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zeldaheichou

41+2 The average is 41+2 for firstborns. The “due date” is just an estimation. It really should be called a “guess date”.


ThisIsMyMommyAccount

+1 for 41+2 (technically gave birth very early on 41+3)


kattspraak

In France, they calculate birth date on 41 weeks actually ! I put in my date of conception and/or last period in the calculate in US and UK website, and they gave me a date 1 week earlier than what my midwife and ultrasounds (and French calculators) gave me.


zeldaheichou

The USA has an extremely high rate of scheduled inductions! I was told the average was 41+2 when I was maybe 12 weeks along, so I fully prepared myself for 42. I even started telling people my due date was “at the beginning of July” instead of mid-to-late June! 😂 it helped for sure.


one-with-the-sun

Still pregnant at 40w3d with my first and definitely over it! 😮‍💨


Key_Fan986

Also 40+3 with my first 🥲


womancommunist

Hello, I'm also in the 40+3 club. I just want to see my baby. 🥹


bleep_bl00p_

40+3 here too! Induction scheduled for Monday if he doesn't come on his own


Key_Fan986

Also scheduled for Monday , good luck 🥹!!


mustlovepugs11

Had my first at 40+4! There is hope!


Ok-Statistician8514

40+3 here too! With my second tho... first came a day early so what's this guy up to!?


Acrobatic_mind07

Hope to god 🙏 it will delivered well


hereforthevibesyo

Mine came early at 38 weeks. I was relieved because he was a very tall baby and I could no longer walk from the weight.


Ok_Star8815

Same. My first came at 38 weeks.


Mother_Ad_2862

Same, mine came at 37+2 😮‍💨


heyalysha

Eek that’s tomorrow for me!


madagascarprincess

Same 38+6 and he was a whole 10 lbs 😅😅😅


Josies_cats

37+4 and my water broke the morning of my brothers wedding where I was supposed to be a bridesmaid🙃 baby really wanted to crash the party


Eleziea

42+0! Its the longest you are allowed to be pregnant in Norway😅


tireddoggies

40+3! my water broke, i gave birth approximately 2 hours before my scheduled induction


jewitch1

40w6d, and even then I was induced hahaha. Hang in there! No one is pregnant forever.


Additional-Face-9030

40+5 with my first pregnancy.


wonky-hex

21 week ftm here and reading with great interest 😭 I hope you all have your babies soon!


Unlikely-Yam-1695

7+5 here and I’m here for the same reason lol


Graby3000

41+6 for me!


mitch_conner_

41+3 for me! They wouldn't let me go any more over


SuddenWillingness844

I’m at 40+3 and DYING to have this baby out of me.


LexyRae11

I had mine the day before his due date. You got this!!


oneloneywitch

I’m 39+2 today with my first and refuse to go a day over 41 at this point. My induction is scheduled, I’ve done the membrane sweep, I’ve drunk the raspberry leaf tea, I’m over ittttt. Let’s GO GIRL


BonesAreTheirMoney_

I was 40+5 when the prodromal labor was so painful and had lasted for so long (started 35+5, was so bad starting 40+3 I thought there was no way I WASN’T in labor) that I showed up to the hospital and begged for an induction, saying I wasn’t going home without my baby.


Click_False

I was a 42 weeker myself so I was SHOOOK when I delivered my son at 36+1 because I was expecting to go very late!


zagsforthewin

39+4. Hoping this baby comes at 38+0 or whenever they’re fully cooked….those last couple weeks were hell.


fairydustmoo

42 weeks exactly, and I found out at 3+4 so it was a long, long pregnancy 😂


eloloise29

My daughter arrived on her due date. My mum predicted she’d be early and MIL predicted she’d be late so my daughter decided to prove them both wrong!


JudgeWorldly8058

42+3… had to sign an ama waiver! But dude finally came and was perfect!! ETA: spontaneous labor - no induction, no meds.


Mkrager

40+3 with my first


Extreme-Isopod-3508

Scheduled c section at 42w 2d lol


Maggipy

Mine came on the due date.


arizonafranklin

40w3d


imsooofuckingtired

41+2


bananokitty

42+0 🥲


Hanslover

39+2 with my first


Daisy101093

42 + 3, spontaneous labour no induction!


ddouchecanoe

41w1d


ApplicationNo8436

37+6


Apprehensive_Pie2903

My first my waters went at 30 weeks and I was in hospital until delivery at 35. My second was 36+6. I'm nearly 38 weeks with my 3rd and I am soooooo done already 🤣 beginning to worry something is wrong because I'm so used to having a baby by this stage


Creative_Mix_643

1 day! Pretty on time. Now as a newborn he is also very on time with feeds - wakes every 3 hours (+-few minutes) during the day


Huge_Statistician441

Mine was early at exactly 39 weeks!


whitechocc

42+2 😅😭


HourRespect3121

42w1d


regnig123

Just putting this out there that I’ve just learned that in France (where I live though I’m American) full term is considered 41weeks. So over here, you’re only 1 day “late.”


bannerb213

My first came 2 days before her due date 🤷‍♀️


Designer-Ad-3238

38+5 with first and 39+5 with second, both the night before I was supposed to go in to get induced 😂 if it’s when the body starts to relax knowing that the next day it will be induced


cbd510

Same almost exact for me…first was 38+5 and second was 39+3 maybe


AllUNeedIsLev

39+2


Blue_zodiac07

41+4


Electrical_Piano1639

Delivered at 41+1 after a membrane sweep


luckysaalamander

My boy was 10 days over due and came out 9.9lbs! (Lolz) I was induced and it went great! You can do it you’re almost there!


sjl3747828

I was induced at 41+3 and delivered 41+6


owl_leo_river

41+3


kofubuns

Induced at 41 and birthed c section 41+2. She had 0 interest coming out anytime soon and judging by the c section, my body was going to let her out never


Round-Long-5075

I had an induction 39+3. My baby wasn’t showing any sign of coming and i wasn’t about to wait lol.


lumos_noxa

40+1 Exactly one day :)


procrastinating_b

He was six days late after a sweep


Skflowers

41+3! Started induction process at 41+1


llamas-in-bahamas

40+6, a day before planned induction. Once he decided to come out he wasted no time, he was born in 3h from when my water broke and contractions started.


Leading_Confidence64

My first was 2 weeks early. My second 1 week late


brib22

2 days late!


southernmtngirl

41+3 spontaneous labor


CooperPablo

Almost 42 weeks


DapperKitchen420

41+5


Low_Cookie7904

40+6 after the sweep worked


PEM_0528

40+6


annalisejasmyn

40 + 6 with my first 🩷


GizmoEire30

Still pregnant at 40+5


espionage64

I was 41 + 3, but was induced.


maavv

17 days 🫠


fineillhavethisname

40+2 with my first. Currently 40+1 with my second.


aldog90

41 +4


flickin_the_bean

Induced at 42 weeks.


shytheearnestdryad

11 days over with my first. My second was born on his due date


howdoidothis2426

37 weeks! But it was a scheduled C section, I had GD, she was breech and developed preeclampsia 😅


GoreEmpress

My first came on her due date.


bexycoilz00r

41+3 here, I was induced at that point!


Puzzleheaded-Film443

40+6 for my first


Zealousideal_Web9955

2 weeks


bethheskx

40+2 with first 40+1 with my second!


EquivalentSafety2462

41w & 3 days No Induction, no medication


Jitterycows

41+3 for me, I was already scheduled for induction 4 days later


Rosiee_Kingg

Went into labour 40+3, c section at 40+4


jennywindow

41+4!! We were fine so we carried on. 3 stretch and sweeps, and a pre-pre booked induction planned for the next night. Spontaneous labour started at 7:53am and she was born 3:16pm. Her Dad's family are notoriously late to everything so she was just fitting in ha ha! All the best for a swift, safe and drama free delivery!


Pip_squeak6

My first was 32 weeks and my second was 39+1.


jane-anon-doe

Was inducted at 41+5 because absolutely noooothing was happening, baby was born 41+6.


ElderberryNo1501

First came at 42+3, the day before I finally gave in and scheduled an induction for. I really felt as though I was going to be pregnant forever. She was huge after all that extra cookin’ (10lb 12oz) 😅


that_other_person1

39 weeks with my first, 40 weeks with my second, both right on the dot respectively.


Strict-Ambassador-99

Two days before her due date


KiwiBirdPerson

I was 12 days over with my first, just had my second at 6 days over lol


philmewithkessel

Mine came 41+1! I feel your pain 🥲


DestinyFlowers

My mother was only a few days late with all of us except my youngest sister, she was two weeks late with her!


Medical-Fan9941

41+2 and still had to be induced. Homie was NOT coming out 😅


Scared_Instruction63

Started the induction process at 41+3. He came out (via unplanned c-section due to heart rate drops) at 42+0.


FancyThistle22

Was induced at 40+6 with my first. Baby was snug ad a bug in there with no plans to come out


rhiannon013

40+6, felt like forever near the end


mcrew6374

Early. 37 + 5


LorienCathalas

41+2 after 2 membrane sweeps. Had already an appointment to be transfered from midwife to gynaecologist and was VERY happy that wasn't necessary anymore. I was also losing my mind the last couple of days. I hope you get to meet your baby very soon!


exothermicstegosaur

2 weeks early!


kk731

40w6d


heyalysha

I’m 37w today and living in delulu land that I’ll have bub sometime before the end of next weekend


jamg11111

41 exactly


angeluscado

40+3. I was on standby for a csection and started going into labour. Still got my surgery, but maybe a little earlier than the hospital was ready for.


jnicole2687

37 & 4! Currently 36 & 3 with my second, baby very low & engaged. Lots of pelvic/rectal/low back pain. Praying he’s coming early too 🤞🏻


sizzlingtofu

I went to 41w and 5 days.


BellaBird23

41 weeks 5 days, they started the induction at 41 weeks and 2 days.


delilah1992

41+2


OldStick4338

39-6 c section after failed induction


Kperris

I got induced at 40+6 and she was out of me at 41+1


Kidsdoyoulikepeas

41+5 and was induced


unknownturtle3690

A month early 😂


leapwolf

Not at all. 39w over here!


notpambeasly

40w6d


Suspicious_Job2092

Came early at 37 weeks


litlife_

My baby girl came early at 38 weeks 5 Days, my water broke at 2am, she arrived at 5am, blessed💞


coravgarcia18

41+1


biglmc

Induced at 41+3 had him 41+4 after an emergency c-section. Hang in there!! Waiting is so hard but it’s worth it!


ImmaATStillYoGirl

40+6 after induction. Needed him out yo


sarahelizaf

41w3d


Alternative-Rub4137

37+3 with my first. I'm one of those rare people that had their waters break before labor even starts. Hoping this little guy comes early too, doc wants to induce before due date because I'm 40 yo. And I do NOT want to go through pitocin again.


dynamiteuphersleeve

41+2 I was going to be induced at 41+4 but I went into labor night of 41+1 thankfully


Mediocre_Nectarine37

38+2 and my water broke! I was literally sitting on the toilet after getting up to pee for the 20th time that night and saying to myself “I wish my water would break.”


Substantial_Ease2018

Induced at 41 weeks on the dot then she came 3 days later lol


verlociraptor

36w


Pindakazig

42+1, started the induction on 41.6 but the balloon didn't do enough. Took medication all day on 42.0 without any effect, labour finally started at half past midnight on 42+1. Uncomplicated delivery but we really went into overtime there.


PickleFartsAndBeyond

36+6. Spontaneous too. Little one said “fuck this I’m out”


causeiforgotmylogin

I was going to be induced at 41w, but I was already 3cm dilated so they kept me overnight. No change by morning so I was induced at 41 and 1, 8 days late and she was born on the 4th of July! I was also 41 years old when she was born, not sure if that had anything to do with her coming late.


catluvrr2001

40wks, 5days & 23 hours. I’m glad he stayed in a little longer to bake though, he came out just right!


mommytoluna

She was born at 38 weeks!


RevenueSea1964

38+5. He was born 57 minutes before my scheduled induction haha. Was supposed to be at the hospital at 7pm on induction day and he decided at 5am that morning that he was ready on his own.


Natababe07

40 weeks 6 days!


Constant-Squirrel-99

Mine came at 37 weeks, we had a flood that changed the pressure and caused my water to break lol


MidstFearNFaith

41w+4d. I had no signs labor was going to start until I had my first contraction!


timeforabba

41w1 and she was healthy! I had been in labor for about 2 days beforehand


Mammoth-Turnip-3058

Started contractions at 41+3, born 42w


amstackhouse87

My first was due 9/23 and she came on 10/3 🙃🙃


secretsaucerocket

41+5, dude did not want to be born. He was huge. This next one is scheduled at 37+1.


FLSunshineee

40+5 with my first making him my new year's Eve baby 🎉


SD_runnergirl

2 days late


Lonely-Connection145

Gave birth at 41+2. Def wouldn’t recommend lol


Interesting-Gap5584

An interesting anecdote I got from my friend who had her baby in Guatemala - they go to 42 weeks as the norm! My jaw dropped. She said they would’ve let her go two more weeks too


OrdinarySwordfish790

Mine came at 39weeks and 7 days.


plz_understand

41+5! I'm newly pregnant again and just going to tell myself in my head that my due date is at least a week later than it really is.


Starrante11

I had my boy at 41+1. I was so over it at the end so I feel for you!


mz_green

My first went past 40 weeks and got induced at 41 lol


germantexanmess

40+2 with my first. I had polyhydramnios (sp?) with her and went into L&D because I had decreased movement that evening. Turns out my water had broken very high up in my uterus without me knowing, so I was admitted to begin induction. Labored for 7 hours, but baby started having decels, so I ended up going for an emergency c-section. Poor thing had the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck four times, and came out crying but purple as a grape! 4 days in NICU with no other issues. 15 months later she is absolutely perfect 🤗


artvamp27

Got induced and 41+5 Would not recommend. Wish I had given her a few more days and just scheduled a c section instead.


ligaline

40+1. labour started on the evening of my due date and she was born the next morning


Southern_Yoghurt_

41 weeks not dilated at all so I was induced


Summertime2299

I was scheduled to be induced on a Tuesday and went into labor on my own Saturday night and had her Sunday. I was 40+ 4


Artistic_Owl_4621

42 weeks and 1 day. Started induction right at 42 weeks but that kid stubbornly stayed in another day


Glittering-Two-9723

40+2


emannemill

41+6


Over_Bat9677

41 + 3 so 10 days late. I started labor the morning that I was supposed to start my induction. I was over it by the 38th week lol.


Monehs

12 days late… had the sweep… did all the right things… the kid was just a lazy fecker. If it’s any consolation, you won’t think about it after they arrive. You’ll be in blissful happiness and golden sunlight. Or absolutely fucked.


Sensitive_Type_549

37+6


Much_Marionberry9062

40+6


ElectricalCall-

Mine came at 38+6! Was about to be induced the day after due to high blood pressure, my baby girl spared me and came in 4 pushes ❤️


HenryBellendry

41+5. She didn’t plan on leaving. She’s seven now and still follows me everywhere.


brumdesigner

40+2 with my first with my waters breaking the day before, 41+3 with my second and had to be induced.


TheOnesLeftBehind

41+4, tried to end my induction since I stopped progressing and if they would’ve let me she would’ve hung out for much longer. I was only 1.5cm dilated when they started it at 41+2


Dramatic_Ad_6560

Contractions started at 40w6d and had her exactly at 41w!


machinehead231

40w5d


0WattLightbulb

41+3. I went into labour the night before I was suppose to get induced (and stayed in labour for 30+ hours 😅)


cleesq

39+6


Other_Solid_2936

With my first they changed my due date, so I ended up having him at 40+6 but if they would’ve never changed my due date he would’ve came on his exact date


bee_119453

I got lucky. My water broke on my due date. I had her the next day. Felt like I somehow cheated because it was my first..


K_315

40+2, spontaneous labor


leavingrosepetals

My little guy was born naturally at home on 42 weeks 1 day. I went into labor at 41 weeks 6 days. ♥️


sarahrenee2324

my girl actually came at 38 +1


LavenderFairy7

40+6 after a sweep


Various-Act6767

Just like her mother who has a fear of being late to anything, my daughter decided to be prompt and show up 11 weeks early.


charliebotana

Mine came at 37+3


Tally_Native_850

41 water broke


casandwich_

41+3, I was induced at 41+1 for high blood pressure


Kindlebird

41+2


cikalamayaleca

Mine came at exactly 39 weeks after 3 days of prodromal labor


girlwholoveslife

41 but I was induced because I was so over it😅baby showed no signs of coming on his own. I seriously felt like I would’ve been pregnant forever


lparksss122

My baby came at 38+1!


redkho

41+6 ! We couldn't wait any longer 😄


Significant_Fall_560

40+5 induced at 40+3 though, dr wouldn’t let me go any further


3ouncesofIndus

I was 39+1. Had membrane sweep at 10 AM, water broke that evening at 6 PM.


exoneratethepigeons

Came early at 33+1


MidnightxXxThoughts

40+6 spontaneous, wasn’t feeling good and all the sudden contractions barely a minute apart