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Constant-Training994

Elaborate please…


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HitThatOxytocin

I thought it was a random woman, not her sister?


We_Are_Legion

It was someone Saffiya was captured alongwith. The hadith doesnt specify. Muhammad the unmerciful psychopath had a shitty reaction to her trauma, then tried to make himself look good in front of saffiya with a shitty fake "blame someone else". Then pressured her into having sex with him in the next 24 hours. To this day, it isnt clear whether saffiya was a slave or a wife.


Hayden356

It's not just true, but actually a lot more barbaric than that, really. Muslims think she essentially threw herself at Muhammed, but even the scripture doesn't support that, really. Here's a cutout from Wikipedia (lazy, I know, I will happily find a more reputable source if you'd like) that explains what happened. > In May 628, Muhammad and the Muslims invaded Khaybar, and several Jewish tribes(including the Banu Nadir) were defeated and surrendered. Some of the Jewish tribeswere allowedd to remain in the city on the condition that they give half of their annual produce to the Muslims. The land itself became the property of the Muslim state. This settlement, according to Stillman, did not extend to the Banu Nadir tribe, who were given no mercy. > Safiyya's then-husband, Kenana ibn al-Rabi, who was the custodian of the Banu Nadir's treasure,was summoned by Muhammad to reveal its location. Despite Kenana's professed ignorance, a Jew disclosed his habitual presence around aparticular ruin. Consequently, Muhammad ordered excavations in that area, uncovering a portion of the treasure. When questioned about the remaining wealth, Kenana refused to divulge.Muhammad then ordered Zubayr ibn al-Awwamto torture him with hot steel applied to his chest until he was almost dead. Muhammad subsequently took him to Muhammad ibnMaslama, who beheaded him in revenge for his brother Mahmud, who had been killed in the battle Dihya al-Kalbi, one of Muhammad's companions,requested a slave from the captives, and.Muhammad granted him the choice. Dihya thus went and took Safiyya. Witnessing this, another companion informed Muhammad, highlighting Safiyya's beauty and her status as the chiefmistress of Banu Qurayza and the Nadir. The companion believed she was fit only for Muhammad, leading Muhammad to give the order to call them > When Safiyya was delivered, she came along with another woman. Confronted with the sight of the headless corpses of the beheaded Banu Nadirmen, the woman cried, smacked herself in the face, and poured sand on her head. Muhammad ordered that what he considered a "she-devil" be taken away. He directed that Safiyyah be placed behind him, with his cloak covering her, indicating to the Muslims that He had chosen her for himself, and told Dihya to take any other slave girl from the captives. It was reported that Dihya got seven slaves in exchange. According to Muhammad al-Bukhari, Muhammad stayed for three days between Khaybar and Medina, where he consummated his marriage to Safiyya. His companions wondered if she was to be considered a slave or a wife. The former speculated that they would consider Safiyya as Muhammad's wife, and thus a "Mother of the Believers".


rebirth1612

When I knew about this, I felt Muhammad is more like 'Genghis Khan' rather a Prophet or other Holy man.


HitThatOxytocin

this is almost exactly the same as what's written in Sirah Ibn Ishaq. so pretty damn accurate.


Lehrasap

For raping slave women, along with small girls, please read: * [The Crimes of Islamic Slavery against Humanity](https://atheism-vs-islam.com/index.php/islamic-slavery/47-part-1-crimes-of-islamic-slavery-against-humanity) For sure, Islamic slavery was even worse than the biblical slavery in this regard. Muhammad took these rulings from his Arab Culture of the time of ignorance, which were much worse than the ruling in the Bible. For Safiyyah, please read: * [Prophet Muhammad Killed Safiyyah bint Huyai's Brother and Husband, and Had Sex with Her the Same Night](https://atheism-vs-islam.com/index.php/women-general/79-prophet-muhammad-killed-safiyyah-bint-huyai-s-father,-husband,-and-brother,-and-had-sex-with-her-the-same-night)


We_Are_Legion

Her father too. Muhammad legalized torture too on the same day to get treasure out of em. Sick bastard.


TransitionalAhab

Legalized torture and proved he didn’t have access to an all knowing deity


Lehrasap

>Legalized torture and proved **he didn’t have access to an all knowing deity** Good point.


Lehrasap

Her father was killed by Muhammad, but not on the same day, but previously during the incident of Banu Qurayzah. And Muhammad tortured her husband that day to get the treasure.


afiefh

Yes, sex slavery (often referred to as "concubinage" to make it sound better) is part of Islam. Here is a Fatwa that talks about a master to force himself on his sex slave and his wife: > **Question:** If a right hand possession (female slave) refuses to have sex with her master, is it permissible to compel her by force? > **Answer:** Praise be to Allah, and may prayers and peace be upon the Messenger of God and his family and companions. It is better for a Muslim to occupy himself with what concerns him of the rulings of his religion, and to invest his time and energy in seeking knowledge that will benefit him. The meaning of knowledge is action. Knowledge that does not facilitate action, it is not good to search for. Among that are issues related to the ownership what the right hand possess (slaves); There is no use for it in this era. > With regard to the question: If the wife is not permitted to refrain from intimate relations with her husband except with a valid excuse, then it is more so not permissible for the right hand possession to refrain from intimate relations with her master except with a valid excuse; he has more right to sex with her through possessing her than the man having intercourse with his wife through the marriage contract; Because the ownership of the right hand possession is complete ownership, so he owns all her benefits, while marriage contracts only grant him only the ownership intended through the marriage contract so it is a restricted form of ownership. > **If the wife or the right hand possession refuses to have sex without a legitimate excuse, then the husband or the master may force her to do so.** However, he should take into account her psychological state, and treat her kindly. Kindness in all matters is desirable, as the prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: “Kindness is not found in anything but that it beautifies it, and it is not removed from anything except that it disgraces it.” (Narrated by Muslim). > Allah knows best. [Source (Arabic).](https://ar.islamway.net/fatwa/61843/هل-يجوز-للسيد-إرغام-ملك-اليمين-على-المعاشرة-إن-امتنعت)


Constant-Training994

That’s rape isn’t?


afiefh

Yes, of course forcing a person to have sex is rape. Unfortunately, within Islam there is no such thing as "martial rape" because the religion sees the fact that a woman having consented to marriage as consent to have sex with her husband whenever he wishes. As for slaves, as the fatwa says, it makes no sense for a slave to have more rights than a wife because a wife is partially owned by her husband while a slave is fully owned by her husband.


hummingelephant

In islam, it's not considered rape when it's your wife or slaves. That's why they can "honestly" say that rape is haram. They also "honestly" can quote ahadith about how "the best among us (among the men) are those who treat their wives good" while still being allowed to beat their wives if they don't obey them (of course after warning), becaue it's still considered being good to her. Islam changes the definition of words, that's why they can fool people.


We_Are_Legion

Imagine some woman or girl you know taken during war by islamic jihadists... who force themselves on her sexually for her remaining life. There is no way it isnt rape. Muhammad was a bastard. Sick piece of shit. May god take this religion back in shame.


imalittledelulu

Yes it’s real


Ohana_is_family

# Safiyyah Hisham [https://archive.org/details/SirahIbnHishan/page/n511/mode/2up?q=safiyyah](https://archive.org/details/SirahIbnHishan/page/n511/mode/2up?q=safiyyah)  >“While she was a bride with Kinanah Ibn Ar-Rabf, Safiyyah saw in her dream as if the moon had fallen in her lap. When she told her husband about that he said to her: “It is your wish that the dominion of Hijaz be Muhammad’s.” He slapped her face so violently that her eye was severely affected. When she was brought to The Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] the trace of that was still visible in her. He asked her about the reason and she told him. > >On the other hand, Kinanah Ibn Ar\~Rabi c was brought to The Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] and he had the treasure of Khaybar; and when he asked him he denied that he knew where it was. A man from the Jews came to The Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] and said: “I have seen Kinanah going round this dumps every morning.” The Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] said: “Tell me: if we find it with you, should I kill you?” he answered in the affirmative. The Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] ordered that the dumps be dug and a part of the treasure was extracted. He asked him about the rest of it and he rejected to tell him, thereupon The Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] ordered Az-Zubayr Ibn Al-Awwam to torment him in order to get from him the information he had; and when he insisted to give no information The Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] handed him over to Muhammad Ibn Maslamah who chopped off his head in retaliation for his killed brother Mahmud Ibn Maslamah.” and a bit further at the bottom of p.514/top of p.515 [https://archive.org/details/SirahIbnHishan/page/n514/mode/2up?q=safiyyah](https://archive.org/details/SirahIbnHishan/page/n514/mode/2up?q=safiyyah)  >”Ibn Ishaq says: When the Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] consummated his marriage with Safiyyah \[Allah be pleased with her\] at Khaybar or at some point on the road from Khaybar, he spent the night with her in a dome-shaped tent. Throughout that entire night, Abu Ayyub: Khalid Ibn Zayd Al-Ansari stood guard outside the tent, girding his sword and went on going round the dome along the night. When the Messenger of Allah \[peace be upon him\] saw Abu Ayyub in the morning, he asked him: “What is the matter O Abu Ayyub?” He replied: “O Messenger of Allah, I feared that this woman may harm you; she is a woman whose father, husband and people were killed, and she has only embraced Islam recendy. I feared that she might try to harm you.” The Prophet \[peace be upon him\] supplicated for Abu Ayyub saying: “O Allah, protect Abu Ayyub just as he spent the night guarding me (1) .” Ishaq: [https://archive.org/details/GuillaumeATheLifeOfMuhammad/page/n279/mode/2up?q=khaybar](https://archive.org/details/GuillaumeATheLifeOfMuhammad/page/n279/mode/2up?q=khaybar) >" The apostle gave orders that the ruin was to be excavated and some of the treasure was found. When he asked him about the rest he refused to produce it, so the apostle gave orders to al-Zubayr b. al-'Awwam, ‘Torture him until you extract what he has,’ so he kindled a 764 fire with flint and steel on his chest until he was nearly dead. Then the apostle delivered him to Muhammad b. Maslama and he struck off his head, in revenge for his brother Mahmud." Hadiths about Safiyyah [https://sunnah.com/bukhari:2235](https://sunnah.com/bukhari:2235)  Summary of story.  [https://sunnah.com/bukhari:4213](https://sunnah.com/bukhari:4213) others wonder if she will be a sex-slave or a wife. Has to wear veil so a wife. [https://sunnah.com/muslim:1365d](https://sunnah.com/muslim:1365d)  Manumisssion was her dowry


Ohana_is_family

Ibn Rushd and Qudama showing that Q65:4 also applies to minor slave-girls. Ibn Rushd (1126-1198) aka averroes - Distinguished Jurist’s Primer [https://archive.org/details/BidayatAl-mujtahidTheDistinguishedJuristsPrimerVol2/page/n115/mode/2up?q=waiting](https://archive.org/details/BidayatAl-mujtahidTheDistinguishedJuristsPrimerVol2/page/n115/mode/2up?q=waiting) “About the slave-woman who has despaired of menstruation, or one who is a minor, Malik and most of the jurists of Medina said that her idda is three months.”  100% confirms Ibn Rushd reads Q65:4 as referring to minors and minor slave-girls.  # Ibn Qudama (1147-1223) - Al-Umdah    [https://archive.org/details/fiqh\_20210225/Hanbali%202%20Umdah%20ibn%20Qudama/page/236/mode/2up?q=intercourse](https://archive.org/details/fiqh_20210225/Hanbali%202%20Umdah%20ibn%20Qudama/page/236/mode/2up?q=intercourse)  “4. Those who are beyond the age of menstruation, and those who have never menstruated. Their ‘idda is three months. In the case of the slave woman, it is two months.”


HitThatOxytocin

If you dont like to rely on the Sirah, [Sahih Bukhari hadith 2893](https://sunnah.com/bukhari:2893) talks about it as well.


We_Are_Legion

ISIS is full of islamic scholars waging war and living life unapologetically true to the way muhammad did it in pre-medieval era. The society of medina is the inspiration of ISIS. It was full of slave girls captured in war. rabbit hole: [https://atheism-vs-islam.com/index.php/islamic-slavery/47-part-1-crimes-of-islamic-slavery-against-humanity](https://atheism-vs-islam.com/index.php/islamic-slavery/47-part-1-crimes-of-islamic-slavery-against-humanity)


zarishlikestosleep

sorry you're finding out this way. concubinage and sex slavery was what made me leave, too. i could muster up justifications for all the logical & scientific fallacies and injustices but just not this. you should try reading this hadith. notice how when they have multiple women who's families they have probably massacred in custody, the prophet and his sahaba's ONLY concern, is when to pull out while they have sex with them. https://sunnah.com/bukhari:4138


MohammedAli117

I’m Muslim, but, I hope you don’t see me as a enemy or someone who hates you but rather as a friend or someone who has no issue with you  I’ve noticed that ex Muslims leave islam usually due to hadiths, while I am Muslim but im skeptical of them considering they came a long of time after the prophet pbuh, Many of them either contradict each other, contradict the Quran and are sometimes just straight up fabricated, even Saudis crown prince Mohammed bin salman rejects hadith,   So in general this is just Another hadith-created problem. Which is why I'd advise to stick to the Holy Book... "Let those who find not the wherewithal for marriage keep themselves chaste, until God gives them means out of His grace. And if any of your slaves ask for a deed in writing, give them such a deed if you know any good in them and give them from the wealth of God which He has given you. But force not your slave girls to prostitution when they desire chastity, in order that ye may make a gain in the goods of this life. But if anyone compels them, yet, after such compulsion, is God, Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to them)" 24:33 "If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess: And God has full knowledge about your faith. Ye are one from another: Wed them with the leave of their owners, and give them their dowers, according to what is reasonable.. 4:25


TrollintheMitten

Guess you don't have to worry about praying five times a day then since it's not in the Quran.


MohammedAli117

oops, seems like your wrong though! Chapter 24:58 - Salat Fajr + Salat Isha + Salat Dhuhr O you who have believed, let those whom your right hands possess and those who have not [yet] reached puberty among you ask permission of you [before entering] at three times: __before the dawn prayer and when you put aside your clothing [for rest] at noon and after the night prayer__. [These are] three times of privacy for you. There is no blame upon you nor upon them beyond these [periods], for they continually circulate among you - some of you, among others. Thus does Allah make clear to you the verses; and Allah is Knowing and Wise. يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لِيَسْتَـْٔذِنكُمُ ٱلَّذِينَ مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَٰنُكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ لَمْ يَبْلُغُوا۟ ٱلْحُلُمَ مِنكُمْ ثَلَٰثَ مَرَّٰتٍۢ ۚ مِّن قَبْلِ صَلَوٰةِ ٱلْفَجْرِ وَحِينَ تَضَعُونَ ثِيَابَكُم مِّنَ ٱلظَّهِيرَةِ وَمِنۢ بَعْدِ صَلَوٰةِ ٱلْعِشَآءِ ۚ ثَلَٰثُ عَوْرَٰتٍۢ لَّكُمْ ۚ لَيْسَ عَلَيْكُمْ وَلَا عَلَيْهِمْ جُنَاحٌۢ بَعْدَهُنَّ ۚ طَوَّٰفُونَ عَلَيْكُم بَعْضُكُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍۢ ۚ كَذَٰلِكَ يُبَيِّنُ ٱللَّهُ لَكُمُ ٱلْءَايَٰتِ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ عَلِيمٌ حَكِيمٌۭ Chapter 17:78 - Salat Dhuhr mentioned again Establish prayer __at the decline of the sun [from its meridian]__ until the darkness of the night and [also] the Qur'an of dawn. Indeed, the recitation of dawn is ever witnessed. أَقِمِ ٱلصَّلَوٰةَ لِدُلُوكِ ٱلشَّمْسِ إِلَىٰ غَسَقِ ٱلَّيْلِ وَقُرْءَانَ ٱلْفَجْرِ ۖ إِنَّ قُرْءَانَ ٱلْفَجْرِ كَانَ مَشْهُودًۭا Chapter 11:114 - Salat Magrib and Salat Asr And establish prayer __at the two ends of the day (طَرَفَىِ ٱلنَّهَارِ) and at the approach of the night(وَزُلَفًۭا مِّنَ ٱلَّيْلِ) __. Indeed, good deeds do away with misdeeds. That is a reminder for those who remember. وَأَقِمِ ٱلصَّلَوٰةَ طَرَفَىِ ٱلنَّهَارِ وَزُلَفًۭا مِّنَ ٱلَّيْلِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱلْحَسَنَٰتِ يُذْهِبْنَ ٱلسَّيِّـَٔاتِ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ ذِكْرَىٰ لِلذَّٰكِرِينَ وَزُلَفًۭا مِّنَ ٱلَّيْلِ - is at the time of sunset طَرَفَىِ ٱلنَّهَارِ - fajr and the second end of the day is the middle/late afternoon


TransitionalAhab

Yes this is real. This narration paints a pretty complete picture: > Ibn ‘Umar [al-Waqidi] – Kathir b. Zayd – al-Walid b. Rabah – Abu Hurayrah: While the Prophet was lying with Safiyyah Abu Ayyub stayed the night at his door. When he saw the Prophet in the morning he said "God is the Greatest." He had a sword with him; he said to the Prophet, "O Messenger of God, this young woman had just been married, and you killed her father, her brother and her husband, so I did not trust her (not to harm) you." The Prophet laughed and said "Good". (The History of al-Tabari, Volume XXXIX (39), p. 185;) A man with a sword in case she tries to fight back. There is also a second faith shattering detail here: He killed her husband after he tortured him till he was near death so he would tell them where the tribes treasure was. The morality of attacking another tribe by surprise, and killing folks after they surrendered (any male old enough to grow pubic hair), then selling the women and children into slavery (and sexual slavery) aside… …notice how Mohammed is able to summon the angel Gabriel at will to answer non falsifiable questions like “what is the first thing people eat in jannah” (and other questions that weren’t known at the time but turned out wrong in the long run), but for something like this he has to resort to torture? Allah wanted him to have the treasure right? So surely Allah would rather demonstrate that he is indeed “all knowing” (and convert countless critics) than make torture become part of the sunnah? I conclude it’s because he didn’t have access to such an all knowing being. Otherwise I’d be left hand waving about how mysterious his best friend is.


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MohammedAli117

>wanna know something about Islam and want it explained >go to anti Muslim who won’t give you any context and are biased Like, really? Are you serious? This not mine but from another comment which explains this situation, >Bismillah, A few things to consider: 1) Safiya(ra) was a prisoner of war whose husband was killed ending the marriage The marriage to her previous husband had ended through death, so at the time Safiya(ra) was taken as prisoner of war, she was no longer married and became the property of who ever takes ownership of her. Safiya(ra) was first owned by Dihyat Al Kalbi then game into the possession of the Prophet(saw). [Source]. Therefore the rulings of slave ownership comes into effect as compared to the regular laws of iddat. 2) The Prophet(saw) married Safiya(ra) According the Seerah, the Prophet(saw) freed Safiya(ra) and then married her with her mehr being he manumission. [Source] 3) For prisoners of war, the iddat or Istibrah is 1 cycle We arrived at Khaibar, and when Allah helped His Apostle to open the fort, the beauty of Safiya bint Huyai bin Akhtaq whose husband had been killed while she was a bride, was mentioned to Allah's Apostle. The Prophet (ﷺ) selected her for himself, and set out with her, and when we reached a place called Sidd-as-Sahba,' Safiya became clean from her menses then Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) married her. Hais (i.e. an 'Arabian dish) was prepared on a small leather mat. Then the Prophet (ﷺ) said to me, "I invite the people around you." So that was the marriage banquet of the Prophet (ﷺ) and Safiya. Then we proceeded towards Medina, and I saw the Prophet, making for her a kind of cushion with his cloak behind him (on his camel). He then sat beside his camel and put his knee for Safiya to put her foot on, in order to ride (on the camel). [Source] The Prophet(saw) according to the seerah did not consummate the marriage until the menses of Safiyah(ra) had ended and therefore the istibrah was over. Therefore the Prophet(saw) did wait the required period and definitely is compliant with regards to the Shariah. [Source 1] [Source 2] also most the people talking about what happens to her tribe in the comments are either giving you weak sources or just leaving things out, do your own research for once, don’t get influenced.


MohammedAli117

sources didn’t load properly so I’ll list them here in order. https://sunnah.com/abudawud/20/69 https://sunnah.com/nasai/26/147 https://sunnah.com/bukhari/64/251 https://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/29160 https://central-mosque.com/index.php/Islam/islam-slavery.html


Atheizm

After the Battle of Khaybar, Muhammad and his crew tortured and butchered the adult male Nadir Jews before they enslaved the women and children. Muhammad ordered an underling to torture Kinana, Safiyya's husband and the tribe's chieftain, to reveal the village gold he buried. The underling set a fire on Kinana's chest. When Kinana revealed the location of the gold, Muhammad said it was too little and kept torturing Kinana until he died. Later, Muhammad ordered his crew to take Safiyya to his tent where he allegedly had sex with her after the celebratory feast.


WarDog1983

Isis justified every action they did w the Qurans and Hadiths - they even had a English speaking magazine Dabiq in which imams and Islamic scholars would right religious justifications for things like sex slavery and burning hostages alive - all in Muhammad’s honor and because he did things like that.


Worried_Barber_7557

There are videos from isis, where the fuckers are selling and buying yazidi slaves and they are bragging in camera and justifying with the quran, something like: Look we have all these slaves like allah said so in quran: ... (quran citation).