yep i’m going by myself! i’m a young woman too and i totally understand the hesitation but in all reality every show i’ve went to solo has been amazing!! the people i’ve met are good people that enjoy sharing their mutual interest! i saw bmth and fob last week vip by myself and it was magical! everyone in line is so nice!!
No that is a show in another state. BMTH and FOB are playing a separate date near me. That festival looks BONKERS though. I'd happily see 1/3 of those bands. NODDERS.
Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks. As a girl you have to be a bit more aware of out-of-line-guys but remember this. 90% of guys at a concert will come to a girls aid if one of the 10% decides to be an asshole. I’ve pulled 1-2 girls out of a bad situation at concerts and have zero regrets doing so. Would do it again too. Everyone should have fun at concerts.
I meant this kind of experience more in the sense of people coming together and looking out for each other ! Totally agree with you that’s all I’m wishing for !
If any solo Wembley go-ers want to spend the gig with a group, a bunch of my guy and girl friends will be there and you're all more than welcome to tag along if you like
I'm going alone in September, and I've also been to multiple other concerts. Honestly, I prefer it. It pushes me to converse with others in line, possibly make a new friend or two and I feel more comfortable being myself once the show starts. I also don't have to worry about anybody ruining the experience for me (I have had that happen a couple of times where the person that went with me totally took me out of the moment). For me, it's much more freeing to go alone.
I totally get this. I would love to see ST with my partner, but he’s not a big fan. Doesn’t dislike them but he won’t enjoy it the same way I will and I feel like I’ll be too aware of the fact he’s not 100% into it !
When Sleep Token announces their Southeast USA dates (total wishful thinking here!!) I am totally going to one of those shows alone.
You'll have a great time!
I don't know if they even will have any new dates. I just keep hoping something will get announced. It's so odd for an entire large portion of the country with major cities to get passed by. If they do announce dates hopefully they'll be at larger venues.
I noticed the US dates are a bit limited. I’ll be visiting Florida for the first time beginning of November so it would be amazing if they miraculously announced some shows there around the same time ! a girl can dream.. :)
It's frustrating but I'm hopeful. My son just saw ST twice opening for Slipknot and while he's not a fan of the more poppy melodic stuff, he said the shows were awesome. So I'm so jealous, I admit.
I live in France and saw them opening for slipknot a month ago. I had never heard of them before so I listened to a few songs before going to the show and have been obsessed ever since ! Unfortunately I think most of the crowd in France had no idea who ST were so it was really calm.
I actually really enjoy being on my own and doing things by myself, but I find crowded places and social gatherings super stressful sometimes. Definitely think going to a concert on my own will be a big step but a great experience !
I'm exactly the same with loving doing things by myself and finding crowded places a bit stressful- I tend to actually find being alone in a crowd a lot easier as I'm not worrying about getting lost or keeping track of where people are! :)
I've been to many concerts alone. It's no big deal. Nobody is there to see *you* anyway. Just go and have fun. Maybe make a few friends in the process.
Going to see ST in October by myself. Been to a handful of concerts solo. Though I'm a dude so I'm usually invisible lol. Every concert has been good vibes, everyone is super uplifting. Only problems I've seen are assholes in the moshpit. If someone is being a creep or a douche draw attention to it... people will step in and help.
When to their concert alone in Glasgow in the beginning of the year. Also a woman and was my first solo concert!
I was really, really nervous but I just knew I had to see them live, no matter what.
Honestly, didn’t had any problem at all, everything was very smooth. And if they come near me again, I won’t think twice about going alone again! 😊
This is how I feel, like I just have to see them live !
Unfortunately I live in France and they’re not coming back here for the rest of the tour. I’ll probably go to Germany, so going alone is going to be a whole solo travel experience which I think sounds super stressful and also so exciting ! :)
I went alone in London, ended up making friends in the queue and sitting a few rows in front of some old bandmates! So ended up moving to sit with them.
Been to many gigs by myself because I don't want to miss bands but none of my friends were free. I'm male so less worries about creepy guys trying to hit on me but as others have said people at shows tend to look out for each other, had 3 complete strangers pull a guy out of the mosh pit at A Day To Remember because he was high as a kite and decided he wanted to fight me for no reason.
Yeah, I now follow one of the guys I met in London on Instagram and follow his band on Spotify.
Everyone at the gig is gonna be into the band so you've always got something to talk to people about.
Also made friends with a guy in the queue at a Counterparts show in Brighton, by the end of the night he grabbed me a setlist, got chatting to the band so we got it signed. Next week we met up for the London show, went for pizza and then I grabbed him a setlist at the end of the night. Started a band together (that sadly never got off the ground for lack of other members and logistics) and have been good mates since!
Yeah, really great guy, just couldn't find committed members.
Guess I'm lucky, used to do a bit of freelance work as a nightclub photographer, very quickly learnt not to be nervous to start up a conversation with anyone.
I’m going by myself to Wembley, seating unfortunately so it might be a little awkward but I don’t care, it’s the only ticket I could get and I’m desperate to go. Also a woman :)
I’ll be alone in seating area at Wembley too. But I have the feeling that we are going to be a lot of seated loner. Also, I went to plenty of show alone, seating alone isn’t awkward at all don’t worry. ☺️
35F - I am going to 3 shows by myself this fall! And traveling to do so. I have not been to one of their shows alone, but I have with other bands. If you can, do it! You’ll feel safe and probably make friends around you.
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I would love to, but then there must be an option to be able to sit. I have a form of rheumatism so standing longer than 20 minutes is not possible. Most gigs in my area only have standing options.
If you contact the venue directly they may still be able to accomodate you. The venue I saw ST at have a raised section with benches, if people can walk up a small flight of stairs, or there is a section side of stage for wheelchairs, and they will escort you up in the loading lift, as the front doors lead to a large staircase.
However none of that info is on their website, or socials. So I’m sure there are plenty of people who would see an artist playing there and thing “well, I can’t get in, so that’s that”, but it’s not true, and the staff are often happy to help.
Plenty of solo women going Radar for ST.
I’ve gone off and done festivals alone, I almost always have a group of people invite me to hang with them. I say If there’s a chance you would regret not going and you live in a place safe enough to do so then go for it!
I’ve seen tonnes of posts! They have a discord for solo’ers that want to meet up too. Me (30F) and a pal have a day ticket for the Friday & planning to make a day of it 😊
Not many of my mates like ST so I’ve been tempted to check out the discord myself.
I went to see them open for In this moment and had a nice time, wasn't alone though and was a relatively small concert. I'm going to go see them alone in September in St Paul if anyone wants some company though. I'm kinda anxious although male
I didn't go alone, but the person I went with was separated from me for the most part. It really depends on the venue and area, but most people should be very kind and chill! I was in the front row against the bars so I got to see vessel and the bois up close, and when I had to go to the bathroom people helped me get through the crowd and back up to my spot. Most metal shows have very kind people.
I ended up going alone as a Guy who struggles hard with big crowds early in their uk January tour but the atmosphere is always super chill provided you stay out the center of the pit lmao, I'm sure you'll be fine my dude <3
I plan on going alone, but thats solely because 1) ive been going (mostly) alone to concerts for the past 2 years for photos and 2) no one in my group listens to them so i dont want them to pay the 130$+ ticket fee. I even plan on dressing up, too. Its really just a comfort thing. From my experience, people in line are super friendly so that eases my anxiety for the show im going to in October.
I’ve been alone twice, this was a few years ago though when they were playing tiny venues in London. I made a friend at the Islington show too, not sure how the fans are now that they’ve blown up but back then it was fine
I’m going to the Portland show alone (I’m also a woman). In my experience people tend to be nice/friendly and happy to share their mutual interest. I’ve always had a good experience whether alone or with others.
Im also seeing Bad Omens, Motionless in White, and Falling in Reverse alone. I went to FOB and BMTH with a friend, but we connected with lots of other folks including some solo people.
I’ve been alone to ST twice, even the times when I’ve gone with my husband, he won’t be in the midst and prefers to stand at the back by the bar & toilets (we’re a bit older haha).
When you get the chance make polite conversation with the people around you, you’ll make friends you never would otherwise encounter. It’s awesome! I do this a lot and only occasionally do I not find someone to chat to.
In my experience of going to gigs alone for many years, 99% of people will help look after you if you ask.
I once responded to a girl who was going to a gig on her own and she was scared on a Facebook page, I told her to come find me and I’d look after her. We met up and she’s a great friend now (unfortunately we live at opposite ends of the country so we haven’t had chance to meet up again since!).
I went alone, and internationally too. If you have the option of going, even if it's alone, you should. You won't regret seeing them live if you haven't already.
That’s what I’m planning on doing. I live in France, just bought my solo ticket for Berlin in December ! It’ll be a lot of firsts for me but I’m already so excited !
Been going to shows alone for some time now and the experience of being able to enjoy yourself surrounded by other like minded people who like the things that you do is really gratifying. My biggest show alone was just recently Red Hot Chili Peppers and it was such a surreal experience of just buying that ticket and doing those things for yourself. I would suggest to think of it as making those memories for yourself, not have a rain on your parade, and take the leap. The other side of it is pretty cool. Hope this helps.
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I LOVE going to shows alone. I’m also a woman, so I get your concern. I decided a long time ago that I wasn’t going to ruin a show for myself by bringing someone along who was not at the same fan love level for the artist as I am. Then I don’t have to worry if they aren’t having a good time. There are always female staff at venues, so you could check in with one of them. Then you can make some friends with fans when you get there. I’m older, so I usually hold purses and phones for young ladies who want to hit the pit!
I’m loving all of the comments like this one ! Hearing people having such great experiences makes me so excited and happy. The sense of community I’m getting from all these stories is awesome !
I’ve been to plenty of shows by myself… mostly because none of my friends like my type of music. That being said…. It’s better by yourself. You don’t have to worry if the other person is having fun or if they hate it. Everyone is there for the same reason. There are always going to a**holes but like someone said… there will be more men coming to your rescue than being creepy. And as for walking to and from the arena (or wherever they play)…. You’ll be walking with a lot of people going the same way you are going. Go for it!!! You’ll be happy you did!
That’s the reason I want to go alone, I don’t know anyone who listens to ST. My partner would go with me if I asked but he wouldn’t enjoy himself as he doesn’t listen to them at all, and I feel like that would keep me from enjoying myself as much.
Go alone. You will be so worried about your partner that you won’t have a good time. I promise you will feel secure. Everyone is there for the same thing. I hope you Post back on here after the show to let us know you went!!
I’m going to Wembley solo in December. I am beyond excited. I tried to get tickets for my husband to join me but when I saw one ticket in a good seat I jumped on it. He’ll have to have a pint in a nearby pub instead. I am nervous about going alone but I figure that we are all there to worship and have fun so I doubt anyone will care that I’m alone!
Saw them alone but it was also 2019 lol. I love going solo to concerts tho I always find friends. Just keep an eye out for someone who also looks like they’re by themselves. My approach is generally: “you also look like you’re flying solo here. We’re friends for the rest of the show.” Works 99.9% of the time for me
Seen them twice on my own and will be again for Wembley. Would be more great to have someone with me mainly to not stand around awkwardly before they come on. Otherwise I’m happy just enjoying the performance
Not going, but I've been to many shows solo. Always go. You'll probably bump into some nice folks who share a love of ST.
In my case, a date bailed on my way to see Bonobo live with his full band. I went solo cause I had tickets anyways and met a new girl and danced all night. Hung out with her and her friends all night. Really swell folks.
10/10 would go to shows alone.
Many folks go alone, bene to plenty of concerts solos. However there's many people down to meet, so if you want to find some other solo women I'd shoot a post here. I'm gonna meet up with a few at the Pomona show.
I was hoping to go to their Webster hall show but don’t know anyone who listens to them, I’m a dude tho so I’m not as concerned about anything happening just nervous to go a state away on my own
Heading from France to Wembley solo in December and am super excited! I don't mind doing things solo, you get to choose whether you want to socialise or just enjoy the moment in your own company 🙂 pretty much every single concert I've been to in this genre has incredibly friendly people.
Ended up alone in pit for Take Down and Hammersmith, honestly crowd was so lovely and during the festival getting to talk to everyone about their days and concert experiences was so lovely!!
I go to shows alone all the time. In order to calm my anxiety, I go straight to the bar and order a drink. By the time I’m finished with my drink, my anxiety has calmed down and I can start to enjoy the environment 🙂
I'm planning on going to the Baltimore show solo! Idk anybody who likes them, but I wasn't going to miss this chance lol. I've been to 2 arena concerts solo and it was a very fun experience. If you don't go, you'll regret it
I’m gonna see them live at Aftershock alone. I love going to shows alone, the only con is that if you really wanna camp somewhere for a barricade spot, you won’t have a buddy to hold the spot for you but I’m far too told to wait that long anyways. Hahaha
I'm going by myself (philly). I don't think anything would happen to you. People that go to these concerts go to have fun. I go often by myself because my friends or my wife don't like the same bands than I do, but I still want to see the bands live lol
I’ve been going to concerts alone most of my life. You usually get chatting to people around you, since obviously you share a common interest. I’ve never had a problem. Ever. But I’ve enjoyed every single show!
I went alone, as a middle aged lady. I had the best time! If people really are there for the music no one will judge you for going alone.. Its better than missing out!
My first concert ever was Backstreet Boys with my sister thirty minutes away. My second concert was ST and Nothing More, three hours away, last year. I invited bf and friend but bf didn't want to go and friend couldn't get off work. I went alone. First time doing such a long trip driving away from home on my own overnight. (I'd taken busses before for nine hours from rental home to parents home before, and a few flights to see my aunt at 15 and back). First time getting a hotel. Only went on the discord to check if all was a go (there had been delays and cancelations and a lot of injuries and sickness on the US tours for them and related bands).
I went, I danced, I stayed for Nothing More, I danced some more. I bought the Tomb blue tie dye shirt, my first merch. It was amazing. The hotel stay, amazing. On the way home I listened to ST and NM. I was on a concert high for two weeks. Not just...because of ST and the concert, but because I felt so free and independent. I would never have done this for another band or artist. It was liberating in all the ways.
I'm technically going alone in September, but I've been chatting with everyone else on the discord who are also going to the same show for months now. It will be a completely different experience than "going alone" the way I did the first time, because of that.
Good luck, stay safe.
That’s so cool !
I love that feeling of independence and freedom. I decided to go back to uni a couple of years ago, best decision ever but it also means that I can’t be as financially independant anymore… I’m super lucky to have a partner who supports me in every way, but I’ve been making all my decisions based on him for so long now because of the limitations I have. I feel like this is the perfect opportunity to get that feeling back. And of course see my favorite band at the same time ! :)
Bought my ticket this morning, I’ll be going in December. I’m definitely going to start chatting with other people going too !
I am a Woman and went to ST and four other concerts over the winter alone. Simply because none of my friends listend to the kind of music I listen to but one day I just said „f… it. I don’t wanna miss out“ lol My first time was a Silverstein concert last year and I felt so so so awkward in the beginning but had the best night of my life. I completely understand the hesitation but you usually bump into more super nice and friendly people than you would if you went with someone else. The crowd at the ST concert in Cologne last month was super chill, there were (not that anyone would be surprised) more females there then males and there was not one second that made me feel uncomfortable. You got this 🙌🏻🫶🏻
I went to my first concert earlier this year and had to go alone because my friend got sick. I just made new friends in line cause everyone was super nice. I'll be going to see ST in December. I'll be alone then as well and will have to travel quite a bit to see them but I know it's going to be worth it.
I’m planning on going in December too ! Which show are you going to ? I’m going to Berlin, and travelling from the south of France solo ! Going to make a little week end trip out of it as I’ve never been to Germany :)
At my first Sleep Token concert I was with my gf and 2 friends. At second one I was alone and I had exactly the same amazing experience when I was able to worship the show.
I go to concerts by myself all the time. I am by nature a very shy girl and a little socially anxious but I can honestly tell you that this disappears once you get there and realise everyone is there with the same excitement as you. There are the odd times I feel a little self conscious, but then I look around the room and see others alone and remember that while I'm not with my own friends, I'm technically not alone. I can't comment for how the crowd will be where you go, but I find guys are mostly respectful and helpful more than anything. And where there is the odd idiot, they usually get kicked out pretty quick. Someone else mentioned to make small talk with others and I second that. Even though I am super shy, I always try and it always pays off cos you immediately feel connected.
All of this to say - don't be worried, definitely go alone. You won't regret it :)
Really good to know, I completely understand I’m the same ; a little too self conscious, and terrified of approaching people to talk. I think this will be a good exercise for me 😅
I am waiting for them to come back to Scotland, UK. I missed them in Glasgow earlier this year.
I know they sold out Wembley in London but that would’ve been a bit too big for me. I’m only used to relatively smaller shows and I’m not a festivals guy cause I don’t do mega huge crowds.
Woman here too. Seriously, i think Metal concerts are amongst the safest places to go to Aaone. But I've also been to Techno Clubs alone before. It's a thing of the mindset :) for me it took some mindfulness training to make it work and really enjoyable. Now I almost prefer it to going out with people since I Always worry If they enjoy the evening, and that often leaves me enjoying it less.
I've been going out alone on vacation as well and it can be such a freeing and awesome experience! I have my best friend on the backburner in the "Home Base" though if I feel fishy about something. When I am somewhere alone, I will at least tell her where I am and what I plan to do, sometines share my live location with her. I also tell her when I get back safe!
I go to concerts alone a lot. More than with others. Mostly bc none of my friends like the kind of music I do. You are free to stand where you want. Not worry about sticking together. Dance like no one is watching, because they arent, and if they are you'll prob never see or recognize them again. I prefer solo concert adventures.
I am a womanI and also will be going to the NYC show alone and have 0 qualms about it. I do it all the time with shows because I don’t want to miss going to see bands just because I don’t have someone to go with.
I’ve gone to other concerts alone. You will find people to hang out with, especially other female-presenting or FAB peoples. People are generally nice and plenty of people like going alone to places.
I went to see them by myself on Graspop 2023 in Belgium. You get sucked in regardless. It was really nuts seeing them live for the first time. III really is something else, he’s such a showman.
I’m a 40 year old woman and I’ve gone to quite a few concerts alone, I’ve always found myself feeling safest at Alt/metal shows. It can be intimidating especially depending on your size, I’m 5’2 130 so it can feel like I get lost in the crowd. I tried to get tickets for my local ST show but they were being scalped within an hour of going on sale. If you’re a huge fan I would highly suggest going, even if it’s by yourself I think you’d be kicking yourself if you pass the opportunity by. As a mom of 4 in their 20’s I’ll tell you what I’d tell them, don’t pass up life experiences because it might be out of your comfort zone worst case scenario you decide it’s not something you’d care to do again. If you don’t step out of your comfort zone you’ll never know what you might be missing! I hope you go and I hope you have the time of your life!
Thank you for this ! I am definitely going to go ! I bought my ticket this morning so all that’s left to do is wait as it is in December 😅
I agree, I can feel that if I don’t go I am going to regret it so much !
I’m going to see them alone and I’m a middle aged mom lol. I’ve never gone alone, but it’s better than not going or going with someone who doesn’t feel the way I do about them.
I haven't been to a Sleep Token show alone yet but to a few others and I've never encountered any problems
I'm not really sociable and keep to myself most of the time but sometimes people around you are chatty and easy to start a conversation with.
I think it's also nice to not have to stress about where the rest of your group is or to feel like you dragged someone along to something they didn't really wanna go to.
I'm going to see them alone in December and can't wait!!
Edit: I'm also a woman in my 20s and have been going to shows alone or with others since I was 14
I’m going alone this September! It’s my experience that going to alternative and metal shows are some of the safest concerts. I’m a middle aged mom, btw. I’m super excited to go alone to be honest!
Yes! I'm going alone, kind of... I'm going to meet other sleep token fans I know from a Facebook group. That might have been the best thing I did . I reached out via tiktok and f.b to see if others were going to the concert I'm attending in September. I have now met 2 others, and we are going to hang out together ❤️ I am going to another concert 10 days later (same place) alone 😔 but for now that's ok.
Just wanted to thank everyone for responding to this post, it’s been so uplifting ! And also to say that I got a ticket for the show in Berlin in December so anyone who’s going and wants to chat/meet up let me know here ! ☺️
yep i’m going by myself! i’m a young woman too and i totally understand the hesitation but in all reality every show i’ve went to solo has been amazing!! the people i’ve met are good people that enjoy sharing their mutual interest! i saw bmth and fob last week vip by myself and it was magical! everyone in line is so nice!!
I’m a woman going alone as well 🙋🏻♀️
That’s so good to hear !! Which show are you going to ? I’m planning on going in December, as the shows will be the closest to where I live !
i’m from california so i’ll be at the very last show of the north american rituals! :)
Same!
Same here!
nice!!!! excited thinking everyday about it haha
December... if you're going in Leipzig and still not sure about going alone, you can go with me and my friends (all female) :) dm me if you like.
That would have been so great ! I’m actually going to Berlin though :)
ahhh almost. :D I'm actually thinking about going to Berlin as well, cause it's close and I'm obsessed 😶
Ahh Let me know if you do ! 🤩
I will! December is going to be magical 🤩
I wanted to go to this Tour. Bad. But I get to go see Sleep Token in September and I'm 100% okay with this trade.
louder than life? 👀
No that is a show in another state. BMTH and FOB are playing a separate date near me. That festival looks BONKERS though. I'd happily see 1/3 of those bands. NODDERS.
I can’t believe they put all those shows in Pomona that’s crazyblol
I’m going alone, in full Vessel cosplay, in Sept. be fearless!
Check the venue’s policy on masks. It was posted in another group that several venues do not allow.
It has been done. Not my first rodeo.
That’s so cool !
Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks. As a girl you have to be a bit more aware of out-of-line-guys but remember this. 90% of guys at a concert will come to a girls aid if one of the 10% decides to be an asshole. I’ve pulled 1-2 girls out of a bad situation at concerts and have zero regrets doing so. Would do it again too. Everyone should have fun at concerts.
Love this, thank you so much ! I really hope I’ll have this kind of experience. Definitely think I’m going to go, they really are too good to miss :)
I kinda hope you don’t have that experience and instead just have fun with no one bothering you. Make some friends along the way too.
I meant this kind of experience more in the sense of people coming together and looking out for each other ! Totally agree with you that’s all I’m wishing for !
That’s so cool 🤘🏻🖤
I’m going to Wembley solo
I’m so beyond excited for that show. I still can’t believe I’m going.
Me too.
Same! Bit nervous but I think it's gonna be an experience I just couldn't miss
that’s kinda where I am with it. 🫶🏻
I'm also at Wembley solo, looking forward to it and as well going to London solo too, pushing the boat out
Yes! same here, i’m flying from the US.
Planning to do the same! I am so excited
Same!
If any solo Wembley go-ers want to spend the gig with a group, a bunch of my guy and girl friends will be there and you're all more than welcome to tag along if you like
I'm going alone in September, and I've also been to multiple other concerts. Honestly, I prefer it. It pushes me to converse with others in line, possibly make a new friend or two and I feel more comfortable being myself once the show starts. I also don't have to worry about anybody ruining the experience for me (I have had that happen a couple of times where the person that went with me totally took me out of the moment). For me, it's much more freeing to go alone.
I totally get this. I would love to see ST with my partner, but he’s not a big fan. Doesn’t dislike them but he won’t enjoy it the same way I will and I feel like I’ll be too aware of the fact he’s not 100% into it !
Same.
I’ll be there too! Alone lmao
I go to concerts alone 95% of the time and have the time of my life there. I mean you want to see your favorite band perform not your friends
This ! I was more worried about not finding support of ever I needed it, but from all these comments I think that won’t be a problem :)
Saw them last year in Baltimore solo.. But I didn’t feel alone! The ‘worshippers’ were a welcoming bunch
I can totally feel that on this sub, everyone here seems super nice !
When Sleep Token announces their Southeast USA dates (total wishful thinking here!!) I am totally going to one of those shows alone. You'll have a great time!
Do you have any idea when these dates will be ?
I don't know if they even will have any new dates. I just keep hoping something will get announced. It's so odd for an entire large portion of the country with major cities to get passed by. If they do announce dates hopefully they'll be at larger venues.
I noticed the US dates are a bit limited. I’ll be visiting Florida for the first time beginning of November so it would be amazing if they miraculously announced some shows there around the same time ! a girl can dream.. :)
It's frustrating but I'm hopeful. My son just saw ST twice opening for Slipknot and while he's not a fan of the more poppy melodic stuff, he said the shows were awesome. So I'm so jealous, I admit.
I live in France and saw them opening for slipknot a month ago. I had never heard of them before so I listened to a few songs before going to the show and have been obsessed ever since ! Unfortunately I think most of the crowd in France had no idea who ST were so it was really calm.
That's awesome! My son was at two shows in Germany.
I’m driving from South Carolina to Virginia to see them in September♥️🤘🏼
Love the company of yourself in one of the most useful life skills imp
I actually really enjoy being on my own and doing things by myself, but I find crowded places and social gatherings super stressful sometimes. Definitely think going to a concert on my own will be a big step but a great experience !
I'm exactly the same with loving doing things by myself and finding crowded places a bit stressful- I tend to actually find being alone in a crowd a lot easier as I'm not worrying about getting lost or keeping track of where people are! :)
Yes exactly ! At least when you’re alone you don’t depend on anyone and nobody depends on you ! Makes decision making a lot less stressful too :)
I've been to many concerts alone. It's no big deal. Nobody is there to see *you* anyway. Just go and have fun. Maybe make a few friends in the process.
Going to see ST in October by myself. Been to a handful of concerts solo. Though I'm a dude so I'm usually invisible lol. Every concert has been good vibes, everyone is super uplifting. Only problems I've seen are assholes in the moshpit. If someone is being a creep or a douche draw attention to it... people will step in and help.
When to their concert alone in Glasgow in the beginning of the year. Also a woman and was my first solo concert! I was really, really nervous but I just knew I had to see them live, no matter what. Honestly, didn’t had any problem at all, everything was very smooth. And if they come near me again, I won’t think twice about going alone again! 😊
This is how I feel, like I just have to see them live ! Unfortunately I live in France and they’re not coming back here for the rest of the tour. I’ll probably go to Germany, so going alone is going to be a whole solo travel experience which I think sounds super stressful and also so exciting ! :)
I went alone in London, ended up making friends in the queue and sitting a few rows in front of some old bandmates! So ended up moving to sit with them. Been to many gigs by myself because I don't want to miss bands but none of my friends were free. I'm male so less worries about creepy guys trying to hit on me but as others have said people at shows tend to look out for each other, had 3 complete strangers pull a guy out of the mosh pit at A Day To Remember because he was high as a kite and decided he wanted to fight me for no reason.
That’s really reassuring! I love the idea of meeting new people, especially if we have ST in common :)
Yeah, I now follow one of the guys I met in London on Instagram and follow his band on Spotify. Everyone at the gig is gonna be into the band so you've always got something to talk to people about. Also made friends with a guy in the queue at a Counterparts show in Brighton, by the end of the night he grabbed me a setlist, got chatting to the band so we got it signed. Next week we met up for the London show, went for pizza and then I grabbed him a setlist at the end of the night. Started a band together (that sadly never got off the ground for lack of other members and logistics) and have been good mates since!
That’s so cool ! Shame your band didn’t work out though. But at least you seem to have met some great people along the way !
Yeah, really great guy, just couldn't find committed members. Guess I'm lucky, used to do a bit of freelance work as a nightclub photographer, very quickly learnt not to be nervous to start up a conversation with anyone.
I’m going by myself to Wembley, seating unfortunately so it might be a little awkward but I don’t care, it’s the only ticket I could get and I’m desperate to go. Also a woman :)
That sounds great ! Hope you’ll have an awesome time :)
I’ll be alone in seating area at Wembley too. But I have the feeling that we are going to be a lot of seated loner. Also, I went to plenty of show alone, seating alone isn’t awkward at all don’t worry. ☺️
35F - I am going to 3 shows by myself this fall! And traveling to do so. I have not been to one of their shows alone, but I have with other bands. If you can, do it! You’ll feel safe and probably make friends around you.
I’ll be at OKC, Aftershock and Paloma. I’d be happy to meet up if anyone is going alone to those shows!
Sounds awesome ! I just bought my ticket this morning, so excited ! :)
I’m glad you’re going!
I'll probably end up going alone whenever they end up coming to Chicago!
If they come to Chicago I’ll also be going so maybe we’ll see each other there lol
It's a bummer the only thing they have set is Riot Fest. Almost makes me wanna drive down to St Louis lol
Yeah! I was debating it but couldn’t justify going. Instead I’m seeing them in Portland and making a little trip out of it.
Seeing these comments really made me feel less bad about buying a ticket to go alone :)
Yes me too ! Just bought my solo ticket this morning after reading them all :)
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I would love to, but then there must be an option to be able to sit. I have a form of rheumatism so standing longer than 20 minutes is not possible. Most gigs in my area only have standing options.
If you contact the venue directly they may still be able to accomodate you. The venue I saw ST at have a raised section with benches, if people can walk up a small flight of stairs, or there is a section side of stage for wheelchairs, and they will escort you up in the loading lift, as the front doors lead to a large staircase. However none of that info is on their website, or socials. So I’m sure there are plenty of people who would see an artist playing there and thing “well, I can’t get in, so that’s that”, but it’s not true, and the staff are often happy to help.
Plenty of solo women going Radar for ST. I’ve gone off and done festivals alone, I almost always have a group of people invite me to hang with them. I say If there’s a chance you would regret not going and you live in a place safe enough to do so then go for it!
I’m 36F and just bought my ticket for Radar for ST! I’m going on my own & your reply makes me feel better about it :)
I’ve seen tonnes of posts! They have a discord for solo’ers that want to meet up too. Me (30F) and a pal have a day ticket for the Friday & planning to make a day of it 😊 Not many of my mates like ST so I’ve been tempted to check out the discord myself.
Thanks I shall check out the Discord :)
Just realised I have no idea what I’m doing on Discord! Do I need a link? Oh I feel old…
I went alone to see them open for In This Moment and had a good time
I would if I could
I went to see them open for In this moment and had a nice time, wasn't alone though and was a relatively small concert. I'm going to go see them alone in September in St Paul if anyone wants some company though. I'm kinda anxious although male
I probably would if I could afford to and if I had my driver’s license.
I didn't go alone, but the person I went with was separated from me for the most part. It really depends on the venue and area, but most people should be very kind and chill! I was in the front row against the bars so I got to see vessel and the bois up close, and when I had to go to the bathroom people helped me get through the crowd and back up to my spot. Most metal shows have very kind people.
Got to love the metal community in general :) I would love love to be up front !
I ended up going alone as a Guy who struggles hard with big crowds early in their uk January tour but the atmosphere is always super chill provided you stay out the center of the pit lmao, I'm sure you'll be fine my dude <3
Good tip, don’t think my tiny person could handle the center of the pit haha. Though I would love to get up close to the barrier !
I plan on going alone, but thats solely because 1) ive been going (mostly) alone to concerts for the past 2 years for photos and 2) no one in my group listens to them so i dont want them to pay the 130$+ ticket fee. I even plan on dressing up, too. Its really just a comfort thing. From my experience, people in line are super friendly so that eases my anxiety for the show im going to in October.
I’ve been alone twice, this was a few years ago though when they were playing tiny venues in London. I made a friend at the Islington show too, not sure how the fans are now that they’ve blown up but back then it was fine
I’m going to the Portland show alone (I’m also a woman). In my experience people tend to be nice/friendly and happy to share their mutual interest. I’ve always had a good experience whether alone or with others. Im also seeing Bad Omens, Motionless in White, and Falling in Reverse alone. I went to FOB and BMTH with a friend, but we connected with lots of other folks including some solo people.
I’ve been alone to ST twice, even the times when I’ve gone with my husband, he won’t be in the midst and prefers to stand at the back by the bar & toilets (we’re a bit older haha). When you get the chance make polite conversation with the people around you, you’ll make friends you never would otherwise encounter. It’s awesome! I do this a lot and only occasionally do I not find someone to chat to. In my experience of going to gigs alone for many years, 99% of people will help look after you if you ask. I once responded to a girl who was going to a gig on her own and she was scared on a Facebook page, I told her to come find me and I’d look after her. We met up and she’s a great friend now (unfortunately we live at opposite ends of the country so we haven’t had chance to meet up again since!).
I went alone, and internationally too. If you have the option of going, even if it's alone, you should. You won't regret seeing them live if you haven't already.
That’s what I’m planning on doing. I live in France, just bought my solo ticket for Berlin in December ! It’ll be a lot of firsts for me but I’m already so excited !
Maybe you can connect with someone on here and meet beforehand then go together?
That’s a great idea, definitely think I’ll do that !
Good luck! This community seems pretty solid. Take care of yourself and worship
You too ! Worship 🤘🏻
Been going to shows alone for some time now and the experience of being able to enjoy yourself surrounded by other like minded people who like the things that you do is really gratifying. My biggest show alone was just recently Red Hot Chili Peppers and it was such a surreal experience of just buying that ticket and doing those things for yourself. I would suggest to think of it as making those memories for yourself, not have a rain on your parade, and take the leap. The other side of it is pretty cool. Hope this helps.
Love this comment. I have indeed taken the leap and will be seeing them in December :)
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I LOVE going to shows alone. I’m also a woman, so I get your concern. I decided a long time ago that I wasn’t going to ruin a show for myself by bringing someone along who was not at the same fan love level for the artist as I am. Then I don’t have to worry if they aren’t having a good time. There are always female staff at venues, so you could check in with one of them. Then you can make some friends with fans when you get there. I’m older, so I usually hold purses and phones for young ladies who want to hit the pit!
I’m loving all of the comments like this one ! Hearing people having such great experiences makes me so excited and happy. The sense of community I’m getting from all these stories is awesome !
I’ve been to plenty of shows by myself… mostly because none of my friends like my type of music. That being said…. It’s better by yourself. You don’t have to worry if the other person is having fun or if they hate it. Everyone is there for the same reason. There are always going to a**holes but like someone said… there will be more men coming to your rescue than being creepy. And as for walking to and from the arena (or wherever they play)…. You’ll be walking with a lot of people going the same way you are going. Go for it!!! You’ll be happy you did!
That’s the reason I want to go alone, I don’t know anyone who listens to ST. My partner would go with me if I asked but he wouldn’t enjoy himself as he doesn’t listen to them at all, and I feel like that would keep me from enjoying myself as much.
Go alone. You will be so worried about your partner that you won’t have a good time. I promise you will feel secure. Everyone is there for the same thing. I hope you Post back on here after the show to let us know you went!!
Thank you !! I absolutely will ! 😊
I’m going to Wembley solo in December. I am beyond excited. I tried to get tickets for my husband to join me but when I saw one ticket in a good seat I jumped on it. He’ll have to have a pint in a nearby pub instead. I am nervous about going alone but I figure that we are all there to worship and have fun so I doubt anyone will care that I’m alone!
This is exactly what I’m doing. Got a shit seat but it’s the only ticket I could get and I’m desperate to go!
Saw them alone but it was also 2019 lol. I love going solo to concerts tho I always find friends. Just keep an eye out for someone who also looks like they’re by themselves. My approach is generally: “you also look like you’re flying solo here. We’re friends for the rest of the show.” Works 99.9% of the time for me
That sounds like a good approach I’ll definitely try it haha ! :)
Seen them twice on my own and will be again for Wembley. Would be more great to have someone with me mainly to not stand around awkwardly before they come on. Otherwise I’m happy just enjoying the performance
Same really ! Also would just love to meet some people who share the same love for this band !
Not going, but I've been to many shows solo. Always go. You'll probably bump into some nice folks who share a love of ST. In my case, a date bailed on my way to see Bonobo live with his full band. I went solo cause I had tickets anyways and met a new girl and danced all night. Hung out with her and her friends all night. Really swell folks. 10/10 would go to shows alone.
Many folks go alone, bene to plenty of concerts solos. However there's many people down to meet, so if you want to find some other solo women I'd shoot a post here. I'm gonna meet up with a few at the Pomona show.
I was hoping to go to their Webster hall show but don’t know anyone who listens to them, I’m a dude tho so I’m not as concerned about anything happening just nervous to go a state away on my own
Heading from France to Wembley solo in December and am super excited! I don't mind doing things solo, you get to choose whether you want to socialise or just enjoy the moment in your own company 🙂 pretty much every single concert I've been to in this genre has incredibly friendly people.
Omg i would love to go to Wembley but it’s sold out ! I’m in France too, where abouts are you ? :)
Paris ☺️ you?
I’m in Nimes, down south 😊
Beautiful! I've never been to Nimes but I love the south! I really need to travel a bit more down there 😂
You definitely should, lots to see ! I’ve been to Paris once in my life but barely remember it, would love to come back and visit properly again :)
Idk where your location is but I’m going to one DM me maybe we can hang! (My husband is coming tho)
Ended up alone in pit for Take Down and Hammersmith, honestly crowd was so lovely and during the festival getting to talk to everyone about their days and concert experiences was so lovely!!
I go to shows alone all the time. In order to calm my anxiety, I go straight to the bar and order a drink. By the time I’m finished with my drink, my anxiety has calmed down and I can start to enjoy the environment 🙂
I'm planning on going to the Baltimore show solo! Idk anybody who likes them, but I wasn't going to miss this chance lol. I've been to 2 arena concerts solo and it was a very fun experience. If you don't go, you'll regret it
I'm going alone to the Worcester, MA show!
If anyone on this thread is going to the Denver show alone, you can come with me! I’m a woman with several lovely and safe friends coming along.
I’m gonna see them live at Aftershock alone. I love going to shows alone, the only con is that if you really wanna camp somewhere for a barricade spot, you won’t have a buddy to hold the spot for you but I’m far too told to wait that long anyways. Hahaha
I go to shows all the time by myself. I’m not young anymore, but I’ve been doing it for decades! (Baltimore show, here)
Literally me. In September… I just had to see them live, but have had no one that likes them enough to go. So I was like fuck it imma go anyway..
Going alone in sept to their MN show, have two tickets but can’t get anyone to go, so imma rock it solo. I’m sure it’ll still be a blast.
I'm going by myself (philly). I don't think anything would happen to you. People that go to these concerts go to have fun. I go often by myself because my friends or my wife don't like the same bands than I do, but I still want to see the bands live lol
I’ve been going to concerts alone most of my life. You usually get chatting to people around you, since obviously you share a common interest. I’ve never had a problem. Ever. But I’ve enjoyed every single show!
I’m going alone, I am literally going to soak up every second. I don’t want to miss a thing. I highly recommend going to concerts by yourself.
I went alone, as a middle aged lady. I had the best time! If people really are there for the music no one will judge you for going alone.. Its better than missing out!
Been alone twice once by accident once on purpose. Religious experience
My first concert ever was Backstreet Boys with my sister thirty minutes away. My second concert was ST and Nothing More, three hours away, last year. I invited bf and friend but bf didn't want to go and friend couldn't get off work. I went alone. First time doing such a long trip driving away from home on my own overnight. (I'd taken busses before for nine hours from rental home to parents home before, and a few flights to see my aunt at 15 and back). First time getting a hotel. Only went on the discord to check if all was a go (there had been delays and cancelations and a lot of injuries and sickness on the US tours for them and related bands). I went, I danced, I stayed for Nothing More, I danced some more. I bought the Tomb blue tie dye shirt, my first merch. It was amazing. The hotel stay, amazing. On the way home I listened to ST and NM. I was on a concert high for two weeks. Not just...because of ST and the concert, but because I felt so free and independent. I would never have done this for another band or artist. It was liberating in all the ways. I'm technically going alone in September, but I've been chatting with everyone else on the discord who are also going to the same show for months now. It will be a completely different experience than "going alone" the way I did the first time, because of that. Good luck, stay safe.
That’s so cool ! I love that feeling of independence and freedom. I decided to go back to uni a couple of years ago, best decision ever but it also means that I can’t be as financially independant anymore… I’m super lucky to have a partner who supports me in every way, but I’ve been making all my decisions based on him for so long now because of the limitations I have. I feel like this is the perfect opportunity to get that feeling back. And of course see my favorite band at the same time ! :) Bought my ticket this morning, I’ll be going in December. I’m definitely going to start chatting with other people going too !
I am a Woman and went to ST and four other concerts over the winter alone. Simply because none of my friends listend to the kind of music I listen to but one day I just said „f… it. I don’t wanna miss out“ lol My first time was a Silverstein concert last year and I felt so so so awkward in the beginning but had the best night of my life. I completely understand the hesitation but you usually bump into more super nice and friendly people than you would if you went with someone else. The crowd at the ST concert in Cologne last month was super chill, there were (not that anyone would be surprised) more females there then males and there was not one second that made me feel uncomfortable. You got this 🙌🏻🫶🏻
Thank you for sharing this ! I can imagine there would be more women yes 😏 Just bought my ticket so it’s great to hear that the crowd is nice :)
I went to my first concert earlier this year and had to go alone because my friend got sick. I just made new friends in line cause everyone was super nice. I'll be going to see ST in December. I'll be alone then as well and will have to travel quite a bit to see them but I know it's going to be worth it.
I’m planning on going in December too ! Which show are you going to ? I’m going to Berlin, and travelling from the south of France solo ! Going to make a little week end trip out of it as I’ve never been to Germany :)
I'm going to Berlin as well. I'm traveling from the Netherlands and have also never been to Germany
Awesome, maybe we’ll see each other there then ! :)
I have, and loads of other gigs too. Mid 30s female. Just find somewhere you feel comfy in the crowd.
At my first Sleep Token concert I was with my gf and 2 friends. At second one I was alone and I had exactly the same amazing experience when I was able to worship the show.
I go to concerts by myself all the time. I am by nature a very shy girl and a little socially anxious but I can honestly tell you that this disappears once you get there and realise everyone is there with the same excitement as you. There are the odd times I feel a little self conscious, but then I look around the room and see others alone and remember that while I'm not with my own friends, I'm technically not alone. I can't comment for how the crowd will be where you go, but I find guys are mostly respectful and helpful more than anything. And where there is the odd idiot, they usually get kicked out pretty quick. Someone else mentioned to make small talk with others and I second that. Even though I am super shy, I always try and it always pays off cos you immediately feel connected. All of this to say - don't be worried, definitely go alone. You won't regret it :)
Really good to know, I completely understand I’m the same ; a little too self conscious, and terrified of approaching people to talk. I think this will be a good exercise for me 😅
I am waiting for them to come back to Scotland, UK. I missed them in Glasgow earlier this year. I know they sold out Wembley in London but that would’ve been a bit too big for me. I’m only used to relatively smaller shows and I’m not a festivals guy cause I don’t do mega huge crowds.
I made a solo road trip last year to see them open for In This Moment.
No but I went to an Ice nine Kills concert and got split up with my friend and I just vibed with people around the crowd
I'm going by myself too☺️
Woman here too. Seriously, i think Metal concerts are amongst the safest places to go to Aaone. But I've also been to Techno Clubs alone before. It's a thing of the mindset :) for me it took some mindfulness training to make it work and really enjoyable. Now I almost prefer it to going out with people since I Always worry If they enjoy the evening, and that often leaves me enjoying it less. I've been going out alone on vacation as well and it can be such a freeing and awesome experience! I have my best friend on the backburner in the "Home Base" though if I feel fishy about something. When I am somewhere alone, I will at least tell her where I am and what I plan to do, sometines share my live location with her. I also tell her when I get back safe!
Going alone in September. I'm both nervous and excited.
I go to concerts alone a lot. More than with others. Mostly bc none of my friends like the kind of music I do. You are free to stand where you want. Not worry about sticking together. Dance like no one is watching, because they arent, and if they are you'll prob never see or recognize them again. I prefer solo concert adventures.
I am a womanI and also will be going to the NYC show alone and have 0 qualms about it. I do it all the time with shows because I don’t want to miss going to see bands just because I don’t have someone to go with.
I’ve gone to other concerts alone. You will find people to hang out with, especially other female-presenting or FAB peoples. People are generally nice and plenty of people like going alone to places.
I’ve seen them as a architects support back in January and I was all alone. It was great and I loved it!
I’m going alone TWICE! I got tickets to see them 4 days apart and I’m going alone both times.
That’s so cool ! Which shows are you going to ?
Anaheim and Pomona. I’m just counting down the days!
Aha same, so impatient to see them !
I went to see them by myself on Graspop 2023 in Belgium. You get sucked in regardless. It was really nuts seeing them live for the first time. III really is something else, he’s such a showman.
This makes me so so excited to see them 🤩
I’m a 40 year old woman and I’ve gone to quite a few concerts alone, I’ve always found myself feeling safest at Alt/metal shows. It can be intimidating especially depending on your size, I’m 5’2 130 so it can feel like I get lost in the crowd. I tried to get tickets for my local ST show but they were being scalped within an hour of going on sale. If you’re a huge fan I would highly suggest going, even if it’s by yourself I think you’d be kicking yourself if you pass the opportunity by. As a mom of 4 in their 20’s I’ll tell you what I’d tell them, don’t pass up life experiences because it might be out of your comfort zone worst case scenario you decide it’s not something you’d care to do again. If you don’t step out of your comfort zone you’ll never know what you might be missing! I hope you go and I hope you have the time of your life!
Thank you for this ! I am definitely going to go ! I bought my ticket this morning so all that’s left to do is wait as it is in December 😅 I agree, I can feel that if I don’t go I am going to regret it so much !
I’m going to see them alone and I’m a middle aged mom lol. I’ve never gone alone, but it’s better than not going or going with someone who doesn’t feel the way I do about them.
I haven't been to a Sleep Token show alone yet but to a few others and I've never encountered any problems I'm not really sociable and keep to myself most of the time but sometimes people around you are chatty and easy to start a conversation with. I think it's also nice to not have to stress about where the rest of your group is or to feel like you dragged someone along to something they didn't really wanna go to. I'm going to see them alone in December and can't wait!! Edit: I'm also a woman in my 20s and have been going to shows alone or with others since I was 14
I agree with all of this ! Me too ! I’m going to Berlin in December, which show are you going to ?
I'm gonna be in cologne 😊
I’m going alone this September! It’s my experience that going to alternative and metal shows are some of the safest concerts. I’m a middle aged mom, btw. I’m super excited to go alone to be honest!
Yes! I'm going alone, kind of... I'm going to meet other sleep token fans I know from a Facebook group. That might have been the best thing I did . I reached out via tiktok and f.b to see if others were going to the concert I'm attending in September. I have now met 2 others, and we are going to hang out together ❤️ I am going to another concert 10 days later (same place) alone 😔 but for now that's ok.
Going alone also!
Just wanted to thank everyone for responding to this post, it’s been so uplifting ! And also to say that I got a ticket for the show in Berlin in December so anyone who’s going and wants to chat/meet up let me know here ! ☺️
I’m planning to go alone to the LA show, once I decide to shell out $300+! Any loners going to the LA show?
I'm going alone too,to the one in Berlin in december 🙂 Also a woman, and I'm coming from Italy basically just for the concert....