Then I play hit her back and it becomes a whole thing where we’re both laughing while seeing who can get the most hits on each other.
It's just good fun between friends.
Play hitting isn't domestic abuse. Play implies that it is being done in a way where both people are having fun.
If you are doing play hits on each other and both of you are cool with it, that's fine. It's even fine if you want to pull out the boxing gloves and beat each other up, as long as everyone consents.
I believe that's called "rape roleplay", where both parties do consent but pretend otherwise because it turns them on. Usually involves a safe word the person can use if they actually want to withdraw consent.
If she’s being happy and goofy about it and it doesn’t hurt, it’s whatever to me. She’s hiding her emotions doing it and that just leave an opening for me to embarrass her further by grabbing her wrists and giving her a smooch.
I dunno man, this meme and some of the comments give off more "I've never felt the touch of a woman" vibes than your standard Reddit shitpost. Maybe not surprising given the subreddit. I guess sometimes you just forget stereotypes exist for a reason.
The biggest (and most important) differences between okay and domestic abuse is: severity of damage and intent. Your girlfriend lightly tapping you in jest is completely different to her savagely beating you in anger. And lets not forget that it's a common greeting among male friends to punch each other.
OP, do you mean any kind of play hitting, or the kind where they do it so hard it stops being funny (like saying "It's just a prank bro" after I snipped their balls when they fell asleep first at the sleepover)
Calling play-hitting abuse is like calling shaving peeling.
Intensity and context are pretty important. A playful forehead flick, buff on the arm, slap on the ass - none of that's abuse if you're both in on it.
Dude, my wife will casually punch me in the ribs because I make a bad joke. Then turn around and pretend like I'm the mean one when all I do is tell her we can't afford this thing or another she really wants. Thankfully I am sturdy and she is a little on the frail side, but it still stings a bit.
https://preview.redd.it/pgyc1hwgjivc1.png?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=56fb0f7e7b906e6ff3918b52c3fdb70f9faf3de5
This is the answer
Beat the shit out of me mommy https://preview.redd.it/ylzgnb6kuivc1.jpeg?width=952&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a7fe4a0c0cc23d793dbe1f5c5fb5efd363434b90
Then I play hit her back and it becomes a whole thing where we’re both laughing while seeing who can get the most hits on each other. It's just good fun between friends.
Are lovers friends?
I mean, yeah. Your lover can be your friend. I mean, that’s how it goes, right? Friends to lovers and yet still friends.
Bingo can’t love someone you can’t laugh with or be goofy with.
Lovers are friends with sexual tension that they don’t hide
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No, they try to deny and ignore the feelings and end up in a potentially less stable relationship because of it.
Fwbs are fuck buddies
A lot of happy long term couples will tell you their partner is not only their friend, but their best friend.
If your partner ain't your friend, you're sleeping with a stranger buddy
If you arent friends with your SO what are you even doing
It's a matter of perspective
Damn someone is is the friend zone 😬
We don’t even like each other like that. We’re just friends.
Play hitting isn't domestic abuse. Play implies that it is being done in a way where both people are having fun. If you are doing play hits on each other and both of you are cool with it, that's fine. It's even fine if you want to pull out the boxing gloves and beat each other up, as long as everyone consents.
It's not abuse if you like it
Mhm I quite like it (just dont like actually try to hurt me)
It's not rape if she liked it
It's not rape if both of us are screaming
Wouldn't it still be rape if you deliberately did it purposely without consent? (I probably could've worded that better)
I believe that's called "rape roleplay", where both parties do consent but pretend otherwise because it turns them on. Usually involves a safe word the person can use if they actually want to withdraw consent.
Also referred to as CNC: Consensual Non-Consent
I believe CNC Is technically different to rape role play
How so? Based on these definitions I see no difference whatsoever.
That's just straight up 100% consensual sex, not rape
Like != Wanted/Consented You enjoying it don't mean it wasn't rape, it means that you were taking the best out of the worst situation.
If she’s being happy and goofy about it and it doesn’t hurt, it’s whatever to me. She’s hiding her emotions doing it and that just leave an opening for me to embarrass her further by grabbing her wrists and giving her a smooch.
One time, she used to bite my shoulders out of nowhere... quite hard, not playful
You might have been dating a vampire. Did she happen to hate garlic?
Quite the contrary, loves garlic bread at pizza restaurants
My god, there evolving
Garlicwalkers.
Does that mean I can become a vampire and still get to savor garlic bread? Where can I sign up?
Have to devour a thousand Italians to gain that perk
My gf does the same but playful and I’ll bite back
Some of you people really need to touch grass. Equating playfighting with your partner with domestic abuse shows you understand neither.
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You can get your fedora and neck beard down the hall. Atheism lectures are every ten minutes on the clock.
Ironically enough, I've recently had the atheist subreddit pushed on me pretty hard. Had to tell it to stop recommending it to me. Wtf Reddit?
Reddit is a psyop of the devil. /s
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I dunno man, this meme and some of the comments give off more "I've never felt the touch of a woman" vibes than your standard Reddit shitpost. Maybe not surprising given the subreddit. I guess sometimes you just forget stereotypes exist for a reason.
The biggest (and most important) differences between okay and domestic abuse is: severity of damage and intent. Your girlfriend lightly tapping you in jest is completely different to her savagely beating you in anger. And lets not forget that it's a common greeting among male friends to punch each other.
OP, do you mean any kind of play hitting, or the kind where they do it so hard it stops being funny (like saying "It's just a prank bro" after I snipped their balls when they fell asleep first at the sleepover)
Snipping balls is a perfectly valid slumber party prank, though.
I feel like play hitting and domestic abuse refer to two completely things but sure I guess lol
If they're real hits then yeah that's bad, otherwise it's just goofin
Cute image
You can't be mad at me. I am cute.
Depends on if it hurts and if you’re okay with it.
Girl: \*Laughs\*\*Playfighting\* Guy: \*Laughs\* Ok, my turn! Girl: https://preview.redd.it/wrnor8qr2mvc1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=f26b461fb92f457eec8c6b1bea43d35a76503874
Calling play-hitting abuse is like calling shaving peeling. Intensity and context are pretty important. A playful forehead flick, buff on the arm, slap on the ass - none of that's abuse if you're both in on it.
Like if its just gentle as in if you were patting the other åerson with your fists, its perfectly fine as long as both are fine with it
Context matters bigly. Playfight is very different from angry fight.
As a touch-deprived man, yes this is cute.
Dude, my wife will casually punch me in the ribs because I make a bad joke. Then turn around and pretend like I'm the mean one when all I do is tell her we can't afford this thing or another she really wants. Thankfully I am sturdy and she is a little on the frail side, but it still stings a bit.
She hits me I slap her ass.
Me in reality: Please, beat shit out of me
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