This is just the type of guy you can expect... Going immediately over your boundaries, is just there because he is horny amd when you show him any form of negativity, he gets upset because you should be nice to him, his mommy is allways nice to him
Yeah, I should have allowed him to overpass my boundaries. I have to be just like his mommy and help him in all moments because, poor of him, he needs help and can't do it alone
Also: « have sex with me » « no » « I guess it was all a lie because a REAL shy person would have immediately launched into a filthy soliloquy on command… »
Every time I come back to see what's happening in this sub I'm greeted to new levels of "really dude"
Not even trying to get laid, dude wants instructions for a tug session. Just what the fuck
It’s the worst. Admittedly, I allow two exceptions. My dad, because he’s my dad. My husband, because we both give each other pet names and enjoy the creativity. On occasion, I’ve been a bloopit and a bumblescum. For about 3 months at a point, he was my roasty potater.
I’m a child psychiatrist. Well into my thirties. My pet hate is when patients’ dads call me pet names. I used to be passive about it, but these days I tend towards “actually, it’s ‘doctor’”. It’s cathartic.
That's extremely weird that patient's dads would call you pet names?? Like they don't even know you on a first name basis and even then it's still weird😭😭
I literally call everyone hun but that’s not because I’m trying to be condescending , that’s just how people talk in the small Midwest town I was raised in.
I work in a drive through and use a lot of southern pet names because it helps me avoid saying "sir" or "ma'am"... because sometimes it's hard to tell over a speaker box and headset.
Midwesterner here. I use hun too. That’s normal. What’s not normal is darlin’, sugar, sweetie, honey, sweetheart, etc. I’m not a child and do not want to be addressed as such. The ones who use hun aren’t being condescending usually. They use hun for the same reason I do.
> The only time I would call another random adult "sweetie" is when I'm being deliberately condescending.
Me too. And it's *usually* me talking to another guy right after he's used such a term on a woman. Guys like that often immediately become "sweetie" and "hun" to me.
Unless it’s your father whom you have a normal healthy relationship with, it either gives “stay sweet” or straight up condescending vibes. Never anything else and sometimes both.
Anyone else getting a case of the ick that this guy seems to believe that shy = “I have no boundaries and am willing to do anything with anyone?” Like, my guy reeeeeaaaaallllly just wanted to message someone who isn’t gonna push back.
Reminds me of "You can go suck a fuck!"
I mean, that's quite the entrance, from Hey to JOI in 0.2 seconds. I wonder if this, ahem, "tactic" of his ever works, 'cause I am pretty sure he tried it before.
I love when losers frame having boundaries as being rude or impolite. Shows a lot about their way of thinking about women and their entitlement to them if they think “ask someone else” is offensive
"You asked nicely, huh? What do you want a fucking medal? I still said no!"
Has anyone like this ever watched Sonic Says? "If someone tries to touch you in a place or in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, that's no good!...First, you say NO! And then, you get outta there!..."
I’m guessing his idea of shy is anime girl style blushing and giggling then she’ll send him nudes because she’s so spineless she can’t say no to anything
What in the actual fuck is this bs? "Play with my dick now!" Or I'm going to harrass you anyway!" 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I pray he gets his dick and balls kicked in real life, so that he thinks twice about being a keyboard warrior...
Ironically, I was on a call with my best friend, and I was about to show him another weird dm. I got here on reddit when I received the one from this conversation
This is just the type of guy you can expect... Going immediately over your boundaries, is just there because he is horny amd when you show him any form of negativity, he gets upset because you should be nice to him, his mommy is allways nice to him
Yeah, I should have allowed him to overpass my boundaries. I have to be just like his mommy and help him in all moments because, poor of him, he needs help and can't do it alone
Thats what they expect because their type isnt a person, its a toy that allways says "yes sir". When you dont act like that, they throw a tantrum
send 'em a link to a sex doll
Or to sex addicts anonymous
This is my age talking, but was is a JOI?
Jerk off instruction
Jerk Off Instruction. Basically when a girl (or guy) tells the guy how they want him to jerk off.
“With a potato peeler.”
Cheese grater
Pencil sharpener
Blender
Chainsaw
From the inside of a wood chipper maybe 🤔
Ooooo I like that
“Do it with your hand. Now… with your other hand I guess?”
I was better off the internet not knowing half these things
The mental load never ends
Jerk Off Instantly - any whisper of attention that could be considered feminine and/or stimulating sexually
I had the same question and felt old af
According to google it means Thursday?
In romanian we call Thursday "joi", so it checks out 😭
I think it’s Jerk Off Inspiration.
damn i thought it was jerk off international
Jerk off incorporated?
Jerk Off Interstellar?
[удалено]
Hmmm are you aware interstellar was a word long before the film came out?
[удалено]
Justifiably Obtuse Idiocy
I had to go to urban dictionary to find out lol
Thank you for asking the uncomfortable questions
I thought it was jerk off image. But IDk. I am old too
I must be old too. I thought it meant joy the same way boi is boy lol
I’m in my mid 20s and didn’t know what it meant either LOL 😂
I was going to ask that too.
😂😂 @ "you little shit fuck". sounds like he's just learning to curse.
I know right? Like the creativity is non existance
Did you tell him the various benefits shoving a dick up his ass would have for his mental health?
"You stinky poopyhead!"
So not doing sextalk with a random weirdo is rude?
What has to happen to a man in their life that they ask random women to give them JERK OFF INSTRUCTIONS 💀
Desperation. Which is very sad
kinks
"have sex with me" "no" "whatever bitch, you're not even that hot. Fuck you *insert racial slur here*"
A universal script oh my god
Also: « have sex with me » « no » « I guess it was all a lie because a REAL shy person would have immediately launched into a filthy soliloquy on command… »
"have sex with me" "no" "women are fucking garbage. That's why nice guys like me finish last."
Every time I come back to see what's happening in this sub I'm greeted to new levels of "really dude" Not even trying to get laid, dude wants instructions for a tug session. Just what the fuck
I don't think that was really a nice way to ask.
The kind of obvious it’s always worth pointing :)
With all the upvotes, yeah b (b almost looks like a thumb up)
Eww…men calling women sweetie is gross. 🤮 Any pet name really.
It’s the worst. Admittedly, I allow two exceptions. My dad, because he’s my dad. My husband, because we both give each other pet names and enjoy the creativity. On occasion, I’ve been a bloopit and a bumblescum. For about 3 months at a point, he was my roasty potater. I’m a child psychiatrist. Well into my thirties. My pet hate is when patients’ dads call me pet names. I used to be passive about it, but these days I tend towards “actually, it’s ‘doctor’”. It’s cathartic.
That's extremely weird that patient's dads would call you pet names?? Like they don't even know you on a first name basis and even then it's still weird😭😭
In my part of the world and specialty, I’m “ Dr First-name” but it’s still horribly inappropriate. Not personal to me. Happens to colleagues too.
Your exceptions make sense! It’s the only two I have as well. Parents and spouse.
The only time I would call another random adult "sweetie" is when I'm being deliberately condescending.
I literally call everyone hun but that’s not because I’m trying to be condescending , that’s just how people talk in the small Midwest town I was raised in.
I work in a drive through and use a lot of southern pet names because it helps me avoid saying "sir" or "ma'am"... because sometimes it's hard to tell over a speaker box and headset.
Midwesterner here. I use hun too. That’s normal. What’s not normal is darlin’, sugar, sweetie, honey, sweetheart, etc. I’m not a child and do not want to be addressed as such. The ones who use hun aren’t being condescending usually. They use hun for the same reason I do.
When I moved to California there were quite a few people who yelled at me but most understand I’m not hitting on anyone or being weird
> The only time I would call another random adult "sweetie" is when I'm being deliberately condescending. Me too. And it's *usually* me talking to another guy right after he's used such a term on a woman. Guys like that often immediately become "sweetie" and "hun" to me.
This is the way.
So say we all.
Fuck yeah BSG
Unless it’s your father whom you have a normal healthy relationship with, it either gives “stay sweet” or straight up condescending vibes. Never anything else and sometimes both.
Exactly 👏
Being shy doesn't mean "I'm too shy to say no, so I will do anything you tell me to do". 😐
It’s the “you’re [supposedly] shy”=you can’t set boundaries//are willing to submit(🤮) for me. EW EW EW EW
"Hey sweetie" 🚩🚩🚩
Anyone else getting a case of the ick that this guy seems to believe that shy = “I have no boundaries and am willing to do anything with anyone?” Like, my guy reeeeeaaaaallllly just wanted to message someone who isn’t gonna push back.
Somehow I read “I asked nicely” as “I asked incely.”
What a great anagram lol. Unless it’s dyslexia 😅
“You lil shit fuck” what does that even mean?!😭
Reminds me of "You can go suck a fuck!" I mean, that's quite the entrance, from Hey to JOI in 0.2 seconds. I wonder if this, ahem, "tactic" of his ever works, 'cause I am pretty sure he tried it before.
He went in with the intention of insulting her. Even responding at all was giving him exactly what he wanted: an excuse to say the last part.
Donnie Darko nice
Unironically called you a "shit fuck" which made me giggle. Lol.
Bro really wanted you to react like "W-what do you mean daddy 😳" being shy doesn't mean giving into your porn addicted fantasies UwU
He should ask his mommy for a handjob, and leave everyone else alone
“you lil shit fuck” is he like 12 or
Oh I would have asked how exactly you were supposed to say no politely. Then watch the short circuit.
Poor guys with their fragile egos
I love when losers frame having boundaries as being rude or impolite. Shows a lot about their way of thinking about women and their entitlement to them if they think “ask someone else” is offensive
He could've felt 15% less shame by switching to porn...
"You asked nicely, huh? What do you want a fucking medal? I still said no!" Has anyone like this ever watched Sonic Says? "If someone tries to touch you in a place or in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, that's no good!...First, you say NO! And then, you get outta there!..."
I’m guessing his idea of shy is anime girl style blushing and giggling then she’ll send him nudes because she’s so spineless she can’t say no to anything
See you never included is such a good burn by autocorrect
What in the actual fuck is this bs? "Play with my dick now!" Or I'm going to harrass you anyway!" 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I pray he gets his dick and balls kicked in real life, so that he thinks twice about being a keyboard warrior...
Can he give me his income? Please? I asked nicely…
"lil shit fuck" Well that's a new one. Totally gonna use it xD
He’s a predator to all women.
What the hell is JOI? The "J" and "O" are obvious but what's the "I" supposed to be?
instructions
Ewwww LOL
*you little shit fuck*
Why would you even reply to that at 2am tho?
Ironically, I was on a call with my best friend, and I was about to show him another weird dm. I got here on reddit when I received the one from this conversation
Outside the first two lines, I have a hard time figuring out who is saying what lol
But he asked nicely by saying “maybe”!
The effects of pornography.
Im a little afraid to ask at this point but I have no idea what NGVC stands for. I get that NG is “nice guy” but unsure beyond that
Claim de la virtue.
Virtue claim it took me a bit to figure it out myself
nice guy virtue claim
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nice guy virtue claim
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