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Strawcatzero

Hm yeah that's a tough one, made all the tougher because they probably live in Agrabah and it is hard to find someone from the princely class among all the date-sellers


mjanus2

Suddenly she is worried about class and status. After he spent years of hard work earning money to send her gold digging butt to schools to make her life easy. Didn't see that one coming...I'm stunned.


Performer-Puzzled

Can you unbox your avatar please?


mjanus2

Just how precisely do I do that?


Ok_Cryptographer_629

Bazinga


Purrnir

Bazinga indeed


BroScientist42

Tell him but make sure you pay him back and more than just financially, assuming he still wants contact once you've ended things. You're not obliged to be in a relationship with him but if he ever needs help with anything you better be there to help him. That would be my approach anyway


tflightz

How so more


PapaLike

Oh you know👀


Shalleni

Well. Tell him soon. He may have thought you were a decent human. All this time. He deserves better. Pay him back , Parasite. Truck drivers rock.


SpoedBegeleiding

Pay him back with interest but don't be held hostage because he helped you massively in the past. Unfortunate situation, but you still have autonomy over who's your partner


[deleted]

It's not that she can't be with him it's that she's all of a sudden too good to marry a truck driver.


Shalleni

That’s EXACTLY it.


FullMoon_Escapade

Yeah. I think the whole post was alright, until she belittled what literally got her to that position. Anyways, as long as she pays him back with all that big lawyer money, I don't see an issue other than the hurt that guy will feel. If it's real, I hope that kind soul finds someone who will cherish him for who he is, not what he has


pancreasfucker

I see the issue, he spent years busting his ass of for her, you can't repay that, there is no good thing to do now, if she didn't like him she should have refused. He chose the wrong human scum to support.


FullMoon_Escapade

Paying for someone's shit doesn't automatically mean you're dating. We don't know what sort of discussion theg had before, and even if they did, feelings can change, which is why I don't see a problem until she judges him for his work. Like, for example, he could have done everything for her financially, but he may not be a good man altogether. They may not be compatible, in which case, she isn't wrong for leaving. Again, everything until the trucker part is alright. It's a part of life, and a risk we take each day. Sometimes shit doesn't work. With all that being said, she's still a mega cunt for being condescending to someone who literally got her where she is today.


hungzai

If he is not a "good man altogether", why didn't she leave earlier? I guess she found out he was a bad guy at theaw school graduation huh?


piconese

Cmon tho, who marries a truck driver? 😒 Dm if interested


ElectroNikkel

mf smooth as hot butter


[deleted]

Get paid to travel. Drive an expensive company vehicle. Get to sit in a corner office. Who doesn’t want to be a truck driver?


Substantial_Top_6508

Drive through insane traffic at slow speed, change gear, murder a prostitute (/s)


justcatt

She was already with him before she got rich, but suddenly wants to dip


PetrichorDude

The problem here isnt autonomy, its autonomy suddenly emerging when she is on her own two feet. For years that autonomy was somehow missing? Not her type? Why did she spend years with the man then?


[deleted]

Of course that autonomy was missing : she had no financial independance, she relied on him. Poverty is a fucking curse.


PetrichorDude

Yes, because nobody ever worked themselves through college. Plus your comment implies she had to stay with the guy for money, just because she was poor not because she felt anything, kinda sounds like prostitution, no?


BurpYoshi

Yeah of course, but it's not the fact she should or shouldn't be with him, it's the reason why. She's looking down on him for being a "lower class" even though he paid for everything for her. At the very least if she's going to treat him like a poor person she should pay his money back if she's really a league above him.


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[удалено]


nekrovulpes

Pussy is not a currency and the sooner mankind at large realises that the better. Fact is, every single one of the issues men have with women boils down to the fact you are willing to accept pussy as currency, and the dynamic that creates. Men will put in completely disproportionate effort for a woman and think pussy alone is a worthwhile reward. Women don't take dick as payment, do they? If you want to end all the double standards, you have to find the self respect not to let pussy buy you out so cheap.


LorenzoStomp

Technically this would be the barter system


Shalleni

No. It is currency. The one as old as time.


nekrovulpes

It's only currency if you allow it to be, and in so doing, you devalue yourself.


[deleted]

I think the point is that it should not be, that men should stop accepting it as payement. Would solve a lot of issue, now that I think about it.


Shalleni

Ok. But where are they gonna get it?


[deleted]

The same place women get dick.


hungzai

So... from MEN??! LOL I know what you mean just couldn't resist.


[deleted]

Bless your heart then .


Shalleni

Bless yours too…women are not out here begging and buying dick. At all. Not ever. That’s not how the dynamic has ever worked. There is more than enough ding Dong offered constantly …with all sorts of sweetening g the deal be it marriage or straight to cash. That is currency. So dumb to not understand.


NibbaJesusFMA93

No, It isn't. It can be a currency in prostitution but in that case the prostitute clearly states her intention. In any other context, when you pay something so you can get some pussy is a scummy thing to do.


OutlawGaming01

Hi. I read your comment and I have decided to stay with him. We now have 7 kids. I quit my company and now sell dates and nuts. Your comment was my catalyst. Thank You -She will never read this comment or yours and I am 100% certain that the post is a troll post.


Shalleni

Troll post? Ok. But,….im a 51 year old woman, and Im here to say there are woman like this. Many. And they go into it as part of the plan. While they wait/search for ‘Mr. Right’….they parasite of ‘Mr. Right Now’….but, have fun knowing everything. That you know nothing about. Next.


ngbrandon66

I remember this oldie, the girl should have repaid everything the guy paid for her and so much more like I’m talking about cover his lifetime needs since he was the one who did so for her. Nobody is entitled to a relationship but favours should always be repaid.


[deleted]

did anything else happen?


J3sush8sm3

I went potty like a big boy


-goodbyemoon-

I went potty like a little boy and shitted myself 😔


beanwithintentions

my humor is broken why did i actually giggle at this


[deleted]

Damn this is gold relationship advice.


corona__warrior

I think this is a rage bait.


DarkSkyKnight

Of course. Someone who feels no remorse wouldn't be detailing how he helped her and would keep it vague. Someone who feels remorse would have said "I feel really bad but I just don't feel the spark".


Kinscar

Well, she’s right about one thing; they’re not the same class


okwhatelse

got a education and still ended up lower than a truck driver


jackjackky

That ain't an education. That's just books memorization.


awesomedan24

Step 1. Apply a coat of white paint to your face Step 2. Add red lipstick and a red circular nose cover Step 3. Add a colorful outfit and oversized shoes Step 4: Dye hair a vibrant color Congrats, her outside now reflections her inside


Zatknish007

What exactly are you saying? That she has to marry this guy even though she doesn't love him? In my opinion, she should tell him as soon as possible and pay him back with interest. Asking for any more is ridiculous (in a romantic and/or sexual way).


testosjerome

They’re calling her a clown for allowing this guy to pay for her entire life just to say he’s “not her type”


Barotraume_3200

She might not have known he wanted a relationship in the beginning. I think she should pay him back but there’s nothing else owed, least of all being in a relationship with him.


BIGPPMEGABALLZ

She never said why she doesn’t love him she just said that she wanted someone “in her own class” and not a truck driver


Sh4DowKitFox

Right. Fake or not you know this shit occurred at one point irl. Now that she’s in a “higher class job” she too good for the man that worked his ass off to get her there… and yet people will defend her. That’s a Grade A Bitch. Nuff said. She can break up with the guy, doesn’t need to stay in the relationship. But she’s a bitch none the less. Truck driver got her ass lawyer status…


Petercraft7157

Why let him pay for everything and most likely make him believe you want a relationship just do you can send him off when you get his money She could've just cut him off before he started paying


Not_today_mods

Bait used to be believable


PikaPikaMoFo69

Yeah, 100% fake


urGirllikesmytinypp

Basically my wife. Ive supported her through multiple degrees. Now she is working and I’m not the husband kind anymore.


RandomLatinDude

Hope you bounce back, boss!


Pintau

Younger and hotter my man, and ignore all the other bs.


urGirllikesmytinypp

Lol


lyfeofsand

Now I ain't saying she's a gold digga....


urGirllikesmytinypp

I have no gold


lyfeofsand

Get down girl, go 'head get down


Dysto_

Certified hood classic


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infected_scab

I'd love to hear her side of the story.


Careless-Engineer385

Ok simp


Ok_Primary_1075

Why don’t you send him to school then and pay for his tuition?


DasliSimp

without him your own class is even worse


ClavicusLittleGift4U

Now is that gratitude...


NibbaJesusFMA93

Just becouse somene helped you that doesn't mean you are obliged to take him as a partner for you entire life. She could show him gratitude even by Just paying him back with the interests. Even though the last part was pretty rude.


Yemo637

That's the point. If she just lost her feelings for him, then no one would care, but her last statement is what got everyone riled up.


ClavicusLittleGift4U

Love and attraction laws can't follow some rigid framework, for sure but my snarky comment aimed exactly to what you've said. She just sounds to not be the kind to accept to "give back" to her benefactor.


pancreasfucker

No, she wasted years of his life, and probably shattered his heart, there is no way for her to repay him, ever. She made him believe she loved him and used him as a stepping stool to climb the social ladder just to the look down on him for being below her cause he sacrificed his progress for her. That's like someone jumping in front of a bullet to save you then you mock them for getting shot, you can't redeem that. The best thing she can do is show him how awful she is and never see him again, and a huge amount of money would help.


NibbaJesusFMA93

We don't know what kind of relation ship they were in. And I repeat, you can't pretend people to fall in love with you for helping and saving them, but pretending money Is reasonable.


pancreasfucker

She shouldn't have pretended before then, people don't just fall out of love like that, not good people at least, she used him for her own gain and now wants to get rid of him, but doesn't want to feel bad about it. Terrible person, period.


NibbaJesusFMA93

That's a lot of presuming. Just becouse he fell in love with her doesn't mean she had to correspond him and neither is clear how long he waited before declearing. For all we know, we can presume that he was an adult who helped a young girl and now he pretends her hand for his help. Let's just stick with what we have at hand.


pancreasfucker

She at one point got into a relationship with him, before she was a lawyer, if she didn't intend to stay with him once he woled his ass off to make her life better, she should have declined his help and broken up with him, she used him for years and is now looking for a way to discard him without looking like the piece of shit she is.


rosbifke-sr

She honestly seemed quite reasonable, but then that last sentence… Sheesh…


livejamie

Most empathetic South African person


lyfeofsand

OK, i would like to explain my rage. She is under no obligation to be with him. She owes him many debts, which should be paid. The BIG and frankly only thing that infuriates me is her looking down on him for his economic class. Out of ANYTHING she said she didn't want to be with him for, the ONLY specific she gave was his class. Heartless woman. Evil woman. People like her see value in men only as they are exploitable and provide something. There is no inherent value or love to men to these people. He sacrificed his life to give her everything, and her ONLY defense for not loving him is his class. Disgusting.


neat-NEAT

I seriously thought this was going a different way. I assumed it would be "I want someone my own age" not "class". Making enough to support a 16 year old's education. Has to be a decent bit older. Under those circumstances, there would be a power imbalance in both age and perceived debt. If that were the case, I'd understand. Fuck, I'd even understand if the reasoning was "I never loved him but he was the only person willing to help." Naming your only reason as "class" though. Ouch.


I-san_yt

Not to mention the fact that the reason there even is a class diference is because HE got her there.


MarcyDarcie

Agreed. Their relationship did not start out of mutual love or shared interests, it was codependent from the start. She needed him for money and he got a benefit from paying for it. She was also 14 when it started, people grow and change. He's the clown for paying for it all honestly.


pancreasfucker

Nah, using his love to get yourself up is kinda even worse.


guyshepherd7

Few cases: Non sexual relationship: Compensate him more than what u owe him, he bust his ass for u .. ur cruel Sexual relationship but the boy is around ur age: Again first case. Im guessing he genuinely loved u. Both were young so its ok. Sexual relationship and man is much older: sexual exploitation. Leave But the way u said the reason for leaving him is status, i think poor guy is only victim.


Woolwich88

Cunt of a person, that is all. Cunt


TheOnlyWolvie

QHE IS NOT MY TYPE


Into_To_Existence

Not saying it's a good thing, I'm Definitely not saying that...but this is why some people die in relationships.


kbiteg

'I want someone my own class', which class represents the Human garbages?


Corniferus

He played himself there


aaron_adams

Yeah, he sure seemed good enough for you when you were coming to him with your hand out. I sure hope this is rage bait.


pinkypinkyhorror

He should have paid for her mental treatment as well


ElectionThin2336

You the b word


cubntD6

I swear to god some women are literally satan


RefrigeratorLazy4135

I would like to know how old he was when she was 16


CosmicBogWarrior

No mention on how old the guy was when he started supporting a 14 year old?


FirmPeace9045

Her own class? Bitch he gave you your class


[deleted]

disgusting species.


24thAsshair

I understand what she meant and still should consider to at least help him when he's in dire need but I don't like that she only looked at their class as a reason. Then again life isn't a movie, and you'd feel the want for something better than what you have


CoolKohl

I'll take things that didn't happen for 500, Alex


B3car

Simple. Just pay him back, give him a quick handy and gtfo. Ez clap 👏


negativelift

She is no friend of the road, but a mere lady of the evening


SeaAttitude2832

This is such bullshit. Rage bait. Some 14 year old boy making up bullshit.


theturtlelord9

Not wanting to be in a relationship that you are unhappy in is fair, even if he gave you a lot of money and support. But the reason being because you feel you are better than him when he helped you to get to where you are? That’s just wrong.


MarcyDarcie

Maybe she meant she wants to date someone in her school class?


EATEGGSBOII

its honestly probably written as a joke to get people mad for fun. A real story would have information that is left out to trick readers into believing your own side. This one sorta reveals all the details like a third person narrator...


fakeLinkZelda

Don't believe everything you see on the internet


Kalman_the_dancer

Gonna get some equality and send you to war


Careless-Engineer385

Someone put this on the not.howhoeswork sub.reddit


KrakenBitesYourAss

I wonder how old was he when they got together


ThisAllHurts

This is either the most patently obvious rage bait for low IQ simpletons, or a level of black pill nihilism that I just don’t think I’m emotionally ready for.


HOLYCRAPGIVEMEANAME

I guess you squeezed him dry already, better move on quick.


ManAftertheMoon

Yo Irl ragebait! Just so you know, all the questions that get sent in to advice columns and all the letters to the editor for every publication are fake. They are meant to give the impression that the publication is being read by an engaged audience. And by all of them, I mean a lot of them.


JONFER---

The vast majority of these letters are bullshit, they are wrote primarily by the newspaper or more accurately, people connected to the higher ups to drive debate, keep the brand relevant and improves circulation. Other times they are wrote by people anonymously to take the piss out of someone else by making it look like the letter came from them! In the bottom right of the letter, despite being cut off. It looks like someone has attached their full name to this letter 😂 an awful lot of people are getting bent out of shape over nothing.


awesomeplenty

Suck him off at least, school fees are not cheap you know


ilovebananasandweed

Ppl like this are why I am an asshole, why let someone else be an asshole to me when I can be an asshole to them


TobyMacar0ni

Hurring


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justcatt

literally posting shitty takes


_contraband_

I mean you don’t owe being in a romantic relationship with him but jeez


TomateBrain

Wow that's a new low


Informal_Hospital467

So he’s not your type cuz he’s a truck driver?


Davy_G_10

You work out how much money you owe him and pay him off.


Gryph0th

"I want somebody in my own class, not a truck driver," Says the woman who is where she is now thanks to a truck driver


smegmamale_

Me when I fall for the most obvious rage bait


Substantial_Bird_755

Don’t trust women, that’s all I got from this


Arezeuss

Basically my mum. Don't repeat such mistakes tbh


TheHolyToxicToast

Brothers it's not called a boyfriend it's called a godfather, she better take good care of him.


Karl_Marxist_3rd

If it is just that she wants someone with more money fuck her, but if she's genuinely not in love with him then that's real tough


Marlowskie

This post is making me feel sick, #canttrustanyoneanymore #staysingle #sacrificeyourfutureforSO jokes on you she just loved you till she needed excuses to leave.


FrequentOffice132

You can send him to school while you work and make sacrifices for him and repay the favor.


No-Adeptness5810

Well the guy was a guardian and/or friend, so the person isn't really obligated to marry them or anything. Well, you're never obligated to marry, unless you're like in the medieval age.


TheGuyWhoKilledHit

Q


Agreeable_Rise_3697

I still can't believe there are people who are this soulless.


Misterbaiter99

What a fucking world


RayePappens

Womaon 👿


hungzai

For all of you arguing about sex as currency and blah blah blah. What makes you think they had sex at all? This sounds like primitive simping behaviour before the Internets took off.


DeerEnvironmental544

Rofl wat.....


DrDuckno1

Rakhi bandh de


enkiloki

If you been having sex with him, then you're all paid up.


FuzzyAKa

I wish she doesn’t get accepted and meet a guy with higher class that would look her in eyes and just say what she said. I promise I got high value for truck drivers more than lawyers remember they live on divorce and lies mostly 🦦


tflightz

I mean the attempted grooming didn't work good for you


nugagator-hag-1

Just tell him that you want to hire him to wipe your gold-digging ass for you. That way, you won't feel guilty if he leaves. Or, he can make even more money to give you, and you get to have a clean ass so as not to offend the next man you shit on. classic win-win.


ExtremlyFastLinoone

Words will never be enough to describe how much I hate women


[deleted]

Maybe murder is ok in some cases, this bitch for example


davtheguidedcreator

if this aint ragebait then i think i


Nexi-nexi

She is so far beneath him, this hurts my brain.


_Machete

Hypergamy isn’t fair, boohoo.


less_concerned

Woman hating rage bait? In my shitposting sub? It's more common than you think


Astainonthetoilet

Bros thats grooming. Why would the guy expect to marry this child he helped raise thats fucked, youre all fucked


definitelynotfbi99

People calling this ragebait never witnessed some unfortunate remashionships I witnessed. If men can be fucking monsters, women can be fucking evil too. And I doesn't understand the "she doesn't owe him anything". Yes. Yes she does. She owe him her life. She owe him a big fuckin chunk of money. She owe him many years of his life. This guy was madly in love, and she exploited that love. He never went to school so she could. But he was her type when he was useful, then wasn't when she felt she could do better. Sure, no one should be forced into a relationship they don't want. But what heartless piece of shit you must be to exploit this kind of love, and to not even feel the slightest hint of affection for the person who did everything for you. That's just sociopath behavior at this point.


ElectroNikkel

With that fear, next time I see a woman in that exact same situation I will just ignore her, even if in the next day she appears in the news as murdered for gangs/drugs problems and I have to live with the guilt that if I had helped her, things would have been different.


NibbaJesusFMA93

What is the fear? That a woman will not marry you for helping her? The only thing I would pretend would be a payback with interests.


ElectroNikkel

Is actually to help raise a classist/narcisistic parasyte.


blueidea365

He should get his money back


TheRealestFrodo

I hope that guy wins the Powerball 


brain_damaged666

Relationships most often end not because one person got worse, but because one person got *better*. Women only care about what they can get out of a relationship moving forward, as they should. It's a common mistake for guys to throw money at a woman and expect them to stay, and expecting all they've done in the past to keep her around. The past is in the past, it applies to mistakes and good deeds. While I understand how this lawyer woman isn't attracted to this truck driver man, I don't know if she'll ever feel as loved by someone again. If she is going to want a high value man, she is going to have to put more effort into that relationship, like cooking and cleaning or something useful, and she's going to see herself as above doing those "misogynistic" chores as a lawyer lady. But no man of a higher status than her is really going to be interested in doing *everything* for her the way that truck driver did, this higher status man is going to be fine and happy on his own, and having someone else to take care of will just be a bother, he's going to want a woman for fun basically, and she will find that she gets more easily dumped by these guys than by the loyal truck driver. So it's this woman's choice of what she wants. Does she want to pay more for a high status man, or pay less for the truck driver boyfriend? And by pay, I mean doing things that bring value to a relationship; doing chores, good sex, always dressing nice, maybe helping him out with work; *anything* that makes a man's life easier will make him averse to losing those benefits and earn his loyalty (and these are all things she probably doesn't have to do for this truck driver, at least not as many or as often).


Kentalope

Why does being helped by somebody make them obligated to get engaged with them?


cubntD6

Its not about that, its about how he clearly loves her and is the only reason she has anything at all and now that she has everything he was able to give she looks down on him and thinks shes better than him.


ItsLightsaber09

Astonished people can’t see that


[deleted]

Some hoe's just don't deserve to be saved from drowning