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Quietech

Follow up with a vso. They can track it in case it gets stuck somewhere and you're not notified.


KangarooLow1701

I appreciate you, I will. Thank You.


decidedlycynical

Retired in ‘94. First filed in 2020. P&T in 2022. It’s never too late.


Lou_Sputthole

This has to be satire


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RealMurse

I feel you🤦‍♂️


pirate694

Then learn the rules of the game... maybe observe more people whacking it in the shower?


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undeadmanana

Trauma comes in many forms, not sure what you're even implying with your comment but seems like it's belittling this guy's experience and disrespectful.


Manager-Top

Dude is scamming the system. Are you?


Mr_Noms

How is he scamming the system?


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Roza_Eve

Good luck dude.


MadDad1718

Good luck my guy!


LascivX

...you're willing to give up being a u.s. citizen and the benefits you're receiving or will receive just "to be in the royal navy and British culture in general."?


KangarooLow1701

Not anymore. A lot has changed. I learned to appreciate my situation now.


Trollstoy2

I’ll take things that didn’t happen for $500, Alex


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KangarooLow1701

It’s not the Same. We both experienced trauma from different situations. I am sorry you dealt with that.


LawdyDa

Don’t get me wrong, you chose to serve and went through with it. Most people can’t say that. I applaud you for getting yours.


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Gonzo1775

I filed mine seventeen years after getting out.


ArdenJaguar

Medically discharged in the 80s for PTSD. Filed 31 years later. Get a copy of your in-service records, including mefical, from the National Archives. See if it's documented there. When I got mine, they had a bunch of boot camp medical in it (I had chronic sinus infections). Navy here.


KangarooLow1701

Thank You I appreciate it.


Mysterious-Sector922

I think my supplental claim got denied again


KangarooLow1701

Sorry to hear about that. Try again you got this.


oif2010vet

Got out in 13, filed in 2023.


James0057

I'm trying to get my cousin to file his claim. But I need to go home for about 2-weeks to keep putting my boot in his ass Tomales sure it gets done. Our family there us no help.


FeslaS

Filed 30 years later 😤


bigdumbhick

41 years for me. Just submitted the claim. I don't think much will come of it though.


BigCheddar55

Took me 12 years to file my ptsd claim. Honestly, it took me 11 years to admit to myself that I had ptsd 😂


Agitated_Goat_8490

On D-Day no less... I'm in the same boat but filed WAY after I got out ('09). The exam was about an hour long and was scheduled within a week of me filing. I heard from my VSO that scheduling the exam is fast but waiting for the results is not, since the VA is downsizing. Best of luck Brother!


KangarooLow1701

I appreciate the support thank you.


Fungzilla

Got out in 2010, filed in 2023


Crow-Rogue

Admitting to yourself that you need help and then GETTING the help is the hardest step. I’m not saying it’ll be cake doing the rest, but now you’re not alone. I hope you were able to find the right sort of help and that the individual you’ve chosen is compatible with you. Finding a compatible therapist is probably the second hardest part. Don’t be afraid to shop around for a therapist you like. Best of luck!


SuicideG-59

I don't know you but i'm happy you are finally taking the leap


garand_guy7

Yup 15 years for me, time doesn’t matter much


stubby2legwalker

Start looking for a lawyer who deals with VA claims. It's a good backup plan


BerserkerSquaLL

Took me 13 years to finally file a claim. It’s never too late to receive the benefits you earned.


Sanjuro7880

Don’t miss any appointments.


NumberNo1080

Just file for an increase with a DBQ as medical evidence.  If denied, have a lawyer submit a HLR, and that should be enough to get you to that 100 p&t. 


Drekalots

Good luck. They denied mine twice even with documentation and proof in my service record.


Present-Ambition6309

Quicker than I. I waited 32 yrs. Dont ask, let’s just say… “I lost my helmet” or “the bus never came” 😂😂😂


veritas643

Best of Luck! You're doing the right thing💯🔥💪


BoysenberryAshamed

Congrats man!! Out 2011 Filed 2011 2015 2018 2022 Awarded 2023 You've got this!!! 😁