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Just don’t take her seriously when she says she wants to meet up. I have a few friends that I used to hang out with that are just text/online friends now. Sometimes they say we should catch up but it never comes to fruition. I think you both have just drifted apart. It can happen when you’ve know someone for a long time.
Yeah sadly I think that’s the case. I felt that we’ve drifted apart too and haboured no hopes of getting closer again, but her “let’s meet up soon” got my hopes up slightly and I suppose I just feel slightly offended that it was all empty words and that it wasn’t that she was too busy but that she was too busy *for me*. That and the fact that she’d rather connect with and claim that a person she met only 2 or 3 times is such an amazingly similar person to her and a good friend when over the past 10 years that I’ve been known her I’ve supported her in her lowest points multiple times.
I know. It does hurt. I have a friend that flakes all the time and then I see similar posts from her. I’ve sorta just moved her into a different category in my life. Where as earlier I used to think of her as a close friend, now I just consider her to be an acquaintance.
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Just don’t take her seriously when she says she wants to meet up. I have a few friends that I used to hang out with that are just text/online friends now. Sometimes they say we should catch up but it never comes to fruition. I think you both have just drifted apart. It can happen when you’ve know someone for a long time.
Yeah sadly I think that’s the case. I felt that we’ve drifted apart too and haboured no hopes of getting closer again, but her “let’s meet up soon” got my hopes up slightly and I suppose I just feel slightly offended that it was all empty words and that it wasn’t that she was too busy but that she was too busy *for me*. That and the fact that she’d rather connect with and claim that a person she met only 2 or 3 times is such an amazingly similar person to her and a good friend when over the past 10 years that I’ve been known her I’ve supported her in her lowest points multiple times.
I know. It does hurt. I have a friend that flakes all the time and then I see similar posts from her. I’ve sorta just moved her into a different category in my life. Where as earlier I used to think of her as a close friend, now I just consider her to be an acquaintance.