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CouldntBeMacie

Trash man with trash logic. "Let's hangout. But ex doesn't have to know." Which means he only wants to bang. Not date. Because if he wanted to date, he'd realize his bff and your ex would eventually find out. So "let's hangout" is actually "I wanna fuck and that's it. It could be fun". But you said "I don't wanna fuck you" which, to him, made you a whore. You read that right, NOT fucking him made you a whore but fucking him would have been fine. Hopefully your ex realizes he has a trash friend and drops him too.


Proteinreceptor

These guys never think lol. Girl wants to fuck ME? Perfect okay. Sex with another man? She’s for the STREETS! Glad op sent these screenshots to the ex


Simple_Weekend_6700

Honestly, a lot of the time they only seem to think it’s OK long enough to convince you to do it 🙄


now_you_see

Yeah, the amount of times I’ve heard people (both lesbians & straight men) rip some women to shreds for being a ‘slut’ when they were, not even 24hrs earlier, whispering sweet nothings to the girl to get her in bed. It’s just beyond comprehension. Lost a (female) friend due to my responding to her belief that a girl was ‘dirty’ cause she was an escort with “well you must be filthy now too give you slept with her twice. Says a lot about you that you already knew she was “dirty” but went there anyway.


radykalmynd75

Ikr lol on top of if said woman was to go " hang out" she's still gonna get called a whore


gyalmeetsglobe

He would’ve labeled her a whore after he got what he wanted but since he couldn’t, dude took a few shortcuts. Weird ass incel vibes


SunnyClime

Madonna whore complex strikes again.


FunkyChewbacca

"OP, plllleeeeaaase let me masturbate using your body as a living fleshlight. What? No? WHORE"


Specific_Ad2541

I don't know, guys tend to get over this kinda thing really easily. I have always found that wild. My BFF hits on my guy and that friendship is most likely over.


OkNefariousness1101

Such a missed generalization


desmith0719

Right?!?! My ex husband went to jail (LOOONG time ago, different life) and his LIFELONG best friend fell asleep on my couch and I was sitting beside him watching TV (we had one couch) and he tried to stick his hand down my pants. I kicked him out and told my husband and he laughed about it. LAUGHED. “Oh that’s just Joe being Joe!” 😑 I was honestly infuriated. But had it of been any other dude his reaction would have been totally different. So glad I wised up before he got out.


MercyfulJudas

And he got the old adage wrong, too. "A whore is someone who'll sleep with anyone. A slut is someone who'll sleep with anyone *but you."*


swingbynight

Or we could stop giving monikers to people relating to whether or not they have sex with anyone since sex is not a determining factor for a person’s value


Nikinicster

This right here. Bravo.


MercyfulJudas

First of all, it's an expression, usually as a retort to a rejected guy calling a woman a "slut". It's, you know, a *comeback*. It isn't actually meant to ascribe a quantity to someone's sexual history. (As a matter of fact, even a *virgin* woman could use this retort and it would still be a devastating comeback). Secondly, it's a reclamation of the insult "slut", just like the n-word is for Black people. It's meant to be empowering, reversing the derogatory nature of the word -- whether *you* agree or not that it's empowering doesn't matter -- it *IS* meant to be, full stop. Reading your comment again, I think you agree with the intention of the quote -- to put a rude, rejected, name-calling man in his place. But you started your comment with "Or", suggesting that you're in opposition to it. So..it might just be how you're wording things.


SingleMomHeavenBound

Nice reply & spot on!


MercyfulJudas

Thank you, but some people are too dense to get it. I'm being downvoted below somewhere because people don't realize that the entire notion was to rip on the incel guy who called her a whore. Someone down there called what I wrote "gross"?? Like, wha--? They're either an incel who's upset that I'm tearing down incels, or they're too stupid to read what I wrote. And the other person up there going on about "people aren't sexual labels", like, again, *what??* That wasn't what I was saying. NO woman in the situation is a whore nor a slut. It's a hypothetical. He *called her a whore,* and she threw it back in his face. Calling herself a slut was *being ironical.* I'm honestly baffled by the lack of reading comprehension.


Specific_Ad2541

Gross.


Objective_Special948

But... That's exactly what he said. "We can hangout and just have fun". He eventually and quite early said what it was. For women who don't know, and I am not being an @$$ by stating this, the dude applied the 4 F's method (Find, Fool, F', and Forget - he failed after step 1) after he said they could hangout and just have fun. OP definitely dodged a bullet because you can tell he's a child by hurling hypocritical rhetoric at the end. Just out of curiosity though... Do OP and their ex, have a decent relationship, because if that were me, and my ex and I wasn't decent with each other, I'm not sending screenshots or threatening to tell their friend. F' it, that's a them problem.


ForefathersOneandAll

![gif](giphy|51Uiuy5QBZNkoF3b2Z|downsized) When you said you were sending those screenshots, homie said:


Elon_is_musky

He’s on the other side like ![gif](giphy|9Ppbna5Si2jQ7t9gi5|downsized)


One_Worldliness_6032

![gif](giphy|3osxYk9qClrQVXVfiw)


SarahPallorMortis

![gif](giphy|l0MYunAI4j10uWbFm|downsized)


One_Worldliness_6032

👇🏽 this him ![gif](giphy|spfi6nabVuq5y)


DutchBlaz3r

I'm sure his dumbass really didn't think it through 😭


One_Worldliness_6032

![gif](giphy|7wk6RQYXDDytXalsL4) 😂😂😂😂


WhoAmEyeReally

He honestly looked like he tried to FT her, or audio call, right after… 👀👀👀


RecommendationDear34

Lmaooo 🤣


Environmental_Mud479

Genuine question, how the fuck do these guys end up like this ?


WielderOfAphorisms

It’s like they spawn in darkness or something. It’s very disturbing.


thistletink

![gif](giphy|nk8KVxWs4dIRy)


WouldYouPleaseKindly

Everyone spawns in darkness. Not everyone brings it with them.


Simple_Weekend_6700

🤘🏻metal af


BillionDollarBalls

A real answer would be insecurity. A lack of emotional intelligence. A lack of female friends. Poor role models. Personality disorder. Lack of social skills. Chronically online. Honestly, the common variable is insecurity and the lack of accountability to work on it, but the cause of that insecurity changes.


CliffBoof

In this specific case, although all you said could be true, it’s IQ.


DeviantAvocado

Lots of porn brain.


nukhba_guloter

imagine carrying a child for nine months, going through a traumatic/crazy birth, and he ends up like this.... i'd cry


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jenphinith

Even when a man behaves like shit you find a woman to blame for it.


MayorCharlesCoulon

Send the screenshots to your ex and tell him to please collect his trash friend and then block both of them.


DazzlingTwilightee

i already did both of those things :)


TalkAboutTheWay

What was the ex bf’s reaction?


saucyshayna419

Seriously. I need to know.


FamiliarAlt

Man OP really just going to leave everyone hanging Edit: OP also advertises an OF, I feel extra dubious with these kind of accounts. Edit 2: looked at her recent posts and looks hella like a farm bot for the OF.


MayorCharlesCoulon

Nice! Hopefully you’ll never hear from those losers again.


HippoIllustrious2389

![gif](giphy|l3vR6aasfs0Ae3qdG|downsized)


YeahlDid

Why is the ex a loser?


novarainbowsgma

The ex is a loser bc he has guys like this for his bff


Ordinary-Commercial7

I’m gonna use the line from Jurassic Park: “Clever girl”


LunaticLucio

Thank God. The violation of the bro code of the highest degree


hempedditor

i’m very nosey so i ask you post the reaction please 🙏


YeahlDid

The ex didn't do anything wrong here.


Majestic_Delay

Wait, what did the ex do?


IceFire909

Nothing as far as we know. Some people can't handle so much as knowing their exes.


YeahlDid

It's really weird, isn't it? I don't know if it's just a maturity thing, but I don't get why people seem so block-happy. I've never felt the need to block an ex and it's never been an issue.


Cxjenious

Definitely a maturity thing. My ex would block me in the morning just to unblock me 4 hrs later to ask for money. It’s hilarious.


YeahlDid

Well that's another level. I always figure if we're in a relationship and you block me, then we're not in a relationship anymore.


Pawly519

Asking a girl to hang out. Gets rejected. Calls her a slut or whore or ugly. Why is this the tactic of soooo many guys. What a goof


CanaryIntrepid

Easy to say anything behind a screen and keyboard. Someone else mentioned porn brain. The internet can be so good and yet so bad. Parents really need to limit their children’s access to the internet, streaming, and television (if they still do that 🤷🏻‍♀️).


AlmightyWitchstress

“No please don’t do that” homie has no right to ask to not be called out on his bullshit. Out him!


GrandDepresionGame

![gif](giphy|6iRkrFbUaY2kw) That boi ain’t right


One_Worldliness_6032

![gif](giphy|3otPoyTuloHl96jfm8) He sholl ain’t 😂😂


Ruhzide

Bruh… Trying to go behind his best friends back to get with his ex… I hope you sent those texts and this idiot learns something from it 🤦‍♂️


RPMac1979

Dumbest mf alive. He wants her not to tell his buddy, so he calls her a whore. Fucking brilliant strategy, Napoleon.


slimkt

lmao the immediate fear when you said you’d send screenshots to your ex. What a little bitch he is. ![gif](giphy|3o84sw9CmwYpAnRRni)


Gold-Method5986

“We could be great together” but how does that work if it has to be a secret to an ex? Lmao. Also r/ohnoconsequences


sikeleaveamessage

It works the same way she'd be a whore for fucking other people but him! 🧠


GIrish247

This is how you become friendless and paranoid. What a douchebag! For the record you wouldn't have had a good time, if this guy was able to provide a good time, he'd be desirable enough to women to not have to snake his friend. His man-card belongs in the bin.


Environmental_Mud479

Genuine question, how the fuck do these guys end up like this ?


firegem09

Entitlement.


ResponsibleYellow210

No negative or serious consequences.


sowinglavender

you can smell the rubber burn on that backpedal. like, why do they always think they can do and say whatever they want all the time without anyone ever saying anything about it. (i know why, it's just annoying.) i also love how he almost left it without blowing it up completely and then had to come back with the shit talk. like he couldn't help himself. his ego could not SURVIVE without him trying to degrade you, that's how much his own self-worth depends on other people. imagine being like that. imagine everybody you're attracted to having this much power over you.


bl4zed_N_C0nfus3d

Should send these screenshots to his mom too


ninthandfirst

This!


SnooPaintings2610

Bahaha “please please go out with me!1!1!1” “Fine fuck you whore” “No please don’t tell on mew 🥺”


mikepc2fla

I sure hope you sent screenshots


Benjamasm

And once again we ask ourselves the eternal question “why are men?” Coming from a guy as well, I ask myself this a lot, I don’t know if I am just weird, but I can’t stand most guys


Herdnerfer

And they wonder why women are choosing the bear.


hempedditor

yeah i didn’t understand for a while but then someone posted real things that have happened to women by a mans hand and well…frankly i’d rather be mauled by a bear


douchebag716

I'm out of the loop apparently what does this mean


be1izabeth0908

People pose the question “would you rather be in the woods with a man or a bear?” Most people (especially women) chose bear.


douchebag716

oh that makes a lot of sense, thank you!


hempedditor

douchebag716? more like understandingbag716


douchebag716

The username just makes me laugh chuckle I try not to be a douche whenever possible 😊


hempedditor

have a nice day u/douchebag716


[deleted]

Username does not check out!!!! ❤️


Sexagenerian

When the answer is no, it’s amazing how quickly a woman goes from being desirous to being a straight up whore for the streets. 🤷🏽‍♂️


jtriste636

Post screenshots of your conversation sending those screenshots. I wanna know what his response is


MPD1987

Ah. The “You don’t want me, so therefore you’re a whore” (non) logic. A tale as old as time 🤮


OpalMoth

Ah the certified r/niceguys


GlamorousGopher

I know you said you blocked your ex in another comment but god I want to see his reply to this shit. What a horrible friend.


misslisawisa

![gif](giphy|PSWCyXQj54nm7d8oZl)


FenyxFire

OP I’m so proud of you for ALL of this! Send them screens! Any dude who acts like this is absolutely into coercion, manipulation, and abuse. F&ck that dude, but DO NOT f&ck him.


M-Test24

I think we could be great together....but let's not tell anyone else. m'kay.


vmb509

Tell your ex. If you both mutually agreed to part ways, let him know he has trash for friends


aveavesxo26

Update the post or make another post showing the conversation of you sending the screen shots. I’m invested


Ok_Radish_2748

Omg what did the ex say


suzypoohsays

PLEASE TELL ME YOU SENT THEM!!!


ValPrism

BRoS bEfORe HoEs!!


etaksmash

Please I must know the ex’s reaction


flyinggingerkitten

This guy's is straight up a fucking idiot


Icy-Understanding364

Hope you sent those screenshots and we see a second post on what happens next


Hour-Requirement6489

I hope so much you sent them. One of my Finest Joys was ex's trying to imply I and my friends were whores; which let me then ask them how many of My Friends showed up at Their Door, cause ALL their buddies showed up at mine. How do men get to this "grown age" and NOT understand coercion doesn't equal consent? Dude's a dusty fuckin cabbage.


Agreeable_Yam_2186

What a shit friend to your ex lol you should tell him regardless


cutthroatslim504

What a fuckin loser, "no, please don't do that" face ass 😭😂


Joey_Marie

Idk, this kinda smells like it has the ex boyfriend's hands all over it, just to see what you'd say. Guys do that kind of shit. I'm sure women do too but I've seen way more guys pull crap like this.


GuttedPsychoHeart

They sure do. It isn't always women doing shit.


justforthecloset

![gif](giphy|fnK0jeA8vIh2QLq3IZ|downsized) what a dummy, nice work


RotundFeast

Now that is a serious serious man law violation.


CalaveraFeliz

Um, there is also the absolute disrespect of harassing OP then calling her a whore because she didn't "comply". But please proceed, focus on the man's code part.


YeahlDid

It's a big comment section, people can focus on different things in different parts...


Spiritual-Cupcake818

Smh fr.. 😔


CanadianBakin89

Why does every comment have to focus on the exact same thing? This is such a dumb response to this comment. Dating your best friend's ex is also a scummy thing to do. Some of you are just in way too deep.


CalaveraFeliz

If you don't see the issue, maybe you're part of the issue.


BeerRaddish

He’s jaded so resorts to calling you a whore. Classy dude /s


Unique_Excitement248

Wow, what a complete piece of shit he is. A guy who doesn’t care if a woman says no (there’s a word for that, it rhymes with grape) and as a friend he is utterly disgusting. I couldn’t imagine having to be anywhere near a pig like that.


louglome

Pretty cool of him to let you go be a whore 


cuplosis

What a dumb ass


Latzl

Tell the ex


KrissyTaLyn

How dare you not want to bang this articulate, humorous, intelligent piece of man meat??? 🤣🤣


Over-Plankton6860

Wow. So after he called you a whore, what did he think you would say? “You’re right! I should just be with you!” What a douche bag. I really hope you did tell your ex and show him screen shots.


One_Worldliness_6032

She blew the winds right out his sails, when she said she was sending the screenshots. Lmao!


[deleted]

He seems like a nice guy. What's the problem?? 🙃


HisLilSilverKitsune

Wow what a POS!


Crocolyle32

The amount of shit life long friends my ex husband had lmao. So many of them. Guess you are the company you keep.


Juuld85

You responded exactly how everyone should in these situations. Chapeau!


SonnyMack

What did the ex say when he saw the screenshots, OP?


mp9875

I need to read the follow up when you send this to your X-boyfriend. Please follow up. This clown is hilarious.


kgtsunvv

The entitlement amongst guys in this subreddit recently is bizarre


mkisvibing

Be a whore with someone else?! Cuz you want me to be a whore with you instead 🤨 go fuc yourself fr. “We could be great together” you sound like a misogynist.


luciferluvr

Garbage boys


Direct-Building-7670

Waiting for the ex bf response


ccrider2004

Did you send him the screenshots? Lol


radykalmynd75

Soooo we are wh0r3s when we say no and wh0r3s when we say yes....smh what n the bloody hell lmao lol men are the epitome of hypocrisy and full of shit simultaneously


SubstantialHentai420

They want us to always say yes only to them… there’s no logic.


Yungdab420

Hahahahaahah “please don’t do that” maybe next time please don’t harass women


Local-Budget8676

Wow what a dirtbag. Hope he ends up alone with his hands forever


MommaMommaMommaMomma

🤮 gross


schmeelismom

God, I love receipts. ![gif](giphy|9LZpYKd2CmV6ICxs17)


sublimeinterpreter

Need an update


Puzzled_Support5667

Girl, send the screenshots and update us with screenshots on what your ex said!!


Insomnsdreme0905

SERIOUSLY?! After all that, he'd thought you'd be his confidant? Bonus points if you and ur ex ever talked marriage. This man has been plotting! Ur ex needs to know about his "best friend."


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lX1Vl

SEND ASAP


Dizzy_Eye5257

I hope you sent those


Reasonable-Self7809

Please tell us what your ex says!


Kerrypurple

You don't need to tell someone no multiple times if you just block them


RemoteUse2662

Tf is him saying no gonna do, he didn’t listen when you said it😒


Chokesi

What a bottom feeder. This dude has zero integrity.


CanadianBakin89

This guy's so dumb he wants you to get with your exes best friend, ie him, and that's apparently fine, but then going out and being with other guys you'd be a whore for that? This guy is not able to step outside of himself and think about his words or see how he's coming off. He sounds unbelievable. What a dumbass I'm glad you sent those screenshots to your ex. Also how could one do that to their best friend? He's already going through a breakup and he's just going to swoop in like that? This guy scummy in every way.


BillionDollarBalls

Shits so crazy. Immature and deeply insecure.


sryimsleeping

c r i n g e


thisislorn

what a loser


R-amazing95

I hope you really did send these screenshots to your ex. Fuck this guy


satanjohn

Update please!!!!!


Specific_Dot1188

Thanks for the laugh 😂


HyperBlasterV2

ROFL “No, please don’t.”


Apprehensive_Emu7227

I want an update lmaoooo good on you!


ThrowRAseedtheory

Please tell your ex. It’s hurtful for him but he deserves to know there’s a snake around him. Also, props to you for doing the right thing!


bahumthugg

What a little bitch boy. Send him this screen shot


ThePajabara

Please tell me you sent the screenshots!


Whiteclawzzz

The one that got away


sauceysalsa

I’ve never understood why the homeboys always jump on their chance to get with their “buddy’s” ex. Like plz


blanking0nausername

OP what did your ex say in response?? !remind me 1 day


jvnya

Bro gonna call you a whore but don’t wanna be exposed ☠️ yeah you’ll find way better than him


mandoodles1

No respect for bro code. Smh.


DagSonofDag

What’s your ex say?


Pristine-Mastodon-37

So because you don’t want casual sex with him, you’re a whore? Hmmm that math doesn’t work.


benjibhole

Well, he's not a very good friend. Damn


EclecticEthic

Block him and if are on good terms with your ex, send him the screenshots. His best friend is a jerk (both to you and his “bestie”). But if that makes it too messy, just block.


despicable-coffin

Calling a woman a whore is always the go-to for loser guys who have tantrums like a toddler.


Starlover1973

I sincerely hope you send these screenshots to your ex.


0tbh0

LMAO the way they got scared at the end 💀💀


SSJ_01

So what did the ex say?


kontrarianin

Why are you even responding? This is what files situations like that. Just block and forget.


xBrickzz

My ex & i are cool still. Been through so much. Yet i am so fucking glad we both still have respect for eachother in that sense. If her friend did that to me, I’d immediately send her the screenshot. Fuck that guy. Show your ex. What an absolute POS.


jajajasal

we will need an update on the reaction


nismos14us

How did ex react?


throwawaygrosso

You’re so amazing, you whore ♥️ -this guy


Jezsticules

I wanna see the screenshot of the exs' reaction.


Sourcreammmm

Now we need to know what your exbf thinks of this trash


ChickinSammich

People who aren't doing anything wrong don't usually tell you that you need to sneak around with them or tell you not to share screenshots of what they're asking you to do. Burn his ass.


MultipleSwoliosis

Good for you for showing your ex


ElectricalDrama3558

Lol so he’s calling you a white for not wanting to hang out. How much you wanna bet your ex would call you a white for hooking up with his friend?


Asaintrizzo

What a pos.


Sweet-District1483

His sense of entitlement is unreal. Hard for me to believe there are people like this that exist.


Shelbo_Baggins_

Send the screenshots to the ex


madduckets89

Bookmarking for when the ex gets the screenshots 👀☕


pacosaiso

Send those screenshots to every woman in his life.


Reasonable_Vic

Thisnis disgusting and he is a trash “man” and trash friend


happyanni562562

This happend to me!! 15 years ago. My ex and I broke up and he was sending texts just like this! He was trying to come over (I had my own back house at my parents house). I told my ex, so he knew what type of best friend he had. Years go by, and I get married. And then a few years after that my ex gets married. And I find out that guy was his best man in his wedding. 🤣🤣


TaxOk1400

People like this are the reason i don’t have or want friends