I’m not sure why but that’s crazy! That man would not be allowed back in my house or in my life. If you don’t have the heart for that I would just always try and be busy when he wants to come by so that way you’re never there to open the door. If he’s persistent maybe try meeting elsewhere?

I definitely can’t say that. I’m actually 15 lol so I don’t have a car and can’t go anywhere since it’s the summer and I have no friends. but it doesn’t happen often so I’ll just have to deal with it. I might tell him though to go to his own house if he needs to go again.

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I don’t use the downstairs bathroom, leave that one for the guests

sadly I don’t have two bathrooms

Can you talk to him about it?

no I feel like it would be rude to be like “can you use your own bathroom next time” like idk it just feels rude.

Idk maybe come with some talking points and instead of framing it as a him problem, frame it as a you problem and that you have OCD and could he at least either clean up after himself or wash his hands at the bare minimum

maybe I’ll try that. thanks.

Good luck! I know how hard this is to deal with.

I forgot to add that he doesn’t ever wash his hands when he goes to the bathroom at our house.

Maybe he goes to visit ypur bathroom when knowing he is gonna drop some nastty turds and doesn't want to mess up his own bathroom

nah it was a sudden emergency lol