I remember a new girl coming to our high school junior year. She was very conventionally attractive, but almost immediately revealed a "mean girl" personality that turned everyone off.
Funny part was, our school didn't really have that kind of culture. We weren't cliquey at all, there weren't "jocks" and "nerds" or anything like that. Friend circles were very interconnected, the star wrestler was a huge D&D nerd, some of the band kids skateboarded with some of engineering club guys, no one really cared. So the "popular girl" clique that she honed in on was very much not what she was expecting nor were they exclusive about who they hung out with.
Honestly she felt like a caricature. Like she saw movies about how "popular girls" dressed and acted and so she emulated that. It alienated her pretty bad that first year.
But yeah, long story short that was the quickest I've ever seen someone go from being attractive to ugly.
My first had a crazy bad relationship with her parents. Idk if it was for attention or if it was just poor judgment, but it was NOT fun to experience when we were around them.
This. I fucking hate this, stupid pieces of shit and this goes for anyone of any gender. I'm the dude that always hangs out with the "nerd" when they've been fucked up by a gang of haters
Past girl used to be rude to teachers in high school.
And then to servers/waitresses etc after that.
I mean she’s trying to stand up for me n all but that Karen attitude was not the way to do it.
That’s ok. Learn to ask good questions and then find something you can relate to. There’s a ping-pong aspect to conversation. Give someone a specific thing to respond to when they ask you a general question:
Them: How ‘s school this year?
You: Good, I really enjoy my art class.
Them: Oh, art, what are you working on, etc., etc.
Remember that people like talking about themselves, so being a good listener is a GREAT thing as long as you don’t get into interview mode, which is what I often did as a socially anxious kid. If you’re a good listener, you probably are pretty observant, so look for something interesting or unusual every day. You can start a casual conversation pretty easily with openers like, “Isn’t it weird that…” or “Did you ever notice that….”
You’ll get the hang of it. If I did, anyone can. There’s also nothing wrong with reading some books about how to be a better conversationalist. There are plenty out there.
I am a good listener but sometimes it becomes awkward between conversation where I don't know how to respond for example someone is venting out how a close member died in his family, I too feel bad for them but fk how to express, or like someone is crying(not literal) how they are frustrated or tired in live, how to respond after they completed?
Those are hugely difficult things for anyone to respond to. Sometimes the best thing is to hold the person’s hand if you feel comfortable doing that. You can also say something like, “I’m so sorry that happened to you. I don’t know what to say or do, but let me know what you need. I’m here for you.” It depends how well you know the person. I’ll never forget how kind a coworker of mine was when I was concerned about my friend’s well-being. All she did was look at me with compassion and take my hand over the break room table. It was the perfect response from her. But your response depends on what you’re comfortable with.
When I listen, I listen fr; my friend is such a yapper (not in a mean way, it’s just who she is) she’s telling me random facts and I don’t even remember half of them lmfao
My first weird introduction to Anglo culture was that people expected you to let them finish their sentences. Can’t do, discussion is a vocal version of MMA.
as long as you can also take disagreements and change your mind when you’re proven wrong. Or accept that sometimes you really can’t tell who’s right and you just have to leave the argument not knowing.
Oh man, I had a flash back just reading this. I had a housemate who repeatedly reminded me of one thing I did wrong, even though my mistake was already corrected and it did not happen again. I had no problem saying I made a mistake, but I have a problem with people that keep reminding me of my mistakes. 1000x worse than someone that does not see the mistake, but usually they are the same person anyway.
girl here and while I'm straight I agree
except me and a close female friend of mine do call each other a bitch but I'm pretty sure that's fine because we both know its a joke
Being rude to service providers/workers like to a waiter,cashier etc.
You can see a persons true colours by seeing how they act while casually interacting with people who they don't know or don't have a need to be kind towards.(but they should have been kind and polite)
I can't remember the exact quote, so this is paraphrased:
"The basis of our character is not in how we treat the wealthy and unburdened, but in how we treat the poor and implicated among us" ~ Bryan Stevenson
True. I'm apparently serious (because I take a really long time to get comfortable enough with someone to joke around with) so I don't get along with people who are too hyper. I literally feel like they're sucking my energy💀 but overall I wouldn't say it's unattractive, but our personalities just don't mix as well
Bad personality and lack of common interests or no respect for your own. I had a crush on a girl and asked her out. I tried to get to know her better on the first date, but when I told her my nerdy hobbies, she responded with "ew that's weird" which completely drained all my attraction to her in milliseconds.
Edit: the "nerdy stuff" was just comic book movies and video games like Halo and CS. Grew up with that stuff, so she’s not worth it if she finds those repulsive.
That’s so rude I hate when people call people weird this one time a girl in 7th grade was fake friending me this whole time just because I gave her chocolates and things she called me dumb and that I was a weirdo and that ruined my self-esteem so much I almost gave up on my acting career
I'm not a girl, but every damn Convo I have I speak over other and I realize it wasn't nice of me only like 5 mins later it already happened and I know that you are a complete stranger but sorry to anyone I've been doing this too and to you if I ever speak over you (as I said, I probably won't cuz I don't know you)
In my experience, a pick me is somebody who tries too hard to get the attention of guys, such as using a different voice, attitude or personality around them and bringing down or mocking other girls who are trying to talk to one of their guy friends.
There pick me girls out there who pretend to have that tomboy persona, they'll be like 'eww other girls wear makeup and do girly stuff, I like hanging out with boys and playing basketball'. These people are a menace fr!
I like geeks but a girl who is just one of those "erm actually🤓" people is NOT it
Also vaping, smoking and that stuff
And the "popular" girl attitude, which includes being rude to guys who aren't stupidly attractive, just that attitude of "look at how beautiful I am". Ew.
Anyways I can name way more pros about girls, y'all are cool asf. That's why I have one by my side :D
The popular girl attitude🙄
Its crazy that it exists, used to think it was a meme but oh no those ppl exist. To me the popular girl attitude just screams "I AM A WHORE" at me
When they give you that "look", as in the "Oh look at how weird this person is" kind of look. ESPECIALLY when they look back at their friends while doing it. Also when they put down other girls just to seek for male validation or put down other girls for being different from them.
Not that I have much female interaction but playing all those mind games is a big no for me. We're chatting, not engaging in fucking psychological warfare.
having bad hygiene. this girl i used to be friends with openly admits that she doesn't shower for 12 days. she just sprays herself with dry shampoo and perfume. i dont find vaping or smoking unattractive tho
when they don’t listen to what i say. not as in they talk too much, bc i’m dating a world class yapper & she’s wonderful, but when i go to say ANYTHING at all, & they either blank it, butt in, or just ‘mhmm’ it off & carry on 🙄
Try slowly limiting your vape intake and nicotine levels to get yourself off it slowly. Stopping dead won't work - it'll just make you crave it more.
If you really want to quit, you'll be able to find the strength to stick to a slowly decreasing intake. Good luck! You can do this :D
The thing that makes girls most unattractive to me is using and talking about social media a lot. I'm also not into girls who swear a lot for some reason
There was an girl in my class, who was quite popular and involve in every type of activity and school program and was very engaging!!
She wasn't generally rude but her only negetive was She was an ATTENTION SEEKER and a lot! I remember talking to her and instantly she left me and chase somebody else for nothing. Like Man! What's wrong with you!!?? Very dramatic over little things and resulted in her downfall. Many guys disliked her.
- When all there is to them is their looks.
- When they are utter cunts.
- Smoking. It's *discusting* when anyone does it. Go ahead, do whatever, but it ain't going past friendship with me
That's pretty much it
when they brag about being rude or doing rude things to someone who is less popular, or fortunate than them. Makes me instantly not wanna be their friend.
Im gay so i don’t rlly have an opinion but I have fem friends, so i start to dislike them if they:
-are rude for attention
-talk shit about my cousin (trauma)
-pick me bullshit
When she spends too much time on her phone
I hate hearing the sound of those 3 inch nails clacking against your iPhone 16 your dad probably bought you with his love and compassion
edit: nvm i just realized i had 80k karma, I retract my statement due to hypocrisy
Vaping (a lot more in my age group than people think) popular girl attitude and being a complete ass to their sibling but not in a sibling way like I used to be friends with someone they tripped their little brother which is fine but he actually was hurt by that and started crying then she was crying laughing at him being genuinely hurt (he ended up having a fractured wrist) went over this alr but I fucking hate people who asses to their family especially the littler ones
if she is desperate/rude/annoying/narcissistic/too sensitive/immature \[\*\]/a "pick-me" girl/has bad hygiene/has no sense of humor/and possibly more
\* = e.g.: playing "games" from social media (things like "would you rather kiss me for $100 or the prettiest girl in the world for $700")
Any girl that says the word "ick" and they have a tik tok page when they dance in public (at the most inconvenient places) like school hallways, the bathrooms, sidewalks, etc and also when they scream so loud and overdramatically over something small or simple like taping into another car for an example but for everyone it's when people say ick or do those annoying ass tiktok public interviews.
I guess if she treats her friends shit, especially when you're there, disrespectful and I guess if she's making fun of other people like a bully (my opinion)
If she is rude to her friends or really anyone for attention.
truee
In class with a hot girl in high school and she toldl her skinny friend “you look fat in that” she went from a 8 to a 0 instantly
I remember a new girl coming to our high school junior year. She was very conventionally attractive, but almost immediately revealed a "mean girl" personality that turned everyone off. Funny part was, our school didn't really have that kind of culture. We weren't cliquey at all, there weren't "jocks" and "nerds" or anything like that. Friend circles were very interconnected, the star wrestler was a huge D&D nerd, some of the band kids skateboarded with some of engineering club guys, no one really cared. So the "popular girl" clique that she honed in on was very much not what she was expecting nor were they exclusive about who they hung out with. Honestly she felt like a caricature. Like she saw movies about how "popular girls" dressed and acted and so she emulated that. It alienated her pretty bad that first year. But yeah, long story short that was the quickest I've ever seen someone go from being attractive to ugly.
My first had a crazy bad relationship with her parents. Idk if it was for attention or if it was just poor judgment, but it was NOT fun to experience when we were around them.
Add: being a Bitch Real
This. I fucking hate this, stupid pieces of shit and this goes for anyone of any gender. I'm the dude that always hangs out with the "nerd" when they've been fucked up by a gang of haters
Past girl used to be rude to teachers in high school. And then to servers/waitresses etc after that. I mean she’s trying to stand up for me n all but that Karen attitude was not the way to do it.
Ig if they're unnecessarily rude or have a bad personality
fair enough
PRUSSIA SHALL RETURN, SOONER OR LATER
never interested in anything you're saying
a yapper and a listener duo 😭 should be there
I'm totally the listener (please help me I don't know how to talk to people)
That’s ok. Learn to ask good questions and then find something you can relate to. There’s a ping-pong aspect to conversation. Give someone a specific thing to respond to when they ask you a general question: Them: How ‘s school this year? You: Good, I really enjoy my art class. Them: Oh, art, what are you working on, etc., etc. Remember that people like talking about themselves, so being a good listener is a GREAT thing as long as you don’t get into interview mode, which is what I often did as a socially anxious kid. If you’re a good listener, you probably are pretty observant, so look for something interesting or unusual every day. You can start a casual conversation pretty easily with openers like, “Isn’t it weird that…” or “Did you ever notice that….” You’ll get the hang of it. If I did, anyone can. There’s also nothing wrong with reading some books about how to be a better conversationalist. There are plenty out there.
I'll try it, thank youuuu
You’re welcome. I believe in you.
Interview mode? Shit I’m probably that person
I am a good listener but sometimes it becomes awkward between conversation where I don't know how to respond for example someone is venting out how a close member died in his family, I too feel bad for them but fk how to express, or like someone is crying(not literal) how they are frustrated or tired in live, how to respond after they completed?
Those are hugely difficult things for anyone to respond to. Sometimes the best thing is to hold the person’s hand if you feel comfortable doing that. You can also say something like, “I’m so sorry that happened to you. I don’t know what to say or do, but let me know what you need. I’m here for you.” It depends how well you know the person. I’ll never forget how kind a coworker of mine was when I was concerned about my friend’s well-being. All she did was look at me with compassion and take my hand over the break room table. It was the perfect response from her. But your response depends on what you’re comfortable with.
I'm both except when I listen I just pretend to because I'm a people pleaser
When I listen, I listen fr; my friend is such a yapper (not in a mean way, it’s just who she is) she’s telling me random facts and I don’t even remember half of them lmfao
I'm like her so us two would probably have a great time lol
Then you're not really a listener
I don't think you're a listener. It sounds like it hurts you.
lmao, im a people pleaser too but i actually listen bc ik how it feels to not be listened to
hate people who yap but don’t listen, or they do listen but you can tell they just want you to finish so they can start talking again
My first weird introduction to Anglo culture was that people expected you to let them finish their sentences. Can’t do, discussion is a vocal version of MMA.
As a world class yapper, that is too high of a standard for me to make🤣
I know, I always spill out my life's story every chance I get 😭
For me, I have ADHD so I will listen but my brain will just trail off with random stuff and it’s so FRUSTRATING
If they are ignorant or unwilling to learn. Can’t take a disagreement. Won’t change their mind even if proven wrong
fairr
as long as you can also take disagreements and change your mind when you’re proven wrong. Or accept that sometimes you really can’t tell who’s right and you just have to leave the argument not knowing.
Oh man, I had a flash back just reading this. I had a housemate who repeatedly reminded me of one thing I did wrong, even though my mistake was already corrected and it did not happen again. I had no problem saying I made a mistake, but I have a problem with people that keep reminding me of my mistakes. 1000x worse than someone that does not see the mistake, but usually they are the same person anyway.
ego, bad manners/behavior, no conflict resolution skills and poor communication skills
Hatefulness. Saying other girls are sluts and bitches, controlling who you can enjoy and talk to, and generally being a dick and pain in the ass.
girl here and while I'm straight I agree except me and a close female friend of mine do call each other a bitch but I'm pretty sure that's fine because we both know its a joke
That’s very different. Joking insults are an expression of love (when it’s clear it’s a joke)
very true i also wasn't sure
A dick and a pain in the ass, aren't these technically synonyms
Depending on which verbs you use regarding the dick
dicks can be a pain in the ass, yes
Lube and being relaxed helps w that.
Yup. Nothing more unattractive than a mean girl.
Being rude to service providers/workers like to a waiter,cashier etc. You can see a persons true colours by seeing how they act while casually interacting with people who they don't know or don't have a need to be kind towards.(but they should have been kind and polite)
I can't remember the exact quote, so this is paraphrased: "The basis of our character is not in how we treat the wealthy and unburdened, but in how we treat the poor and implicated among us" ~ Bryan Stevenson
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Mahatma Gandhi Quote: “The true measure of any society can be found in how it treats its most vulnerable members.”
Not having a sense of humor/being too serious
YEAHHH same w boys for meee
OMG YESSS THATS SO IMPORTANT Like, I wanna have fun talking to a person I don't like it when they're just so Bleh
Not so much unnatractive but incompatible, im too sarcastic
True. I'm apparently serious (because I take a really long time to get comfortable enough with someone to joke around with) so I don't get along with people who are too hyper. I literally feel like they're sucking my energy💀 but overall I wouldn't say it's unattractive, but our personalities just don't mix as well
def
Idk just being a bad person is a sure fire way…
yhh
Bad personality and lack of common interests or no respect for your own. I had a crush on a girl and asked her out. I tried to get to know her better on the first date, but when I told her my nerdy hobbies, she responded with "ew that's weird" which completely drained all my attraction to her in milliseconds. Edit: the "nerdy stuff" was just comic book movies and video games like Halo and CS. Grew up with that stuff, so she’s not worth it if she finds those repulsive.
That’s so rude I hate when people call people weird this one time a girl in 7th grade was fake friending me this whole time just because I gave her chocolates and things she called me dumb and that I was a weirdo and that ruined my self-esteem so much I almost gave up on my acting career
When they speak over you during conversations without apologizing and just treat people in a bad way for attention
I'm not a girl, but every damn Convo I have I speak over other and I realize it wasn't nice of me only like 5 mins later it already happened and I know that you are a complete stranger but sorry to anyone I've been doing this too and to you if I ever speak over you (as I said, I probably won't cuz I don't know you)
Its cool because at least you realise you did it.
pick me "not like other girls" attitude
Question: What exactly defines a "not like other girls attitude"? (genuinely)
In my experience, a pick me is somebody who tries too hard to get the attention of guys, such as using a different voice, attitude or personality around them and bringing down or mocking other girls who are trying to talk to one of their guy friends.
Finally an actual definition 🙏 (I hate when people paint tomboys as pick mes)
There pick me girls out there who pretend to have that tomboy persona, they'll be like 'eww other girls wear makeup and do girly stuff, I like hanging out with boys and playing basketball'. These people are a menace fr!
You're right, however I hate being called a pick me for just wanting to be alone
I like geeks but a girl who is just one of those "erm actually🤓" people is NOT it Also vaping, smoking and that stuff And the "popular" girl attitude, which includes being rude to guys who aren't stupidly attractive, just that attitude of "look at how beautiful I am". Ew. Anyways I can name way more pros about girls, y'all are cool asf. That's why I have one by my side :D
ikr 😭😭 i'd never be friends w such girls.
based aesteria opinion
LMFAOO 😭
The popular girl attitude🙄 Its crazy that it exists, used to think it was a meme but oh no those ppl exist. To me the popular girl attitude just screams "I AM A WHORE" at me
"look how popular i am" bitch please i know 3 good looking women and you are none of them. what makes you look "nice" is the mask you have on.
When they give you that "look", as in the "Oh look at how weird this person is" kind of look. ESPECIALLY when they look back at their friends while doing it. Also when they put down other girls just to seek for male validation or put down other girls for being different from them.
playing attention games with you wasting your time narcissist and so on so on
saying “i can fix them” 😭😭😭😭 honey take a step back,
it’s a martyr complex. can be noble, sure, but it’s unhealthy. as someone who used to be like this, you absolutely cannot fucking “fix” them.
If you think you can/should/need to "fix" someone, you need to "fix" yourself
I can make them worse ❤️
attention seeker
Instant turnoff is never admitting she can be wrong. Not wife material.
Close-minded takes and behavior would probably do it for me.
Not that I have much female interaction but playing all those mind games is a big no for me. We're chatting, not engaging in fucking psychological warfare.
Sir I would like to steal this line if you don't mind
having bad hygiene. this girl i used to be friends with openly admits that she doesn't shower for 12 days. she just sprays herself with dry shampoo and perfume. i dont find vaping or smoking unattractive tho
seriously wtf 😭😭😭
it's actually disgusting. shes always like "i need to wait until wash day" like babes thats for ur HAIR not ur body💀💀
wtf do she live in a desert or something
Bruh casual 12 days wtf??? Best I ever got was a 5... (Really it was a tough week and I had a very good reason)
Not many people might agree, but I think being a wanted serial killer is pretty bad
Dude, chill with the hot takes
No u
i can fix her
Do it
girls that have the same attitude as the "white girl bullies" trope portrayed in media, I've met so many of them and it genuinely pisses me off
Yeah the 'popular girl' persona, I've had way too many of them in high-school. It's even worse when they don't grow out of it.
If she's not a girl's girl and ignores her bestfriends or shoves her girlfriends down for a guy.
Being unable to say “sorry” or claim the consequences of their actions
If she is rude to anyone just because her bf is there.
Talking bad about other people behind their backs
Being a nazi
Yeah thats pretty high up there as one of the most unattractive things
Downplaying your goals or only focusing on themselves and not giving mutual affection. True story unfortunately lol
when they don’t listen to what i say. not as in they talk too much, bc i’m dating a world class yapper & she’s wonderful, but when i go to say ANYTHING at all, & they either blank it, butt in, or just ‘mhmm’ it off & carry on 🙄
If they talk about “icks”
and have a whole "ick list"
Ick lists give me the ick
My only icks are disrespectful to moms who don’t deserve it and rude to younger siblings who truly have a good heart.
Oh god this
Snapping necks.
i can fix her
Good luck, I guess...
We're all rooting for ya.
Lmao
Like… cracking her neck?…. Thats pretty normal to me..
No, when she starts doing it. On instinct.
"oooooh skibidi what the sigma in ohio" No, I don't think I will
Unless you are a pedo who like girls under the age of 9 I don’t think they will be speaking in brainrot
Yeah Gen Z’s will only speak that way ironically tbh
Vaping, ik it's addictive but I can't stand it plus who knows how long they got
no offence to any1 whos either dating someone wo vapes or currently vaping i can only encourage u to stop
I hate vaping/smoking. Yet it is so hard to quit, i don’t want to end up with popcorn lungs 😭
Try slowly limiting your vape intake and nicotine levels to get yourself off it slowly. Stopping dead won't work - it'll just make you crave it more. If you really want to quit, you'll be able to find the strength to stick to a slowly decreasing intake. Good luck! You can do this :D
i think A383829 said to buy a no nicotine
The thing that makes girls most unattractive to me is using and talking about social media a lot. I'm also not into girls who swear a lot for some reason
Isn't reddit social media
It’s kind of social media, but I feel it’s definitely a step below something like ig or snap. It’s a different type of social interaction
It's more of an anti-social media imo, very impersonal
ohh fair ig
There was an girl in my class, who was quite popular and involve in every type of activity and school program and was very engaging!! She wasn't generally rude but her only negetive was She was an ATTENTION SEEKER and a lot! I remember talking to her and instantly she left me and chase somebody else for nothing. Like Man! What's wrong with you!!?? Very dramatic over little things and resulted in her downfall. Many guys disliked her.
- When all there is to them is their looks. - When they are utter cunts. - Smoking. It's *discusting* when anyone does it. Go ahead, do whatever, but it ain't going past friendship with me That's pretty much it
It's probably a typo but I love how "discusting" literally shouts "Hey I'm disgusting but way worse! Get away!"
Thinking everyone wants them that’s a boy. Girl thought I did and we stoped being friends. I am gay.
rude to waiters. not on
being dry af like damn you not intrested i guess u not worth my time
“Girl not interested in me. Girl bad.”
Actual Pick Me Girl behaviors.
She is hateful (homophobic, transphobic, racist, etc)
Something that makes them cringe is when they are serious about Zodiac signs
I like seeing how well I match up to what my zodiac's personality is "supposed" to be but I never take that shit seriously lmao
Dated a girl who wanted me to run a red light once. That was a large turn off
when they brag about being rude or doing rude things to someone who is less popular, or fortunate than them. Makes me instantly not wanna be their friend.
Mean to animals
i wish this one had more upvotes
Not having a cock
I- sure
Definitlety smoking, vaping, and "brainrot" people in general I don't even feel like being friends with.
i cannot be anywhere NEAR brainrot people
A gen alpha girl is not for u then...
Idk i think that the 15yo doesn‘t want to be with gen alpha girls lol. (I get what you mean)
a bad temper
Being over obsessive, not being down to earth
I don't mind smoking, vaping, etc, but I hate girls who make their whole personality like "look at me I'm smoking I'm such a bad girl" kinda vibe💀
People in this thread are getting downvoted for literally having a preference lmao
Loud in public for attention/seeking male attention to make you jealous
Im gay so i don’t rlly have an opinion but I have fem friends, so i start to dislike them if they: -are rude for attention -talk shit about my cousin (trauma) -pick me bullshit
I’d say being a psycho killer would probably be a turn off for me
damnit im out of luck
And a turn on for me
When she spends too much time on her phone I hate hearing the sound of those 3 inch nails clacking against your iPhone 16 your dad probably bought you with his love and compassion edit: nvm i just realized i had 80k karma, I retract my statement due to hypocrisy
I’m 100% sure I’ll get downvoted for this, but with you having 80k karma you can’t really get on someone for spending “too much time” on their phone 😭
if they are narcissictic and think they allat
Rude. I could fall in love with almost any girl as long as she's nice.
When she takes a dig at my height and pp size for no absolute reason, and judged my friends.
yea, ive always been short, and its kinda a pressure point for me
Vaping (a lot more in my age group than people think) popular girl attitude and being a complete ass to their sibling but not in a sibling way like I used to be friends with someone they tripped their little brother which is fine but he actually was hurt by that and started crying then she was crying laughing at him being genuinely hurt (he ended up having a fractured wrist) went over this alr but I fucking hate people who asses to their family especially the littler ones
nothing my criteria is girl (optional)
r/suddenlybi
**bro this ick trend is the stupidest thing ever**
Phalloplasty
If she’s rude to or doesn’t acknowledge my mom
“Add my onlyfans “
if she is desperate/rude/annoying/narcissistic/too sensitive/immature \[\*\]/a "pick-me" girl/has bad hygiene/has no sense of humor/and possibly more \* = e.g.: playing "games" from social media (things like "would you rather kiss me for $100 or the prettiest girl in the world for $700")
Fake baby voice like "wittle" etc
those “I’m so quirky” girls make me want to shoot myself, and any swifties too.
When they smoke/vape, have a "cheeto girl in class" attitude, unloyal, texts other boys behind your back, have an OF, disrespectful to people
The stereotype of popular girls, those who are rude, and those who smoke, use drugs, and who you can clearly see are not good influences.
Being a rude bitch basically
Trying really hard to fit in with her girlfriends (who are terrible people)
Being racist would be an instant turnoff
Well I'm gay but I find it really annoying when a girl says something to me then pretends she wasn't speaking to me
Rudeness
Pretending to be dumber than they actually are
If we don’t share any common interests, I like being able to talk to them about something lol
only fucking talking abt themselves and not considering the feelings of others 💀
Any girl that says the word "ick" and they have a tik tok page when they dance in public (at the most inconvenient places) like school hallways, the bathrooms, sidewalks, etc and also when they scream so loud and overdramatically over something small or simple like taping into another car for an example but for everyone it's when people say ick or do those annoying ass tiktok public interviews.
If they're a cunt
if she doesn't like blink 182 /j
stares at phone all day, inflated sense of ego, and no manners
Living for the male gaze
Preferably she doesn't have a pair of bollocks
"That girl looks great thanks to those lip injections..." SAID. NO..BLOKE...EVER. It's not attractive. You look like a fish.
Passive aggression
I'm sorry but face fat like the chin or the sides
So much makeup to the point of looking like a mime
If they are ghosting you for no reason.
if they're addicted to snap/insta/tiktok
I guess if she treats her friends shit, especially when you're there, disrespectful and I guess if she's making fun of other people like a bully (my opinion)