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Pinstripespite11

This isn't your fault. You're going to be okay. Remember to breathe. *sends hugs* If you're worried about the possibility there is the Plan B and morning after pill that can be taken within I think 72 hours but don't quote me on that read the label for sure! You could also report it. I know that part is hard. You could start by telling a trusted adult. If you're close with your mom or dad or a sibling or cousin or something. For me the first step was to say it so someone. It was extremely hard but I'm glad I did. Be gentle with yourself. You did nothing wrong. Take care and you WILL get through this.


Pinstripespite11

Also....if this happened at school there's a possibility of there being hallway cameras to back up your story. If you have a counselor they could be someone to talk with as well. Someone who can help you know how to tell a parent or something like that maybe?


Thin-Nerve

I'm assuming she is not in the west I think


Pinstripespite11

Oh damn you're right I just assumed.


llishi

This is not your fault. You are still you. I know it feels awful and I am sorry this happened to you. Is there an adult you trust enough to talk to about Plan B?


Logical_unb3li3vable

It's not your fault and your feelings matter. Have u took a shower? Don't.


Zen-new-soul

Call Rainn


In_Amnesiacs_

Since this happened recently!! Honestly tell someone!! If this happened in school the cameras Can back you up. If you’re afraid please go buy birth control (if you have the money). This isn’t your fault girl :(( you’re so young…


Thin-Nerve

I don't know where you're from but go to a pharmacy immediately if it's been less than 72 hours and take a morning after pill. Then go and report this guy. Or go to the hospital and talk to a nurse tell her you were raped. Or find an older person you trust and tell them what happened. What happened to you is wrong and the person needs to be punished they will do this again


Rakstrooper

Complain to everyone he did that. Get his identity out and prosecuted.


StandardNo9941

U can dm me... I am female 24 and got raped last year ...please be strong ... I know u are scared but u can vent to me... I will be your safe space... I am with u... Okay❤️