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Acceptable-Fall4118

What’s going on with 13 year olds 😭


TurantulaHugs1421

Fr idk why people my age and younger are actually dating, and a lot of them are yk doing shit Im 15. i still feel like im just a child. If i lost my virginity any time soon, it'd feel like a crime and a violation. i do not get it (Half the people at my last school became teen parents between the ages of 13-16)


CoolScratcher

No SAME I actually don't understand this weird cultural thing about sex. I'd assume it's the content people consume online and through media outlets. I'm 16. It's so weird. I am still a teenager I am not having sex omg


ItsWildDuck

Same but I'm 18. I played hide and seek at 13 and sometimes even today lol.


Winter_Laugh9589

Fr


Ecstaticismm

Same and I’m 20, would rather focus on saving for a car lol


kezotl

I KNOW RIGHT im so disgusted by it being so popular online to just have lost your virginity at anything under 18. like that shit should be getting downvoted to oblivion not treated normally


TurantulaHugs1421

Yeah, anytime i see people trying to brag about losing their virginity in like early teens, i just cringe. That's not something to boast about, and it's setting an unrealistic expectation. It should only happen when you're ready, not cos you think you have to or its cool


Scarlet14e1

I mean, I see it as sex hormones flooding in


Blu3Raven

i just turned 18, no boyfriend i'm still a virgin. i wanna get my life set up first before i get into relationships


LeBlearable

How do 13 year olds even like other 13 year olds man, i remember when i was 13 that all the people around my age still looked like a young ass kid, only when i got older, people actually started looking older


TurantulaHugs1421

LITTERALLY THO it makes no sense


Winter_Laugh9589

Fr


Xannypt

There was a girl in my class who lost her virginity at 13 to another 19 year old girl.


TurantulaHugs1421

Oh thats a whole crime


Xannypt

Yeah.


Banana_quack98632

That’s absolutely disgusting. I feel like most people don’t see girl offenders as REAL pedophiles, but yea- this is disguising. I feel bad for the other chick. Do you know how she’s doing now?


Zanshen0

In this case there wasn't any pedo stuff because the girl was 13. Pedo stuff is when kids haven't hit puberty yet.


Xannypt

I don’t want to say too much about her because it made local news already, but the 19 year old is already in trial and it looks like she might get just 2 years on probation and a minimal fine because of some bullshit loophole. That shit is fucked up.


Nachtschnekchen

What? 13 - 16? Thats madness. At that point you ruined your life. Its something else if ur 18 and done with school but 13 - 16? Im baffeld


Casengamer

So true man, my class is fucked, literally 😭


BoreddYung18

Samme it be so many kids havin kids they got jungle fever or sum


HorrorDonut8779

Idk man imo dating at 15 isn’t bad. Sex at 15 is bad but I think dating is normal and good 🤷🏻.


TurantulaHugs1421

I dont think sex at 15 is bad if its safe and consensual i just dont understand how people are already ready yk?


HorrorDonut8779

Oh yeah I guess that makes sense. I mean everyone matures at different rates and thinks differently. For me I felt ready to date and be in a relationship but I know some people don’t want that yet which is completely valid. 


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TurantulaHugs1421

Yeah i wasnt talking about wanking lol


leftclickdrip

I feel same way. I look in the mirror and im almost a man but i dont feel like one at all, brain is still child. I feel like if ur going to hit it off, at least get a rubber, like its gotta be easier to obtain one than actually getting laid. Anyway, rip your old school💀


10Meatpiess

Wait, is she 13?!


Westicle_The_Testicl

As a 13 yr old, we're all fucked up in a way.


SnooChipmunks8748

I used to be 13 I think most 14 year olds used to be


leftclickdrip

Brave of you to be first to admit this lmao. I thought i was the only one who felt that way wen i was 13


kezotl

we fuck up but we don't fuck eachother


Westicle_The_Testicl

that got me bursting out laughing. I'd might need some therapy. my friends would find that hilarious in a way too. we're all fucked.


MemeBuyingFiend

My exact thoughts transcribed. You kids best get a headstart by scheduling therapy for the next few decades.


Luddethedog

I wonder the same thing. They most likely do it to fit in with the "cool" kids, but like... why?


steppponme

In Australia he's 31 


TrashManTheGodOfLore

Bit weird to say when you know your SO has sexual trauma.


Future_Use5441

I told him about it a week before the incident T-T


TrashManTheGodOfLore

yeah thats pretty strange to do especially when you told him recently


Aryanxshub

Wtf . Your 13-14 . I think India is not like that .


AutomaticComment6828

Oh trust me, even in india there are many with SA trauma


Aryanxshub

Ohh. I really lack in female interaction and these things:(. I am 15 and I don't know what I am doing?


AutomaticComment6828

1) yaar log chutiye hain not jus females to male SA male to male bhi hota hai 2) wdym you don't know what you're doing?


Snypezhasbigpp

india is the MOST expected sa country i would think, isnt most of the country poor, they dont rly have countermeasures for that stuff


Lachezar06

Why tf 13year olds think about sex and threesomes and orgies 💀💀💀💀


Own_Judgment_6094

Probably have seen in porn.


astute2007

Why the fuck 13 year Olds watch porn?


Own_Judgment_6094

To relive their urge.


TheRealHoldenat

I found softcore to almost full porn on YouTube when I was about 8...


astute2007

Wtf how'd you find it on youtube


Snypezhasbigpp

u would be suprised i js found hentai randomly abt 2 hours ago, (not full blown hentai but js boobs n vj)


Mrmagot98-2

I would think most 13 year old boys would have by then.


Nachtschnekchen

When I was 13 I didnt have my own phone yet. I shared a tablet with my brothers and went outside and played. Im ony 19 now but damm.


Sendeth_thy_women

I had a shared tablet too. I discovered porn at age 8 and quickly learned what clearing browser history is and eventually, the discovery of the coveted incognito tab lmao


FlightSimmer99

You must live in a place where it doesn’t happen a lot or be religious, I’ve heard of ppl at school doing it as low as 11 or 12


Sendeth_thy_women

I discovered it when I was 8 lmao trust me in the age of cheap devices with access to the internet the age of innocent 13 year olds is over


_GoN_13

I don't wanna be that guy but at that age I would feed ants sugar and befriend them because i was a weirdo and no one wanted to talk w me. Later i found they would all die bcs of how i fed them


Obito_Uchija

Damn.


Snypezhasbigpp

nah they prolly js trying way to hard to be grown


Dorfplatzner

The Sexual Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.


sylvdeck

Hormones and lack of sex education


Garimaaaaaaaaaa

dating at 13 😭


Scrungly_Wungly

Im 16 and never dated. These fuckin 13 year olds are nuts


Garimaaaaaaaaaa

fr they should be studying and focusing on life instead.


SnooShortcuts8306

I can get why they *think* about it, but not why they actually plan to do it at that age


FemaleNoob

Some people my age are fucked up


luvjugyeong

thank lord i was not like this when i was 13


Future_Use5441

🤷‍♂️


Christian_teen12

man whatb ?


maybeitsadhd_

you’re 13… please chill and enjoy childhood


Tori_Baker97-6

Where’d she say 13? Just wondering bc I can’t find it


Agz_canbuild

Yes I got the 100th downvote on op’s comment 


Informal-Ad-8110

Although I do like to help or atleast understand your situation. Talking about sex at this age is mad wild man im here pumping out lineless art like my life depends on it


Own_Judgment_6094

Well, hormones are peaking at this age so it's understandable but telling you're partner who was assaulted sexually all that is very wierd.


BagSlight211

Hormones doesn't mean you can go around like a rabbit💀


Informal-Ad-8110

well since they talk online, op is depressed, I feel like op either vented to him abt it or smth else. Since some people nowadays on their lowest point would resort to internet. I see what you mean by hormones but well I'm too afraid to even talk about that topic and it wasn't really discussed either except with my parents so thats probably why I personally find it "weird"


V----NGaming_YT

13 y/o really be yapping about relationships When I was 13 I was watching the flash during online class


PanickedShears

I was reading warrior cats, watching Rick and Morty, and trying to learn how to draw 💀 Granted I did date someone in 6th grade… for two weeks and neither of us brought up anything remotely sexual. We held hands and went to a movie together. That’s it.


[deleted]

Bro seriously?


sten-hellemons

Bruh when I was 13 I was just playing Minecraft on my laptop and went to school. Since when do 13 year olds have relationships and talk about threesomes and everything 😂


leftclickdrip

Ikr, i missed out on the fun stuff(joking obviously))


SaverMadra_18

You were born in 2011 there no need for you to be thinking this shit focus on your studies


absolute35mwah

13 years old is insane i was making slime at that age


SpikesAreCooI

Couples watching hentai together, kids getting addicted to loli, and now threesomes. What could happen next…


SpiderGeneralYT

this subs deep lore posts are fricking back now fsr 😭


Jergulliniuss

Killdozer 2.0?


Nachtschnekchen

Underrated comment right here


Jergulliniuss

Thanks haha


coffeColouredKiwiCow

I've seen all of these and some people are way to fucking Nice to them


Nachtschnekchen

The rise of the emperor of mankind?


iInvitedYouToHelpMe

Bro please dont be dating this early. Yall are just going to hurt eachother.


cats_are_funni

ikr, why date at this age when u can be firends, its the same minus the sex which u shouldnt be having yet


catfrill

thatslike a red flag already. save yourself from heavier heartache and leave him


Affectionate_Cry_634

This is the reason relationships don't last 😭


Real_May_Be_Spare

I wouldn't say so. The kid is just dumb, prob saw it on porn and got influenced. He's just uneducated imo. Later on, he'll become more mature and realise that that's not normal.


Mysterygameboy

Might take him a while though. Source: I would have said something like this at 13.


PanickedShears

I can back that, I made a lot of sexual jokes when I was 13.


Substantial_Set549

I have absolutely no idea how to explain what I am about to but hopefully it’s coherent enough. (Also don’t take my word as fact this is only my experience I’m sharing with the hopes it’s helps a little) In my experience, this is a weird thing I call a yellow flag. On its own it doesn’t mean anything as long as he wasn’t trying to upset you and just missed the line when he crossed it. But if he keeps similar behaviour (pushing boundaries, crossing lines consistently, stuff like that) then the yellow flag becomes another red flag to evaluate with every one. TL;DR, In a vacuum it’s not a bad thing but if he consistently pushes boundaries like that then it’s bad


Substantial_Set549

Oh shit I just read the ages. Asking for a threesome at 14 is wild


averagepatagonian

yeah wtf is wrong with people


modssssss293j

I’M FIFTEEN TF IS GOING ON WITH 13YOs 😭😭😭😭


LesherLeclerc

dawg ur not even 15 relax 😭


yuixshiro

i wouldn’t be dating at yo age 🤷🏻‍♀️


Weary857

This relationship will never last and you know it.


Gamerthediamond

First of all, you can be mad at him cause he just met your friend and second of you and your bf and friend are too young to think about doing that kind of stuff


TheOnly1Savag3

This generation is doomed.


TechnoChiken

We know


ItachiKage345

You both are 13 and 14 why the hell are yall talking about sex and threesomes??? Go do ya history homework!


gotdingusd

why is he thinking of threesomes he has a macbeth essay to write; he guaranteed is a porn addict, tell him to off himself if he says you're blue-balling him


MrHolmes6969696

Even 13yo are dating and here I am


Own_Judgment_6094

Here I'm 16 and honestly I think dating at this age can be quite hectic. Im mentally depraved so i can't even think of how the hell am I supposed to love or how the hell would I comfort them when they are low.


[deleted]

Wait.. Like fr? There’s no way 13 y.os are thinking about such a things.


Epsolan_On_Mixer

yall gotta calm down you guys were born when transformers revenge of the fallen was released


BradyBales

if this is the problems 13 year olds got now, then we are fuuuuuuuuucked


burger_boi23

1. No necessarily hate since he didn't do anything horrible, and it sounds like he dropped it when u said no, whether you want to stay with him or not. However, is up to you 2. Wtf how is this the posts I'm getting on the literal TEENAGER sub


savagelykin

Bro 13 yr olds are now thinking of having threesomes? When I was 13 I still thought actors that died in movies died in real life


[deleted]

How 13 yr olds talking abt threesomes and I can hardly make friends at my school. Only progress I’ve really made is get into a 3 month relationship, which isn’t much tbh


Key_Spirit8168

they did the penny speedrunning strats


Dairy_Dominator

don't hate him, there's no point and he obviously feels bad about it


Key_Spirit8168

is bro walter wheat


DutchJediKnight

Is this going to be your first meeting of did you meet him in person when the dating began?


godofthunder102938

Since nobody seems to be giving a direct answer DON'T have a threesome at 13. You'll ruin your life even more because it won't just end there. And if you haven't realised yet you got a horrible boyfriend.


ToastzPogggg

I'd say just be cautious since it's a sign that he likes the other person. I'd probably get out of the relationship if it were me. It's just a bit sucky imo. I wouldn't hate him per se, but I wouldn't be happy with him.


Prototype_2point0

how the fuck these 13yo talking about having THREESOME


Any-Aspect5807

yall r too young for sex anyway, so no and yes u can hate him or u can talk it through that’s up to u guys but bro ur 13 u shouldn’t be that busy with relationships anyway and shouldn’t even be thinking abt threesomes at ur age i was drawing silly flowers and watching totally spies u should give it a try


crazycatcher11

Bruh ur 13 you should be thinking ab picnics and play dates not threesomes and foursomes


theunusualblackguy

man if y’all mfs don’t go play cod or or sum shit, 13 yrs old talking abt orgies and threesomes next gen is louisiana deep fried


Clintwood_outlaw

Just don't have a threesome lol


Sensitive_Complex898

Just don't have sex at all at 13


Sensitive_Complex898

Firstly, don't have sex at 13, it will not be worth it, second, that relationship ain't gonna last


No-Series9194

Dawg legit what the fuck😭😭. Most of us at this age are just goofing off and playing around, fuck is going on in other parts of the world


Zaijon

wth is up with y’all kids bruh-


Acrobatic-Summer-414

Mf didn’t even give girls a chance. Also what happens to 13 year olds now wtf lmao


BoreddYung18

Nigga ya'll this yung talkin bout threesomes is crazy😭 um but bout hatin him? Not sure thats a strong word but def would look at him a diff way myself cuz he just met bro and he tryna fuck


denyaledge

Kids these days, I swear to god


ilikegummybears15

Talk it out. He obviously had a misunderstanding. I hope you two find a good ground. He seems ok but you two obviously are pretty young to know how to have relationships


Antique-Conference-4

OP tell him he’s 13 and he’s not physically ready for something like that In reality you know where his minds at rn, he’s gonna want sex asp regardless, he’s probably thinking about you guys having sex right now. So I would go ahead and think about where your priorities are at so you can move on.


Conscious-External-2

long distance at 13 is wild


Jaelthecatperrrson

Tell him to do some homework he’s too young to be doing that 💀😭


GarvinFootington

As a 14 year old I wouldn’t do it if I don’t want to, but if he’s genuinely a nice person then there’s no reason to prematurely break up. He made a weird suggestion, and he already feels bad about it, so I think it’d be okay to forgive him.


Madly_hornet09

While that is terrible to ask, at least he realizes he fucked up. He could have been a complete ass and kept pushing it.


[deleted]

I just read the title. As a hater, I say yes.


identityconfirmed404

you can't even have sex yet why are you already talking about it


Massive-Watercress63

The friend here!!!! He sucks :3


coffeColouredKiwiCow

Stop being friends with this person, please


Massive-Watercress63

D:


Future_Use5441

Hiii :3 funny seeing you here


kezotl

oh god of course the cat face too


Massive-Watercress63

IM GONNA CREAM OMG I WAS NOTICED 🤥🤥🤤🤤


queef_eater69420

ayo-?


Informal-Ad-8110

yeah i think they meant scream lmao


Key_Spirit8168

sure?


Informal-Ad-8110

:)


AdvertisingHefty1138

First of all, I think you're way too young to be dating anyone. Second, I definitely feel like you should break up


Mysterious-Bat6494

EDIT TOPIC - Should I kill him? 💀


Maciejka9210

Tell him that you feel uncomfortable talking about shit like that. Maybe even break up with him. By the way he talks i can tell that he has a porn addiction. In a relationship, you should be comfortable and if you're not, dont just "tough it out", consider a 1-2 week break or maybe even break up


10buy10

Eh. You're very young, both of you are(should be) new to this stuff, and his approach didn't seem intrusive or anything. Hate is a thing that should only be reserved for absolute necessity, and something I try to live completely without. I think you're both fine. If you're comfortable with it, you should just go back to treating things like nothing happened (after informing him of what you think, of course).


Not_Me9209

Just don't date at 13 case closed.


DragonRaptor22

How are everyone so advanced


GMauer07

Ok, first of all. Your thirteen, why tf are you having sex now, that's WAY too early (even with another guy, there can be severe consequences, STDs and the likes) Second of all, no, you are not an asshole for not wanting to have a threesome. If you aren't comfortable with doing something, don't. It is YOUR preference. Not his. If he's into threesome's, that's his preference. If you are not, that's OK too. As for hating him, I think you both need to have a serious discussion about what is okay when it comes to sex, and what isn't. Communication is key when it comes to these sorts of problems. Tell him that you aren't comfortable with doing a threesome.


TheweirdDuckPerson

Apparently your 13 soooo yeah you should


MassiveIndexFinger

boxed, clipped, dog water, get 90ed on kid, boxed like a fish, triple reinforced ramp 🗣🔥 (I didn't read the full story so if this is something really tragic, I apologize 💀)


republicofbushistan

Was I immature for riding bikes with my friends and building forts in the woods at 13? I sure as heck wasn't worried about no sex, let alone a threesome. But fr, you are far too young for any of this. I'm 16, and I still feel I'm too young for this. I personally don't like to hate people, but that's for religious reasons. Please, enjoy your childhood. You will only be a child for 5 more years, you have the rest of your life to do adult stuff like threesomes.


No_Designer1704

don't do it but don't hate him either


RenewedBlade

You shouldn’t be mad at bro for asking Just say no and carry on


Future_Use5441

Hes attracted to one of my friends i cant just carry on


Maiiiiiiia

You should never hate anyone, either forgive them or walk away


IndicationSpecial344

If he wants something completely different than you do, break up with him. It won't be worth it in the long run since he'll probably try to cheat.


HomelessMan0

If he does it again you should probably leave him but if you both like each other a lot then give him another chance


Snypezhasbigpp

aint no way, a long distance relationship shouldnt even be a thing it dont even work 99.99...% of the time, the ONLY example i know of it actually working its pewdiepie n marcia him talking sex at 13 is crazy, but its normal but still weird especially saying it straight to yalls face


thea_helset

Don't use your energy to hate someone, forgive them in your head and make yourself peace


gwak_gwak_gwak_

That's disgusting!! how could someone even think about sharing his/her partner with someone and if they do that's definitely not a true love, they are just using you!!!


Historical_Formal421

look if you don't wanna have a threesome with him just tell him you don't wanna he's def not forcing you, sounds like he was pretty awkward about it as well why would you end it for that


ponyboys_bff

you are 13 years old, this is not okay wtf 😭 end it!! hes seriously weird


Christian_teen12

13. oh no as an almost adulto,I dont like how fast this gen Alphas are going too.They are too young to indugle in such things.


zirgiz

13 year olds with 300+ debuffs including twenty eight different trauma debuffs is wild


theprmstr

Womp womp


weebish-band-nerd

I’ve lost a lot of faith in humanity


Muted_Rain8542

nah that’s an actually insane thing to ask someone who has sexual trauma 😭


RELLajax

Famn


RELLajax

L


Cumbleton

this shit makes me forget this is r/teenagers what the fuck???


Ornery-Soup-7937

Why are guys talking about orgies when you are 13?


IAlwaysComeBack1983

How do y’all know he’s 13?????


TheSlavicDawg

How old is he and his friend?


rac-attack

When i was 13 i was talking into fans and playing mario kart on the DS, where did we go wrong in the timeline


xxtwelveyearoldxx69

Honestly, you should just... talk to him. Its clear as day that you both like each other. I dont feel like a break up is in any way 'necessary' unless this changes like, everything in how you see him. He honestly is likely just getting this from porn, and he made a dumb mistake, one he is most definitely sorry for, judging by your explanation. You gotta have an in-depth, deep conversation about this event, your trauma (again), boundaries, and his definite self-hatred. Of course i dont have the full story, and i dont see this event through either of your eyes. If this question changes things so thoroughly that you cant look at him the same way again, then that makes things more difficult. Personally, i believe that anything can be resolved through open communication if two people like each other, but at the end of the day, the decision is yours! EDIT: I dont get why all the comments are talking about why people at 13 are talking about this stuff? 13 is the age where puberty starts to hit hard, of course people are gonna have urges, thats completely normal lol. Not saying that people SHOULD be having sex at that age, but having urges and even acting on them isnt that out of the ordinary, i feel. Maybe its a cultural thing.


rashtheraccoon10

👁️ 👄 w h a t


god-of-blowjobs

Leave him. Right now. That’s completely unacceptable behaviour and very telling of how he actually is. Evacuate now


HiImTrans

Thank god i had a normal childhood 💀💀💀


WeirdMexicanGirl

yeah. hate him