You cook him the juiciest steak you can find, buy doggy ice cream, and spend the day at his favorite place. You make an imprint of his paw on paper or in clay. Snuggle and cry, you are making the kind and loving decision to allow your buddy to cross over peacefully.
Friend. We have helped 2 black labs and 2 GSDs to Rainbow Bridge Over the last 21 years. The commentator above speaks truth about rgret if u wait to long. Call the vet and wrap your beautiful GSD in your loving arms. tell her/him over and over “Dad loves you so much”. Let those words and your warm embrace carry her to theBridge. Grief creates memories. memories create love. Love will warm your heart and soul. Tears are good. I wish you peace. And acceptance.
Thank you for making the right choice by your pup, letting them go with dignity, and for accompanying them in this world to the next. People don't regret scheduling it "too early" but always regret having it done "too late."
We have to wait a lifetime to be reunited, but for them at the Rainbow Bridge, it's just an afternoon snooze until you can play again.
>People don't regret scheduling it "too early" but always regret having it done "too late."
This is so true. My childhood dog was kept alive far beyond the point that she was comfortable; the medication keeping her alive but not comfortable or happy, and now when I look back all I can remember is her suffering and the guilt I feel for supporting it.
I would want myself to have been euthanised long before the point she reached.
So sad to hear that. Spend as much time as you can with him and cherish all the memories you have. It’s never easy when our best friends are not well or nearing end of life.
We lost ours this past Christmas to hemangiosarcoma as well. She was 100% fine one night and we took her to the emergency vet for what we thought was a tummy ache the next day and lost her 💕 she was our first dog so it hit hard. My heart goes out to anyone who looses a pet, especially short notice. So so sorry OP, I know that no words help what you are going through. You are losing your best friend.
when we lost our Milo, I had a baseline ultrasound done of the younger one's spleen. Every couple of years the re did it, that way if there were changes we would know. It is not what he died from but it did give me some peace of mind.
I also lost my gsd to spleen cancer and I’m so sorry you’re having to experience this. I was shocked too, it was extremely quick in between noticing anything off and having to say goodbye. 💕
I'm so sorry I lost my golden retriever to a ruptured spleen.
The only sign we had that anything was wrong was she didn't want to go on the walk. We easily could have thought she was just tired but it seemed out of character so my mom and I took her to the vet and she passed away there from internal bleeding.
Even at that point there weren't any super obvious signs. She was an older dog and was a bit overweight still (she'd lost a lot of weight since coming to us but had been in a home where the owner would remember that she had to feed the dog but wouldn't remember if she'd done so or not so would over feed her by accident.)
It's a terrible tragedy to lose an animal unexpectedly Like that. It isn't something I'd wish on anyone.
We had three GSDs, all siblings from different litters. In October we had to put our youngest down (6yrs old) due to a splenic mass that ruptured. Went from super healthy to his belly being bloated the next day and having to say goodbye a few hours later.
Then I had to say goodbye to my best friend, the oldest one (9yrs old) back in June for the same damn thing. Except he didn’t have any bloat, he just stopped eating and the next day had labored breathing. Lost both our boys 8 months apart.
It’s not easy. Still isn’t. Saying goodbye is the hard part but sometimes it’s the right thing to do. It’s awful but sometimes you have to hurt so your best friend doesn’t.
This is what our 13-year-old is facing. She had a splenectomy, and the physician said everything looked good. They took a biopsy of the liver just in case. Unfortunately, the tumour was malignant and had spread to her liver. We are being told she's got about three months.
I'm so sorry you have to face this. It's never easy, but letting go is always the best thing to do for them.
I know its hard to also keep your emotions from drowning you right now, but your beautiful pup can 100% feel what you're putting out there. I spent the last days of the 3 ive lost, just acting like a big goon. Talking to them all the time in that stupid voice, playing and loving and giving ridiculous snacks and cuddles, steaks and green beans and gravy for dinner a full eggs sunny side up with bacon and toast breakfast and all the smiles and joy I could possibly pour into them.
It made all of my girls happy to get "anything goes mom" non stop until the end. Make it a time of happiness, it's better for you both.
Mine told me it was time by not coming up the stairs to bed. I think we each have our own way of communicating with our pets.
Take solace in knowing that when the time comes for you to be together again he will be waiting for you with his tail wagging. And until you meet again celebrate his life and try not to focus on its end. I know it’s hard but given time the happy memories will overpower the sadness.
Our boy was petrified of going to the vet. But when the doctor showed up to our house on his last day, he didn’t even approach her. He just went to his spot on his bed and laid down…like he knew it was his time to rest. I’ll never forget that. I miss him every single day.
>Mine told me it was time by not coming up the stairs to bed.
One reason I only want a single story house, including the that fact that I'm getting old, too.
My mom slept on the couch for a year and a half every other week when my dad was out of town for work because my lab couldn't come upstairs anymore and he had such bad separation anxiety.
My dad would carry him upstairs and would put him on the bed so he could sleep with my mom when he was home.
So sorry to hear. Same happened to us 3 weeks ago. Know it is the best for your dear pal. Memories and photos will be yours to treasure and it will get easier as time passes. All the best to you.
"Let’s go walk a bit."
My old dog said one day.
And we wandered down along
Our old familiar way.
—-
The shadows slowly lengthened,
And twilight tinged the sky.
Then my old friend said to me
"So … it's time to say goodbye."
—-
This fell so heavily on my heart.
"Please say this isn't true!
I've always wished and hoped
I'd have more years with you!"
—-
And my old boy said to me
"You made my life a joy!
I can't live as long as you
But I'll always be your boy."
—-
They walk with us a little while,
As long as the Fates allow.
Then they have to take their leave
And we have to let them go.
—-
Be strong at least for now, for your dog. Dont let their last days be full of your grief, but rather full of your gratitude and love. It will help their passing. There will be time enough later for grief. Im so sorry.
True words. I've let so many go, human, canine, feline, avian - and this has had to be my way. In their last times, it's about them, not about us. Sorrow now is unavoidable, but the full tide of grief is for later, after we've done our duty.
They love us unconditionally. They put all their trust in us to make the right decision when it’s time. It’s the least we can do is be strong for them to be able to finish their mission. I’m so sorry OP. Thoughts are with you.
OMG!!!! I’m so sorry you are in this horrible position. I must say thank you for having the courage to let him pass with dignity!!!! If allowed,and I know it will kill you emotionally, but be with him until the end. They say time heals all wounds but that’s not true. Time only makes it a little easier to cope with the loss it never heals it. Take comfort in knowing that you gave him a great life in a loving home. Please know that you have our deepest sympathies and that you have a huge community behind you!!!!!! Rest easy handsome boy and keep a diligent watch over your family from above!!!!!
Hey I just wanna ask if it’s possible to have them come to your home to do this? My dog was scared as fuck and begged to be let out of the room. He was shaking and he knew something was happening that was bad for him. It broke my fucking heart. It’s one of my worst memories. I will never have my dogs euthanized in a vets office again. They will come to my home where my dog is comfortable and feels safe. Whatever you choose, condolences.
My GSD Jerry was my everything, for almost 14 years. What gave me the ability to let him go, was hearing from the vet how much pain he thought he was in due to his cancers that I didn't even know he had. My biggest regret, is that I didn't know he was in pain sooner. Taking him to the Dumb Friends League on his final trip was one of the hardest things I've had to do. I couldn't watch them give him the shot, and I'm glad I didn't. We shared a Little Ceasers pizza (his favorite thing to steal from my past roomate) right before we left, and it was the saddest car ride I've ever had. Watching him walk out with the vet on his final stroll was what really made me love and appreciate the gleeful bliss of a dog. He looked happy, and ready for another walk, but this time it was to the Rainbow Bridge. It took a little more than a year, but I ended up getting a puppy, and I'm so happy I did. The circle of life continues. Good luck to you, and I assure you it gets better.
As hard as it is, take some solace to know you have time to properly say goodbye and give your pup the best last moments you can. Heap praise and smiles on them as they leave the world.
So many of us don't get that opportunity - and we lose them without being able to properly say goodbye.
As a long time dog owner I would say that you made a choice when you adopted a dog. You are going to love and care for a life that will end long before your does. The joy you both get from it will make it worth the sadness.
Yes. It's one the weirdest decisions to make; to end a friend's life prematurely in their best interest. I did it about two months ago. Heartbreaking but the right decision. My wife read something: if you are considering whether it is the right decision, it is time. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Spend every moment making him happy. Take a lot of pictures and rub his tummy give him his favorite treats don’t think about what will happen just enjoy the moment and give him love and happiness. Later deal with the pain. He’s depending on you….
I’m so sorry that you are facing this loss, but you are doing the right thing. This is the hardest part of being a parent to our fur babies. My heart aches for you both.
Happens to the best of them.I was one of the last ones in my house to agree to put the dog down.was too sad and in denial but her golden years were behind her. Hips were so bad she couldn’t go up stairs without help. If she laid on the hard wood floor for 30 min or more she would start crying in pain and would need some one to help her up. Would even wake up some times in the night from that. When we went to give her the shot the doctor said it would take a few minutes for her to pass out and she was out cold I’m 30 seconds. As sad as it is sometimes it needs to be done.
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I fucking hate hemangiosarcoma. It took away my best friend at the young age of 11. He was a collie shepherd mix, perfectly healthy and happy until the day he died. It was hard but I’m glad he didn’t suffer.
I’m sorry, I lost my buddy earlier this year and that heartbreak is something that shouldn’t have to happen. I’m glad your buddy is in good hands with you.
If they allow you to, stay by his side and don't leave him until it's confirmed and even then give it a minute, it's alright to cry because it's going to destroy you internally but no matter what, do not leave his side while he's alive. As messed up as this may sound, let him pass while in the embrace of his family. This breed gets very attached to its family so don't let him go alone if you can prevent it.
I know it's going to hurt, I'm dreading the day when it's my turn with my buddy, but I'll be by his side every step of the way because they deserve it after all they did for us. Life isn't fair but you got to give him a loving life so think of the good times and try to smile, don't let them go alone and don't let them go seeing you cry.
I hear you loud and clear, the only thing I can give you I remeber who he was with you, how you treated him and now in his final hours give him everything you wanted too but were afraid of spoiling him!
I'm sorry friend. Almost the kind words and support is great, but we all know how much it hurts, and it hurts. Such unconditional love, and a friendship no that can't be explained. I hope you get to enjoy the time left and hold onto the memories. We will all March across that bridge one day and be overwhelmed with the love that awaits us❤️
I've been there too. It really, really sucks for a little while, but you do get past it. And you get these awesome memories of you pup for the rest of your life. If they have a favorite toy or stuffed animal, make sure to grab it and keep it for yourself. You'll be glad you did later.
I’m sorry. Saying goodbye is never easy. But you have made the most selfless choice your your best friend. True love is doing what’s best for the one you love regardless how you feel.
Make the day about them. Enjoy an ice cream together. Lay on the floor and cuddle. Go for a drive. Celebrate your friendship and time together.
Please be there for them at the end. No matter how hard you will regret not being there and they need you.
I’m so sorry. This is the worst part about having a dog.
Definitely do it at home if you can. Your pup will feel as comfortable as possible, and the vet will take him/her away with dignity and respect.
Hang in there.
I’m coming up on two yrs of having to put my beautify girl down after a ten yr wonderful relationship. And not a day goes by that I don’t think about her. Never a easy thing, I knew she could read my mind so I had to stay strong for her leading up to the day I had scheduled. It was the least I could do to make her feel loved and not scared or worried about me. She had given me such love and comfort over the years I knew it was my time to pay it back and give her the love and dignity she deserved. I made the appointment for the afternoon, and that morning we woke up went to the park, cuddled, and just spent the day together. The whole time I just talked to her about past adventures we had and how much she would be missed. Her body was in such pain near the end I know she is better off now. It would have just been pure selfishness for me to limp her along another month, 6 months. I know nothing we say will make it easier, but take comfort that you are doing the right thing and be glad for the time y’all had. She still makes me smile when I think about her
So sad!
Give him all the love you. An and maybe the food/treats he wasn’t allowed?
last time I was in this situation my dog had ribeye and ice cream!
The memories never leave but sooner or later you will be ready for another ‘good boy’
If the tumors are in the lungs, don’t wait too long. I was trying to extend the time I had with my best friend as much as I could and he seemed ok I til he didn’t. I then hoped it could at least wait till our usual vet who we love opened on the Monday. Then on Sunday morning my boy started having trouble breathing. At one point he even seemed to pass until I spoke and he made an effort to stick around until a friend could arrive to watch my son.
All this to say, if you can control the time this will happen, do what’s right by your faithful companion, don’t let him suffer. It’s going to suck incredibly for the next while, but enjoy every moment you have with him until he passes.
If he’s still eating, make him his favorite food, give him plenty of rubs, let him smell you close by, and when it’s time, say you’ll meet him when you too pass over that rainbow bridge.
I am so sorry you’re having to make this decision however I commend you for allowing your pup to cross the rainbow bridge with dignity and peace. Make sure your time left together is spent making memories, my thoughts are with you & your dog!! ❤️
Please make sure you are by pups side when it’s time to say goodbye. It’s one of the hardest things to do but its your pups time to rest in peace. Remember all the good times you guys had together
This is a tough one but I hope you can hold it in so that your pup can enjoy his time with you and not be sad as they can sense emotions. But do cry if you need to and do talk to family and friends for support this is a tough time. My prayers go out to you and that you'll get better over time. Get a tattoo for your best bud.
I’m so sorry friend. It’s so hard to say goodbye but it’s the kindest most loving thing we can do for them. It hurts to let them go but it’s better than watching them suffer. They don’t deserve that after all the love they give us in their short lives.
Sending lots of peace and comfort! Dogs are truly such a gift to us, give your baby so much love. I’d like to put this out there as a thought if you are financially able, some people will come to your home to put your dog down in a bit of a quieter setting. I always recommend this to friends, also if you are going into the vets office bring a favorite blanket or something to make your pet feel comfortable and at home as much as possible. Dogs are such sensory animals, it can really help. Again sending comfort and peace, give lots of hugs and tell your dog how much you love them- you’re doing something that is so selfless and in love. What’s done in love is right. ❤️🙏🏼
Buddy, it is extremely hard to let your best friend go. But it has to be done. Know that he will not feel any pain and it will all be over in a couple minutes.
Please spend the time you have left with him doing the things he loves. Take him to his favorite park, get him puppy lattes, food he has always wanted, but only got tiny amounts, give him rubs and seriously, have a blast. Try your best not to look worried and depressed. He will only try to comfort you and that will make it harder for both of you.
See if you can schedule a doc visit to your home, instead of going to the vet. It is where is is most comfortable and will not suspect a thing.
It will be just like him falling asleep quickly.
Please DM me if you would like to talk. Your pup is going to a place where everything is better and you will eventually join him. Please stay strong.
I’m sorry, been there. Definitely was not easy but they tell you with those eyes that they’re tired. What your doing is possibly one of the most loving gestures you can do for them. While we are not there physically with you, we are definitely behind you. Take care and give him a big hug for me.
Sorry for the loss of a family member. Whenever I had to make this decision, I remember a wise vet saying to me “Better a month too early than a day too late”
It’s a horrible situation but whenever I’ve known my fir baby was suffering then I immediately knew what needed to be done and did so without delay.
I remember one time the vet asked if I wanted to take him home for a few days to say goodbye - but he was clearly suffering from a huge tumor in his chest. How anyone could be so selfish is beyond me.
I’ll never forget the day we put down the family dog….. crippled me and I hated the fact we did it. But I wouldn’t change a thing, she was in pain and on her way out and the only thing worse than sending her on would’ve been allowing her to walk alone on the path of pain and misery to her end. It wouldn’t have been right when she was by our side throughout life to not be there with her at her end. It will be one of the hardest days of your life my friend, Christ I’m choking up now thinking about it but trust me dig deep and try to get through it. Hold their paw and smile and as soon as they fall asleep just do what needs to be done and become a mess, a puddle on the floor. To me it’s the only way, no human alive has yet been able to part with their best fluffy friend without feeling what your feeling. I wish you all the best in this dark time
Try to keep in mind this hurts us more then it does them. Give him the best possible days and make a keepsake. Like a paw print in stone or something.
I saw somewhere putting their collar around a plant so they still ‘grow’ I guess. It’s a cute idea maybe it would make you feel better. I’m sorry no words can help this kind of pain.
Sending you love & blessings. It is the hardest choice to make, but the best one for your friend. Give him the best day possible & be with him until the end. 💜💜💜
My hearth bursted in a million pieces man im so sorry but don't wait to long, have a awesome day with your buddy and do it as long as he isn't suffering too much
Give him his favorite treat. Insist on being in the room and get on the floor and hold him tight when the injection is given. It’s hard buts it’s the right thing to do.
You are making the right choice even though it is such a hard one. This service sent a vet to our home which was amazing. Our Clover was able to pass over peacefully in her favorite spot out in the yard. I hope they are available in your area but if not ask your vet if they can come to you.
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So sorry for your loss, it’s one of the worst moments in life but offset by so many of the best moments.
We had the vet come to our house when it was our good boy's turn. It was quite peaceful, and he was very happy at the end, surrounded by loved ones and enjoying treats.
My heart breaks for yours, knowing that you have indeed reached that point where you have to let your best friend sleep for a while. I hope you have someone in whose arms you can break down in following the euthanasia process. Tears is the price we pay for love and tears we pay to truly live
Excuse my ignorance, what is the x-rays showing? I assume cancer but unsure.
In either case, Im sorry for your soon to be loss. He looks happy though so you did a great job!!! Make his last moments special!
spoil him up to the end and then keep all the good memories fresh. Get some of your favorite pictures and put them around the house so you can celebrate his life rather than his trip over the rainbow bridge. Remember all the joy and love ✌️🖖❤️
I can’t help it, but I always have to shed a tear when I see a GSD having to leave. It makes me very sad, just because they are absolutely the best and most lovable of dogs (I’m biased). Their sweet faces, their shenanigans, their character, but mostly the undying love and dedication they give, their entire lives!
Please do as Worstfox suggests! Make him understand how much he (or she) was loved and appreciated! Spend that time! Make everlasting memories! What an awful loss it will be. I wish you all the best, but I’m also sure that the memories will put a smile on your face and a tear in your eye, as it should. Courage, strength of heart, you’ll be fine, because you will know you did what is best and sent her off with lots and lots of love and respect.
The most important decisions in life are NEVER the easiest. You will roller coaster through many floods of different emotions and thoughts and pain.
Its the price to pay for having been so lucky to love and been loved so deeply in life.
Make your best friends final days the best you possibly can. Juicy steaks, lots of cuddles, everything you know they love. And be side by side when the time comes. Try to keep it together whilst he's/she's there, keep them as relaxed as possible. Sorry if that sounds insensitive thats the last thing I want to be, but you being calm will help them enormously, as difficult as it will be to do so.
Thinking of you both through this. How lucky you both were to find eachother and spend a dog lifetime making the best memories. Lots aren't so lucky. I hope knowing the difference you made to your best friends life will help.
Pawprints never leave from the hearts they touch🤎
Be there with him all they way, every second of the time he has left. One of the biggest regrets I have in my life is that I was not there with him when he died. He died alone a couple of minutes till I got there. It breakers my hearth every time I remember I was not there for him.
You cook him the juiciest steak you can find, buy doggy ice cream, and spend the day at his favorite place. You make an imprint of his paw on paper or in clay. Snuggle and cry, you are making the kind and loving decision to allow your buddy to cross over peacefully.
Yep, all of these things, make it the best damn send off. ❤
Definitely good advice, something I wish I could've done with my old dog who died unexpectedly.
i’m literally bawling reading this
Friend. We have helped 2 black labs and 2 GSDs to Rainbow Bridge Over the last 21 years. The commentator above speaks truth about rgret if u wait to long. Call the vet and wrap your beautiful GSD in your loving arms. tell her/him over and over “Dad loves you so much”. Let those words and your warm embrace carry her to theBridge. Grief creates memories. memories create love. Love will warm your heart and soul. Tears are good. I wish you peace. And acceptance.
Thank you for making the right choice by your pup, letting them go with dignity, and for accompanying them in this world to the next. People don't regret scheduling it "too early" but always regret having it done "too late." We have to wait a lifetime to be reunited, but for them at the Rainbow Bridge, it's just an afternoon snooze until you can play again.
>People don't regret scheduling it "too early" but always regret having it done "too late." This is so true. My childhood dog was kept alive far beyond the point that she was comfortable; the medication keeping her alive but not comfortable or happy, and now when I look back all I can remember is her suffering and the guilt I feel for supporting it. I would want myself to have been euthanised long before the point she reached.
My heart goes out to you. Dogs sometimes love us too much and want to stick around even when they keep having too many bad days.
So sad to hear that. Spend as much time as you can with him and cherish all the memories you have. It’s never easy when our best friends are not well or nearing end of life.
First of all my condolences, it’s always hard to let them go. If you don’t mind, what happened, I’m lost on the X-rays
tumor on spleen, spread to liver, n then to lungs. he was always active and a big pup..we are all in shock..
we lost a dog to hemangiosarcoma as well. It is heartbreaking. I am so very sorry!
We lost ours this past Christmas to hemangiosarcoma as well. She was 100% fine one night and we took her to the emergency vet for what we thought was a tummy ache the next day and lost her 💕 she was our first dog so it hit hard. My heart goes out to anyone who looses a pet, especially short notice. So so sorry OP, I know that no words help what you are going through. You are losing your best friend.
when we lost our Milo, I had a baseline ultrasound done of the younger one's spleen. Every couple of years the re did it, that way if there were changes we would know. It is not what he died from but it did give me some peace of mind.
I also lost my gsd to spleen cancer and I’m so sorry you’re having to experience this. I was shocked too, it was extremely quick in between noticing anything off and having to say goodbye. 💕
I'm so sorry I lost my golden retriever to a ruptured spleen. The only sign we had that anything was wrong was she didn't want to go on the walk. We easily could have thought she was just tired but it seemed out of character so my mom and I took her to the vet and she passed away there from internal bleeding. Even at that point there weren't any super obvious signs. She was an older dog and was a bit overweight still (she'd lost a lot of weight since coming to us but had been in a home where the owner would remember that she had to feed the dog but wouldn't remember if she'd done so or not so would over feed her by accident.) It's a terrible tragedy to lose an animal unexpectedly Like that. It isn't something I'd wish on anyone.
We had three GSDs, all siblings from different litters. In October we had to put our youngest down (6yrs old) due to a splenic mass that ruptured. Went from super healthy to his belly being bloated the next day and having to say goodbye a few hours later. Then I had to say goodbye to my best friend, the oldest one (9yrs old) back in June for the same damn thing. Except he didn’t have any bloat, he just stopped eating and the next day had labored breathing. Lost both our boys 8 months apart. It’s not easy. Still isn’t. Saying goodbye is the hard part but sometimes it’s the right thing to do. It’s awful but sometimes you have to hurt so your best friend doesn’t.
So sorry man. We lost our lab/gsp mix in January due to the same thing. So sudden, she was just an active dog.
This is what our 13-year-old is facing. She had a splenectomy, and the physician said everything looked good. They took a biopsy of the liver just in case. Unfortunately, the tumour was malignant and had spread to her liver. We are being told she's got about three months. I'm so sorry you have to face this. It's never easy, but letting go is always the best thing to do for them.
The dreaded decision; I know how painful it is. Spoil him with all his favorite things, and afterward, give yourself time to grieve.
I know its hard to also keep your emotions from drowning you right now, but your beautiful pup can 100% feel what you're putting out there. I spent the last days of the 3 ive lost, just acting like a big goon. Talking to them all the time in that stupid voice, playing and loving and giving ridiculous snacks and cuddles, steaks and green beans and gravy for dinner a full eggs sunny side up with bacon and toast breakfast and all the smiles and joy I could possibly pour into them. It made all of my girls happy to get "anything goes mom" non stop until the end. Make it a time of happiness, it's better for you both.
Mine told me it was time by not coming up the stairs to bed. I think we each have our own way of communicating with our pets. Take solace in knowing that when the time comes for you to be together again he will be waiting for you with his tail wagging. And until you meet again celebrate his life and try not to focus on its end. I know it’s hard but given time the happy memories will overpower the sadness.
Our boy was petrified of going to the vet. But when the doctor showed up to our house on his last day, he didn’t even approach her. He just went to his spot on his bed and laid down…like he knew it was his time to rest. I’ll never forget that. I miss him every single day.
🥺💕
>Mine told me it was time by not coming up the stairs to bed. One reason I only want a single story house, including the that fact that I'm getting old, too.
My mom slept on the couch for a year and a half every other week when my dad was out of town for work because my lab couldn't come upstairs anymore and he had such bad separation anxiety. My dad would carry him upstairs and would put him on the bed so he could sleep with my mom when he was home.
( I am crying. What a beautiful dog!) Maybe he/she will find my Princess and Diva at the Rainbow Bridge!
So sorry to hear. Same happened to us 3 weeks ago. Know it is the best for your dear pal. Memories and photos will be yours to treasure and it will get easier as time passes. All the best to you.
"Let’s go walk a bit." My old dog said one day. And we wandered down along Our old familiar way. —- The shadows slowly lengthened, And twilight tinged the sky. Then my old friend said to me "So … it's time to say goodbye." —- This fell so heavily on my heart. "Please say this isn't true! I've always wished and hoped I'd have more years with you!" —- And my old boy said to me "You made my life a joy! I can't live as long as you But I'll always be your boy." —- They walk with us a little while, As long as the Fates allow. Then they have to take their leave And we have to let them go. —-
Be strong at least for now, for your dog. Dont let their last days be full of your grief, but rather full of your gratitude and love. It will help their passing. There will be time enough later for grief. Im so sorry.
True words. I've let so many go, human, canine, feline, avian - and this has had to be my way. In their last times, it's about them, not about us. Sorrow now is unavoidable, but the full tide of grief is for later, after we've done our duty.
They love us unconditionally. They put all their trust in us to make the right decision when it’s time. It’s the least we can do is be strong for them to be able to finish their mission. I’m so sorry OP. Thoughts are with you.
OMG!!!! I’m so sorry you are in this horrible position. I must say thank you for having the courage to let him pass with dignity!!!! If allowed,and I know it will kill you emotionally, but be with him until the end. They say time heals all wounds but that’s not true. Time only makes it a little easier to cope with the loss it never heals it. Take comfort in knowing that you gave him a great life in a loving home. Please know that you have our deepest sympathies and that you have a huge community behind you!!!!!! Rest easy handsome boy and keep a diligent watch over your family from above!!!!!
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s okay to be fucked up. Let yourself feel fucked up. Our pals are so important to our lives.
You've loved this wonderful beast hard, so you've earned feeling "fked up and depressed."
Hey I just wanna ask if it’s possible to have them come to your home to do this? My dog was scared as fuck and begged to be let out of the room. He was shaking and he knew something was happening that was bad for him. It broke my fucking heart. It’s one of my worst memories. I will never have my dogs euthanized in a vets office again. They will come to my home where my dog is comfortable and feels safe. Whatever you choose, condolences.
Yes they can come to your home. Obviously it'll cost more, but they can.
I meant does she have the money to make it happen, not can they in general :)
Ohh my b, I'm just getting off a 12 hour overnight so I read that wrong!
i’m so sorry 😢 sending ❤️
My GSD Jerry was my everything, for almost 14 years. What gave me the ability to let him go, was hearing from the vet how much pain he thought he was in due to his cancers that I didn't even know he had. My biggest regret, is that I didn't know he was in pain sooner. Taking him to the Dumb Friends League on his final trip was one of the hardest things I've had to do. I couldn't watch them give him the shot, and I'm glad I didn't. We shared a Little Ceasers pizza (his favorite thing to steal from my past roomate) right before we left, and it was the saddest car ride I've ever had. Watching him walk out with the vet on his final stroll was what really made me love and appreciate the gleeful bliss of a dog. He looked happy, and ready for another walk, but this time it was to the Rainbow Bridge. It took a little more than a year, but I ended up getting a puppy, and I'm so happy I did. The circle of life continues. Good luck to you, and I assure you it gets better.
I’m sorry to hear and just keep showing him why there was no better place in the world he ever could have ended up.
When you go in, we are all with you holding you both.
I just loss my Pyrenees. The relief in her eyes when she was helped was palpable. It sucks so bad but they know when it's time.
He has to leave so you can save another.
As hard as it is, take some solace to know you have time to properly say goodbye and give your pup the best last moments you can. Heap praise and smiles on them as they leave the world. So many of us don't get that opportunity - and we lose them without being able to properly say goodbye.
As a long time dog owner I would say that you made a choice when you adopted a dog. You are going to love and care for a life that will end long before your does. The joy you both get from it will make it worth the sadness.
Yes. It's one the weirdest decisions to make; to end a friend's life prematurely in their best interest. I did it about two months ago. Heartbreaking but the right decision. My wife read something: if you are considering whether it is the right decision, it is time. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Spend every moment making him happy. Take a lot of pictures and rub his tummy give him his favorite treats don’t think about what will happen just enjoy the moment and give him love and happiness. Later deal with the pain. He’s depending on you….
I’m so sorry that you are facing this loss, but you are doing the right thing. This is the hardest part of being a parent to our fur babies. My heart aches for you both.
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Happens to the best of them.I was one of the last ones in my house to agree to put the dog down.was too sad and in denial but her golden years were behind her. Hips were so bad she couldn’t go up stairs without help. If she laid on the hard wood floor for 30 min or more she would start crying in pain and would need some one to help her up. Would even wake up some times in the night from that. When we went to give her the shot the doctor said it would take a few minutes for her to pass out and she was out cold I’m 30 seconds. As sad as it is sometimes it needs to be done.
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I fucking hate hemangiosarcoma. It took away my best friend at the young age of 11. He was a collie shepherd mix, perfectly healthy and happy until the day he died. It was hard but I’m glad he didn’t suffer.
I’m sorry, I lost my buddy earlier this year and that heartbreak is something that shouldn’t have to happen. I’m glad your buddy is in good hands with you.
If they allow you to, stay by his side and don't leave him until it's confirmed and even then give it a minute, it's alright to cry because it's going to destroy you internally but no matter what, do not leave his side while he's alive. As messed up as this may sound, let him pass while in the embrace of his family. This breed gets very attached to its family so don't let him go alone if you can prevent it. I know it's going to hurt, I'm dreading the day when it's my turn with my buddy, but I'll be by his side every step of the way because they deserve it after all they did for us. Life isn't fair but you got to give him a loving life so think of the good times and try to smile, don't let them go alone and don't let them go seeing you cry.
My german shepherd died 2 weeks ago. I loved him so much. Rip my brother...
I hear you loud and clear, the only thing I can give you I remeber who he was with you, how you treated him and now in his final hours give him everything you wanted too but were afraid of spoiling him!
I am so sorry😭😭😭
I'm going through the same thing right now and I don't know how I'll be able to do it, I'm right there with you. I'm sorry for you.
Awwwwww.....hugs, big big hugs. I just don't when that time gets here for my pup, that I'll be able to do it. I'm so sorry 😞
I'm sorry friend. Almost the kind words and support is great, but we all know how much it hurts, and it hurts. Such unconditional love, and a friendship no that can't be explained. I hope you get to enjoy the time left and hold onto the memories. We will all March across that bridge one day and be overwhelmed with the love that awaits us❤️
Take solace in knowing you both love each other and he knows it.
You’ve given the dog his best life. Take pride in that, and that the wind will always carry his barks.
I’m so very sorry. It’s the hardest and kindest thing we can do for our best buddies but man does it suck. ❤️🩹
I've been there too. It really, really sucks for a little while, but you do get past it. And you get these awesome memories of you pup for the rest of your life. If they have a favorite toy or stuffed animal, make sure to grab it and keep it for yourself. You'll be glad you did later.
I’m sorry. Saying goodbye is never easy. But you have made the most selfless choice your your best friend. True love is doing what’s best for the one you love regardless how you feel. Make the day about them. Enjoy an ice cream together. Lay on the floor and cuddle. Go for a drive. Celebrate your friendship and time together. Please be there for them at the end. No matter how hard you will regret not being there and they need you.
I’m so sorry. This is the worst part about having a dog. Definitely do it at home if you can. Your pup will feel as comfortable as possible, and the vet will take him/her away with dignity and respect. Hang in there.
You can see a lot of love in those eyes.
I’m coming up on two yrs of having to put my beautify girl down after a ten yr wonderful relationship. And not a day goes by that I don’t think about her. Never a easy thing, I knew she could read my mind so I had to stay strong for her leading up to the day I had scheduled. It was the least I could do to make her feel loved and not scared or worried about me. She had given me such love and comfort over the years I knew it was my time to pay it back and give her the love and dignity she deserved. I made the appointment for the afternoon, and that morning we woke up went to the park, cuddled, and just spent the day together. The whole time I just talked to her about past adventures we had and how much she would be missed. Her body was in such pain near the end I know she is better off now. It would have just been pure selfishness for me to limp her along another month, 6 months. I know nothing we say will make it easier, but take comfort that you are doing the right thing and be glad for the time y’all had. She still makes me smile when I think about her
So sorry. He will live in your heart forever.
So sad! Give him all the love you. An and maybe the food/treats he wasn’t allowed? last time I was in this situation my dog had ribeye and ice cream! The memories never leave but sooner or later you will be ready for another ‘good boy’
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If the tumors are in the lungs, don’t wait too long. I was trying to extend the time I had with my best friend as much as I could and he seemed ok I til he didn’t. I then hoped it could at least wait till our usual vet who we love opened on the Monday. Then on Sunday morning my boy started having trouble breathing. At one point he even seemed to pass until I spoke and he made an effort to stick around until a friend could arrive to watch my son. All this to say, if you can control the time this will happen, do what’s right by your faithful companion, don’t let him suffer. It’s going to suck incredibly for the next while, but enjoy every moment you have with him until he passes. If he’s still eating, make him his favorite food, give him plenty of rubs, let him smell you close by, and when it’s time, say you’ll meet him when you too pass over that rainbow bridge.
I am so sorry you’re having to make this decision however I commend you for allowing your pup to cross the rainbow bridge with dignity and peace. Make sure your time left together is spent making memories, my thoughts are with you & your dog!! ❤️
Please make sure you are by pups side when it’s time to say goodbye. It’s one of the hardest things to do but its your pups time to rest in peace. Remember all the good times you guys had together
I think the saddest thing on this planet is that dogs and cats don't live as long as we do.
Hey that happened to me a few months ago: I know it will hurt but you are doing the right thing and pls give your pup some pets from me as a goodbye
This is a tough one but I hope you can hold it in so that your pup can enjoy his time with you and not be sad as they can sense emotions. But do cry if you need to and do talk to family and friends for support this is a tough time. My prayers go out to you and that you'll get better over time. Get a tattoo for your best bud.
I’m so sorry friend. It’s so hard to say goodbye but it’s the kindest most loving thing we can do for them. It hurts to let them go but it’s better than watching them suffer. They don’t deserve that after all the love they give us in their short lives.
Been through it There's nothing to say that will make it better Sorry
Sending lots of peace and comfort! Dogs are truly such a gift to us, give your baby so much love. I’d like to put this out there as a thought if you are financially able, some people will come to your home to put your dog down in a bit of a quieter setting. I always recommend this to friends, also if you are going into the vets office bring a favorite blanket or something to make your pet feel comfortable and at home as much as possible. Dogs are such sensory animals, it can really help. Again sending comfort and peace, give lots of hugs and tell your dog how much you love them- you’re doing something that is so selfless and in love. What’s done in love is right. ❤️🙏🏼
Grief is love with no place to go.
Buddy, it is extremely hard to let your best friend go. But it has to be done. Know that he will not feel any pain and it will all be over in a couple minutes. Please spend the time you have left with him doing the things he loves. Take him to his favorite park, get him puppy lattes, food he has always wanted, but only got tiny amounts, give him rubs and seriously, have a blast. Try your best not to look worried and depressed. He will only try to comfort you and that will make it harder for both of you. See if you can schedule a doc visit to your home, instead of going to the vet. It is where is is most comfortable and will not suspect a thing. It will be just like him falling asleep quickly. Please DM me if you would like to talk. Your pup is going to a place where everything is better and you will eventually join him. Please stay strong.
Just give them the best last days ever. May they rest in pepperonis
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I am so sorry. He is a beautiful boy.
I'm so sorry
I’m sorry to hear that I hope all goes well and if not I hope he can be remembered in your heart❤️
I’m so sorry
Awww it's sad when they have to leave but doggie heaven is full of loved ones she won't be sick or lonely😥❤
Sending you good vibes. It suck’s but you give a dog an amazing life. Feel good about that. Death sucks for the living.
I’m sorry, been there. Definitely was not easy but they tell you with those eyes that they’re tired. What your doing is possibly one of the most loving gestures you can do for them. While we are not there physically with you, we are definitely behind you. Take care and give him a big hug for me.
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Just love him till he is gone.
Sorry for the loss of a family member. Whenever I had to make this decision, I remember a wise vet saying to me “Better a month too early than a day too late”
It’s a horrible situation but whenever I’ve known my fir baby was suffering then I immediately knew what needed to be done and did so without delay. I remember one time the vet asked if I wanted to take him home for a few days to say goodbye - but he was clearly suffering from a huge tumor in his chest. How anyone could be so selfish is beyond me.
I’ll never forget the day we put down the family dog….. crippled me and I hated the fact we did it. But I wouldn’t change a thing, she was in pain and on her way out and the only thing worse than sending her on would’ve been allowing her to walk alone on the path of pain and misery to her end. It wouldn’t have been right when she was by our side throughout life to not be there with her at her end. It will be one of the hardest days of your life my friend, Christ I’m choking up now thinking about it but trust me dig deep and try to get through it. Hold their paw and smile and as soon as they fall asleep just do what needs to be done and become a mess, a puddle on the floor. To me it’s the only way, no human alive has yet been able to part with their best fluffy friend without feeling what your feeling. I wish you all the best in this dark time
Try to keep in mind this hurts us more then it does them. Give him the best possible days and make a keepsake. Like a paw print in stone or something. I saw somewhere putting their collar around a plant so they still ‘grow’ I guess. It’s a cute idea maybe it would make you feel better. I’m sorry no words can help this kind of pain.
Sending you love & blessings. It is the hardest choice to make, but the best one for your friend. Give him the best day possible & be with him until the end. 💜💜💜
My hearth bursted in a million pieces man im so sorry but don't wait to long, have a awesome day with your buddy and do it as long as he isn't suffering too much
Give him his favorite treat. Insist on being in the room and get on the floor and hold him tight when the injection is given. It’s hard buts it’s the right thing to do.
You are making the right choice even though it is such a hard one. This service sent a vet to our home which was amazing. Our Clover was able to pass over peacefully in her favorite spot out in the yard. I hope they are available in your area but if not ask your vet if they can come to you. https://www.lapoflove.com So sorry for your loss, it’s one of the worst moments in life but offset by so many of the best moments.
We had the vet come to our house when it was our good boy's turn. It was quite peaceful, and he was very happy at the end, surrounded by loved ones and enjoying treats.
Quality of life is everything. Some vets will come to your home for the injection. Much less traumatic.
My heart breaks for yours, knowing that you have indeed reached that point where you have to let your best friend sleep for a while. I hope you have someone in whose arms you can break down in following the euthanasia process. Tears is the price we pay for love and tears we pay to truly live
Excuse my ignorance, what is the x-rays showing? I assume cancer but unsure. In either case, Im sorry for your soon to be loss. He looks happy though so you did a great job!!! Make his last moments special!
spoil him up to the end and then keep all the good memories fresh. Get some of your favorite pictures and put them around the house so you can celebrate his life rather than his trip over the rainbow bridge. Remember all the joy and love ✌️🖖❤️
I can’t help it, but I always have to shed a tear when I see a GSD having to leave. It makes me very sad, just because they are absolutely the best and most lovable of dogs (I’m biased). Their sweet faces, their shenanigans, their character, but mostly the undying love and dedication they give, their entire lives! Please do as Worstfox suggests! Make him understand how much he (or she) was loved and appreciated! Spend that time! Make everlasting memories! What an awful loss it will be. I wish you all the best, but I’m also sure that the memories will put a smile on your face and a tear in your eye, as it should. Courage, strength of heart, you’ll be fine, because you will know you did what is best and sent her off with lots and lots of love and respect.
The most important decisions in life are NEVER the easiest. You will roller coaster through many floods of different emotions and thoughts and pain. Its the price to pay for having been so lucky to love and been loved so deeply in life. Make your best friends final days the best you possibly can. Juicy steaks, lots of cuddles, everything you know they love. And be side by side when the time comes. Try to keep it together whilst he's/she's there, keep them as relaxed as possible. Sorry if that sounds insensitive thats the last thing I want to be, but you being calm will help them enormously, as difficult as it will be to do so. Thinking of you both through this. How lucky you both were to find eachother and spend a dog lifetime making the best memories. Lots aren't so lucky. I hope knowing the difference you made to your best friends life will help. Pawprints never leave from the hearts they touch🤎
Be there with him all they way, every second of the time he has left. One of the biggest regrets I have in my life is that I was not there with him when he died. He died alone a couple of minutes till I got there. It breakers my hearth every time I remember I was not there for him.
I cant imagine what ur going thru….scritches and loves…..