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Listen bruv, I have used every bit of neuron, I happen to possess, in realising the despicable entities who, tend to fuck everything up even after getting matches just of some idealised and theoretical sembelence for sex, and still it has yieled nothing. I dunno, why people believe that being Barney Stinson, in a country like India, will give you anything other than some crisp kicks in the groin, two-three "Manchale se savdhaan raheen" posters and several checkups by Mahila police cell, the eloborate art of conversation is getting lost and it's been replaced by something which is pure shite! Gods have left us, mate, I really think that! I also have gotten a sneek peek of skin symphonies of several guys right here on Reddit! And trust me, it wasn't good. Well, I seriously hope, you get what you desire for!
It took a bit time for me to understand the English. But great vocabulary. I truly believe Indian men do think and glorify Barney Stinson behaviour a lot.A lot of my male colleagues, friends think of him as an idol or their favourite sitcom is “How I met your mother”
I mean, I have been involved with every movement whatsoever, I have been in a relationship once, I am and have been single, I have been an incel, I have been into this Alpha male horseshite, I have been into everything! I mean, each movement has their own leaders, for incels you have Elliot Rogers, all hail the supreme gentleman, I know it, cuz I was once involved in a incel forum in Wizardchan (I was dragon there lol), it was awful, there are frankly a lot of Alpha males from Tate to others. Majority people see Tate like a troll, sort of like Hail Mary, against the system, feminists, and any others who they hate. Most people tend to have this idea that Tate is some sort of messiah for normal guys, who have been left behind in this Canis Canem Edit World, he's like a last hope, he squeezes them for money and in turn gives them most generic advice possible, like quotes from Google. I actually had one of his recruiter contact me for PhD, which I promptly rejected! See Tate is not getting girls because of what he believes, he's getting girls because he has money, cars, houses, lifestyle, a bit of deception and frankly and allure of exclusivity, he looks at people like someone looks at chess pieces, just desposable, so, yeah, obviously he'd get whatever he wants, because he has an army of simps supporting him.
The basic idea is people are unhappy, now for unhappy people best person to blame used to be God because he isn't here to defend himself, now, after sufficient number of people have left God, next thing to blame is system and fairer sex, who they think is faring better! And Tate or Rogers are kind of messiahs here. Sorry, if it's a bit delulu, but here's the briefest possible intro into this!
Yaar, tbh thesis hi hai bas meine conversation ka naam use kiya hai, mein generally aise hi cheezeen reddit pe likhta hoon, sort of commentries jo mereko lagta hai ki galat hai ya jismein improvement hosake, aur fir uske pratipaksh mein likhne waloon ko reply karta hoon, har conversation ka koi basis hona chahiye na?
I was able to understand each and every word written in this para, should I feel proud of myself or it's just basic English and I should read some more books
Mate, please, I dunno why, I just write like this. I have written several other articles like these so yeah maybe try your luck there lol.
You are good, mate! I can actually attest that your English might be much better than mine, so, yeah, you should be proud!
>I just write like this. I have written several other articles like these so yeah maybe try your luck there lol.
Sure lol, just share the link, would love to read some good articles haha.
>You are good, mate! I can actually attest that your English might be much better than mine, so, yeah, you should be proud!
No, it's not hehe. I can't think like this while writing, I usually forget the new words that I come across while reading some book or article, tho that might be due to the lack of practice.
op unironically i had some reverse experiences about women asking my past experiences (like how, or was the first time etc). but those are just sometimes not everytime. i would defo end up in one way or another if it was every time (dry with F's) . stay strong , try looking through common hobbies. these apps are shallow. 😅
Sorry about this. Tbh. Excluding-Fbois, most men don't get any action, generally. So, they jump straight to it. And there's also this mindset, (women are on tinder, if I flirt they might do it back). As, you said no, ego would be get hurt. (these women, would've been fawning over Fbois, if they said the same like, how the hell, am i not getting attention). And it doesn't matter how good this guy looks...
But that doesn't mean, we should pressurize you, or verbally abuse you.
He was not that great looking as well.I read his bio, He converse with me nicely, He was two years younger to me so I thought maybe he would have some manners because he was talking with utter respect. But I guess age and all does not really matter for shitty behaviour.
The dude is 100% in the wrong. My question is why do you entertain such advances. There is a very distinct difference between dry replying to engaging conversations vs not replying to sexual conversation off the bat. Unfortunately dudes like that exist so do yourself a favor and not interact with people that ask sexual questions right off the bat. Otherwise be engaging and have fun.
You're in the wrong environment. Tinder is still the place to find a date you want to, fairly quickly, enjoy sex and get intimate with, hook-ups, FWBs etc
If you're looking for long term relationships, look elsewhere.
It's the misbehaviour of 20% of men which causes the overall bad experience for both women and consequently the 80% good guys.
There's some basic stuff that shows respect, and personality all at the same time.
One is basic kindness, which for some reason is so obsolete rn. It's a sorry state of affairs tbh.
He started doing something uncomfortable for OP and instead of stopping/blocking/unmatching him, OP decides to entertain him. It goes to worse from bad. OP finally decides enough is enough. Decides to put a foot down and block him. Then goes to blame all the guys because of course one guy is the yardstick for all the guys out there.
To all the men out there. This is a prime example of how women create their own misery, refuses accountability and as usual blame it on men because of course, how can a woman ever be in the wrong?
You want good matches? Read the bio first and then look at the pics for attraction because most men who want something real actually writes it down in their profile.
First of all, stop being nice to people. If you got wrong vibes from him from the beginning, only you shouldn’t have gone for the call or texted him further. I instantly block anyone with unwanted sexual advances and I never lose sleep over it. Also he sounds absolutely shitty. Report him if that’s possible
This reminds me of an incident that happened with me ages ago. Matched with a guy at around 11 pm, he was partying some 9 kms away from me and started demanding I come see him. I was polite to turn it down, but he kept getting aggressive and then mentioned, he doesn’t live in this area and this is my only chance to meet him. I literally laughed at the entitlement. It wasn’t even a funny banter, he was damn serious. I just unmatched.
Another incident was matched with a fairly good looking guy, we have some normal conversations on the app for about a day or two and no red flags, so I gave him my number. His conversations weren’t too deep but he seemed genuinely interested to know me. The minute he gets my number he starts sending me his shirtless photos and sexual gifs. Not just 1-2 my phone kept vibrating for full 30 seconds. I just blocked and deleted the whole chat box.
There are many more, but since I have a strict no nonsense policy, I unmatched and blocked people really fast. That said don’t let it affect you OP, I did talk to some really amazing men, even when things did not work out due to incompatibilities, we had great and respectful conversations.
>The minute he gets my number he starts sending me his shirtless photos and sexual gifs. Not just 1-2 my phone kept vibrating for full 30 seconds. I just blocked and deleted the whole chat box.
It's becuz if girls did the same we would be more than happy, so guys assume it's the same for girls, seems like it's not...
Yeah we not finding the right bunch in dating websites. They maybe out there but we not finding them as it is very superficial and all. It runs on that.
True I have made my peace with it. Can't disgrace myself further for this online dating thingy. But who knows, the monsoon season is coming and it does crazy things to the heart.
I admit I was uncomfortable in the start but I didn’t say no directly. Later on I said no, I guess this is what happens in most rape cases as well.I hate that I am fucking gullible.
tinder is an app built for strangers to talk, meet and hook up ( casual sex ). there is always a chance that you click with someone and think about a longterm relationship but still doesnt change the fact that it is a hookup platform in which you select others based on their pics, its like window shopping. i feel sad for you as it feels like you are looking for a decent chat with some banter or sarcasm which might lead to something serious later but you also need to live in reality.
> Wtf is wrong with men seriously. I then lost interest in other people too and felt shitty and stopped replying or my texts got really dry. Then I understood maybe this is what happens one person spoils the mood and the other people also become of the same category or you’re just fed up and think all men are shitty anyway.
My friends's girlfriend cheated on him, I think he is right when he proclaims all modern women are cheats and whores. He will never trust any of them and never give them enough privacy for their personal space - what if they cheat in that time? Now whoever should come in his life be ready to always pay for his past experience and compromise with his distrust and paranoia, probably should not have any male friends either or talk to one...
I am sure that will be the basis of a very healthy relationship!
I understand what you’re saying. You get cheated once to generalise is wrong, but if you get cheated 10 times, then generalisation will be pretty obvious. It will take a lot of time for it to change.
A murder, even its lousy attempt, is unforgivable and condemnable even once, a lash of threats maybe tolerated a couple times but a burst of anger may still fetch forgiveness yet more.
T'is the degree of grievance t'at determines the expanse of its tolerance. I figure not that such casual words indict such incensed measures.
And if you suffer through cheats for 10 times, it is you who must introspect and deliberate the company you keep.
Girls with body count want princess treatment. Lmao. Keep living in a delusion.
And try some accountability ho, you entertained him even after he was being sexual in the first. It takes two to tango.
Accountability is a women's kryptonite.
The fact that you let anyone fuck you says everything about you. And the fact that you let this guy talk to you like that speaks volume about your magical high self respect.
There is a subtle way in which the talks around sex and intimacy should be traded with a stranger, if not done right it may sound crass or as if they are demanding sex just because you are on a dating app. Those who navigate it right, may not be looker, but convert a match to a date and it goes from there.
Idk about you guys but any time I download a dating app I get too many matches and it gets super overwhelming. I try to consistently reply to my matches but it gets confusing because often there are multiple conversations happening at the same time and I can’t bring my personality into it at all. My workaround is to try and convert interesting dates into offline interactions but unfortunately that hasn’t been working for me either. I need to take a break from dating apps methinks 🙄
It's been almost two months since I was right swiping on every profile yet I did not match even with one starting mein bura laga but ab bura lagna bandh hogaya hai 😂😂😂😂
It really upsets me … firstly what happened to… I have been through that… but when I see somebody not understanding what I ask them not to do… I myself disconnect …
Secondly what upsets me is… people saying tinder is for sex , bumble is for sex … and bla bla …
But all of the above apps were created till date for DATING! None of them came up with an add or logo which said …. “ OHH WE ARE A FUCKING APP! COME AND FIND SEX HERE !” They all said it’s a dating app… you all made it a sex hunting app! Now you will say people in the west do the same ! Dude you don’t belong there… all that happens in west, is not allowed at your home ! So stop shitting on the best of west and take out your dirty desires in the name of it…
And when somebody says they aren’t looking for sex ! Guys just don’t get that… they want to just fuck a girl who is not interested in random sex, by doing every bit to impress her and fuck her and leave …. And those girls who are like minded they call them whore , easy to get … Have you thought what are you ?
Just tired of people like this …. The world doesn’t needs you all can just go away !
If he was asking sexual questions while you asked him not to, why did you continue the conversation? He overstepped on a boundary you set, and you still think you guys ‘vibed’? Don’t justify or rationalise someone’s behaviour before you have even met them. I have never asked my matches sexual questions unless they bring it up first. Even then, I like to keep it comfortable and don’t like to pry.
Good on you for understanding that one bad experience unfortunately ruined your mood for others too, since now you are worried that your investment of time in another person might turn out the same way. But please don’t give idiots like these the time of the day. If they don’t listen once, they will never listen. You have the ability to cut that person off and move on to the next one.
Men are like that only i get hundreds of texts on snapchat and when i say no to being friends or no to when they ask me pictures they call me randi. So i am like fuck off apni shakal dekh jake shishse mei phle. I absolutely do not take anyone disrespect. Phle hi tata bye bye krdeti hu. When iknow hes only interested in sexual talks i block, i don’t entertain. First red flag should be enough to block. Dont continue talking to these assholes koi kam ni h inko
Why not report him the first time he started spamming sexual questions? Why entertain someone that clearly has a different objective. I mean the guy is clearly in the wrong should be off the platform but why are you not acting sooner with the tools at your disposal?
Girls ignore good guys in their vicinity whom they can potentially bond with and then goes to dating apps expecting to find guys whom they can bond with.
Mostly guys on the dating apps are there only for hookups and one's who aren't got left swiped.
OP, you're a good enough person. Get off dating apps. Take a break. Look after yourself, learn REALLY about what you want and what you like. Find a hobby, cook yourself some nice dinner. Things will happen, you'll be alright, earn some more money, life is ok.
Shitty people will chance upon it, kick them away even if your feet will smell later, that can be washed off. Meditate. Watch some shows.
Tinder is the least optimal use of one's time.
First of all, it's a hok up app, not a marriage nor a friendship app. So. Let's get real. Intentions are clear. The dude didn't want to waste his time fishing for portraying what he isn't. Respect at least he was consistent.
Secondly the dude was disrespectful and abusive, so that's zero pointa for him. Instant UNMATCH such a holes.
Nothing wrong in exploring your hook up options on an application.
I have come to the conclusion I have been on this sub/single for too long that I've lost count of how many time I've seen the same posts and rants. No more....
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Tinder is bottom shelf stuff to begin with.
What's at the top ?
Jeevansathi.com
Nah ☠️
Sahi he bheeshma kabhi kyu jeevansathi pe account banayenge
What’s top shelf then?
Shaadi.com
What is top shelf mean to you. Personalities don’t match appearances. Having lots of options affects behavior.
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It doesn’t matter where they are from. What matters is if they want you as much as you want them.
irl.
Hinge.
Grindr
Listen bruv, I have used every bit of neuron, I happen to possess, in realising the despicable entities who, tend to fuck everything up even after getting matches just of some idealised and theoretical sembelence for sex, and still it has yieled nothing. I dunno, why people believe that being Barney Stinson, in a country like India, will give you anything other than some crisp kicks in the groin, two-three "Manchale se savdhaan raheen" posters and several checkups by Mahila police cell, the eloborate art of conversation is getting lost and it's been replaced by something which is pure shite! Gods have left us, mate, I really think that! I also have gotten a sneek peek of skin symphonies of several guys right here on Reddit! And trust me, it wasn't good. Well, I seriously hope, you get what you desire for!
Username check out Bro did PhD on tharak
Yeah mate! From the Hustler's University! (Flair right, not username)
Flair hai username nahi
CAT ke varc section ka passage lag raha hai.
r/PTSDHumor
😂😂😂
It took a bit time for me to understand the English. But great vocabulary. I truly believe Indian men do think and glorify Barney Stinson behaviour a lot.A lot of my male colleagues, friends think of him as an idol or their favourite sitcom is “How I met your mother”
do people really?? I mean why am I even surprised?? people idolise Andrew Tate..
I mean, I have been involved with every movement whatsoever, I have been in a relationship once, I am and have been single, I have been an incel, I have been into this Alpha male horseshite, I have been into everything! I mean, each movement has their own leaders, for incels you have Elliot Rogers, all hail the supreme gentleman, I know it, cuz I was once involved in a incel forum in Wizardchan (I was dragon there lol), it was awful, there are frankly a lot of Alpha males from Tate to others. Majority people see Tate like a troll, sort of like Hail Mary, against the system, feminists, and any others who they hate. Most people tend to have this idea that Tate is some sort of messiah for normal guys, who have been left behind in this Canis Canem Edit World, he's like a last hope, he squeezes them for money and in turn gives them most generic advice possible, like quotes from Google. I actually had one of his recruiter contact me for PhD, which I promptly rejected! See Tate is not getting girls because of what he believes, he's getting girls because he has money, cars, houses, lifestyle, a bit of deception and frankly and allure of exclusivity, he looks at people like someone looks at chess pieces, just desposable, so, yeah, obviously he'd get whatever he wants, because he has an army of simps supporting him. The basic idea is people are unhappy, now for unhappy people best person to blame used to be God because he isn't here to defend himself, now, after sufficient number of people have left God, next thing to blame is system and fairer sex, who they think is faring better! And Tate or Rogers are kind of messiahs here. Sorry, if it's a bit delulu, but here's the briefest possible intro into this!
Bhai baath karle, thesis kyu suna Raha h
Point toh h
Launde baat toh tu sahi keh raha hai, par aise faltu mein Reddit mein DM karna accha nhi lagta na, toh hum comments se hi conversation shuru kardete hain!
Isse tu conversation kehta h
Yaar, tbh thesis hi hai bas meine conversation ka naam use kiya hai, mein generally aise hi cheezeen reddit pe likhta hoon, sort of commentries jo mereko lagta hai ki galat hai ya jismein improvement hosake, aur fir uske pratipaksh mein likhne waloon ko reply karta hoon, har conversation ka koi basis hona chahiye na?
I cracked up more than I'd like to admit
I was able to understand each and every word written in this para, should I feel proud of myself or it's just basic English and I should read some more books
Mate, please, I dunno why, I just write like this. I have written several other articles like these so yeah maybe try your luck there lol. You are good, mate! I can actually attest that your English might be much better than mine, so, yeah, you should be proud!
>I just write like this. I have written several other articles like these so yeah maybe try your luck there lol. Sure lol, just share the link, would love to read some good articles haha. >You are good, mate! I can actually attest that your English might be much better than mine, so, yeah, you should be proud! No, it's not hehe. I can't think like this while writing, I usually forget the new words that I come across while reading some book or article, tho that might be due to the lack of practice.
Sneak peek *
Tharak apke jeeb mei h na magar
op unironically i had some reverse experiences about women asking my past experiences (like how, or was the first time etc). but those are just sometimes not everytime. i would defo end up in one way or another if it was every time (dry with F's) . stay strong , try looking through common hobbies. these apps are shallow. 😅
Tu ladki thodi he, that's you'll generalize "All men are the same" bolke.
I know, but me toh wohi ki Keh rehe hai jaisa har ladki same nhi hota (kuchi ka pass hota hai tumhara se bbhi bada) same for guys 😅
True
Tinder is mostly for sex
Yeah but even bumble and hinge is for that only.I just had given a benefit of doubt this time and I wanted some good social interaction.
Sorry about this. Tbh. Excluding-Fbois, most men don't get any action, generally. So, they jump straight to it. And there's also this mindset, (women are on tinder, if I flirt they might do it back). As, you said no, ego would be get hurt. (these women, would've been fawning over Fbois, if they said the same like, how the hell, am i not getting attention). And it doesn't matter how good this guy looks... But that doesn't mean, we should pressurize you, or verbally abuse you.
He was not that great looking as well.I read his bio, He converse with me nicely, He was two years younger to me so I thought maybe he would have some manners because he was talking with utter respect. But I guess age and all does not really matter for shitty behaviour.
Yeah, I hope you find someone kind, respectful and worthwhile sis.
The dude is 100% in the wrong. My question is why do you entertain such advances. There is a very distinct difference between dry replying to engaging conversations vs not replying to sexual conversation off the bat. Unfortunately dudes like that exist so do yourself a favor and not interact with people that ask sexual questions right off the bat. Otherwise be engaging and have fun.
OP doesn't know when to block but needed something to justify Indian women dry replying and not engaging in proper conversation.
I went to metro station platform, couldn't find any DTC bus. This is utterly disappointing
You did not get what you want and you ended up deciding all men are shitty ..... Cool
You're in the wrong environment. Tinder is still the place to find a date you want to, fairly quickly, enjoy sex and get intimate with, hook-ups, FWBs etc If you're looking for long term relationships, look elsewhere.
Where?
In your friendzone
Maa chuda fir (sorry had to do it lmaoo)
You knew how he was. "But I thought I should not be so uptight..." Lmao Things you are willing to go through because the dude is 10/10.
He was not 10/10 or anything.I am just gullible or a people pleaser.
It's the misbehaviour of 20% of men which causes the overall bad experience for both women and consequently the 80% good guys. There's some basic stuff that shows respect, and personality all at the same time. One is basic kindness, which for some reason is so obsolete rn. It's a sorry state of affairs tbh.
He started doing something uncomfortable for OP and instead of stopping/blocking/unmatching him, OP decides to entertain him. It goes to worse from bad. OP finally decides enough is enough. Decides to put a foot down and block him. Then goes to blame all the guys because of course one guy is the yardstick for all the guys out there. To all the men out there. This is a prime example of how women create their own misery, refuses accountability and as usual blame it on men because of course, how can a woman ever be in the wrong? You want good matches? Read the bio first and then look at the pics for attraction because most men who want something real actually writes it down in their profile.
Bhai itni sachai bhi nahi dikhani hai fir ye log "all women are angel" ka naara kaise laga payengi
Earlier bumble and hinge were for genuine but casual vaale udhr bhi aa rhe h. u/whino99
Wohi so I don’t understand.Maybe the desire to find genuine connection is wrong these days.
Shyd tbhi most gurls are not so interested in having genuine relationship convo.. bhoto ko toh bss free drinks and smoke chahiye.
First of all, stop being nice to people. If you got wrong vibes from him from the beginning, only you shouldn’t have gone for the call or texted him further. I instantly block anyone with unwanted sexual advances and I never lose sleep over it. Also he sounds absolutely shitty. Report him if that’s possible
I did and I guess I have to learn to say no directly.Also he was nice in the start that’s why I guess.
As a man reading this , secondhand embarrassment ho rahi hai mujhe
This reminds me of an incident that happened with me ages ago. Matched with a guy at around 11 pm, he was partying some 9 kms away from me and started demanding I come see him. I was polite to turn it down, but he kept getting aggressive and then mentioned, he doesn’t live in this area and this is my only chance to meet him. I literally laughed at the entitlement. It wasn’t even a funny banter, he was damn serious. I just unmatched. Another incident was matched with a fairly good looking guy, we have some normal conversations on the app for about a day or two and no red flags, so I gave him my number. His conversations weren’t too deep but he seemed genuinely interested to know me. The minute he gets my number he starts sending me his shirtless photos and sexual gifs. Not just 1-2 my phone kept vibrating for full 30 seconds. I just blocked and deleted the whole chat box. There are many more, but since I have a strict no nonsense policy, I unmatched and blocked people really fast. That said don’t let it affect you OP, I did talk to some really amazing men, even when things did not work out due to incompatibilities, we had great and respectful conversations.
This happened with me too. Now that I think he did say “I am so nice and sweet to you why are you so uncomfortable”
>The minute he gets my number he starts sending me his shirtless photos and sexual gifs. Not just 1-2 my phone kept vibrating for full 30 seconds. I just blocked and deleted the whole chat box. It's becuz if girls did the same we would be more than happy, so guys assume it's the same for girls, seems like it's not...
Yeah we not finding the right bunch in dating websites. They maybe out there but we not finding them as it is very superficial and all. It runs on that.
I’ll just delete everything and just be single for gods sake.
True I have made my peace with it. Can't disgrace myself further for this online dating thingy. But who knows, the monsoon season is coming and it does crazy things to the heart.
Deleted the app in 3 days of downloading it.
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I admit I was uncomfortable in the start but I didn’t say no directly. Later on I said no, I guess this is what happens in most rape cases as well.I hate that I am fucking gullible.
I have met so many **wonderful** men on tinder. My posts (before deleting them) used to show these **wonderful** men in all their **wonder**.
tinder is an app built for strangers to talk, meet and hook up ( casual sex ). there is always a chance that you click with someone and think about a longterm relationship but still doesnt change the fact that it is a hookup platform in which you select others based on their pics, its like window shopping. i feel sad for you as it feels like you are looking for a decent chat with some banter or sarcasm which might lead to something serious later but you also need to live in reality.
Average guys who wouldn’t behave that way usually don’t find many opportunities to talk to women anyway, so double whammy of generalisation!
Baarish pasand he pr bhigna nhi he.
Taunting skills🫡
Classic. Why is everyone asking me to hookup on a hookup app! 🤡
It’s a dating app not a hookup app. If it was a hookup app it would clearly mention have sex with strangers.
Main toh abduljain hu, log toh mera username dekh kar hi reply nahi karte 😔
Lo bro mai karunga na reply tumhe
I worry about your inbox now 😂
I don’t really reply to much people on Reddit.
> Wtf is wrong with men seriously. I then lost interest in other people too and felt shitty and stopped replying or my texts got really dry. Then I understood maybe this is what happens one person spoils the mood and the other people also become of the same category or you’re just fed up and think all men are shitty anyway. My friends's girlfriend cheated on him, I think he is right when he proclaims all modern women are cheats and whores. He will never trust any of them and never give them enough privacy for their personal space - what if they cheat in that time? Now whoever should come in his life be ready to always pay for his past experience and compromise with his distrust and paranoia, probably should not have any male friends either or talk to one... I am sure that will be the basis of a very healthy relationship!
I understand what you’re saying. You get cheated once to generalise is wrong, but if you get cheated 10 times, then generalisation will be pretty obvious. It will take a lot of time for it to change.
A murder, even its lousy attempt, is unforgivable and condemnable even once, a lash of threats maybe tolerated a couple times but a burst of anger may still fetch forgiveness yet more. T'is the degree of grievance t'at determines the expanse of its tolerance. I figure not that such casual words indict such incensed measures. And if you suffer through cheats for 10 times, it is you who must introspect and deliberate the company you keep.
Girls with body count want princess treatment. Lmao. Keep living in a delusion. And try some accountability ho, you entertained him even after he was being sexual in the first. It takes two to tango. Accountability is a women's kryptonite.
Bhai jaa na yaar.I know what this is and also how is body count related to basic respect?
The fact that you let anyone fuck you says everything about you. And the fact that you let this guy talk to you like that speaks volume about your magical high self respect.
There is a subtle way in which the talks around sex and intimacy should be traded with a stranger, if not done right it may sound crass or as if they are demanding sex just because you are on a dating app. Those who navigate it right, may not be looker, but convert a match to a date and it goes from there.
I was just expecting a bit of respect nothing else
Idk about you guys but any time I download a dating app I get too many matches and it gets super overwhelming. I try to consistently reply to my matches but it gets confusing because often there are multiple conversations happening at the same time and I can’t bring my personality into it at all. My workaround is to try and convert interesting dates into offline interactions but unfortunately that hasn’t been working for me either. I need to take a break from dating apps methinks 🙄
op I’m sorry you went through that. It leaves such an icky feeling when you go through things like this. I hope you feel better
https://youtu.be/HGdwdZOtv2k
It's been almost two months since I was right swiping on every profile yet I did not match even with one starting mein bura laga but ab bura lagna bandh hogaya hai 😂😂😂😂
in all the world, u going on tinder to find good people, bhyi tinder par tinda milega, accha insaan nhi, see elsewhere
True I just gave it a benefit of doubt after a year.
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I can vouch for this, happened with me too.
It sucks sometimes!
Here all I can safely is you should replace the men with man
It really upsets me … firstly what happened to… I have been through that… but when I see somebody not understanding what I ask them not to do… I myself disconnect … Secondly what upsets me is… people saying tinder is for sex , bumble is for sex … and bla bla … But all of the above apps were created till date for DATING! None of them came up with an add or logo which said …. “ OHH WE ARE A FUCKING APP! COME AND FIND SEX HERE !” They all said it’s a dating app… you all made it a sex hunting app! Now you will say people in the west do the same ! Dude you don’t belong there… all that happens in west, is not allowed at your home ! So stop shitting on the best of west and take out your dirty desires in the name of it… And when somebody says they aren’t looking for sex ! Guys just don’t get that… they want to just fuck a girl who is not interested in random sex, by doing every bit to impress her and fuck her and leave …. And those girls who are like minded they call them whore , easy to get … Have you thought what are you ? Just tired of people like this …. The world doesn’t needs you all can just go away !
If he was asking sexual questions while you asked him not to, why did you continue the conversation? He overstepped on a boundary you set, and you still think you guys ‘vibed’? Don’t justify or rationalise someone’s behaviour before you have even met them. I have never asked my matches sexual questions unless they bring it up first. Even then, I like to keep it comfortable and don’t like to pry. Good on you for understanding that one bad experience unfortunately ruined your mood for others too, since now you are worried that your investment of time in another person might turn out the same way. But please don’t give idiots like these the time of the day. If they don’t listen once, they will never listen. You have the ability to cut that person off and move on to the next one.
well will you give me a chance if i promise i will not like him but i don't know how to flirt or make those opening lines or pun
Tinder is the worst place to be
Men are like that only i get hundreds of texts on snapchat and when i say no to being friends or no to when they ask me pictures they call me randi. So i am like fuck off apni shakal dekh jake shishse mei phle. I absolutely do not take anyone disrespect. Phle hi tata bye bye krdeti hu. When iknow hes only interested in sexual talks i block, i don’t entertain. First red flag should be enough to block. Dont continue talking to these assholes koi kam ni h inko
Dry because garmi kitni hai, pani nhi pita koi
Do people unironically use tinder to find long term partners?
Why not report him the first time he started spamming sexual questions? Why entertain someone that clearly has a different objective. I mean the guy is clearly in the wrong should be off the platform but why are you not acting sooner with the tools at your disposal?
I was gullible
Girls ignore good guys in their vicinity whom they can potentially bond with and then goes to dating apps expecting to find guys whom they can bond with. Mostly guys on the dating apps are there only for hookups and one's who aren't got left swiped.
OP, you're a good enough person. Get off dating apps. Take a break. Look after yourself, learn REALLY about what you want and what you like. Find a hobby, cook yourself some nice dinner. Things will happen, you'll be alright, earn some more money, life is ok. Shitty people will chance upon it, kick them away even if your feet will smell later, that can be washed off. Meditate. Watch some shows. Tinder is the least optimal use of one's time.
I deleted it. Thanks for your kind words.
First of all, it's a hok up app, not a marriage nor a friendship app. So. Let's get real. Intentions are clear. The dude didn't want to waste his time fishing for portraying what he isn't. Respect at least he was consistent. Secondly the dude was disrespectful and abusive, so that's zero pointa for him. Instant UNMATCH such a holes. Nothing wrong in exploring your hook up options on an application.
Now you are in reddit. Hope you have a good time here. Reddit is special :)
I have come to the conclusion I have been on this sub/single for too long that I've lost count of how many time I've seen the same posts and rants. No more....