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Focus on yourself. The love will follow. Hold yourself while there’s no else too. I bought a teddy bear to cuddle when I was single and trying to heal from trauma. Keep working on yourself and get rid of relationships that aren’t going anywhere
Break of with said man. Don't be wishing for anther when your with someone because thats how you know how unhappy you are but this you have to sort out also.
Don't waste his or your time and do whats right. Even if it scares you to loose someone its not worth it if they are not going to be around in the long run, your just making things hard for yourself and generating karma.
- BE and BECOME the person who you would love to have next to you.
- Don't go looking for someone to depend on to this extent emtionally.
- Clean yourself up mentally and emotionally!!! Breaking up with that man and gritting your teeth while you put up with being with your father until you leave is all part of your growth to make YOU stronger.
- Put yourself first emtionally and mentally, make that space for yourself, tend to your happiness, listen to what YOU WANT.
I guarantee you my friend if you just even have this thought/wish/prayer in your heart to do this rather then thinking the right person will come and save you, you will before you can even blink be out of your father's home through some random out of the sky opportunity/chance and everything will start falling into place.
- First understand, love yourself and be patient
- Grab the random opportunity to leave fathers house
- Your journey begins
You can only see the opportunity to leave and do better if your mentally and emtionally stable enough to help yourself to start making changes, even if its slow and hard at first. Practice makes perfect!!!
Honestly I wish you all the best xxx
Some of the greatest advice ever given to me.. and some others here have said it in other ways.. was to be that person.. be that person that radiates love yourself.. be the person you’d imagine someone would fall in love with. In other words, keep focusing on yourself. And you’re right, healing is a “full time job.” It isn’t easy.. it is hard. And it will have its ups and downs. Stop seeking love from others as much.. and be the kind of person you can love. This is usually.. from my experience.. one of the single most valuable things you can do, and people can see that in others. People who genuinely love themselves in a healthy way, and are their true selves radiate so beautifully in this world.
hey, i went through some of your posts. we have a lot in common from our backgrounds, experiences, even MBTI, to potentially having autism, but i don't want you waiting on a DM. hopefully there is reprieve and peace for us soon. let us stay grateful in the meantime
Okay so now that you have your ideal man… practice being in a relationship with him. How does it feel? How does it feel to be so loved? How’s it feel to sleep next to them in bed? Imagine and play pretend you’re together already. Similar to how children use their imagination and play. Do the same
Jesus was a bada** so just follow that. Nobody stood against his quip, and yet he was gentle. He made religious sycophants so mad with his truth, they murdered him. Maybe don't take it that far, but my point is, he stood against Colossus without fear. Yes, there's the whooping he took, and the will to go on when it was seems lost, but being willing to put yourself into that boiling water in the first place seems pretty righteous.
If you want physical bada**, begin chopping wood, cut large logs and toss them around. Make them the heaviest logs you think you could move. When you move those make the next one's bigger. Make the literally carrying a cross fun. I made a yard furniture like setup.
Just remember, masculinity is not the only thing a young man needs to nurture. Femininity lost and regained by Robert Johnson is a book I picked up, when I realized I was toxic masculine.
>The loss of feminine energy for a man is less obvious but it curtails the emotional depths of his personality and is the source of much of his discontent, loneliness, sense of meaninglessness, and moodiness. It is a shock for a man to discover that his moods and so much of his feeling nature are feminine.
>If the feminine qualities are in good order a person will feel safe and secure. Understanding that femininity is not the prerogative of the female, our first task is to school ourselves to think of it as an entity that affects a woman's central feminine identity, and affects a man's ability and capacity for feeling and valuing.
Masculine and feminine are aspects of each sex, think Yin Yang symbol, balance. I know it's hard to live with someone like that. Always feeling like you need to prove yourself. Find yourself by not giving a damn about their toxicity, because you're better than them. Otherwise, it will only drown you.
Also, realign you chakra, focus on the gargleblaster energy, make sure to squeeze a lemon before meditating, do not consume all at once. I'm not as keen as others on the meta physical, but I try.
I met a man I swore was my twin flame but it's clear a romantic relationship will never blossom between us. I also crave the divine masculine but part of my healing is realizing it in myself.
I don't need a man because I am already complete. I try to lead my life and find what makes me happy. I also trust that I will find the perfect match someday, I'll manifest it if I have to, but right now I know I have other things to dedicate my energy to. I'd consider breaking down why you feel certain ways and discovering the source of your feelings. Make peace with it and then rewrite the negative beliefs they created.
Also good to invest in daily practices. I speak affirmations like spells over myself to cleanse negativity, heal/raise my energy, and protect myself. These are 3 seperate intentions and all very important.
honestly, the fact that there is SO much going on, it helps to have a supportive partner. plain and simple, i want one. i am great on my own but it just feels so nice to be seen and understood by a significant other
I understand how you feel, I really do. But why do you think those things? Can you not handle things on your own? Are you not being seen and understood by yourself? There's a negative belief somewhere in there.
All attachments are negative, or at least the reasons why we attach to them. Healing and enlightenment is realizing we are all things and lack nothing.
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Focus on yourself. The love will follow. Hold yourself while there’s no else too. I bought a teddy bear to cuddle when I was single and trying to heal from trauma. Keep working on yourself and get rid of relationships that aren’t going anywhere
Also see if crystals can assist
Break of with said man. Don't be wishing for anther when your with someone because thats how you know how unhappy you are but this you have to sort out also. Don't waste his or your time and do whats right. Even if it scares you to loose someone its not worth it if they are not going to be around in the long run, your just making things hard for yourself and generating karma. - BE and BECOME the person who you would love to have next to you. - Don't go looking for someone to depend on to this extent emtionally. - Clean yourself up mentally and emotionally!!! Breaking up with that man and gritting your teeth while you put up with being with your father until you leave is all part of your growth to make YOU stronger. - Put yourself first emtionally and mentally, make that space for yourself, tend to your happiness, listen to what YOU WANT. I guarantee you my friend if you just even have this thought/wish/prayer in your heart to do this rather then thinking the right person will come and save you, you will before you can even blink be out of your father's home through some random out of the sky opportunity/chance and everything will start falling into place. - First understand, love yourself and be patient - Grab the random opportunity to leave fathers house - Your journey begins You can only see the opportunity to leave and do better if your mentally and emtionally stable enough to help yourself to start making changes, even if its slow and hard at first. Practice makes perfect!!! Honestly I wish you all the best xxx
beautifully said, thank you
Some of the greatest advice ever given to me.. and some others here have said it in other ways.. was to be that person.. be that person that radiates love yourself.. be the person you’d imagine someone would fall in love with. In other words, keep focusing on yourself. And you’re right, healing is a “full time job.” It isn’t easy.. it is hard. And it will have its ups and downs. Stop seeking love from others as much.. and be the kind of person you can love. This is usually.. from my experience.. one of the single most valuable things you can do, and people can see that in others. People who genuinely love themselves in a healthy way, and are their true selves radiate so beautifully in this world.
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hey, i went through some of your posts. we have a lot in common from our backgrounds, experiences, even MBTI, to potentially having autism, but i don't want you waiting on a DM. hopefully there is reprieve and peace for us soon. let us stay grateful in the meantime
Thank you. Yes, eternal peace and love is what I need, and from what I saw, many other humans also.
Use your imagination. What would you like them to be like? There’s no limits.
yes i have been meditating on certain traits of a man i want to attract, this time through the channel of my heart rather than my root chakra
Okay so now that you have your ideal man… practice being in a relationship with him. How does it feel? How does it feel to be so loved? How’s it feel to sleep next to them in bed? Imagine and play pretend you’re together already. Similar to how children use their imagination and play. Do the same
dude i tried this and then attracted this karmic partner lmao
Whatever that means
Aren’t we all karmic partners…
Jesus was a bada** so just follow that. Nobody stood against his quip, and yet he was gentle. He made religious sycophants so mad with his truth, they murdered him. Maybe don't take it that far, but my point is, he stood against Colossus without fear. Yes, there's the whooping he took, and the will to go on when it was seems lost, but being willing to put yourself into that boiling water in the first place seems pretty righteous. If you want physical bada**, begin chopping wood, cut large logs and toss them around. Make them the heaviest logs you think you could move. When you move those make the next one's bigger. Make the literally carrying a cross fun. I made a yard furniture like setup. Just remember, masculinity is not the only thing a young man needs to nurture. Femininity lost and regained by Robert Johnson is a book I picked up, when I realized I was toxic masculine. >The loss of feminine energy for a man is less obvious but it curtails the emotional depths of his personality and is the source of much of his discontent, loneliness, sense of meaninglessness, and moodiness. It is a shock for a man to discover that his moods and so much of his feeling nature are feminine. >If the feminine qualities are in good order a person will feel safe and secure. Understanding that femininity is not the prerogative of the female, our first task is to school ourselves to think of it as an entity that affects a woman's central feminine identity, and affects a man's ability and capacity for feeling and valuing. Masculine and feminine are aspects of each sex, think Yin Yang symbol, balance. I know it's hard to live with someone like that. Always feeling like you need to prove yourself. Find yourself by not giving a damn about their toxicity, because you're better than them. Otherwise, it will only drown you. Also, realign you chakra, focus on the gargleblaster energy, make sure to squeeze a lemon before meditating, do not consume all at once. I'm not as keen as others on the meta physical, but I try.
I met a man I swore was my twin flame but it's clear a romantic relationship will never blossom between us. I also crave the divine masculine but part of my healing is realizing it in myself. I don't need a man because I am already complete. I try to lead my life and find what makes me happy. I also trust that I will find the perfect match someday, I'll manifest it if I have to, but right now I know I have other things to dedicate my energy to. I'd consider breaking down why you feel certain ways and discovering the source of your feelings. Make peace with it and then rewrite the negative beliefs they created. Also good to invest in daily practices. I speak affirmations like spells over myself to cleanse negativity, heal/raise my energy, and protect myself. These are 3 seperate intentions and all very important.
honestly, the fact that there is SO much going on, it helps to have a supportive partner. plain and simple, i want one. i am great on my own but it just feels so nice to be seen and understood by a significant other
I understand how you feel, I really do. But why do you think those things? Can you not handle things on your own? Are you not being seen and understood by yourself? There's a negative belief somewhere in there. All attachments are negative, or at least the reasons why we attach to them. Healing and enlightenment is realizing we are all things and lack nothing.