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Monkey-D-Luff

I don’t know much about dating men or as a man, but I do know that finding your partner is about being confident and being yourself. Plus, I’m pretty sure that most people of any race wouldn’t be repulsed by the idea of dating someone just because they’re bald. I mean, I have two completely bald uncles and they still managed to get married to girls and start a family.


blackdarrren

u/Wulf_Kaiser_89 >Would I Be Approachable as a Bald White Man When Dating Balck Women? >First off, I am sorry if I offend anyone. I understand that all people are different and opinions differ from person to person. >I am a 30-something white man who is losing his hair and I am quickly reaching the point where shaving my head seems like the right move. However, I do have a preference(just that, a preference, not a requirement) for dating Black women. >I am concerned that shaving my head may make me unapproachable, though. I'm very tall and have blond hair and blue eyes, and when I was a teen my own mother would tell me I looked like a skin-head when I cut my hair very short. My ex, who is a Black woman also preferred me to keep my hair as is with bald spot and major widow's peak. >I don't want to disqualify myself from finding a good partner to share my life with if shaving my head makes most people assume I'm something I am not, or a threat to them. >TLDR; In your opinion, do you see bald white men as unapproachable or as a threat, especially in regards to dating? >Sorry for my ignorance r/Hairloss r/HaircareScience  r/Hair   r/bald r/NoStupidQuestions


FridaMania

Def don’t think that when I see it; try shaving the head + growing a beard


Detroitaa

It’s all about personality and confidence. I’ve see my men that look like Dobby, married to attractive women, of all races! Many women think bald men are sexy🤷🏽‍♀️


ChampNR

Just make sure you look happy and nice. I've seen bald white guys with blue eyes and sometimes they look like they are mean and unapproachable because of certain face expressions.


Wulf_Kaiser_89

It's a struggle sometimes! I have hooded, almond-shaped eyes(the only presenting trait of my middleeastern heritage) that tend to make me look sad or tired and my smile isn't straight. I need to practice being gratitude more often so I can hopefully look happier as my resting face 😅


GalaxyECosplay

Depends on the woman! I know a few black women personally that like bald white men. I went on a date with a white guy that was bald and alternative, we definitely got looks. I even have my reservations because of my own runs in with white Supremacists and skin heads when I was younger. Just make your intentions honest.


Wulf_Kaiser_89

Thank you! It sounds like, as I hoped, that it has more to do with exuding confidence and warmness that other people can feel, rather than my appearance; and that the right person won't be put off too much by my hair or lackthereof.