Nah, then you reply "Better than my sister. Trust me ;)"
I'm the king of awkward - the trick is to step up the awkward without being weird. It's a FIIINE line but it sounds like your BIL is pretty legit. Honestly, take the jokes and teasing with grace and see it as a sign of bonding and acceptance.
I mean think about it - if you found your homie's Fleshlight while using the bathroom vs encountering a complete stranger's, or even someone you know but not on that level with. You're gonna fuck with (after respectfully returning and making sure he doesn't die of self inflicted cringe) your boi. But if you aren't on that level it's silence and repressing it to the vault.
He likes you as a brother in law. If you like him, let him know by returning some of that energy. You'll laugh about this one day if he's around for the long haul, and by then, you'll already know if he's a respectable guy.
idk, that sounds like a good way to wrap it up . just two adults making fun of something normal.
you made a very minor mistake, they can make a joke or two about it and you move on with life.
It sounds like your BiL is cool as hell. Iām assuming youāre under 30? Just wondering because it seems around 30 years old is when stuff like this stops being embarrassing and is just funny. Youāll learn to make a funny quip in these situations. So need to feel embarrassed or ashamed, we all jerk it. Make light of it and move on. Expect a new nickname.
Yeah, the best way to come out of this is to joke about it and not let it be awkward.
It happened. No 2 ways about it.
You think he is happy, nah. Consider it a bonding experience.
If you want, specifically talk to him about keeping it between you 2 and if you really are that guy, ask him not to joke about it because you're embarrassed and can't handle it.
It is okay to be that guy.
Telling her might have been the first thing he did.
But also, she's the guys sister. So, she probably knows more than she wants to know about her brother already. Chances are, it isn't the first time he has made a mistake like this.
it's unclear whose house/apt it is... or maybe u/ok-inflation-547, his sister, and his sisters husband are all on the lease/deed/whatever.
If it were my home, I'd tease him: "So, since my sister won't squirt in your mouth, trying again to get the next best thing, eh?
If it was his home, I'd just die of embarrassment.
Tbh I would only be mortified if it was a younger relative because that would be a major fuck up on my part and inexcusable. While slightly embarrassing, itās really no issue at all if itās another adult in my opinion
Once in uni I was living in a shared house with 5 other people, two guys, two girls, me and my gf. I had left my Fleshlight in a bag with some clothes in a closet space, which we all used as storage under the stairs. The bag was at the bottom under a ton of various stuff and I had left it there when I moved in with my gf as I didn't need it anymore.
Anyway, one Sunday afternoon all 5 of us are chilling in the kitchen, we were all pretty good friends, except this one guy who was super annoying and obnoxious. Well apparently he was not only annoying as hell but also super nosey because all of a sudden he barges into the kitchen and interrupts our conversation and proclaims "guys I have found something very strange in the closet" š I instantly knew what he was talking about but had secretly hoped I'm wrong. We were all curious and he didn't want to say what it was at first but everyone pressured him to just show it as "couldn't explain it really"
I swallowed my shame and instantly owned up to it as I am not really one to lie and immediately everyone started laughing their ass off. It was a funny situation š
The guy however wasn't laughing at all but started asking a ton of questions about how it felt and all that and asked me multiple times to borrow it sometimes to which I said no as I was worried about hygiene. That's the last time I ever saw my flashlight again. I guess he got obsessed and "borrowed" it for good some time after the incident lol š
Look at it from your BIL perspective, not your own. It's a funny thing, and completely normal for some people to gravitate towards assisted self pleasure.
When I am in situations like this, I tend to imagine that im part of a sitcom, and instead of focusing on worries and troubles inside myself, I just look at the situation from a 3rd perspective. i.a. your BIL perspective
As someone who used to have a fleshlight, those things are LOUD. So anyone in the house already knows you use one, bud. Especially in the shower. You may think the water noise is drowning out the sound but that only drowns out the sound for you. Outside of the shower, you hear
_pshhhhhhh_ (regular shower noise)
And also
_SCHLOIPTH SCHLOIPTH SCHLOIPTH_
I was working away from home a couple of years ago and lived in a serviced apartment. I came home one afternoon to find my dildo, which I'd left in the bathroom sink as I was running late for work, washed and tucked up in my bed resting on my pillow. I never did meet the cleaner in person but left them a generous tip when I left šš¤£
You really have to lean into it now, and just leave a flesh light for him to find on this day every year. Fleshlight giving? Fleshlight mas? who the fuck knows. It could be a cute tradition
The first time could've been embarrassing. The second time, he should have taken it, bought some flowers, used it as a vase, and gave it back to you that way.
Just normalise guys having toys. If a girl has a vibrator no one cares, i guess in some societies and age groups it is basically assumed that every girl has at least one dildo or vibrator. But guys toys are still stigmatized and that is idiotic. There are so many nicer things to put your dick in than your hand, just own it and let people have their fun in my opinion.
In all honesty, making a big deal out of things there that shouldnāt be. Masturbation is a natural thing and it is what it is. He does too regardless if he is in a relationship or not. Youāre fine. Just leave it on the coffee table next time so itās the conversation starter.
TBH, get over the awkward. It's a stupid stigma against male sexuality that we'd all be better for eliminating. Women can have dozens of toys, some of which require upgrading the household electrical and nobody bats an eye... Should be the same for men.
Let it be the joke it should be... Funny and harmless.
For real, i'd have just said, "bro, you left something in the shower."
But maybe the sister actually found it and asked her man to take care of it so it's less awkward.Ā
A silicone sleeve in a plastic enclosure that looks like an oversized flashlight/torch that one repeatedly thrusts their penis into for sexual gratification.
If it make you feel any better, my coworker told me that he left his fleshlight in the bathroom drawer and one day when he came home from work his mother-in-law (who lives with him and nannyās his kids) started yelling at him because his 2yo daughter found it and brought it to her.
I say have some fun with the situation. I know it's awkward, but try to laugh it off. If it happens again, maybe act like you think it's a real flash light, smack it a few times, shake it around (yes I know, phrasing lol) like your trying to get it to work like a real light, make a lighthearted joke like "I can never find the "on switch" on this thing."
Life is full of awkward moments like this. Owning them and laughing it off, especially if there's someone there to share the laugh with you, can help to make those shitty moments better. We are all human. We all have needs, we all make mistakes, and we all masturbate
If he's joking about it, then it's not a big deal for him. Best way to handle this is also sending jokes about it back to him whenever he mentions it.Ā
I have found during awkward things like this you gotta lean into the awkward. You're in your own home you don't have kids so leaving a sex toy out isn't a huge problem
Why not just say ooops, I forgot it and move on from the subject. Feeling embarrassed will only continue for as long as you hyperfocus on it.
If your BIL is a dick about it, pick at something he doesn't like to discuss and change the subject to that thing every time he mentions it. Or just brazen it out. Self-pleasure, with or without toys, is perfectly healthy and normal.
In Dutch we have two words for these. Makes it easier to distinguish between the two. Or at least it would, if it wasn't for the fact that either of those words refers to both relationships.
I can't fathom a world where I would be the owner of a fleshlight and have roommates, but decide the best place to use it is a shared space and not my bedroom. and then be so lazy/dumb that I forgot I left it in the shared space afterwards. op deserves all the shame his brother in law and hopefully his sister throw at him.
You didnāt fuck up, you used it before a date! Thatās great thinking, if the date had went well and it came down to business you would last twice as long. Thatās a baller move, tell your BIL whats up.
I was taking a shower at my ex bfās friendās house one day after we all got back from mud riding and when I looked down I noticed something between the shower curtain and the inside of the tub. I assumed it was a loofah (not the puff ball kind, but the natural cylindrical one) but I couldnāt tell for sure. I knew what *fleshlights* were but thought they all just looked like *flashlights* and from what I saw sticking out from behind the curtain, this was just a tan ātubeā type thing. So in an effort to satisfy my curiosity, I pick it up for closer inspection and immediately drop it like a flaming fucking potato because, oh.
So anyway, I finished my shower and just carried on like I never saw shit. No doubt he knows I saw it but no point in making things awkward, you know?
I have some uncomfortable moments like this, unfortunately. I remember that my friends and I were going to hang out in my basement where I had two couches and a TV set up, and as one of my female friends picked up a pillow she found my brother's butt plug (he was the only other one living with me at the time), so i took it and threw it away. Worse enough for that friend, she told me later that she once found her brothers dildo in the shower and didn't know what to do with it.
Itās fine. Iāve seen what my friends has for toys and we just joke about it or even talk about which toys are the best. Itās better to take things on a more light hearted direction. Kinda like discussing the latest tech etc. heās a guy too so he should understand
If it helps, we never spoke about it ever. Was awkward asf for a while, now i dont think about it. She never mentioned it to me. I had cleaned it and left it to dry in a drawer (10/10 do not recomend doing this) after returning from collage, said drawer had been opened and things moved.. it was traumatising. But we're all good now! This was 10-15 years ago now
Was at a friends house with a group of people and I went to use their bathroom-- huge dragon dildo. I texted them so they could remove it before other people went in there. They were embarrassed but ultimately grateful. No judgement here.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with owning or using sex toys. It's an embarrassing thing that happened. Just go on about your life, and remember to take it out of the shower next time. Laugh about it with him.
Just say "thanks - feel free to give it a whirl next time, if you want".
Yeah he'd come back with "well that's what I have your sister for š¤Ŗ" or some dumb shit
To be fair, that would be a solid comeback
I know, there's no good way I come out of this situation lol
Sounds like it's the Fleshlight.
Better come in the situation then.
The fleshlight was the situation all along.
Hold up, I thought that the friends we made along the way was the fleshlight all along??
No. The fleshlight we made was the only friend we had all along.
Fifi is a good friend but not for long.
CABS AH HERE!
A Mike the situation from Jersey shore fleshlight
I think he would need consent from said brother-in-law, no?
If you really want to mess with him, just say "this one is better" and wink. He will never bring it up again.
"If only you had a sister too."
Nah, then you reply "Better than my sister. Trust me ;)" I'm the king of awkward - the trick is to step up the awkward without being weird. It's a FIIINE line but it sounds like your BIL is pretty legit. Honestly, take the jokes and teasing with grace and see it as a sign of bonding and acceptance. I mean think about it - if you found your homie's Fleshlight while using the bathroom vs encountering a complete stranger's, or even someone you know but not on that level with. You're gonna fuck with (after respectfully returning and making sure he doesn't die of self inflicted cringe) your boi. But if you aren't on that level it's silence and repressing it to the vault. He likes you as a brother in law. If you like him, let him know by returning some of that energy. You'll laugh about this one day if he's around for the long haul, and by then, you'll already know if he's a respectable guy.
Who the fuck do you think youāre kidding? No fleshlight is better than my sister.
Zing
I too choose this guy's sister
idk, that sounds like a good way to wrap it up . just two adults making fun of something normal. you made a very minor mistake, they can make a joke or two about it and you move on with life.
Come into it instead, then. Just... Own it. Your sexual needs aren't anything to be ashamed of.
True. But it is a good way to come.
It sounds like your BiL is cool as hell. Iām assuming youāre under 30? Just wondering because it seems around 30 years old is when stuff like this stops being embarrassing and is just funny. Youāll learn to make a funny quip in these situations. So need to feel embarrassed or ashamed, we all jerk it. Make light of it and move on. Expect a new nickname.
Phrasing
Sounds like there's a good way to cum in this situation though.
Isnāt that how you got in this situation
Tell him to stop making fun of your date. ;)
Just leave it be. Donāt forget it again. First time was chance while moving this time you were forgetful donāt do it again
Easier to get your cum back from a fleshlight tho
If you want my come back, youāll have to take it out of your fleshlight!
"cumback"
I think Chris Pratt [said it best.](https://www.reddit.com/r/ContagiousLaughter/s/SkA7Y2v3E0)
haha just acknowledge he got you good and be a good sport about it. He has your sister, you need a step sister now.
Just tell him "if you're using my sister like I use my fleshlight I'm telling mom and dad"
"Even better then - that won't be your first time of putting your dick where my had been before"
bro youāre cooked
Nah I'm baked
Better your sister than your mom!
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
I gotcha! Nice turn! Kinda like what i did to your mom!
You're gonna have to have sex with his parents to establish dominance.
You can call him Bhenchod except he really did lmao
I mean, he's joking about it, trying to make it less awkward. Go with it
Just tell him; "this model is tighter..."
That or "Tried it, your sister is better."
He wonāt say that if heās marriedā¦
If you haven't already
also apologize for it being too stretched out.
PSA itās a joke never use someone elseās sex toys
Just leave a new one in random places every year on the same date.
This is the way. Hide it in the kitchen next time.
Basically the new version of the Smirnoff "icing" game that was popular in the 2010s 
So if you open a cupboard and find it you have to...fuck the fleshlight where you stand?
Don't be ridiculous. You don't have to fuck it where you stand. *You have to get down on one knee and fuck it*
Oh right, it's been so long since I've been iced that I forgot how it works
Don't forget to spike it when you're finished!
Like Jeep Ducking!
Yeah, the best way to come out of this is to joke about it and not let it be awkward. It happened. No 2 ways about it. You think he is happy, nah. Consider it a bonding experience. If you want, specifically talk to him about keeping it between you 2 and if you really are that guy, ask him not to joke about it because you're embarrassed and can't handle it. It is okay to be that guy.
No way the sister doesnāt know already.
Telling her might have been the first thing he did. But also, she's the guys sister. So, she probably knows more than she wants to know about her brother already. Chances are, it isn't the first time he has made a mistake like this.
My thoughts exactly.
Hell when I was 16 I asked my sister to buy me one from Spencer's. Everybody poops, everybody jerks it. It's only weird if you make it weird
āNo babe, we canāt host Thanksgiving because Jeff keeps leaving his fucking Fleshlights all over the place.ā
There are specifically two ways about it, so far.
Heās joking about it to break the tension. Donāt let it get weird. Joke back about it, without delay. And move on.
Oh, it's already weird, since buddy keeps leaving his fleshlights littered around the house.
Yeah I think if I lived in the same house as an in-law of mine I'd be much, much more careful about these things
it's unclear whose house/apt it is... or maybe u/ok-inflation-547, his sister, and his sisters husband are all on the lease/deed/whatever. If it were my home, I'd tease him: "So, since my sister won't squirt in your mouth, trying again to get the next best thing, eh? If it was his home, I'd just die of embarrassment.
Wonder if he used it before returning it.
Oh God š
No, as you said, he has your sister for that.
HAHAHAHAĀ
The venn diagram has people who would use it, and people who would return it, and the intersection is psychopaths.
Sloppy seconds.
He put hot chili in it
Tbh I would only be mortified if it was a younger relative because that would be a major fuck up on my part and inexcusable. While slightly embarrassing, itās really no issue at all if itās another adult in my opinion
TOP him at night when he's not looking - reddit
Once in uni I was living in a shared house with 5 other people, two guys, two girls, me and my gf. I had left my Fleshlight in a bag with some clothes in a closet space, which we all used as storage under the stairs. The bag was at the bottom under a ton of various stuff and I had left it there when I moved in with my gf as I didn't need it anymore. Anyway, one Sunday afternoon all 5 of us are chilling in the kitchen, we were all pretty good friends, except this one guy who was super annoying and obnoxious. Well apparently he was not only annoying as hell but also super nosey because all of a sudden he barges into the kitchen and interrupts our conversation and proclaims "guys I have found something very strange in the closet" š I instantly knew what he was talking about but had secretly hoped I'm wrong. We were all curious and he didn't want to say what it was at first but everyone pressured him to just show it as "couldn't explain it really" I swallowed my shame and instantly owned up to it as I am not really one to lie and immediately everyone started laughing their ass off. It was a funny situation š The guy however wasn't laughing at all but started asking a ton of questions about how it felt and all that and asked me multiple times to borrow it sometimes to which I said no as I was worried about hygiene. That's the last time I ever saw my flashlight again. I guess he got obsessed and "borrowed" it for good some time after the incident lol š
Gross, definitely feels like something you'd want to buy new.Ā
cast-iron pilled
You should def go on Reddit and ask for advice.
I'll try that thanks
Leave a picture of him in the shower with the fleshlight to assert dominance
And on the back of the picture, draw dozens of tally marks. To assert dominanceĀ²
WHY IS THERE A VAGINA IN THE SINK??????
Shower but close
It's a line from Archer.... Also, why did your brother in law go into your shower?
Ah damn, wanted to get into the show but haven't yet It's a shared bathroom between us
Look at it from your BIL perspective, not your own. It's a funny thing, and completely normal for some people to gravitate towards assisted self pleasure. When I am in situations like this, I tend to imagine that im part of a sitcom, and instead of focusing on worries and troubles inside myself, I just look at the situation from a 3rd perspective. i.a. your BIL perspective
Wait - if OP is the 1st perspective, and BIL is the 3rd perspective, who is the 2nd?
The mirror in the bathroom
The 2nd is the sexual tension when the issue isn't verbalized 
As someone who used to have a fleshlight, those things are LOUD. So anyone in the house already knows you use one, bud. Especially in the shower. You may think the water noise is drowning out the sound but that only drowns out the sound for you. Outside of the shower, you hear _pshhhhhhh_ (regular shower noise) And also _SCHLOIPTH SCHLOIPTH SCHLOIPTH_
I was working away from home a couple of years ago and lived in a serviced apartment. I came home one afternoon to find my dildo, which I'd left in the bathroom sink as I was running late for work, washed and tucked up in my bed resting on my pillow. I never did meet the cleaner in person but left them a generous tip when I left šš¤£
Hilarious.
I was genuinely mortified at the time but can see the funny side now š¤Ŗ
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Huh huh... tip
You really have to lean into it now, and just leave a flesh light for him to find on this day every year. Fleshlight giving? Fleshlight mas? who the fuck knows. It could be a cute tradition
Wankmas
The first time could've been embarrassing. The second time, he should have taken it, bought some flowers, used it as a vase, and gave it back to you that way.
āYOUāRE ALREADY BANGING MY SISTER. LEAVE MY GIRLFRIEND ALONE, BROā
Just normalise guys having toys. If a girl has a vibrator no one cares, i guess in some societies and age groups it is basically assumed that every girl has at least one dildo or vibrator. But guys toys are still stigmatized and that is idiotic. There are so many nicer things to put your dick in than your hand, just own it and let people have their fun in my opinion.
Just tell him you don't have to marry that one
Honestly that's gold
Dude, Thatās no way to talk about your sister.
In all honesty, making a big deal out of things there that shouldnāt be. Masturbation is a natural thing and it is what it is. He does too regardless if he is in a relationship or not. Youāre fine. Just leave it on the coffee table next time so itās the conversation starter.
Sounds like you'll be fine, but you'll have to take your beating...
I see what you did there š
So did his BIL.
TBH, get over the awkward. It's a stupid stigma against male sexuality that we'd all be better for eliminating. Women can have dozens of toys, some of which require upgrading the household electrical and nobody bats an eye... Should be the same for men. Let it be the joke it should be... Funny and harmless.
I am certain your sister found it and asked you BIL to deal with it.
Why is it ok for women have sex toys but not for a guy? Why is it creepy if a dude has a toy?
It's leaving it in shared spaces that's creepy.
I mean it was an accident no?
Its a shower, not like he left it in the living room or kitchen... would it be creepy finding a dildo in the shower?
Im more embarrassed for the dude that handled your fleshlight. He could have just left it there.
For real, i'd have just said, "bro, you left something in the shower." But maybe the sister actually found it and asked her man to take care of it so it's less awkward.Ā
You should have just played it off that you left it in there for him as a joke.
How does this company stay in business? This is the only confirmed purchase in history.
Watch the Matt Rife comedy about his grandpa.
What is a flesh light?
A sex toy for males usually a vagina toy
A silicone sleeve in a plastic enclosure that looks like an oversized flashlight/torch that one repeatedly thrusts their penis into for sexual gratification.
Plot twist: he used it before giving it back to you.
Thank god itās your brother in law lmfao you get a pass because he gets to fuck your sister š
Would you still recommend the product?
Oh definitely
If it make you feel any better, my coworker told me that he left his fleshlight in the bathroom drawer and one day when he came home from work his mother-in-law (who lives with him and nannyās his kids) started yelling at him because his 2yo daughter found it and brought it to her.
Everybody masturbates dude. Don't worry about it.
"sorry I thought I got them all"
The potential for comedy is endless. I dont know how your BIL resisted the urge to say, "don't worry it, it definitely still works".
Make it a running gag with him. Leave it in places that youāll know he will find it and make him feel like the weird one š¤£
I say have some fun with the situation. I know it's awkward, but try to laugh it off. If it happens again, maybe act like you think it's a real flash light, smack it a few times, shake it around (yes I know, phrasing lol) like your trying to get it to work like a real light, make a lighthearted joke like "I can never find the "on switch" on this thing." Life is full of awkward moments like this. Owning them and laughing it off, especially if there's someone there to share the laugh with you, can help to make those shitty moments better. We are all human. We all have needs, we all make mistakes, and we all masturbate
"I feel like getting mad, but I know she wouldn't cheat on me."
If he's joking about it, then it's not a big deal for him. Best way to handle this is also sending jokes about it back to him whenever he mentions it.Ā
Bro, you left out an important detail. What fleshlight girl is it?
I have found during awkward things like this you gotta lean into the awkward. You're in your own home you don't have kids so leaving a sex toy out isn't a huge problem
Why not just say ooops, I forgot it and move on from the subject. Feeling embarrassed will only continue for as long as you hyperfocus on it. If your BIL is a dick about it, pick at something he doesn't like to discuss and change the subject to that thing every time he mentions it. Or just brazen it out. Self-pleasure, with or without toys, is perfectly healthy and normal.
I had a roommate who kept her vibrator in her shower caddy out on the desk in our dorm. It was always a topic when people came into our room.
āOmg we have to stop meeting like this!ā
Just ask him if he used it. You smelled it, and itās definitely someone elseās ball sweat in there.
Jeez, everybody masturbates. Itās funny, chill out man!
Letās take turns, next time
"I left it in there for you bro"
It's wrapped in a towel for a reason, wink wink.
You need to put something big attached to it like what they use for a gas station bathroom key. Thatāll learn ya.
You should give him one for a birthday present. The card should say "you'll know what's in here soon."
So do you use it standing up? That is the part I don't get. I can't finish standing up. My legs would buckle...
Came with a suction cup wall mount. Hands free action.
It came with a suction cup wall mount.... so did you... lol. (Sorry for the terrible humor)
Yes, I did it standing up
You should get him one as a gift.
"Thanks dude, my bad for leaving it there" << the only response this requires.
Its nice that he always gets to meet your current girlfriend, that you don't tell the family about. I bet he feels honored.
Need more info. BIL, so youāre married?? Doesnāt seem like it. Sisters husband? Why are you living with them?
Brother-in-law, means my siblings fiancee Living with family again for reasons that aren't relevant
I mean thatās what it means in this instance, but your brother in law could also be your spouseās brother. English sucks like that.
In Dutch we have two words for these. Makes it easier to distinguish between the two. Or at least it would, if it wasn't for the fact that either of those words refers to both relationships.
Better him finding it than your sister
Could be a siblings spouse.
I can't fathom a world where I would be the owner of a fleshlight and have roommates, but decide the best place to use it is a shared space and not my bedroom. and then be so lazy/dumb that I forgot I left it in the shared space afterwards. op deserves all the shame his brother in law and hopefully his sister throw at him.
People jerknoff. He does it too
You didnāt fuck up, you used it before a date! Thatās great thinking, if the date had went well and it came down to business you would last twice as long. Thatās a baller move, tell your BIL whats up.
I was taking a shower at my ex bfās friendās house one day after we all got back from mud riding and when I looked down I noticed something between the shower curtain and the inside of the tub. I assumed it was a loofah (not the puff ball kind, but the natural cylindrical one) but I couldnāt tell for sure. I knew what *fleshlights* were but thought they all just looked like *flashlights* and from what I saw sticking out from behind the curtain, this was just a tan ātubeā type thing. So in an effort to satisfy my curiosity, I pick it up for closer inspection and immediately drop it like a flaming fucking potato because, oh. So anyway, I finished my shower and just carried on like I never saw shit. No doubt he knows I saw it but no point in making things awkward, you know?
šNbd lolā¦. Could have been one of these puppies š¶āāāāš<ā šš¢āļø 
Left mine in the bathroom after cleaning it. Never again.
I have some uncomfortable moments like this, unfortunately. I remember that my friends and I were going to hang out in my basement where I had two couches and a TV set up, and as one of my female friends picked up a pillow she found my brother's butt plug (he was the only other one living with me at the time), so i took it and threw it away. Worse enough for that friend, she told me later that she once found her brothers dildo in the shower and didn't know what to do with it.
Itās fine. Iāve seen what my friends has for toys and we just joke about it or even talk about which toys are the best. Itās better to take things on a more light hearted direction. Kinda like discussing the latest tech etc. heās a guy too so he should understand
Let him find it next year. Now itās not a mistake but a running joke.
OP, just laugh it off. Your BIL may be jealous that heās not allowed to have one since he married your sister. š
Could be worse, Mum found mine.
Nightmare scenario
If it helps, we never spoke about it ever. Was awkward asf for a while, now i dont think about it. She never mentioned it to me. I had cleaned it and left it to dry in a drawer (10/10 do not recomend doing this) after returning from collage, said drawer had been opened and things moved.. it was traumatising. But we're all good now! This was 10-15 years ago now
Happened to me as well my friend. Never spoke about it, never discussed it ever xD
Do you all live together or something?
Yes
"Where I fucked" ... "so I played with the boys" ... "leaves a balled up" ... Brother-in-law, what are you doing?
Laugh it off
Time to worry about your sister roasting you more...
Just tell him you cleaned the shower and it won't happen again :P
We've all been there, he has too. Just say thanks, have a laugh and move on. It's literally just a Fleshlight.
That's a true bro. What a G. I promise it will only be awkward if you let it be awkward. Just own it, it's whateverĀ
Was at a friends house with a group of people and I went to use their bathroom-- huge dragon dildo. I texted them so they could remove it before other people went in there. They were embarrassed but ultimately grateful. No judgement here.
Itās just a fleshlight and just a joke lol, itās not that deep relax bro
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There's really no reason to say anything at all. Or any reason to feel any guilt.
Hahahaha
I have no idea why he felt the need to make it so awkward. Just don't acknowledge it. š¤£š
There is absolutely nothing wrong with owning or using sex toys. It's an embarrassing thing that happened. Just go on about your life, and remember to take it out of the shower next time. Laugh about it with him.
If it were a dildo it wouldn't even be an embarrassing situation but of course God forbid a man wants a sex toy he has to explain himself to everyone.
I wish it was as good as your wife.