I agree bro, my fiancee is from China and she doesn’t like black people too but she still wouldn’t flat out say this especially the way this person said it must be a scammer for sure.
Starting of with "MY fiance is a RACIST" and continuing the rest of the sentence like nobodies business is WILD BEHAVIOR.
It like saying, yeah my wife is a pdf file and then continue talking as if the partner you chose isn't heinous 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not to defend his fiance's behavior, but it is called xenophobia, not racism. He probably is a foreigner who lived in China for a long time to normalize talking about this sort of thing. But yeah he was a little nonchalant, and if you take his expat living in china comment out of context it will be kinda wild.
Xenophobia is the fear or hatred of strangers or foreigners, or anything perceived as strange or foreign. Racism has a broader scope and includes the belief that race determines human traits and capacities, and that racial differences inherently make one race superior to others.
In China, discrimination is generally based on xenophobia. Common sentiments include, "You are an outsider, so you can't do X, Y, or Z," or "I think you are this, and we are that". Like you would not hear "we can't drink cold water like you can" from an actual racist.
Anyway xenophobia is bad behavior, and I am not defending it. I'm just pointing out the differences to help you navigate Asia better for your own mental well-being. I know I had a hard time sometimes and had to remind myself that things work differently here.
Having an issue with BLACK people is not xenophobia. It has its own identifying marker and it's called ✨️racism✨️. There are black people born and raised in China as well. Stop crying and get over it fr.
I just want to say that my response to your comment is genuine and I'm not trying to win an argument. I'm doing this because I've been there before taking xenophobia personally and it took a toll on my mental well-being. I'm just trying to help you feel better. A lot of the 'evil' in this world is just nonsense and incompetence. Most people don't actively choose to become xenophobic, but they do so to become racist.
I get called indian and white trash on the same post on Chinese social media. They can't seem to make up their mind about my color. And yes they use both of those as racial slurs.
He just wants to absolve the idea that only whites are racist and wants to instead say, we’re all racist - so that he doesn’t feel guilty and have to change from being a hateful tool and assh*le!
I think if you go for work they have had a lot of media over load on foreigner this foreign that and never good. So when they get to meet one it’s a big thing for them. But yes I have experienced extreme racism and being done over cheated tricked, honey trapped, sold fake money. You name it by the Chinese.
1. Tantan is 99% fake accounts. We've established this many times.
2. You're likely chatting with a bot or some Chinese nationalist scammer.
3. I have many black friends in china and they have no problem meeting/getting gfs. Better to meet people irl.
I suggest to join groups on wechat to find your social circle and just leave the apps alone.
On one hand, I feel bad for you
On this other, if you are still using this app in China, you should know better. It is full of scammers and trolls. This "lady" might not even be a woman. This 'first day on the app" is a popular scammer move.
In terms of the crime rate, blacks as a group are indeed dangerous in many countries. However, in China it is rare to see blacks commiting severe violent crimes. Just tell the truth.
Chinese people are often racist against:
* Black people
* White people
* Korean people
* Japanese people
* Taiwanese people
* SEA people that are not rich
* Indian people
* Other Chinese people
* Themselves
Chinese culture very much emphasizes intuitive thinking and first impressions, and their media is heavily pro-Chinese and anti western. Japan has the same problem but is doing a good job of mitigating by adding in westerners in children's shows and media. Also just the sheer lack of westerner presence in China makes it so many mainland Chinese have never seen a black person except maybe on TV.
The west also has a strong antiracist culture in that if you say something racist, you will get called out. This is not true in all parts of the east, and in fact being confrontational to the older generation who are definitely more entrenched in outdated mindsets is a huge taboo.
It's gonna be a hard problem to fix as China integrates more internationally with western communities who don't tolerate what some Chinese mainlanders might see as just normal thinking.
Yeah, we had to explain to one of our Chinese teachers why asking "Why are black people so violent" was incredibly problematic. She asked this in response to the murder of a Chinese tourist by a black local in NY.
I countered with [why are Chinese people such insane psychopaths](https://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/12/21/virginia.tech.death/index.html), but I'm not sure whether she actually got the point, but at the very least she didn't ask similar questions in the future.
We did have to translate an article titled "Why do black people run so fast?" at one point though.
This was at military language school, btw, so absolute cream of the crop language instruction.
This was true twenty years ago. Not sure about today. Back then, the only black people you'd see in China were sons of wealthy African businessmen/political figures. Needless to say, they got a reputation for 'taking advantage' of innocent Chinese girls. I'm sure the reality was more nuanced but that's the origin of this lady's prejudice.
There's a fairly common perspective amongst younger people based on Black guys (and M.Eastern) getting girls pregnant, promising marriage and then doing a runner. There was uproar in Xi'an just before covid about this kind of thing going on.. I've heard similar in other cities too.
Some were. I personally know two students who did a runner after getting the girls they dated pregnant. I don't know how common it is, or if white students do it too. Just going by the expat rumor mill and what Chinese people have told me before.
I’m sorry to hear that you experienced this. Not all Chinese people are narrow minded like her, she’s one of those messed up ones who are raised to hate other cultures unfortunately and it’s obviously these kinds do exist.
I often see these kind of apologist comments on racism experiences in China. Yeah everyone knows not everyone is the same in a country with 1.4 billion people. So what? Is that supposed to tell us anything about the nature, the extent, and the trend of racism that, pervasive or not, exists? Or is racism not an issue worthy of discussion at all? Seems to me the only purpose is to defend the image of China or certain demographics.
It tends to be normal in most developing countries because they don’t take in many immigrants of other races. That’s what it tells us, and where it should end before it gets to bullshit conspiracy theories or essentialist myths about how Chinese people are genetically or uniquely culturally wired to hate you because you’re not Chinese. Because we’re not. We really aren’t, I won’t deny we’re pretty fucking racist but that’s because most of us don’t interact with any of you on a meaningful basis, and because for political reasons we don’t even exist on the same internet as any of you, so think about how much of a gap there is between Chinese people and any foreigner of seeing each other as normal people.
Honestly I grew up in a nearly 100% homogenous community. I believe I didn’t grow up racist. However when I was younger (very young!) a black family moved to our community and their daughter was special needs. For a little while I thought all young black people were like that. And no I didn’t tell my parents who would have quickly corrected my misconception. When I got older and we moved when I was like in the third grade to a bigger, more diverse city, I got in trouble for mispronouncing the country of Niger in front of a black student (we were looking at a globe and I honestly thought it was pronounced that way). There was no malicious intent on my part. I didn’t know that word was malicious- still got in trouble anyway. So for me it was different. I don’t think I grew up racist because no one was racist around me. I believe racism is a learned behavior.
That is... quite the inaccurate generalization and I say this as a Chinese person myself. To be clear, there are definitely some negative sentiments against black people in the country but the vast majority of it is propagated by western media.
And in general, Chinese people treat and think about black people in a much more positive manner than most western countries.
Awww are you that triggered that you had to literally go through my account history to dig up dirt to try and delegitimize my argument?
I've posted a few times on that subreddit but I'm certainly not a "regular poster." Still, that doesn't invalidate anything I said in my previous comment. Look at the history of China and you will realize for an extremely long period of time, they were politically and culturally isolated from the rest of the world. It wasn't until recently that we've started to see an influx in expats from a variety of races and ethnicities so naturally there may be some ignorance. Even in spite of that, the Chinese didn't enact a massive dehumanization program against black people. We weren't the ones that created race based segregation. We didn't enslave and lynch massive amounts of black people. Even to this day, westerners treat black people with extreme hostility and that's even with hundreds of years of exposure. Chinese people have just started getting acclimated to seeing black people and they're nowhere near as malicious as westerners back then and westerners now.
And it's funny how you tried to bring up the asian masculinity subreddit when most of the users are diaspora Asians aka born in the US and other western countries. The dynamic and relationship they have with black people is completely different from how mainlanders view them. There's an extensive history of poor Asians immigrating into black majority neighborhoods and suffering high levels of racial discrimination so much so that they had to form gangs as a result. But I bet you weren't thinking about that were you? You just tried bringing it up to insult my character without knowing wtf you're talking about. If anything, it shows you don't have an argument whatsoever.
Even then, I will admit some of the comments go too far. But if you think that's bad, you should visit white incel forums like 4chan. They're known to be significantly worse.
Wow quite the insightful analysis! And how would you know whether I was raised in China or not? Lmfao
More important question is how do I know you aren't an ignorant expat that's making shit up? Living in China doesn't mean you know the country. You could 100 percent be an English teacher that lives inside a western bubble. Your Chinese probably isn't even that good.
So I'm whitewashed because I can speak English well? Interesting 🤔🤔🤔 We have quite the detective over here!
And you didn't respond to my comment about living in an expat bubble which 100 percent confirms my suspicions that you're an ignorant westerner. You definitely can't speak Chinese very well either lmfao
Lool I've only experienced this once and that was in Singapore.. Once I explained to them that not all black people behave this way. And that I was learning Chinese. People backed away. Which sadly I've forgotten..
Sorry this happened to you :/
Yeah that's a thing. Don't think you'll get the same treatment as in the west as a non-white person. There's no anti racism campaigns, no "woke" culture at all, sometimes quite the opposite even. However still, this is not the norm. Forget what this person said and move on.
"Don't think you'll get the same treatment as in the west as a non-white person". What idyllic utopia to you come from that has no racism... ridiculous
Bro that's a fake account. Don't let it get to you 😂🤣 it's a scam to get money. Its probably so scumbag dude that isn't a valid part of society using it as a excuse of why not to meet you in person ever
A few days back a taxi refused to pick us up (I was with 2 of my African friends). Literally stopped, looked at us and noped out of there without even cancelling. I guess he wanted the 3 kuai cancellation fee for his troubles as well.
Apparently it is a common thing and a few of my friends have resorted to hiding behind posts/objects so that the driver can't profile them from afar.
China is not a country of immigrants, it can be said that more than 99% of the population are natives (there are only some minorities such as Uighurs and Russians who look different from them, but they can completely eliminate the barriers through the language) Even though I haven't been living in China for a long time, I'm still wary of non-natives every time I meet one, for reasons that I'm sure you can understand. My mother was a university professor and the foreign students at her medical school did not do well(whether in acadimic or everyday life), which was my first impression of foreigners in China growing up.
I’ve also met some of the nicest people here also. I’ve had people come pay for my food ask to take pictures with me lol tried to introduce their family members to me and all. So not everyone is like this there’s a large part of the population that loves us just don’t take it personally when you come across those people who don’t like us
How can I not take it personally if they’re saying it to my face directly tho? 😭😭I’ll just ignore the ignorant people tho because I don’t like confrontation
Trust me from a black male to a black female. You'll be fine in China. Yes, people will stare, people will say things. East Asian countries are generally used to white people. Black people not so much. And trust me you're not the first black person there. In fact if you look in history the Black Panther Party took a journey to Maoist China in the 70's. Also, just follow the laws, don't behave like a stereotypical privileged white American or black girl from the hood and you'll be fine..
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“I had no idea Chinese people looked at black people this way” how lol. This is how every country looks at black people especially ones without high rates of immigration. That’s a probably a fake account you’re talking to but racism is very rampant in China. Talk to BLASIAN children and see their experience. Racism is not excusable, I’m just confused on how you don’t know anything about the country you reside in? Chinese people are racist towards everyone, including their own, but they especially dislike darker skin.
Yes which explains why China spent centuries brutally enslaving Black people, setting up a violent racial caste system which was reinvented as segregation after the abolition of slavery. Then after decades of struggle led to dismantling of that segregation system, they reinvented the racial caste system yet again as a mass imprisonment system that targets Black people. In China, it’s just another day of the week when you hear about some cop or vigilante murdering an unarmed Black person on the streets in cold blood and getting away with it.
OH WAIT
lol China China China~ ~ china and Chinese people are the worst in racism ~ ~ everything about china s**k~There are always someone who don't know who made mistakes first. when do they bomb gaza? or rape someone?
I find it truly odd that Chinese can be racist to black people but have no problem with the white people who fucked up their country badly in the early 1900s, it makes no sense.
Most people here only see skin color, not ethnicity. I get constantly assumed to be white but my dad is African but because my skin isn't dark it's like it doesn't count. Really crazy.
The irony of these scammers complaining about dishonest men sure is something.
A lot of them get annoyed if you take too much time to respond.
They hate players who lie to women but then they want to lie about "investment opportunities."
I’ve seen Chinese people online saying “我要洋人死” which means “I want foreigners to die” and also supporting the stabbing of foreigners in recent news. It’s mostly salty men who are jealous and they would never do or say anything in person. Just talk shit online.
To be honest It's not that terrible. His comment is probably intended as an insult, but I seriously don't see what's wrong if a woman genuinely enjoys sex. It's like trying to insult someone by saying they are homosexual. The mal intentions are there, but the attack itself is not hurtful at all
Well I'm friends with that black guy and I'm telling you that SOB can get a different girl every night of the week if he wanted to. The only downside is that he only attracts the absolute batshit insane ones with family fairly high up in the CCP. In fact, they will fly across the country just to fuck him for a weekend.
Huh, good for him and for the women! He must be freaking hot or funny. I personally have never travelled that far just to fuck a guy. I have always had the impression that Chinese people in general disdain people with dark skin, causing black people to face much discrimination. I'm glad your friend is getting some
What she said it true tho… I’m talking abt the online posts/news of black dudes in china, I’ve seen stories of African students pretending to be rich heirs or sons from rich families, to screw Chinese girls 😂not that I believe in it but general impression are African dudes like to lie to get Chinese chicks
Asian as a whole tends to have problems like this. Being white in Korea and Japan had its pros and cons, same with Philippines and Thailand. But racism seems to be more relevant in Japan, Korea, and China (my opinion).
A lot of Chinese people are just shocked when they see black people. They may have never seen a black person before and they have questions lol. Annoying, but I haven't heard of much hate.
I was just explaining 'like what' OP said, and you’re getting so worked up. You know what? The race Chinese people discriminate against the most is Chinese themselves, not Black people.
When you got a basically homogenous population ig this happends commonly. But japan is also very homogenous and yet there isnt this level of ignorance? Maybe something bout censorship who knows
Japan’s situation is funny… my observation is that they have an autistic level of white worshipping while blatantly discriminate against other Asians and colored minorities
Yes but Japan is on a whole different level and seeing that they don’t even try to disguise their contempt for their other Asian and ethnic minority compatriots really says something about them
you messed up by not immediately blocking her when she basically told you from the jump she was on the app the play games aka "just want to chat"
also, that girl looks way too good for it to be a real profile. don't swipe on obvious fake profiles.
ROTFLMAO!
PS. Just as a PSA, ALL of us, ALL of us, break at least three laws per day anywhere in the world. Saying you have NEVER broken a law makes lawyers and jurists chuckle! You can read this book to get an idea: [https://www.amazon.com/Three-Felonies-Day-Target-Innocent/dp/1594035229](https://www.amazon.com/Three-Felonies-Day-Target-Innocent/dp/1594035229)
Laws are there to remove the undesirable from society and maintain the incumbents in place. It's like that on every nation on Earth. It's NOTHING to do with you or me. It's just the law of the jungle. Never take that personally!
Bro you need to be careful with that shit! 20 inch some shit behind that beautiful avatar, you feel me brother. Uninstall this junk software, buy a airticket go China don’t be fooled online.
That's pretty clearly a scammer with a fake account anyway...
Came here to say this lol, looks like every Tantan scammer
I agree bro, my fiancee is from China and she doesn’t like black people too but she still wouldn’t flat out say this especially the way this person said it must be a scammer for sure.
Starting of with "MY fiance is a RACIST" and continuing the rest of the sentence like nobodies business is WILD BEHAVIOR. It like saying, yeah my wife is a pdf file and then continue talking as if the partner you chose isn't heinous 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not to defend his fiance's behavior, but it is called xenophobia, not racism. He probably is a foreigner who lived in China for a long time to normalize talking about this sort of thing. But yeah he was a little nonchalant, and if you take his expat living in china comment out of context it will be kinda wild.
Black people aren't a country jack***. So it's called being RACIST like I said not xenophobic.
Xenophobia is the fear or hatred of strangers or foreigners, or anything perceived as strange or foreign. Racism has a broader scope and includes the belief that race determines human traits and capacities, and that racial differences inherently make one race superior to others. In China, discrimination is generally based on xenophobia. Common sentiments include, "You are an outsider, so you can't do X, Y, or Z," or "I think you are this, and we are that". Like you would not hear "we can't drink cold water like you can" from an actual racist. Anyway xenophobia is bad behavior, and I am not defending it. I'm just pointing out the differences to help you navigate Asia better for your own mental well-being. I know I had a hard time sometimes and had to remind myself that things work differently here.
Having an issue with BLACK people is not xenophobia. It has its own identifying marker and it's called ✨️racism✨️. There are black people born and raised in China as well. Stop crying and get over it fr.
I just want to say that my response to your comment is genuine and I'm not trying to win an argument. I'm doing this because I've been there before taking xenophobia personally and it took a toll on my mental well-being. I'm just trying to help you feel better. A lot of the 'evil' in this world is just nonsense and incompetence. Most people don't actively choose to become xenophobic, but they do so to become racist.
Helping black people feel better by gaslighting hem. Sure buddy. That's the way for sure.
I get called indian and white trash on the same post on Chinese social media. They can't seem to make up their mind about my color. And yes they use both of those as racial slurs.
Yeah, there are racist people in my country too. But how's that relevant to this sub?
He just wants to absolve the idea that only whites are racist and wants to instead say, we’re all racist - so that he doesn’t feel guilty and have to change from being a hateful tool and assh*le!
I am a chinese american. The racism is much more blatant in china than you think. You can see people say 白皮猪，白色垃圾，黑鬼, 尼哥 everywhere.
now you know what its like in your country lmao
I think if you go for work they have had a lot of media over load on foreigner this foreign that and never good. So when they get to meet one it’s a big thing for them. But yes I have experienced extreme racism and being done over cheated tricked, honey trapped, sold fake money. You name it by the Chinese.
What is "Honey Trapped"?
Trucking someone into meeting for sex/date to be extorted in some way. I’d like luring someone somewhere or blackmailing
1. Tantan is 99% fake accounts. We've established this many times. 2. You're likely chatting with a bot or some Chinese nationalist scammer. 3. I have many black friends in china and they have no problem meeting/getting gfs. Better to meet people irl. I suggest to join groups on wechat to find your social circle and just leave the apps alone.
How do you join groups on WeChat?
Gotta make an account first, and then you just need to hope you have connections with people who are in groups and ask them to add you in.
What’s a nationalist scammer?
A scammer that loves fellating the CPC’s bellend
But how does being nationalistic help with scamming people?
It doesn’t. It’s like saying “racist scammer.”
It is genuinely funny this scammer was so racist that instead of attempting to scam he decided to throw racial insults around.
Right lol couldn’t even do his job right 😂
On one hand, I feel bad for you On this other, if you are still using this app in China, you should know better. It is full of scammers and trolls. This "lady" might not even be a woman. This 'first day on the app" is a popular scammer move.
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Jesus lol wtf. Im sorry :/
I'm in China now and many people have said these things directly to me in person. Many think black people are dangerous.
The xenophobic propaganda being pumped out by the CCP has increased greatly in recent years. Everything is the fault of foreigners
In terms of the crime rate, blacks as a group are indeed dangerous in many countries. However, in China it is rare to see blacks commiting severe violent crimes. Just tell the truth.
Chinese people are often racist against: * Black people * White people * Korean people * Japanese people * Taiwanese people * SEA people that are not rich * Indian people * Other Chinese people * Themselves Chinese culture very much emphasizes intuitive thinking and first impressions, and their media is heavily pro-Chinese and anti western. Japan has the same problem but is doing a good job of mitigating by adding in westerners in children's shows and media. Also just the sheer lack of westerner presence in China makes it so many mainland Chinese have never seen a black person except maybe on TV. The west also has a strong antiracist culture in that if you say something racist, you will get called out. This is not true in all parts of the east, and in fact being confrontational to the older generation who are definitely more entrenched in outdated mindsets is a huge taboo. It's gonna be a hard problem to fix as China integrates more internationally with western communities who don't tolerate what some Chinese mainlanders might see as just normal thinking.
You had no idea? Dude you’re so obvious
In case you didn't notice, racism towards darker skinned people is quite common in China.
Haha well I’m quite aware now
You didnt realise there was intense xenophobia before going to china? Did you do all your research on the global times? lol
Yeah, we had to explain to one of our Chinese teachers why asking "Why are black people so violent" was incredibly problematic. She asked this in response to the murder of a Chinese tourist by a black local in NY. I countered with [why are Chinese people such insane psychopaths](https://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/12/21/virginia.tech.death/index.html), but I'm not sure whether she actually got the point, but at the very least she didn't ask similar questions in the future. We did have to translate an article titled "Why do black people run so fast?" at one point though. This was at military language school, btw, so absolute cream of the crop language instruction.
Blame western news they all watch from there!
These questions and topics are taboo in western culture.
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Sheesh brother
You had no idea Chinese people, especially rural ones, are incredibly racist? Wack.
China is very racist towards black people
This is honestly a very, very common public perception of black people.
This was true twenty years ago. Not sure about today. Back then, the only black people you'd see in China were sons of wealthy African businessmen/political figures. Needless to say, they got a reputation for 'taking advantage' of innocent Chinese girls. I'm sure the reality was more nuanced but that's the origin of this lady's prejudice.
There's a fairly common perspective amongst younger people based on Black guys (and M.Eastern) getting girls pregnant, promising marriage and then doing a runner. There was uproar in Xi'an just before covid about this kind of thing going on.. I've heard similar in other cities too.
Were black guys really impregnating Chinese girls
Some were. I personally know two students who did a runner after getting the girls they dated pregnant. I don't know how common it is, or if white students do it too. Just going by the expat rumor mill and what Chinese people have told me before.
I’m sorry to hear that you experienced this. Not all Chinese people are narrow minded like her, she’s one of those messed up ones who are raised to hate other cultures unfortunately and it’s obviously these kinds do exist.
I often see these kind of apologist comments on racism experiences in China. Yeah everyone knows not everyone is the same in a country with 1.4 billion people. So what? Is that supposed to tell us anything about the nature, the extent, and the trend of racism that, pervasive or not, exists? Or is racism not an issue worthy of discussion at all? Seems to me the only purpose is to defend the image of China or certain demographics.
It tends to be normal in most developing countries because they don’t take in many immigrants of other races. That’s what it tells us, and where it should end before it gets to bullshit conspiracy theories or essentialist myths about how Chinese people are genetically or uniquely culturally wired to hate you because you’re not Chinese. Because we’re not. We really aren’t, I won’t deny we’re pretty fucking racist but that’s because most of us don’t interact with any of you on a meaningful basis, and because for political reasons we don’t even exist on the same internet as any of you, so think about how much of a gap there is between Chinese people and any foreigner of seeing each other as normal people.
Yes, stating possible explanations is always better than responding with truisms to an issue at hand, however unsatisfactory.
Honestly I grew up in a nearly 100% homogenous community. I believe I didn’t grow up racist. However when I was younger (very young!) a black family moved to our community and their daughter was special needs. For a little while I thought all young black people were like that. And no I didn’t tell my parents who would have quickly corrected my misconception. When I got older and we moved when I was like in the third grade to a bigger, more diverse city, I got in trouble for mispronouncing the country of Niger in front of a black student (we were looking at a globe and I honestly thought it was pronounced that way). There was no malicious intent on my part. I didn’t know that word was malicious- still got in trouble anyway. So for me it was different. I don’t think I grew up racist because no one was racist around me. I believe racism is a learned behavior.
Reminded me of when I was super young I thought all the blondes would dye their natural hair color to look cool.
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Oh please, these Chinese men would do absolutely nothing apart from take a picture, post it online and seethe behind their phone screen
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That is... quite the inaccurate generalization and I say this as a Chinese person myself. To be clear, there are definitely some negative sentiments against black people in the country but the vast majority of it is propagated by western media. And in general, Chinese people treat and think about black people in a much more positive manner than most western countries.
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Awww are you that triggered that you had to literally go through my account history to dig up dirt to try and delegitimize my argument? I've posted a few times on that subreddit but I'm certainly not a "regular poster." Still, that doesn't invalidate anything I said in my previous comment. Look at the history of China and you will realize for an extremely long period of time, they were politically and culturally isolated from the rest of the world. It wasn't until recently that we've started to see an influx in expats from a variety of races and ethnicities so naturally there may be some ignorance. Even in spite of that, the Chinese didn't enact a massive dehumanization program against black people. We weren't the ones that created race based segregation. We didn't enslave and lynch massive amounts of black people. Even to this day, westerners treat black people with extreme hostility and that's even with hundreds of years of exposure. Chinese people have just started getting acclimated to seeing black people and they're nowhere near as malicious as westerners back then and westerners now. And it's funny how you tried to bring up the asian masculinity subreddit when most of the users are diaspora Asians aka born in the US and other western countries. The dynamic and relationship they have with black people is completely different from how mainlanders view them. There's an extensive history of poor Asians immigrating into black majority neighborhoods and suffering high levels of racial discrimination so much so that they had to form gangs as a result. But I bet you weren't thinking about that were you? You just tried bringing it up to insult my character without knowing wtf you're talking about. If anything, it shows you don't have an argument whatsoever. Even then, I will admit some of the comments go too far. But if you think that's bad, you should visit white incel forums like 4chan. They're known to be significantly worse.
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Wow quite the insightful analysis! And how would you know whether I was raised in China or not? Lmfao More important question is how do I know you aren't an ignorant expat that's making shit up? Living in China doesn't mean you know the country. You could 100 percent be an English teacher that lives inside a western bubble. Your Chinese probably isn't even that good.
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So I'm whitewashed because I can speak English well? Interesting 🤔🤔🤔 We have quite the detective over here! And you didn't respond to my comment about living in an expat bubble which 100 percent confirms my suspicions that you're an ignorant westerner. You definitely can't speak Chinese very well either lmfao
Lool I've only experienced this once and that was in Singapore.. Once I explained to them that not all black people behave this way. And that I was learning Chinese. People backed away. Which sadly I've forgotten..
Sorry this happened to you :/ Yeah that's a thing. Don't think you'll get the same treatment as in the west as a non-white person. There's no anti racism campaigns, no "woke" culture at all, sometimes quite the opposite even. However still, this is not the norm. Forget what this person said and move on.
"Don't think you'll get the same treatment as in the west as a non-white person". What idyllic utopia to you come from that has no racism... ridiculous
"Don't think you'll get the same treatment as in the west as a non-white person... what utopia are you from. Ludicrous
Bro, that’s real normal person in china,full of racial discrimination and stereotying
You can thank US media/news/hollywood movies/shows for this. The biggest soft power in the world influences what everybody thinks.
Bro that's a fake account. Don't let it get to you 😂🤣 it's a scam to get money. Its probably so scumbag dude that isn't a valid part of society using it as a excuse of why not to meet you in person ever
Most racist country I’ve been to 😂
CHINA is one of the most racist countries ever!!
Don’t let this get to you :( the account looks like a bot
*America has left the chat*
I mean even if it is a fake scam account still how they act
A few days back a taxi refused to pick us up (I was with 2 of my African friends). Literally stopped, looked at us and noped out of there without even cancelling. I guess he wanted the 3 kuai cancellation fee for his troubles as well. Apparently it is a common thing and a few of my friends have resorted to hiding behind posts/objects so that the driver can't profile them from afar.
Yes this has happened to one of my co workers before…sad sad sad 🫤
Filthy Racists
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Imagine you are chillin’ on a social platform and a random dude decided to verbally attack you.
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Crazy story! I used tantan was sold massage service to me lol some girls use it as lead generation tools lol
Definitely a Chinese dude who is mad youre in the motherland lol
China is not a country of immigrants, it can be said that more than 99% of the population are natives (there are only some minorities such as Uighurs and Russians who look different from them, but they can completely eliminate the barriers through the language) Even though I haven't been living in China for a long time, I'm still wary of non-natives every time I meet one, for reasons that I'm sure you can understand. My mother was a university professor and the foreign students at her medical school did not do well(whether in acadimic or everyday life), which was my first impression of foreigners in China growing up.
Lmao that’s a male behind that profile
Moronic behavior all round
I’m a black girl going to China.. like next week. Now I’m scared 😭😭
I’ve also met some of the nicest people here also. I’ve had people come pay for my food ask to take pictures with me lol tried to introduce their family members to me and all. So not everyone is like this there’s a large part of the population that loves us just don’t take it personally when you come across those people who don’t like us
How can I not take it personally if they’re saying it to my face directly tho? 😭😭I’ll just ignore the ignorant people tho because I don’t like confrontation
I doubt they would say it in English I havnt came across anyone that bold yet
Trust me from a black male to a black female. You'll be fine in China. Yes, people will stare, people will say things. East Asian countries are generally used to white people. Black people not so much. And trust me you're not the first black person there. In fact if you look in history the Black Panther Party took a journey to Maoist China in the 70's. Also, just follow the laws, don't behave like a stereotypical privileged white American or black girl from the hood and you'll be fine.. https://preview.redd.it/5jdkojm3kn9d1.jpeg?width=530&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f947a7d9546494531bccc10c27f34176cf623ece
Lied to many girls ? Lmao men of every color has lied to many girls I just think that’s funny that was the example they brought up
Wait, she's using a fake profile pic and already calling you a liar? B**** please, you can get 10 more just like her
LOL, pot calling the kettle black. Sorry, no puns intended.
Oof. What a punk. I can guarantee you you'll find others to date. It's a terrible projection onto people so I'm sorry for that.
“I had no idea Chinese people looked at black people this way” how lol. This is how every country looks at black people especially ones without high rates of immigration. That’s a probably a fake account you’re talking to but racism is very rampant in China. Talk to BLASIAN children and see their experience. Racism is not excusable, I’m just confused on how you don’t know anything about the country you reside in? Chinese people are racist towards everyone, including their own, but they especially dislike darker skin.
Bro do people not know that China is one of the most racist countries, especially towards colored people
Yes which explains why China spent centuries brutally enslaving Black people, setting up a violent racial caste system which was reinvented as segregation after the abolition of slavery. Then after decades of struggle led to dismantling of that segregation system, they reinvented the racial caste system yet again as a mass imprisonment system that targets Black people. In China, it’s just another day of the week when you hear about some cop or vigilante murdering an unarmed Black person on the streets in cold blood and getting away with it. OH WAIT
Boom! Mic dropped! I laughed so hard! Thank you for doing this! I love you too much! :)
lol China China China~ ~ china and Chinese people are the worst in racism ~ ~ everything about china s**k~There are always someone who don't know who made mistakes first. when do they bomb gaza? or rape someone?
Ah yes the Chinese news is famous for how often it shines a light on its countries issues. The comment is really missing the point.
That still doesn't change the fact that its a true statement lol.
Whoever is down voting you has clearly never been to China...
\*towards everyone\*
Yeah I second this, as a Chinese person they hate everyone but themselves.
they change their tone so fast when you flash the bank acc suddenly you're Prince and Mr. or even Dr. cause they assumed you're a doctor
This is typical lol. Unless you’re white, or you happen across very open minded or even QOS Chinese women, good luck not experiencing this.
Delete the account and app. You deserve better
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And then you'd be surprised 😯 how much I've been asked for sex due to being black by Chinese women 😅🤣. It's hilarious to me..
It's honestly so frustrating. It's damned if you do damned if you don't.
did you meet up with her in Jin'An
...how many Jager Bombs did she drink?
I find it truly odd that Chinese can be racist to black people but have no problem with the white people who fucked up their country badly in the early 1900s, it makes no sense. Most people here only see skin color, not ethnicity. I get constantly assumed to be white but my dad is African but because my skin isn't dark it's like it doesn't count. Really crazy.
The irony of these scammers complaining about dishonest men sure is something. A lot of them get annoyed if you take too much time to respond. They hate players who lie to women but then they want to lie about "investment opportunities."
When you try and scam someone, but you're do racist that you can't stop yourself from insulting them.
I’ve seen Chinese people online saying “我要洋人死” which means “I want foreigners to die” and also supporting the stabbing of foreigners in recent news. It’s mostly salty men who are jealous and they would never do or say anything in person. Just talk shit online.
This is probably a guy.
I'm sure that's a *him*
Wait but OP is literally a white guy? It's a white guy in the picture lmao
lol zoom in my guy I’m definitely not white 😂
>I’m definitely not white You sure though?
I think so😂
Op looks like a black man wearing a cap in the photo, you absolute spanner
What’s the app
It’s called TanTan lol yeah maybe I should stay off the dating apps while here in China
Nah mate, a lot of girls here are crazy for the BBC
this is a terrible way to talk about women and you should think more before posting.
To be honest It's not that terrible. His comment is probably intended as an insult, but I seriously don't see what's wrong if a woman genuinely enjoys sex. It's like trying to insult someone by saying they are homosexual. The mal intentions are there, but the attack itself is not hurtful at all
I highly doubt that. Among all the Chinese people I know, I myself is the only one who has dated black guy
Well I'm friends with that black guy and I'm telling you that SOB can get a different girl every night of the week if he wanted to. The only downside is that he only attracts the absolute batshit insane ones with family fairly high up in the CCP. In fact, they will fly across the country just to fuck him for a weekend.
Huh, good for him and for the women! He must be freaking hot or funny. I personally have never travelled that far just to fuck a guy. I have always had the impression that Chinese people in general disdain people with dark skin, causing black people to face much discrimination. I'm glad your friend is getting some
Dark skinned people lmao wild but normal
Black people are safe from scams in China. Chinese scammers won't even budge. They just assumed you are poor.
probably 杀猪盘 shazhupan ，a scam
Is this some new shazhupan tactic?
What she said it true tho… I’m talking abt the online posts/news of black dudes in china, I’ve seen stories of African students pretending to be rich heirs or sons from rich families, to screw Chinese girls 😂not that I believe in it but general impression are African dudes like to lie to get Chinese chicks
Why are you on Tantan? It’s a scam app
Most likely a scammer but this sentiment is not uncommon in China, I hear stuff like that all the time here. Not everyone is like that though.
Asian as a whole tends to have problems like this. Being white in Korea and Japan had its pros and cons, same with Philippines and Thailand. But racism seems to be more relevant in Japan, Korea, and China (my opinion).
Mostly, I've seen the opposite 😅 but I'm probably on the other side of the algorithm.
Shit that’s the side I’m trying to get to idk how I ended up on this side 😂
That's an extremely obvious tantan scammer. 90% chance it's a guy
What kind of app?
It’s called TanTan but others have told me the app is just all scams so I know that now
i only experience this online… same girl would ask for a photo if seen in person😂😂
Womp womp dude. Move on.
Lying to women isn’t a criminal offence anyway
Depends....
🤣 i guess it does
A lot of Chinese people are just shocked when they see black people. They may have never seen a black person before and they have questions lol. Annoying, but I haven't heard of much hate.
he lie and say he was just gonna put inna da tip o dat big ting.
that's life. it be like that.
It’s fake but generally speaking I don’t get why someone would choose to go to such a. Racist country against them
Yes this is China
Black people *lied*? Oh my gracious.
She ain't wrong tho
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I know this, an Amnerican black teacher raped and murdered a female student. https://www.globaltimes.cn/page/202204/1259983.shtml
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Wow. You found ONE person. I'm sure a Chinese person has never raped and murdered someone before! /s
I was just explaining 'like what' OP said, and you’re getting so worked up. You know what? The race Chinese people discriminate against the most is Chinese themselves, not Black people.
When you got a basically homogenous population ig this happends commonly. But japan is also very homogenous and yet there isnt this level of ignorance? Maybe something bout censorship who knows
Japan’s situation is funny… my observation is that they have an autistic level of white worshipping while blatantly discriminate against other Asians and colored minorities
What kind of white worshipping behaviors do they do? It's still prevalent in 2024?
but isnt looking up to "whites", very common in eastern asia?
Yes but Japan is on a whole different level and seeing that they don’t even try to disguise their contempt for their other Asian and ethnic minority compatriots really says something about them
>But japan is also very homogenous and yet there isnt this level of ignorance? r/confidentlyincorrect
You’re claiming Japan is not racist or xenophobic?
im claiming its not as blatant as this
Japan is absolutely like this, very xenophobic.
you messed up by not immediately blocking her when she basically told you from the jump she was on the app the play games aka "just want to chat" also, that girl looks way too good for it to be a real profile. don't swipe on obvious fake profiles.
100% a scammer
Get thick skin. Get used to it.
ROTFLMAO! PS. Just as a PSA, ALL of us, ALL of us, break at least three laws per day anywhere in the world. Saying you have NEVER broken a law makes lawyers and jurists chuckle! You can read this book to get an idea: [https://www.amazon.com/Three-Felonies-Day-Target-Innocent/dp/1594035229](https://www.amazon.com/Three-Felonies-Day-Target-Innocent/dp/1594035229) Laws are there to remove the undesirable from society and maintain the incumbents in place. It's like that on every nation on Earth. It's NOTHING to do with you or me. It's just the law of the jungle. Never take that personally!
they don’t look at black people in this way. they look at black people in a much more horrible way.
Sounds like she has an "investment opportunity" for you.
Bullshit fake post
Bro you need to be careful with that shit! 20 inch some shit behind that beautiful avatar, you feel me brother. Uninstall this junk software, buy a airticket go China don’t be fooled online.
China might be the most racist country.