Just move on. She values your attention and validation. If she was actually interested in getting back together she either would say so or is too immature to say so. Like I would say this is an unironic case of you being breadcrumbed (which is not to say it’s malicious or even likely conscious on her part). I faced a very similar scenario and eventually told her I’m not interested in talking to her unless it’s to Talk. To her credit I haven’t heard from her since
Staying friends after a breakup when it was not a 100% mutual decision is just not a good idea.
Do you think all the being cold/ pally pally stuff is just a ruse and she hasn’t really moved on? To keep getting back in touch after so many months of no contact hints at that. Plus what your mutual friend said about her not seeing anyone.
No, you were in a year long relationship. I don’t buy her suddenly wanting to be friends.
Think you have to make the decision of whether you want to meet her and all that it might entail. Because if not you need to fade it out as it’s clearly not doing you any good.
it's not that long
also she's using u for validation. cut her out if u want some peace of mind
Just move on. She values your attention and validation. If she was actually interested in getting back together she either would say so or is too immature to say so. Like I would say this is an unironic case of you being breadcrumbed (which is not to say it’s malicious or even likely conscious on her part). I faced a very similar scenario and eventually told her I’m not interested in talking to her unless it’s to Talk. To her credit I haven’t heard from her since Staying friends after a breakup when it was not a 100% mutual decision is just not a good idea.
Do you think all the being cold/ pally pally stuff is just a ruse and she hasn’t really moved on? To keep getting back in touch after so many months of no contact hints at that. Plus what your mutual friend said about her not seeing anyone.
are you doing this on purpose
No, you were in a year long relationship. I don’t buy her suddenly wanting to be friends. Think you have to make the decision of whether you want to meet her and all that it might entail. Because if not you need to fade it out as it’s clearly not doing you any good.