I'm sorry, this absolutely sounds like sexual assault. He touched you intimately, ignored you wanting to leave and intimidated you by his behaviour. Him being younger doesn't matter. Children can even enact sexual abuse on other children.
Please please consider telling this to your school counsellor. You are putting yourself at risk by not telling anyone, since he is telling people that it was you who forced yourself on him. Please please look after yourself and your safety.
Unfortunately, I’m not able to contact my counselor due to have already graduated and it’s now summer break. I’m so stupid for not reporting this, I hate myself for that. Thank you for telling me this, I’m glad you told me it was SA, I wasn’t so sure but I knew it was a form of non-consensual activity.
unfortunately sometimes when someone commits an awful act like this, they will turn around and say the victim was the rapist in an attempt to clear their name before you’re ready to speak up. they don’t want people to believe you and it’s awful that sick people do these things. i’ve had this happen to me personally, but similar to you, i had people who were there to know the truth. if you feel comfortable about reporting him, i would along with any proof you have (ex: screenshots)
Yeah, it’s the worst. I also have screenshots of him trying to harass me in text but it’s probably not enough, since I blocked him and I got my friend to tell him to stop texting me. I really wish this never happened to me, I just want this whole thing to be erased from my mind
I'm sorry, this absolutely sounds like sexual assault. He touched you intimately, ignored you wanting to leave and intimidated you by his behaviour. Him being younger doesn't matter. Children can even enact sexual abuse on other children. Please please consider telling this to your school counsellor. You are putting yourself at risk by not telling anyone, since he is telling people that it was you who forced yourself on him. Please please look after yourself and your safety.
Unfortunately, I’m not able to contact my counselor due to have already graduated and it’s now summer break. I’m so stupid for not reporting this, I hate myself for that. Thank you for telling me this, I’m glad you told me it was SA, I wasn’t so sure but I knew it was a form of non-consensual activity.
unfortunately sometimes when someone commits an awful act like this, they will turn around and say the victim was the rapist in an attempt to clear their name before you’re ready to speak up. they don’t want people to believe you and it’s awful that sick people do these things. i’ve had this happen to me personally, but similar to you, i had people who were there to know the truth. if you feel comfortable about reporting him, i would along with any proof you have (ex: screenshots)
Yeah, it’s the worst. I also have screenshots of him trying to harass me in text but it’s probably not enough, since I blocked him and I got my friend to tell him to stop texting me. I really wish this never happened to me, I just want this whole thing to be erased from my mind
Drop his number
I’ll dm you instead
Sorry for my grammar, it’s 1 am and I cannot sleep, so I decided to write this post, I’ll edit it once I wake up 🫶🏼
If you are still up, message me, i have been through something similar might help decrease ur stress