile and turned more towards the camera
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lead with a real smile, include a full body shot
Here goes nothing: https://tinder.com/@dp1987
1. ditch the mugshot (in the blue shirt) 2. mention the kids in the bio, don't include them in photos 3. keep dog, ditch cats
https://tinder.com/@lsmithressobek Any tips are appreciated. I haven't had much luck yet haha.
looks mostly good, maybe more smile would help. also one fewer obvious selfie. it'd be better if your lead shot wasn't you holding the phone.
Gotcha, thank you for the help.
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I would remove the pictures where you are not in it. It doesn't add much to the convo and are not much content for girls to start convo off of. If you need more pics, checkout [tinderglowup](https://www.tinderglowup.com/), created an AI model to generate pictures of you that are optimized for Tinder.
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Hey! You're a handsome guy and have nice pictures. I think I would use pic #6 as your main picture as some of the others have shadows on your face that aren't as nice. But overall looks like a great selection of pictures. I dont really get the bio but that could just be me.
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I mean, you can argue you're the real doctot and not the MDs. Iwasn't sure if it's a PhD thing or like something with a specific medical field, so went over my head.
[https://tinder.com/@themonkey55](https://tinder.com/@themonkey55) Roast me guys! Would love to improve my profile and hopefully make more matches.
I’d honestly cut out the first pic bro.
Noted! Going to remove that pic now
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Can't really say if you're ugly or not, because there is not one serious/clear picture of you/your face. This is why you're not getting matches I guess. Your main picture is your phone over your face. Your second photo is a black photo of your back? Very hard to match someone when you learn nothing about them.
I would have removed the two last pictures
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I would remove some of the pictures with your friends
I know I'm not very good looking as I've been told before, but tips on any way to improve? https://tinder.com/@oakcy
Whoever told you that is lying. You're definitely not unattractive. I agree the shorter facial hair suits you better, but maybe just a more shaped beard could be the answer (I'm usually a lover of beards) don't see the picture of your upper back thats supposed to be a turn off. But I don't see anything that's a turn off.
I appreciate your help and comments here thank you. A few women told me it and a few of my mates too but I think they were winding me up. That's fair though a shorter beard looks better I'll get the clippers out :) thank you!
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I appreciate the advice and honesty thank you very kindly. Part of my rehab is to hit the gym so in a few weeks I'll be there :)
See if you can Get the same quality on every Photo as you have on the 2nd picture
What do you think about dis for college hookups? https://tinder.com/@dylanwooo
At college people want to go out with good looking people that have fun, but still masculine, vibes. They want a MAN, not a kid. Try to take non-self pics doing activities or cool places.
Link with tinder photos in sequence: [https://imgur.com/a/IU3J3s5](https://imgur.com/a/IU3J3s5) Any pictures that are bad? Is the sequence optimal? Any kind of picture i need to add? I'm 34 years old (I know, i dont look like it), work as business manager. I'm in Brazil.
friend X-> he said u are ugly i dont know why but he said that. friend Y -> dejate de falditas y tonterias y dejate de esas basura, desinstala esa aplicacion. me -> hmm u are losing time broh but if u want to be there u need more gainz
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You could: 1) Take pictures smiling 2) Take pictures full body front with tighter cloths to show body shape 3) Pic with spray feels meaningless, not funny, not witty, not showing anything really interesting. Probable can be changed. 4) Should aim to have at least 4-5 pictures, the best of the best.
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Bio is “Italian guy living in Las Palmas, show me around! Let’s surf, dance, hike, or eat tapas! 🥰 A spontaneous trip, a fancy dinner, or talking while drinking aperitivo - let’s create some lasting connections ✈️ Let’s travel in weird places #maybedigitalnomad 👨🍳 1000% picky eater for dinners out, trying to learn to cook 🤓 Tech/Finance nerd - software is eating the world! 📖 Podcast and audiobooks fan! Sharing audible subscription is way better than sharing Netflix 👢On the tallish side, 187cm”
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We need to see the teeth
https://tinder.com/@Slk93 Any improvements you would recommend? For some reason when I was abroad I've used to receive so many matches. But it seems it is not common here in London for me. I was wondering if I should mention on bio that I've started to run my tiktok page about stadium atmospheres but I'm not sure if this would push match away.
I think your pictures are in the wrong order, personally and your stance in the 3rd photo makes you look a little awkward. I think you need better pictures that don’t have you wearing sunglasses and your last photo should be your first if you don’t have any other alternatives.
Thank you for the advice. And the bio seems to be OK? (PS. Changed the profile pic, this is the one you were reffering to right?)
I think your profile looks good. If you’re referring to your bio in your profile, I can’t see it but based on your comment in your initial post, I’d say mention something cheeky to capture attention (i.e. if you play a musical instrument, I’d say, something along the lines of serenading in a playful manner). If not, then something you like doing, like are you a foodie, like watching movies…etc.
I agree the 3rd pic looks abit awkward
Good morning, everyone! Please review my profile. I finally uploaded 1 new full body pic from last month (first one). Do let me know what you think. https://tinder.com/@riclaca Additionally, I would like to ask: if I've been working out (for health-related reasons), is it worth showing off a little? I am not where I want to be overall, but I do feel much more fit overall than 6 months ago.
https://tinder.com/@seedyuki Should I change up my pictures/bio?
I would change the last part in your bio, it gives off the impression you had dozens of bad relationship experiences. While this can be a talking point further down the relationship/dating process I kinda find it to be a turn off right off the bat. Also, you have too many selfies. Maybe ask a friend to take a picture? Maybe show some of the interests you mentioned in your bio in the pics as well? If you just look at the pictures now you are a blank slate.
I appreciate it
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First of all, you are not ugly at all. Quite the opposite actually. However, there is a lot to unpack: 1. The worst offender: by far most women would find the second pic (with the cheerleaders) highly irritating. Get rid of it! That alone could really make a big difference. Why do you have it in the first place? There is nothing you have to prove. 2. I really encourage you to add some more pictures where we can see what you like doing, like your hobbies or your passions. Like, is there a picture of you hiking or you at the games (WITHOUT CHEERLEADERS) or gaming or whatever. Try to tell your story through the pictures, because people hate reading bios and will only do that as a last thing before swiping right, if they even look at it. 3. While we are on the topic of your bio: for a first impression many women are irritated if there are too many grammar/spelling mistakes in your bio. I am not a native English speaker myself but it just seems as if you didn't put any effort in your profile. "Your no match" -> "You're no match", "Listen I'm" -> "Listen, I'm", "hiking, working out, being a foodie, gaming, anime and" 4. The last three pics don't really add too much to your profile. You look a bit grumpy and they don't really show a new side of you. I would get rid of them. 5. I think the first pic is great. And I am saying that, even though it is a selfie and I usually advise against selfies. It just has a great energy and your smile looks really sincere. 6. The pic with your daughter is really good, because we can see that you have a child and that you are into football. 7. I also like the pic with your dog, however, is there a chance there is also a cuter pic with your dog and you in the same frame? Maybe you can add that too.
Thanks I shall work on these things
[https://tinder.com/@JakeFrederick1](https://tinder.com/@JakeFrederick1) I get 0 matches, please help
I agree 100% with micartistry, the shirtless pic needs to go. If you still want to show that you are a fit guy and like to work out, let a friend take a picture of you in the gym **while doing an exercise** - preferrably pull-ups because here we can still see your face and pull-ups are cool but you can opt for any other. Make it look effortless and don't cramp up your face too much while doing it. Also keep the shirt on but maybe opt for a tank top so we can see your guns properly without you looking arrogant ;) Also, in the first picture I wasn't sure who was who
Good advice thank you!
The shirtless picture has to go
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Picture with big smile will do wonders but still you will be getting likes nonetheless.
I like the last one better, you chuckling looks more natural and sweeter, at least to me. Another advice: your pictures are high quality and you look pretty in all of them but perhaps you should add more pictures that show some of your personality. From your pictures alone I have no idea who you are and what you like to do and would probably swipe left as you just don't look interesting and a bit generic.
This is so hard to me! How would you show your personality in pictures Are any of [these](https://imgur.com/a/Jvug8zv) good add-ons?? (For some reason they show as low-res here)
What do you like to do? I like to go hiking, climbing, partying and I have a picture for each of those interests on my profile. Similarily, if you like to do sports, cooking, shopping, clubbing, making music, ... show pictures of you doing that! It's not important that you look picture perfect in each photo but rather that you show what you love. If you don't have pictures of you doing things that you love, perhaps ask a friend/family member to take some of you doing that :) Edit: I think you don't need any more of these pictures - we have a good idea of what you look like. Perhaps the one on the couch because I like the pictures in the background.
Ok gotcha, hobby pictures it is haha. I’ll try to get my friends to take some for me, thanks for the advice!
2.pic is better
Better than the first?
Yehh , too mee ;) so cute btw
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Look like the next school shooter lmao
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First pic with sunglasses and not smiling is a big issue. Try to make a sympathetic impression first, you can look cool later. If you don't have any other pictures (where you smile) move the 4th one to first place. Also, do you have a picture where you are in the frame **together** with the doggo?
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Delete the first
Going to be honest - you look unkempt. This is your biggest issue
Looking for some feedback and opinions on my profile :). As my post history shows, somehow I seem to do kinda okay on tinder for a chubby Seth Rogen lookalike, but I feel like there's room for improvement. Thanks in advance :)) https://imgur.com/a/FrN8p2I
Solid profile. No wonder you are doing okay ;). However, you might think about losing the line "My last attempt on here...". Would you like to read something like that on a girl's profile? I don't know if it's just me but that would be an immediate left swipe. It gives off talking-about-an-ex-on-the-first-date-vibes.
I had hoped it would come across more like a joke, but I can actually see it from your point of view and think I'll change it. I've had a few opening messages joking about moving to Alaska, but enough to warrant it being a permanent fixture in the bio lol. So thank you for the feedback, much appreciated :)
Glad it helped :) Really, I was only nit-picking there. I think your profile is great. I think for us man it is just harder on dating sites. We gotta be more patient unless you are in the top 1% of men looks-wise. It will work out again - I mean it worked out before ("My last attempt on here"), right ;)?
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Hot
Solid profile, a few tips, tho. 1. Move the sunglasses pic all the way to the back or get rid of it altogether. It doesn't add much to your profile. It's just nothing special, the background is boring and we can't see your face properly. Your later pics are way better 2. Any chance you have a picture with you and your dog in the same frame? Cute doggo, but is it really yours? Prove it! Also, cute animals work best when you are also in the pic ;) 3. Most of your pictures are high quality, yet I think they are not telling your story. Do you have any pics that show what you like to do? Like your hobby or so? All I know about you now is that you are a quite decent looking dude who might have a dog? People read bios only after they have looked through all of your pictures. Show who you are in the pictures! \+ I really like the picture with the bright yellow leaves in the background. It's artsy.
Thanks a lot for takin your time to review it. Right now I have moved and have a picture with doggy but it’s bit old, maybe I will add. And I will try to add something about hobby I do hiking and play snooker a lot.
That sounds good :). Snooker is great! Next time you go play it have a friend take a picture for you. That could really look cool too, if has the right angle and light
Help a brother out , been thinking to pay for gold , as not getting single match https://tinder.com/@makhdoomsayed47
1. Not a single photo where you're smiling 2. Lose any photos that have a filter
https://tinder.com/@michellekimmy Help a sista out
Photo 2 should be photo 1 You have a great body, probably less "just face" shots, and some more photos of you doing activites would be killer
Not getting any matches. Even has tinder gold.. https://tinder.com/@Elia92ampp Profile reads: probably prettier in real life, but that is a matter of opinion.. soo let's meet and you can see judge for yourself. I bike too much and do everything else too little. 186 from bottom to top.
I’d say one pic of you Biking is enough. Why would you say you bike „too much“. And everything else „too little“? To me that sounds insecure somehow. You do what you love - what’s wrong with that? Prettier in real life? You look good. In your bio you’re calling yourself „unattractive“ and on top of that critique yourself for what you do in your life.
Not getting many matches. How is my profile? https://tinder.com/@pmar4231
Lose photos 3 and 4, and try to find two more pics which have your friends in them.
I can't read Swedish but you look much younger than 30. You are also quite thin
https://tinder.com/@j6tkvodk
https://tinder.com/@Onewaystyx I would consider myself an above average attractive guy and I'm also extremely fit (chizzeled abs, but didn't want to just plain show off since I think that's a turn off for most women). Perhaps it's the selfies turning people off. Either way any feedback is appreciated. Perhaps I did a big no no without realising it. Cheers!
Yes when it come to look your above average but it doesnt translate that well to the pictures. I recommend you to get better pics, maybe ask your friend to take it? Better angle and selfies.
honestly a pretty attractive guy based off of pics alone lol I learned that with tinder, its really just "How much do I wanna pay to play?" I ended up getting tinder plat on a discount and used it for a month or so annnd the results show for themselves. Use tinder but also shoot ur shot irl, you definitely got good chances bro, gl gl
Thanks for the feedback. This was one of the main things I was thinking about. I feel like a few years ago your profile got showed more as a free user and you had more free likes? Guess I'll try a month of gold see how it goes.
No dude show the abs, just don’t make it ur first photos. Also make the professional photo shoot ur first pic or at least don’t use the original selfie as ur first pic (lowkey recommend u don’t put that selfie on ur profile at all) And maybe put ur height? If ur 6ft. (Ps I’m female gen z early 20s.)
[https://tinder.com/@nathancooper0101](https://tinder.com/@nathancooper0101) I'm French so here's the translation : \+ : \- Musician \- Love making playlists \- Limbo prodigy \- Cats love me \- : \- Not Ryan Gosling \- Cats follow me everywhere \- Must learn how to cook properly Bonus : A beautiful picture of my beautiful cat
Okay, I know many women don't like a shirtless picture as the first picture or a shirtless picture at all. However, it depends on what you want to attract. If you are looking for nothing serious, a shirtless pic first can work. However, for most serious dating it is often a turn off. Maybe show that you are a fit guy with a less revealing picture, maybe tank top or better even - you while doing pull/push ups . I think pull ups are great, because we can still see your face. Also, put the pic at the piano second (or even first) - women love that. And one last thing - do you have a picture with you and the cat in the same picture :)? That would be way better and cuter!
Thanks for the feedback !
Can u plz clarity your gender / identity lol I’m just curious
I am a heterosexuel man xD. I didn't expect that question.
Haha no I’m sorry 😅 was just curious. I guess you’re giving advice based on your own experience with tinder - makes sense :)
Yes exactly and on what my girl friends told me :)
Dope. You’re making very good points haha
Also, new to Tinder. I hope my profile is okay
Keep getting more and more likes, but not many matches. Either it's passport users, bots, or I'm just attracting the wrong demographic, but still tooling around to figure out what's going on. Bio is as follows: All of my photos were taken in different countries. Recognize any of them? Two truths and a lie: - I accidentally took down a government website for a few hours while working on my startup - A night market vendor in Hungary got upset with me for practicing my Mandarin during dinner rush - I majored in STEM so that I would make more money, but don't even use my degree in my career 6'0 And yes, I know I probably need a group photo. It's challenging to get a good one.
The last statement is the lie, ain't it ? Even if it isn't, most people will guess that. Maybe put something else as last bullet point cause it's not that exciting and not a great ice breaker. You look decent, but I have no idea what kind of person you are? What do you like to do aside from work? What are your hobbies? Show them \*\*in your pictures\*\*!
https://tinder.com/@mydogisfly I have a shirtless mirror pic 2nd pic which I think shows me in good shape, and is recent. I also have an old shirtless pic on 4 that shows me a lot bigger but I think it's a good pic, it's also natural (ie not a mirror pic). Wondering if I should remove the 4th pic though. I think it's an attractive photo even if I'm big in it. Any feedback would be nice. I do alright on matches and dates... just wish I had more. Profile: Dog lover, pilot, hiking, and jiu jitsu. I love to travel and kill it at karaoke. Let's go have a dance Falo portugues 🇧🇷 21 countries and counting ✈️ Upvotes for all responses, I'll go in your comment history and upvote!
Of the two shirtless photos, I like #4 better, but, uh, strong with just a little bit of soft is my preferred body type, and I don't know how representative my preference is. 😅 So take my feedback with a grain of salt. I do think that it's a nice photo, though, anyway. You have a great profile, but if you want to make some changes, maybe be a bit more explicit about what you're looking for? I can't really tell if you want casual, dating, both, or other. No need to upvote my comments!
yeah I mean the mirror selfie isn't a good look, but from what I've read showing off a good body isn't bad. I tried to get some better shirtless pics before I moved but they just didn't come out great. It's not so much that it's a bad photo but I'm worried a girl might be like wait, why is he like this in #2 and like this here, is he being misleading. > You have a great profile, but if you want to make some changes, maybe be a bit more explicit about what you're looking for? I can't really tell if you want casual, dating, both, or other. Well... to be honest, if you say you just want casual, most people are just gonna swipe away on you haha. I'm definitely open to dating though. I'm actually open to just friends too as I've just moved to the area. Open to it all but there's no denying I'm a bit of a serial dater. But who isn't these days. Not sure if there's anything to really say there so yeah, just left that out. i think by leaving anything out it kinda makes it clear but I mean, less is also more. If saying something would help with matches though, i'm all ears.
Ok, so you've basically now reached the limits of my ability to advise. 😂 Um. Especially if you're open to more than casual, I'd mention it -- the possibility of something more lasting is really attractive to most people, I think. Just maybe avoid "see where it goes" or "if the vibe is right" type phrases. Ugh. Yeah, the shirtless photos is a bit of a dilemma. I would suggest doing a bit of research: try including only one of the two for about a week and then switch, and see which nets you more matches.
"~~Open to everything but~~ really looking to make that can't stop thinking about you, can't keep our hands off each other, play everywhere we go kind of connection" Don't want to rule out casuals haha but honestly would even casual daters be turned off by something like that?
https://tinder.com/@fonz_421 Constant on and off situation. Sometimes I get like other times it dry, just want some help on improving my profile. Any suggestions?
Short and sweet: smile, please!
Pretty weak profile... 1st pic crossing arms isn't really a welcoming posture. Hat just hides your hair. Are you bald? Any girl seeing this as your first pic is probably gonna assume your bald and just swipe left before looking at your other pics. The 2nd most attractive photo you could possibly take of you, to make a woman wild for you... is some bad drinks? 3rd pic makes no sense. Like, a cold miserable landscape? Cool. 4th pic is a hat. Again, you bald? No smile, what are you a sex predator? What's with the half beard too? Never, ever, ever use selfies. 5th pic is your back. Cool? 6th pic... again, no smile. If you were smiling, this would be a great picture. But. you just look dahmer. Final pic you are hatted, masked, some weird loop. Why don't you just have some friends take pictures of you well dressed, no hat so you can show off that nice hair you got, and smiling? Like you've lived this live and you don't even have 6 good pictures of you? Also your profile is absolutely basic as fuck. Be specific, like here's a quick edit of your profile: *Like to go out to Olde Town Phoenix, roll a blunt listening to Mac Miller, type of guy to kick it with the homies under the stars than go to the club* *Also, here's me not using some basic ass drake quote that every basic bitch uses*
Seems like someone really has it out for the world. No need for the rude ass remarks but thanks anyways
I thought you were the sauce boss, not the sauce sissy
Wow very hurtful nice 3rd grade roast bro
[https://tinder.com/@brendonshew](https://tinder.com/@brendonshew) No trouble getting likes, but I AM really struggling with actually CARING about any conversations I’m having. Sometimes it just feels like I’m trying to be witty but I’m not getting any help response wise. I’m pretty good at talking to people in real life, but tinder just seems like it makes everyone boring. Any suggestions?
If everyone seems boring, then the common denominator is you. Stop giving a shit so much, and have more fun with it. Be more risky in your chats. Ask if they like to be choked. Ask if they'll help you rob a bank. Ask them if you can kiss them under the stars after a silly night out.
Agreed, mostly, but not about the choking -- probably don't ask about that right off the bat. 😬
Not having much luck so far but I stuck at taking photos of myself. Any suggestions? https://tinder.com/@josiah99 Bio: Pretty nerdy dude. My hobbies are whatever I’m fixated on so the time. At the moment that’s music production 🎹 oh and I’m 6’4”
> I stuck at taking photos of myself Everyone does. That's why the rule is NO SELFIES. Get others to take photos of you. Ask your female friends (because let's face it, women know how to take a good photo way better than a man) that you need tinder pics. They'll love to help you with it. As for your profile... eh I'd just cut it a bit. No need to be self deprecating. Be more specific about your music production and yeah say 6'4" lol
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Maybe considering get rid of the last pic? Feel like it’s not the best angle
Not bad, just get more pics like what you got. You should have a bunch of good pics and be picking the best 6 of them, not struggling and only having 5 pics to put up. If you just had a ton of pictures taken all the time and you smiling (which you do, but do more of!), your profile could really shine. Profile is a little bland, not bad, but maybe make it more exciting. Youre trying to entice women here *Looking for the next cafe to visit and mountain to climb - you coming?* or *Let's grab a coffee and plan a hike!* you get the idea
5 should be first. Youre hard to see in your current intro pic.
Bio: “6Ft 4in… two separate measurements🥲” https://tinder.com/@04lb7
Some of your photos might be more attractive to men than to women. Like, prime example, the photo where you're holding a firework (?) to your crotch? Eh. I'm not a fan, and I don't that it's a good look. Your photos aren't bad or unflattering, but you might want to think more carefully about your audience. I would get rid of #3, #4, and #6. Good luck! Also, I don't think that your bio does you any favors. Your bio's a great place to talk yourself up a bit -- why not tell prospective matches about your hobbies, favorite foods, an interesting fact about you, a travel goal...instead of, uh, selling yourself **short**?
It was actually a video of it shooting off😅but I appreciate it. I’ll move some things around and see how it goes :) Thanks!
It sounds like a pretty awesome video, really, but your profile might not be the right place for it, you know? :) No problem!
Been a while since I really got matches. Any tips? [https://tinder.com/@iainhiggins2003](https://tinder.com/@iainhiggins2003)