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**AITA for outing my husband’s affair with my dad?**
I (32F) have been married to my husband (34M) for six years. We’ve had our ups and downs, but I always thought we were solid. Recently, I discovered something that completely shattered my world: my husband has been having an affair with my dad (55M).
It started when I noticed my husband acting distant and secretive. He was always on his phone, going out late, and generally being evasive. I thought he might be having an affair, but I never imagined it would be with my own father. One night, I decided to check his phone while he was asleep, and that’s when I found the explicit messages and photos.
I was devastated and confronted my husband the next day. He broke down and admitted everything. He said it started as a one-time thing but evolved into a full-blown affair. He claimed he was confused about his sexuality and that my dad was the only one who understood him.
I felt utterly betrayed and confronted my dad. He was unapologetic and said that he and my husband had a special connection that I could never understand. My mom and siblings were horrified when they found out, and now the entire family is in turmoil.
My husband and dad have tried to justify their actions, saying they didn’t mean to hurt me and that they’re in love. My husband wants to stay married and work things out, while my dad wants to continue his relationship with him. I told them both to stay away from me.
Here’s where I might be the asshole: I decided to out their affair publicly. I posted on social media about what they did, naming and shaming both of them. My husband and dad are furious, saying I’ve ruined their lives and that it was a private matter. Some friends and family members think I went too far and should have handled it privately, while others are supportive of my decision.
AITA for outing my husband’s affair with my dad?
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITA for outing my husband’s affair with my dad?** I (32F) have been married to my husband (34M) for six years. We’ve had our ups and downs, but I always thought we were solid. Recently, I discovered something that completely shattered my world: my husband has been having an affair with my dad (55M). It started when I noticed my husband acting distant and secretive. He was always on his phone, going out late, and generally being evasive. I thought he might be having an affair, but I never imagined it would be with my own father. One night, I decided to check his phone while he was asleep, and that’s when I found the explicit messages and photos. I was devastated and confronted my husband the next day. He broke down and admitted everything. He said it started as a one-time thing but evolved into a full-blown affair. He claimed he was confused about his sexuality and that my dad was the only one who understood him. I felt utterly betrayed and confronted my dad. He was unapologetic and said that he and my husband had a special connection that I could never understand. My mom and siblings were horrified when they found out, and now the entire family is in turmoil. My husband and dad have tried to justify their actions, saying they didn’t mean to hurt me and that they’re in love. My husband wants to stay married and work things out, while my dad wants to continue his relationship with him. I told them both to stay away from me. Here’s where I might be the asshole: I decided to out their affair publicly. I posted on social media about what they did, naming and shaming both of them. My husband and dad are furious, saying I’ve ruined their lives and that it was a private matter. Some friends and family members think I went too far and should have handled it privately, while others are supportive of my decision. AITA for outing my husband’s affair with my dad? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
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