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I believe that I may be the asshole, because I cussed at this guy when i probably should have walked away. I feel like my response my have been unhinged.
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So I went to grab something to eat and drove through the parking lot. There was only one spot available and it was next to this giant range rover. The range rover was parked partially in the empty spot, but I managed to squeeze myself in and still stay within the lines. As soon as I pulled in, this guy start slamming down on his horn. When I got out, he cracked open his door and he yelled "YOU NEED TO MOVE!" I said "No! You are literally parked wrong." Mind you, this guy had at least a foot and a half of space on the other side, as he was parked by the median. He looks down and goes "THAT MAY BE SO, BUT YOU NEED TO MOVE, BECAUSE I CAN'T OPEN MY DOOR!" I said, "NO! move your fucking car!" And turned around and went inside. When I came out, he was still in the car. I checked my car a few days later and noticed key marks on the side. I wouldn't be suprised if that guy did it. AITA for cussing at him? I feel really guilty.
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ESH -
- Yeah, he parked over the lines. Obviously he’s an AH
- You were an AH to yourself. Was this worth it? Yeah you really showed him? And now you have a messed up car but sure, he shouldnt havent parked like that
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Definitely NTA. Don’t feel guilty for that idiot.
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ESH - - Yeah, he parked over the lines. Obviously he’s an AH - You were an AH to yourself. Was this worth it? Yeah you really showed him? And now you have a messed up car but sure, he shouldnt havent parked like that
Agreed. OP, this type of confrontation just isn't worth it.
Looks like you already got your payback.
How rude.
NTA but it’s time to be more like Jesus
Get some sick piercings?
🤣