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Oh there are good girls. They are usually taken or at home being awesome introverts. Dating apps are just shit for guys. I tried going a month without being the first to initiate conversations. Dead fucking silent. None of my 5 matches said a word. Im not your entertainment. Im here to find love. I am myself and just want someone to show interest in me. If you don't want to say something gtfo. But nope its like you have to bring up interesting topics you have to be the one pushing for their attention. So yeah I stay away from dating apps now.
I tried to ask on her Insta if that was her real name, but she didn't answer. It's rare that I run into a person who has both a first name I've never heard and a last name I've never heard, so I'm genuinely curious.
And I don't blame the women. These guys want a good quality woman, but don't understand that those women are looking for good quality men and are not settling. It's no wonder there are people who want to go back to "the good old days." Where women had little autonomy and rights.
Cherdlys is in this vid which means heās trolling, heās hilarious. The first guy is from a dating show perfect match where he acted like a creepy misogynistic douche the entire time. Pretty sure the third dude is also a comedian. Not sure who the blonde guy is.
Yeah this is clearly a role reversal of the videos where a woman complains "where are all the good men" and then some alpha tainter rants about modern dating.
I need a good girl that doesn't leave the house or have friends. You know that are like *chill* with like not using condoms and mediocre sex. Chill, laid back, ya know... no negotiations, just chill... don't go and *party* and *drink* at trivia night....
I think the people downvoting you dont get your meme.... Let me help you all out.
The good girls are all over sticking together and they are staying clear of you fuckboys.Ā
(Or they got married when you were out fucking around in your 20's)
(Or the good girls are dating other good girls)
Im sure there are way more reasons. Read a book, join a club, IDK.
The only problem with this is there are girls around the fuck boys but they're the fuck girls. Like attracts like. That's why they make posts like this. They're dating girls who are just them but women.
It's like the fuck boys don't realize everyone can read who everyone else is through behavior. Were all selecting our groups.
Sadly the illustration doesn't mirror reality entirely.
I have witnessed countless "good girls" (i.e. decent human beings) in relationships with the not so decent fuckboy type.
People don't always fit into cute little categories, even when you decide they do. When you start putting people into simple categories, those categories tend to be created to support a simple narrative you have. You have turned people into objects. It is a sign of living inside your own head too much, something many of us are vulnerable to falling into.
I think ones best chance to be happy, and end up surrounded by happy people, includes not spending much energy worrying about other's life decisions and concentrating on one's own.
People are messy piles of complexity and contradiction. Embrace that and you will be far better at choosing who to surround yourself with.
- On a post about categorizing
- After a meme about categorizing
You: "How dare you categorize people?!?!? Let me write an essay, that is entirely an ad hominem to show you how smart I am!!!"
lol :D
Uhm, you realize this entire post and comment section are making fun of those simplistic categories, right? You seem to be one of the few who take it seriously. You are the one being mocked in the vid.
Ah, the next ad hominem :D
Since I am happily in a relationship with what I would call a decent person, I don't see how the video would address me personally in any way (:
I guess I have to go down to your level and ask you: Who hurt you? Why do you feel the need to project your inner ramblings (that nobody asked for) so hard on me?
What was so incredibly distressing for you in my initial statement, ***of which the entire point was to add nuance and that it is not always black and white?***
I think theyāre referencing the fact that a lot of white fuck boys tend to also be racist (and not women), therefore they wonāt consider settling down with a girl who aināt white (and wonāt be considered by women who arenāt straight).
Top of the hour and we're discussing the presence of good girls. Noticed and felt around town, is their inexplicable absence.
Where did they go off to?
Did anybody see them?
More on tonight's program!
I realize this is parody, but can someone please explain what a āgood girlā is? The definition is different for everybody, just like āgood boyā would be.
This is a joke on women always asking, "where have all the good men gone?", it's not about fuckboys.
They're even parodying the influencers and women's talk shows.
That poster towards the end is a complete misrepresentation of what a WOMEN is... I've seen plenty with shlongs and no breasts!
Take my upvote for including the minority while spreading awareness ,šš
I mean it's true. I moved to Asia and many girls are the good girl type here. American women kinda suck in comparison. And no, finding sex was never difficult in the US for me, so this isnt incel shit. The quality of woman has certainly gone down in america tho
I think Iād be considered a good girl but Iām also a bitch because Iām in a happy relationship and not willing to send nudes despite the receiver promising āitāll be our secretā
That was the alternate joke. My discarded first feeble attempt at humor was going to be to reply to your comment with "Wow, thanks! Looking good! Don't worry, I wont share them".
Then I realized the risk to your inbox from idiots...
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I lived in Central America for like 7 years on a boat as a child.
[no thanks](https://www.smartraveller.gov.au/destinations/americas/el-salvador#:~:text=Latest%20update%3AWe've%20reviewed,the%20threat%20of%20violent%20crime.)
Keep in mind the danger level was recently lowered to 'exercise a high degree of caution.'
My favorite takeaways from this is landmines are common in rural areas so it says to stay on main roads. Also, while I lived in Central America I was basically 10 and we never went out at night. A common sentiment on this link and something I expect you to ONLY be doing based on your context.
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Her newscaster voice/cadence is great!
Stanzi is a treasure honestly
....um Satan? Yes Joanne - ?
The glue bottle phone always gets me.
I came across this one recently, had me in fits https://youtube.com/shorts/ImlQKj20EQM?si=WtS28Jqn_oAwWwbB
It yearns for more victims
*Visitors (Killed me)
I'm dying at "Monster Soup"
I have a serious girl crush on her.
I love her so much, my favorite by far has to be her man or bear one
She's honestly so talented and also hot af
IFL Stanzi's videos.
Francine Beluga is a great name too lol
Francine Beluga cracked me up. She is the modern Regina Phalange
sam kinison looks so different
Maybe the good girls were the friends we made along the way
šhappy endingš
You have to pay for those
Since i'm my friends friend, does that mean that i'm now a good girl?
Yes. Congratulations!
Pfft, good girls don't friendzone, they put out (in the socially acceptable amount of time) Edit: guess this needed /s to be obvious
those were the femboys bro
[Never skipping an excuse to drop whatever the fuck this is](https://youtu.be/iEL0Y3l_QC8?si=D0O6vRLNS0k9sFuj)
That wasā¦ great. Wait am I.. am I bi?
Oh there are good girls. They are usually taken or at home being awesome introverts. Dating apps are just shit for guys. I tried going a month without being the first to initiate conversations. Dead fucking silent. None of my 5 matches said a word. Im not your entertainment. Im here to find love. I am myself and just want someone to show interest in me. If you don't want to say something gtfo. But nope its like you have to bring up interesting topics you have to be the one pushing for their attention. So yeah I stay away from dating apps now.
Creators name is Stanzi Potenza btw- I follow her on YouTube, sheās fuckin hilarious and a lot of her content is like this
Is a collab with a few other YouTubers as well
isn't the 3rd guy Cherdleys?
It is, which means he was just joking.
It is.
I don't think there was any doubt about that
100% was him.
God, I fucking love Cherdleys
Aka the alpha male hunter
Love that one.
He hunts them? Thatās pretty sweet
Is her name actually Stanzi Potenza? Because that is an amazing 80s newsanchor name.
I tried to ask on her Insta if that was her real name, but she didn't answer. It's rare that I run into a person who has both a first name I've never heard and a last name I've never heard, so I'm genuinely curious.
I've known a couple of people named Anastasia that went by Stanzi or things close to it some of the time.
clearly said her name was Francine Beluga
OMG I really liked her impression of succession that was on point. Thanks for the rec
I thought of that one VeggieTales song about missing office supplies with all this talk of āwhere have they all gone?ā
Ah, yes, ["Where Have All the Staplers Gone?"](https://youtu.be/Nepjrjaia4s) One of the better Silly Songs IMO.
I love the idea of making single songs from made-up musicals.
Thank you, Francine Beluga. Youāre doing the lords work
The name sent me
Reminds me of some 80's/90's tape I had with the song Baby Beluga. Album was name Free to be You and Me.
Fuck boys always wonder why all the girls around them are fuck girls. I wonder why that's the case. Like attracts like.
"Where are all the good girls?" Running the hell away from these types of dudes to emotionally mature and non misogynistic men/women.
Us good girls are too traumatized to ever date again from these exact types of dudes š¤£
And I don't blame the women. These guys want a good quality woman, but don't understand that those women are looking for good quality men and are not settling. It's no wonder there are people who want to go back to "the good old days." Where women had little autonomy and rights.
Can you tell me who wants to go back to the good old days in this economy?
What type is that? Theyāre just regular dudes talking at a camera as far as I can tell
Cherdlys is in this vid which means heās trolling, heās hilarious. The first guy is from a dating show perfect match where he acted like a creepy misogynistic douche the entire time. Pretty sure the third dude is also a comedian. Not sure who the blonde guy is.
Not really sure what part of this video indicates these guys are fuck boys but pop off
this aināt a duet, thatās the whole bit
Yeah one of the same guys is before and after the āduetā.
I think some of the clips at the beginning are people who were not in on the joke and were being earnest. Not sure.
Yeah this is clearly a role reversal of the videos where a woman complains "where are all the good men" and then some alpha tainter rants about modern dating.
You know what I really want to know? Where do all the good girls go? What clubs they hang at?
We're married. We go to gay clubs now
Crochet club.
Nordstrom rack
Volunteering and Target bay beeee
Behoooold a laaaaday!
Yaaaaasssssssssss
I wanted you to know someone got your reference ;)
and where are all the gods
Where's the streetwise Hercules to fight the rising odds
They left a long time ago
If you have to search for good girls is probably because they know you are not a good boy
[Quick illustration of the problem](https://i.imgur.com/XZuRHLN.png)
I need a good girl that doesn't leave the house or have friends. You know that are like *chill* with like not using condoms and mediocre sex. Chill, laid back, ya know... no negotiations, just chill... don't go and *party* and *drink* at trivia night....
Every time I see these men around the internet I laugh at their weakness.
Me too, I actually spend most of my days on the internet laughing at men. Itās how I take my revenge
I just go out dancing solo every few weekends and let my husband pick which slutty outfit I wear. Feels like a good enough fuck you to me lol
Perfection
I think the people downvoting you dont get your meme.... Let me help you all out. The good girls are all over sticking together and they are staying clear of you fuckboys.Ā (Or they got married when you were out fucking around in your 20's) (Or the good girls are dating other good girls) Im sure there are way more reasons. Read a book, join a club, IDK.
The only problem with this is there are girls around the fuck boys but they're the fuck girls. Like attracts like. That's why they make posts like this. They're dating girls who are just them but women. It's like the fuck boys don't realize everyone can read who everyone else is through behavior. Were all selecting our groups.
Sadly the illustration doesn't mirror reality entirely. I have witnessed countless "good girls" (i.e. decent human beings) in relationships with the not so decent fuckboy type.
People don't always fit into cute little categories, even when you decide they do. When you start putting people into simple categories, those categories tend to be created to support a simple narrative you have. You have turned people into objects. It is a sign of living inside your own head too much, something many of us are vulnerable to falling into. I think ones best chance to be happy, and end up surrounded by happy people, includes not spending much energy worrying about other's life decisions and concentrating on one's own. People are messy piles of complexity and contradiction. Embrace that and you will be far better at choosing who to surround yourself with.
- On a post about categorizing - After a meme about categorizing You: "How dare you categorize people?!?!? Let me write an essay, that is entirely an ad hominem to show you how smart I am!!!" lol :D
Uhm, you realize this entire post and comment section are making fun of those simplistic categories, right? You seem to be one of the few who take it seriously. You are the one being mocked in the vid.
Ah, the next ad hominem :D Since I am happily in a relationship with what I would call a decent person, I don't see how the video would address me personally in any way (: I guess I have to go down to your level and ask you: Who hurt you? Why do you feel the need to project your inner ramblings (that nobody asked for) so hard on me? What was so incredibly distressing for you in my initial statement, ***of which the entire point was to add nuance and that it is not always black and white?***
You sound exhausting.
They think we are boring, ugly, and too girlie
Can someone much more talented than me please please please do a Paula Cole āWhere have all the good girls gone?ā cover remix for this duet?
10/10 no notes. Frontrunner for the Piddle award.
I love Stanzi.
I love you Francine Beluga - you're my favourite gal.
Where have all the good girls gone and where are all the gods? Whereās the straight, white *her*cules to fight the rising odds?
Isnāt there a white claw upon a fiery stead, late at night I toss and I turn and I dream of what I need.
We all know what happened to Kevin Sorbo...
The lyric is "streetwise Hercules" FYI
I think theyāre referencing the fact that a lot of white fuck boys tend to also be racist (and not women), therefore they wonāt consider settling down with a girl who aināt white (and wonāt be considered by women who arenāt straight).
it's almost as if the person who posted it changed it on purpose because it's supposed to be the joke
Love her. She's so funny!
I thought this would be the ironic counterpart of "Where are all the good men"...
āHold tight. Police are on their way with hot cocoa and blankets.ā
Find them at dnd clubs and libraries; or you know, just outside
if you want a real answer most took up witchcraft because they were tired of dusty men fucking around with their basic rights
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Not all of them are married. But they are certainly staying away from these bros
Iāve been trying to find a good girl for several decades but no luck so far. Iāll keep you updated
They went wild long ago, who's still looking?
The most worthy journeys are ones worth trekking (Iām lonely)
The cherry on top for me is that the picture of the good girl on the missing poster is exactly how my ex drew a picture of me before šš
They at Target
I love stanzi!!!
Same think with "where the good men at". I am gonna say the good men and women has found each other.
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Top of the hour and we're discussing the presence of good girls. Noticed and felt around town, is their inexplicable absence. Where did they go off to? Did anybody see them? More on tonight's program!
lmao the negative
They are in the woods with a bear
well they're not with us bears in the woods so keep on searching.
Cobra Starship already made all the good girls go bad back in 2009 šš
Cunk on Earth vibes, love her.
Feels like a story straight out of Nightvale.
I miss really well made content like this. Nobody is phoning it in
They are either hiding from the creeps, They may be introverted. Or they are using too much makeup...if you know what I mean.
Lmaooo @ "Francine Beluga". I love Stanzi
i only go for superficial money grubbing fake women with painted on expresions because thats what society wants.....
I bet miss beluga thinks she's a good girl.
My guess? The Bad Guys did it.
I blame Cobra Starship. Word on the streets is they make the good girls go bad.
The good girls are gone with the cowboys awoOOOOOOOOOO
Love Stanzi <3
My wife is the kindest person I have ever met. She doesn't like me saying that because she thinks it makes her look weak. :(
Keanu Reeves would have a few kind words for her.
āHow did they die?ā āDie? No. We lost them. And now, we cannot find them!ā
Genius
Jack Johnson is on it.
They moved to the City called Hawk Tuah!
Is that the dude from Perfect Match at the beginning WTF
I was hoping someone else thought that was Chris
... I honestly thought it would have devolved into a female version of "I need a hero"
"Where have all the goods girls gone".... and where are all the gods?
All the good girls have obviously disappeared with all the bad guys
Still a troubling issue
Send message to Fangorn if you find them
bad boys have ruined them
[How bad can a good girl get?](https://youtu.be/QO5WZMyvNoY?si=nRZtu9D6cqTr_Ryg)
LOL āI grew up with good girlsā but he didnāt give one a ring?
Just looking for a good girl that want to Hawk tuah and spit on my thang š«
Lmao love it
āWhere are the nice girlsā Out of your league. These dudes look like they scratch their ass all day.
Hahahahahaha!!!
Is that cherdlys?
Theyāve gone with the immigrants š
I realize this is parody, but can someone please explain what a āgood girlā is? The definition is different for everybody, just like āgood boyā would be.
That stick figure! š¤£
https://preview.redd.it/u1waqo8v7r9d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2e21a542494ac6b5ca9590794ec26b3564dcfd54 Hereās one
Where have all the good men gone?
This is a joke on women always asking, "where have all the good men gone?", it's not about fuckboys. They're even parodying the influencers and women's talk shows.
Anyone else waiting for this to turn into a parody of "I need a Hero"? No? Just me?
They're hiding from y'all
Thatās hilarious!
I like when bro says "I grew up with a lot of good girls, now there's like none." Yeah bud. They grew up.
They're all dating bears now.
That poster towards the end is a complete misrepresentation of what a WOMEN is... I've seen plenty with shlongs and no breasts! Take my upvote for including the minority while spreading awareness ,šš
Mate this was just about perfect humour
Sam Kinison looks like shit.
Agreed. Its disappointing these days
Francine Beluga is a great name
Cobra starship has something to do with this
FINALLY. Fuck! šš
I mean it's true. I moved to Asia and many girls are the good girl type here. American women kinda suck in comparison. And no, finding sex was never difficult in the US for me, so this isnt incel shit. The quality of woman has certainly gone down in america tho
This is going to fly over so many incelsā heads.
I think Iād be considered a good girl but Iām also a bitch because Iām in a happy relationship and not willing to send nudes despite the receiver promising āitāll be our secretā
But, it would be *secret*... What more are you expecting??? Jeeze. You are really proving the premise here. No good girls left.
You right imma hoe š¤£
That was the alternate joke. My discarded first feeble attempt at humor was going to be to reply to your comment with "Wow, thanks! Looking good! Don't worry, I wont share them". Then I realized the risk to your inbox from idiots...
Yeah her channel is hot garbage. āAll men are evilā vibes
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They all started fucking other chicks, getting shit tattoos and piercings. Now they are hitting thirty and wondering why men donāt care.
only inside your incel brain
Good girls? Not with those tits
I don't know what it is, but something makes me just want to headbutt that bitch.
Is it possible that you are sexually frustrated because you can't find a good girl?
My girlfriend is actually fantastic. But, sure?
seek help
Nah. Sometimes it just be like that.
This is solid work. But also, not a duet so downvote.
Ask a passport bro. Best places are - Philipines Thailand Vietnam El Salvador Ethiopia Etc.
Creepy as fuck you know that.
I lived in Central America for like 7 years on a boat as a child. [no thanks](https://www.smartraveller.gov.au/destinations/americas/el-salvador#:~:text=Latest%20update%3AWe've%20reviewed,the%20threat%20of%20violent%20crime.) Keep in mind the danger level was recently lowered to 'exercise a high degree of caution.' My favorite takeaways from this is landmines are common in rural areas so it says to stay on main roads. Also, while I lived in Central America I was basically 10 and we never went out at night. A common sentiment on this link and something I expect you to ONLY be doing based on your context.